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Why do some people do such mean things? How can they do such harm to something so innocent and undeserving? Thankfully there are some that step in to rectify the damage others have created. I hope those kind souls will be forever rewarded. I hope you don't mind me sharing this touching video.

Nothing is ever black or white which is why some topics may be difficult to determine one's feelings about. Take your hesitation as a sign that you want to know more about the subject. It has you interested enough, it is worthy of investigation. I see that as an inquisitive mind and that's a good thing. Inquisitive people tend to not make brash decisions and tend not to impose their beliefs on others.

My take on this. Approach the lady you would like to see about a retainer relationship. Tell her what you would like (ie once a week for two hours paid up front at the beginning of the month) She would tell you what the donation would be for such an arrangement and you can both set up your weekly dates Don't suggest any rates. She'll tell you her rate for a retainer type relationship. And since you know one another, you trust her and I assume by extension she trusts you, it should be something you can discuss openly. You may even wish to have an encounter with her and during the encounter discuss such an arrangement in person. My two cents RG

I plan on having sex and eating chocolate... Even if I have to buy them for myself :) xo

Congratulations on achieving the 500 post mark and doing it on your one year anniversary of being on CERB Enjoy your posts, looking forward to your next year and your next 500 posts RG

being indecisive often just means taking time to think about something, rather than rushing to judgement. And yes, sometimes that means not being able to decide, precisely because the world is rarely black and white. If more people took the time to reflect, perhaps the world would be a little bit better off. Porthos

I was going to write something thoughtful but as I am presently on the throne and my legs have fallen asleep while I read all of the other insightful posts on this thread, I'll just say this: Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. Be yourself, take a chance and play nice. Good things are bound to happen. Now if I can only stand up without falling back in, I'll consider the day a success. :icon_eek:

It's too cumbersome to have a strong opinion about everything. A lot of the times I know that I need more information to completely asses the situation, information that I won't get just by reading the paper, or watching the news. One example in Toronto that's a very complicated topic is a runway extension for a downtown Airport which is on an island. Issues range from jobs, economics, taxes to noise, pollution, viability. Proponents from both sides who know what they are talking about have excellent points, otherwise a lot of people are spewing nonsense or basic talking points. I know that the situation isn't completely clear, and I don't have all the information to really decide one way or the other yet.

See this is the beautiful part about board participation. By Miss Davis sharing a little tid bit about her life I personally find her more endearing and "real". Because being able to connect with a lady on a level beyond the physical is important to me I now realize that if Miss Davis and I were to meet we'd be able to "connect" over baby stories. So without realizing it Miss Davis just gained a potential client when I'm in her neck of the woods again.

I wish I had more time to post, to be honest. I have a variety of things that compete with my time, such as writing my thesis, my work as a research assistant, my yoga practice, etc. I find it really hard to find time to post on forums which is why I write in my blog more often. I know how important it is for people to get a general sense of who we are beyond what we write on our websites, etc. I hardly tour and sometimes I find it difficult to keep up with all the boards. I can only imagine how much time and energy it takes for those that tour multiple cities across Canada to keep up a board presence. I really (really) admire them a lot. This is completely unrelated, and I hope this isn't a hijack RG, but it reminds me of when people say that being an escort is 'easy money'. They're so foolish! There is so much involved in attracting the kinds of clients you like and will enjoy spending time with (blogs, website maintenance, photo shoots, screening, e-mailing, forum posting, etc). Anyway, while I definitely understand how fun it is to interact with ladies online, it's not so easy sometimes. A lot of people in the industry have blogs now too and I think that's a really good way to balance it all :)

I am a die hard BlackBerry user and I recently downloaded a new App that I think is great for this Hobby/Business. The App is called "Hide SMS" and while it is for BlackBerry 10 phones I am sure there are similar Apps for other popular phones. Bottom line the App redirects incoming text messages from identified contacts or phone numbers into a password protected area on your phone and not into your regular text message location. This allows clients to securely text back and forth with SP's with no indication of the text trail in their regular text listing. If your spouse checks your phone you are all clear. It also would allow SP'S to flag the number of regular clients so that the record of their conversations were secure in case the phone is ever lost of stolen. I have only been playing with the app since yesterday but it looks very promising.

Just wondering what your thoughts are... Does it matter if a girl takes time to groom her self before seeing you ?

