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I would certainly not be offended by it and I always want my gentleman to do what makes him comfortable and not have to worry about anything during our time together. If that means taking his wallet to the bathroom with him or leaving it in the car, so be it ;) On the other hand, before trust is present, and to protect myself, I would rather my guest takes his wallet to the bathroom with him (or not bring it) just in case he thinks something has gone missing... This way, there is no possibility it went missing when he was with me.

You have every right to take your own property with you to the bathroom. If this offends someone, maybe find someone who offends far less easily?

Hi this is my 1000th post. Took a long time to get here. First 500 took forever, the last 500 seem to fly back. Just wanted to say thank you all the members that I have chatted with in the chat room over the year. And a big thank you to all the women that I've had the pleasure of meeting and new friendships that I have made. I hope to meet more new faces in the future. Hope to chat with you in the chat room. Stop by there and say Hi :) I've tried to start threads that are fun and informative. Some threads took off :) and some thread's didn't :(. Some threads went a totally different track for some reason. However I had fun starting them and reading your responses. It's hard to come up some new and interesting topics to discuss. Just wanted to thank people for responding to my threads and hope that I can finding new topics to talk about for the next 1000.

It is VERY common on either side that when emotions become involved, the person with the emotions steps back to provide some breathing room to give clarity to what they're feeling. Unfortunately the only advice I can give you is to deal with your own feelings of losing someone you considered a friend. You have to respect the wishes of the SP to step back. At this point there is no way to maintain a professional relationship. That doesn't mean that might night change. Feelings change and if she realizes that what she was feeling is different than what she thought, she may open that door again. I wouldn't count on it but it's always a possibility. I assume feelings are not mutual because of your comment so maybe take a look at other SP's and find one that interests you. Good luck, it's not an easy situation to have to deal with.

I don't visit often and I am very much a repeat client for some ladies. I spend a considerable amount of time getting to know the ladies I want to spend time with for a new first time visit ..... on the board or via text and I stay in touch after if possible. I will not visit with a lady unless I am more than comfortable that my personal belongings, my wallet, my personal info I have shared and my health is all safe and sound to the best it can be and that they are genuinely considerate of me and my wellbeing and I of them in return. Also that they enjoy what they do and want to be there and have FUN ! Therefore I sometimes tend to leave shit everywhere !! ha or forget it. Most ladies I have met know I would help out voluntarily in whatever way I can....if I can. Some may consider that silly and or naïve but that is how I roll.

Honestly, to pull out a POS terminal at the beginning of a date to process the payment for debit or credit would completely ruin the GFE aspect any visit with a lady for me. With the envelope, I walk in very discretely place it on a table and both of us can forget about it and move on to the experience. With a lady that I've visited with before and I trust, I'd actually prefer to pay electronically in advance via e-mail money transfer so that no payment has to occur at the time of the date at all. (I would also have cash on me just in case we run over the prepaid time) That's just me and my preference to maintain the illusion of a "real date".

Hi there Gentleman I am 5'4, 115LBS. I have dark brown hair and dark chocolate eyes, my cup size is 32DD and I have a fit sexy body. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=7257&pictureid=46989 I assure you that our little time spent together will be warm, inviting and pleasurable. I know the importance of privacy and confidentiality. Everything that goes on in our session together will be our little secret ;) You can find me this week at Paradise located in the WEST End of Ottawa. Tuesday June 04th from 2:30 to 9pm Wednesday June 5th from 9 to 4pm Thanks Jade xo

The one thing in my opinion that a SP can do to make things better is to just be herself:) Its nice to have see a genuine reaction from the SP.

It's only reasonable that a SP could fall for a client. SPs are, after all, human. If the SP puts a stop to seeing you as a client, the reason may well be because the relationship between the two of you has grown to a point where it is putting at risk that element of self-control and self-discipline your SP must have in order to make a livelihood. And that, as everyone should understand, needs to come first. Be grateful that you had the privilege of having shared some great moments with this person, and be graceful. Accept that she is not ready to take it to the next level and that for now at least, your relationship with her, such as it was, has ended. Consent is EVERYTHING. If this person wants you back in her life, she'll let you know.