I get so annoyed when I am on the fence about topics! It bothers me to no end! Like I will think on it all day! It seems to happen more often then I like:( Am I naturally a indecisive person? Maybe.... or is it that I like to look at too many angles all at once? Maybe too observant? Grrr, like in the paper today for Fredericton, there are 3 men with charges for street solicitation, their chargers are dropped, but yet I can not seem to find a 100% decision on how I feel about it. I read and read about how other think, try to take it in, but still on the fence! ( NOT JUST THIS ISSUE, THIS IS JUST ONE EXAMPLE, LOL) How do you filter between what is truly your belief/impression? I mean I read one comment and say " YES!!' then I read an argument against...and say... " YES!" Then I just get confused! anyways....still trying to sort it out, I am not wishy washy, but I do tend to see too many points all at once:( Don't know if many other's here get the same confusion. I mean I hate for PPL to think I am just a "yes" person to everything lol... thanks for listening:)

Congratulations on your one year anniversary and on being a part of the CERB community. Your contributions are positive and noticed...I know I read what you have to say I was very happy to provide guidence, and I'm sure your first encounter was great. I just wish my first encounter in this lifestyle was with the same companion you saw ;-) Looking forward to your ongoing presence on CERB Happy One Year Anniversary RG

I always find it funny when someone wants to see me "right now". I need time to primp! Is it wrong of me to want to put my best foot forward? Contrary to popular belief, we ladies go to the gym, we go to work, we volunteer, we walk our dogs, we go to the store, we change flat tires, blah blah blah. Essentially what I am saying is that we don't sit around perfectly coifed! A little rant to solidify the fact that as serious and professional providers we choose to see you when we are at our absolute best! Your pleasure is my desire!

Summer Olympics. Although a good movie trumps all.

Congratulations & congratulations on the double milestone. So clever of you to combine the two to save the rest of us time. Seriously, you're one of the more thoughtful, consistent and entertaining posters, so good on you! Keep it up. :dncdick:

Does it matter if a girl take the time to groom before our meeting? Yes it should, I prefer to have her with her hair well placed, clean body and clothes and smelling fresh. I have been on dates with ladies where there was no make up, no brushed teeth, still in PJ's(this could be hot if they are sexy PJ's but that time they were not) the bed was all upside down(Ok this is not part of grooming, I just added this to the list). Keep in mind it was not all on the one date.

Assessing the pro sand cons is always a positive, but in the end you make a decision. Of importance though is that you have confidence in your judgement, and can move on and be comfortable whether you have all he facts or are 100% sure. If you are presented by new information you can always revisit the issue.

I am often indecisive. I think it is common to have differing opinions about particular subjects. As Meg said, not everything is black and white. Don't be to hard on yourself or question your thoughts, having many is better than having none at all:) Sometimes weighing the pros and cons can bring about a conclusion for you, either way nothing to worry or feel bad about, you're good:)

I wouldn't dream of not being freshly bathed before a date! I have had people ask me not to wash my privates or my feet for a few days....never gonna happen!

Mind? I don't mind a single bit, Cristy. Instead, I thank you for sharing this sad but touching and wonderful video. It is so gratifying to know there are some kind-hearted souls around.

We all get those, but like others said stop re-evaluate change only what you can, and not others. If things are out of your hands then try not to worry about what if? Don't be afraid to ask for help. Sometimes admitting you're wrong and saying your sorry goes a long way. Sometimes all it takes is someone to talk to. Best of luck!

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Ive been asked this many many times over the years, like `whats the trick, what do you REALLY do ? well honestly? its to realize that there isnt one. theres no short cuts, methods or moves, that will do the work for you. im in my hotel room at this very minute, (on a monday, having been here all weekend long) and theres not a piece of trash in my garbage cans, my oil bottle is full, if you didnt know differently, youd say the hot tub, shower and towels hadnt been used. that is whats called discipline. many of the very pretty faces you come across these days are lacking it (teehee, dirty minded gutter joke:jackoff:) which is why i think if you want to make it as an indy, your only hope is to put in at least a year in a decently run, licenced mp, to learn the very basics (discretion, the law, and how have a work persona) Any hoo, thats my opinion, feeling slightly reminiscent today as im about to work outside the comfort zone of my home turf tomorrow....later haters! ;) lol play safe! Additional Comments: like i was saying, its not just my opinion i suppose...http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/local/City-to-look-into-unlicensed-escort-agencies-244753771.html

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With all due respect to any who reads this- posting anywhere should be done to express oneself, without worry of how the post is read or interpreted. I don't post to gain friends, fanfare or even clients. I post because I want to express my opinion, liked or not, to get ideas, discuss a topic on my mind, to hear differing opinions. I like that even though this is a reco board for sp's and hobbyists we can discuss things other than sexually related topics. General discussions is a forum for that:) I am very opinionated obviously, not everyone's cup of tea for sure but I'm also entitled to express myself like anyone else, so I do:) when I have the time;) without worrying about misinterpretations, or results:)

Since there was no actual evidence provided in this article, citations, or links to any actual research done, last week I e-mailed both the author of the piece in the Ottawa Sun, and the the anti-prostitution group who makes the "150 women forced in Ottawa" claim, to inquire about this apparent research. I have not received so such as an acknowledgement. I don't expect to. The group who made this claim, imPACT Ottawa, has posted on Backpage today. They linked to a survey asking clients basic questions about their involvement in the sex industry. I encourage all clients to take part in this anonymous survey, to have your voice heard. It's only a few questions. These are the sort of groups who are influencing any sort of future legislation. Take the survey:: https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/5H67FYX As well.. here is a response to that article from Frederique Chabot, of POWER Ottawa: http://www.ottawacitizen.com/touch/story.html?id=9488711

It's your roving reporter Cato coming to you from the newly-launched Tease at 5023 Bank St. The night featured a bikini contest with ten hot contestants vying for cash prizes. The crowd was enthusiastic, and cheered the contestants on as they performed their sexy moves on stage and their acrobatic exploits on the pole. Our own Jazy was crowned the winner over stiff competition, garnering the most enthusiastic and loudest applause. Cerbites may remember that Jazy was the original inspiration for the Best Bums on the Planet thread, and she was in outstanding form as she took top honours in the first Tease Sunday Night Special. Congratulations to Jazy and all the contestants for a rollicking fun night.

This service is really lovely. I have so much fun everytime I book. For somebody who doesn't want fs, this place is like heaven. After a hard days work it is really nice to be treated. Been to the west end a few times and any of the ladies I met were a pleasure. Thanks CMJ

I have an LED and a plasma. The plasma was in a bright room and I found it hard to watch, moved to a darker room and much better. The LED replaced the plasma and it much better in varying light. The LED has a better picture to me but it might be because it about 5 years newer. Lastly the LED is a smart TV, not sure if worth the cost but I love it for Netflix.

First let me say that I find sitting on the Fence tends to hurt my Balls..... That said I am the type of guy who tends to have an opinion on everything and am very willingly to share it. That generally means that I often express opinions on things that in reality I have no real interest in. We learn from each other from hearing everyone's opinion on issues and as a result we may change his we feel... that's fine. I like to remind people all the time that Opinions are like ASSHOLES... Everyone has one. Share learn adapt and grow. Just my Opinion

To Groom or not to Groom that is the question. I am not looking for the lady to go to any extraordinary measures.... we will not be walking the red carpet at the Oscars... but I do expect that she will be clean and appropriately dressed to reflect the type of experience she provides... this could be jeans. Just like I am sure that the lady I am seeing will want me to have showered brushed my teeth and put on deodorant I would expect the same. Both parties should leave the impression that their time together is important and they took the time to be ready for it.

Sometimes what appears indecisive or wishy washy is in fact learning. Case in point...me. When I first embarked on this lifestyle, a wet behind the ears newbie one of the topics that came up was verification. Well my newbie opinion, and worth just that LOL was no way in hell does a lady have a right to know my personal information, my privacy is just too important to risk it. But in the course of reading CERB posts, not to mention my first encounter with a lady requiring verification, I learned this lifestyle is about ladies and gentlemen, and both of their needs and requirements. I learned the error of my thinking LOL and I'm now one of the biggest (ok maybe not biggest) proponents of verification. Was I indecisive or did I learn something and change my opinion Anyhow, don't know if that helps, but a rambling for what it's worth RG

Haha....great answer Savannah, I'm of the same mind as you. A wonderful plan indeed.

Congrats on your anniversary and cerb milestone. Thank you as well for all your contributions, keep them coming;)

In the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away

I use the same app on one of my android devices, it's very easy to set up and does what it claims, the link to which was provided earlier in the thread. While we're here though, does that blackberry of yours come with smaller more discrete text size ?

Just tell RG you have a boat and a fish finder and like to fish nekkid ...... HE WILL BOOK !!! ;)

I saw this article in a copy of the Citizen lying around at work yesterday and noticed it hasn't made its way to this board yet: http://www.ottawacitizen.com/news/Human+trafficking+Ottawa+least+women+used+slaves+research/9465177/story.html and a link to the funding announcement for the organization that is quoted as having done the "research": http://metronews.ca/news/ottawa/717330/ottawa-human-trafficking-study-gets-200k-from-feds/ and a link to Emily J's blog...since her most recent post is very timely on this subject: http://www.blogasms.xxx/

Ummm RG .... Wowzers....I don't think "I'm sorry" will cut it with that one !!!!!! haha That will cost you a round of drinks :) For all CERB members !!!! Bob Seger Night Moves

Top of the podium as of today with 3 gold, 3 silver, and 1 bronze!