This is a great thread and I enjoy the discussion and I feel as though I need to contribute. I was a newbie a while ago and due to my ignorance and naivety surrounding this business I was indeed filled with much of the apprehension that has been discussed. So in my state of ignorance my mind raced through all the issues that have been discussed and as Samantha noted my primary concern "at the time" was my OWN privacy and essentially being assured discretion by the companion. So I found the whole verification process unnerving the first time to say the least. However, because I had those concerns I did MY extensive research and chose to visit with an established, very experienced, well reviewed companion and felt that because that the lady had been confirmed as wonderful and trustworthy I would be "safe". In fact it was during my research I discovered CERB and actually PM'd with experienced, respected CERB members about this lady to further waylay my concerns. With that lady I provided everything that she asked for and was rewarded with a fantastic experience and friendship. Jump ahead many encounters and I have developed some great friendships with a number of amazing ladies. Some ladies I keep in contact regularly with and through these friendships I have had discussions with them about some of the things that they run into on a daily basis from prospective clients and established clients (anonymously of course). To be honest, some of the things I hear evoke feelings from extreme concern for the lady to complete disgust and anger. Although there might be many GOOD clients here on CERB that believe that the way THEY properly treat companions is the norm, I'm here to tell you that is not the case. Most of the companions that we encounter here on CERB and perhaps on other boards and sites have days filled with complete garbage from prospective clients and established clients. These ladies are not just whining to hear themselves, this stuff really happens often. Sometimes, from CERB members who we assume (given the tone of our board) should know better. These ladies have to wade through so much shit, and so many assholes day in day out just to find a couple of decent clients it's staggering. Given what I know, I can emphatically state that these companions have every reason and right to request ANY and ALL verification information necessary to make them feel comfortable with a client. Further as a friend of some ladies I would implore that they always screen clients diligently. It is solely up to the client to do HIS research to ensure that he feels comfortable with seeing a particular companion and providing the information SHE requires to make her feel comfortable. It is not for the lady to have to try to SELL/PROVE herself as trustworthy. As clients we have a multitude of sources (such as CERB and other boards) to gather information on ladies and ease our concerns over our safety and privacy. There are MANY more clients than companions, so ladies many times do not have the luxury to login to a board (like CERB) and within a few minutes obtain recommendations/reviews of clients to assess whether she should let them into her room and be intimate with that prospective client. Bottom line, choose an experienced, well reviewed/recommended lady. Research her, understand her approach and when as a client you feel comfortable that you can trust the lady, contact her and provide her whatever she wants to know make her feel comfortable seeing you. Remember, a companion doesn't need to prove her trustworthiness to you. If you don't trust her, don't see her. Simple as that! You DO have to prove your trustworthiness to her! Keep it in mind. An impatient rant from Chuck.

I was reading someone blog the other day and she was talking about how sometime men bring their wallet with them to the bathroom. She found this kinda hurtfull because she thinks it because the men don't trust her. I got me thinking I've been guilty of this a few time mostly when I meet someone new. It's not that I don't trust them its just why take the chance. I mean its happend to me once where I left my wallet and didnt realize until I was gone and at the store that I had no money left. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. So I always keep my wallet in my pocket and if I go to the bathroom usually to shower I bring my clothes. I mean no disrespect its just become a habit. Honestly I never thought that ladies may be offended by this. Guys what's your thought? Is there other things that offend you ladies?

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I'll keep this short and sweet, and please note, I am only speaking for myself (and like-minded people). These comments are general in nature and not addressed to anyone in particular. Above all, be yourself, be genuine, and engaging. Be flirty, lighthearted and go with the flow. Respect his boundaries, also, as he as a gent will most certainly respect yours. Be open to discussion about his wishes, and offer him your undivided attention, kindness, and (if needed) support. You and he are just two people trying their best to negotiate the dance and have a great time. More than likely, he will appreciate you for being real, making him feel welcome, connected, and so incredibly alive again.

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Exactly! I have asked numerous new clients to please take their belongings with them into the bathroom. It is a good practice for all gentlemen, all it takes is one dishonest SP to put all of us under suspicion.

I never get insulted when men bring their wallet with them-I totally get it-and as a matter of fact, I prefer they do that :)

Honestly I try very hard not to be offended by anything which means if something seems off to me, I put myself in the other shoes and try to think about what may have prompted that. Like you mentioned it could be habit, self protection or a host of other things. As we all acknowledge, there is a not so nice side to this business and even with great research, sometimes things happen. When you're with someone knew, there should be at least a small expectation of getting to know one another to be comfortable. Trust is earned most of the time. The only thing that really offends me is outright rudeness or people who try to hide rudeness under "honesty" or "awkwardness". I've met a few awkward people and they are rarely rude in fact most are very self aware are go out of their way to not be.

I feel the playmate is less pretentious than pigales i will take nice natural breasts over plastic any day. I find more dancers at the playmate use less pressure tactics and that the ladies are more down to earth. i like a good conversation with my dances sometimes and i find you can find that at the playmate more often than other clubs in the area.

Hello Gentlemen My name is Cherry. I am 20 years of age, with Blond hair and bright blue eyes. I have a fit, tight body. I am 5'3, 110 pounds, and very tanned baby soft skin! I am new to massage. I have been working in the massage industry for just over a month now. I am very outgoing and open minded and I have a lot of class. My services include body slides, full body massage, Hotub sessions and reverse massage. I also love to reseve a good spanking ;) Everything that goes on in our session together is 100% confidential. You can find me in the West end of Ottawa, Paradise Spa. This week's Schedule Friday June 7th 1:00pm-11:00pm Saturday June 8th 9:00am-7:00pm To make a appointment for your playtime ;) 613-820-8887 xoxoxoxox

I think I've only seen Jenny in on a Tuesday once and she almost always takes them off, so they're not the best day to try and catch her. You can always give Barb's a call and ask if she's on schedule so you don't have to sit around wondering if she's in. Totally not a bother either - the DJ is usually the one to answer the phone and they don't mind answering that kind of question. As for dealing with dancers you're not interested in, I find it best to be upfront. If you're not interested, just say 'no thank you.' There's a fine line between being polite and indirectly encouraging her to sit or come back and try again, and it's certainly not impolite to be upfront. We're big girls and most of us don't take it personally and actually appreciate it!

As others have said already, SPs are real people with real feelings. That this happens sometimes is one of the realities of our work. It's not a lot of fun for anyone, though. Give yourself a pat on the back. She told you how she felt and what she had decided to do. She trusts you and was willing to make herself vulnerable with you. She didn't send an e-mail goodbye, ignore your messages or stop returning your calls: many others would have done something like that. She's taken you and herself seriously. That says a lot about your character and how important the time you spent together has been for her. Don't sit around, waiting for her to contact you again, though, and don't initiate contact with her, either. She needs this separation.

This is just generally speaking, and not at all directed to anyone I have seen, all of them has been nothing short of great. Please don't feel the need to fake it. I would much rather learn what works for you, and see it as an accomplishment if I succeed, or a challenge if I don't. Having a few guidelines for first contact can be very helpful, especially for a first timer. The first lady I contacted made it so easy by asking specific questions on her contact me section. This was discussed on another thread, don't compliment for the sake of boosting my ego. If it is a genuine one, it is always welcomed, but don't feel the need to make one up.

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Hi there, My name is Little Amy and I am new to Cerb and to the Ottawa area and I just wanted to take this time to introduce myself and say hi to you all. I look forward to making some new friends and meeting some of you.

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I don't like to be discreet with the cash. I'm stressed out until I give it to her, and I let her know "Hey look, money!". GFE and all that comes after. I'm there to have fun, explore, experiment, not pretend that she's my girlfriend. I know this ruins the fantasy for other men, but it does nothing for me, good or bad. Personally, I don't like walking around with a lot of cash, and I keep fearing one day, I'm going to drop the envelope somewhere, or forget it at home, or some stupidness on my part. Credit card would be super convenient for me. As long as it doesn't have - SEX with *ESCORT NAME* on the statement. And I get points!!

I spend spare cash on this hobby, and I think the idea of using debt i.e. a credit card isn't my idea of being sensible. It's almost like having that impulse buy available at any time. I think for some people that aren't very good at managing their spending it could lead to a real problem.

I had a gentleman leave his wallet out on the table one time and almost walk out without it. After I had pointed it out, I told him "In the future, you may want to keep your wallet in your pocket, because you never know." I would never get offended if a man wanted to keep his wallet or other personal belongings within eye/arm reach, or keep it hidden. When I do outcalls, I always keep my purse within view, and if I use the washroom I bring it with me. I don't think there is anything wrong with that at all. If an SP or Hobbyist alike get offended by that, I think that would flash warning bells moreso than the other way around. There is an element of trust to every encounter, sure, but nobody wants to take an unnecessary risk. When you cross the street, you look both ways, don't you?

I was in last night (Tues.06/04), saw Jordon, Katrina, Missy, Erica, Andrea-new to me, and a couple of others. Ariel was def. the star stage show by far, IMO!

So... If a lady stole my clothes during a shower i'll do the naked 6-49 style dance out hahaha ... ;-) I'm certainly lucky i had never have to worry about this issue whatsoever ... Trust goes both way .. For a guy that does lots of incall... If a lady trusted me enough to let me in their space ... Why should i have any doubt towards her ;-)

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Would that lady leave her purse (and wallet) The ladies I see, well not only is leaving a wallet a non issue for me, I trust them enough that they could even hold on to it for me But no one lady or gentleman should feel offended...it is about a person's boundaries and comfort levels RG

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The weird thing is that some people may think by doing something like that they are going to be inconspicuous, but in reality the are drawing more attention to themselves and are not able to blend in. If they act like they are supposed to belong there then they won't have any issues.

Congrats on hitting 1000 posts buddy!! Keep them coming. :)

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Congratulations Someguy! Hoping to see many more posts by you!

Someguy, congrats on 1000 posts! Thanks for your contribution to Cerb!

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I've had my mini schnauzer for almost a year now. Love him so much! His my first dog on my own. His the biggest cuddle bug and loves to play. Has become quite the family member and best friend. Great motivator as his enjoys running with me in the mornings. It's always great to have someone at home who always welcomes me. It likes the saying goes: "I aspire to be the person my dog thinks I am"

Can't forget Megforfun, she has some eye catching photo's of her own.

I would feel much safer in a spa. If everything you are doing is fully legal, wouldn't a public location be the safest?