Obviously I love posting here and it would be nice if more did. What better way to get to know a persons personality, likes and dislikes. However there are to many that want to keep their voices silent, who just like to lurk, come on here when they feel like playing and then leave with no trail. It would make me feel safer, possibly, more interested in meeting with a gent if he did have a stronger board presence. However it's not a deal breaker:)

I find that many hobbyist usually just say " ohh well I just don't have the time or care to bother" But yet these also tend to be the same guy's who ask the same questions over and over, or the one's that are venting about getting ripped off, etc... As you point out, if you could spend a few min here and there and begin to read what your future provider is writing. Gives you an indication on compatibility, professional investment she has into her business, then chances are, you may not have to post about how you get ripped off or never can seem to book with the lady and never get to meet, etc. Example: if RG wants to book me on Monday at 2, but so does abc for the same time, I will book RG in heart beat, lol.... I was happy to I got few new posters from the tread, I only hope they continue:)

Thats a tough one...Can I pick 69??? Well I guess I would have to choose giving Hair Down or Hair Up

I wrote my post on this thread about 9 months ago. It's interesting to see what's shifted since then, and in what direction. At least for me, the boundaries between all the different facets of my life shift continuously. Sometimes they are firmer, sometimes they are less firm. Sometimes I feel like I can share everything, and sometimes I feel like I can't. Depends on the context, on the people present, and on my own state of mind. My last post was a lot firmer - "I don't live a double life" - because I believed I lived my life with a certain degree of integrity. I think now I'm coming to realize that sometimes, my life (be it the fact I'm an escort, or a research assistant, or a student) is no ones business. We all have a right to privacy, including the privacy of our thoughts. What I've written might seem obvious to most, but I feel like I'm constantly growing and learning how I want to live my life... I think about this sort of stuff a lot!

Handy 4 step method to tell if you're clean enough for your date. 1) Lick your finger. 2) Rub it around your bunghole. 3) Lick your finger again. 4) Does it taste like shit? - Yes: Get in the shower and wash yo ass boy. You nasty! Go to step 1. - No: You're ready! :-D

20. Hey Alotta, can we book a 4:20 appointment, get it...420??? Dude. You need pizza. You need nachos. You need a pizza with nachos and KFC. You also need to rethink your priorities. You can't show up to an appointment high or piss drunk. No. You. Can't. That is a no no. People sometimes do silly things when they are under the influence of alcohol and drugs. I, in fact, proposed marriage to a horrible person when I was in such a state. When I recovered, she was Mrs Dog. There is absolutely no irony in that statement - she was a total bitch. You see, just because you like to partake in a herbal vacation on a daily basis, don't assume that your provider does. If you consume liquor in lieu of say... food, you must also make that assumption that your provider might actually eat rather than just drink. You MIGHT think that drugs and alcohol make you sexy. Ummmmm. No. That's a pee stain on the front of your pants. Not. So. Sexy. Bottom line? Drugs and alcohol make people do stupid things. You can do this your friends. You can do this with your family. You can NOT do this with your provider. NEVER show up drunk or stoned. Stupid things could mean dangerous things. Dangerous things are bad. She is already placing herself in a somewhat vulnerable situation, she certainly doesn't need the addition of a chemical additive to make it worse. The other thing, you might actually REMEMBER how wickedly awesome your experience was!!!! 21. Why doesn't she respond? I need to couple with her now!!! Men, as a collective gender, do not take direction well. I admit it. My penis admits it. We like to forge new paths, be trailblazers, and we hate to read stuff. We especially hate to read stuff. Reading stuff is for girls. Girls know that. That's why they force us to read. To humiliate us. To make us appear more stupid than we... wait, we are pretty stupid. Let's face it. Men do things because we think we already know how to do things. Providers are girls. This is their chance to torment us. It's okay though. They will touch our wieners. That makes us happy. We just have to follow instructions.... arrrRRRRRrrrggggh. I hate reading instructions. I love when she touches my wiener. Mental battle..... dammit. Must resist. Nope. Wiener wins.... ALL THE TIME. Okay. Read the instructions. WTF? No PMs??? I have been sitting here with a blue pill induced RAGING erection for 3 hours and she doesn't want me to PM? Oh my god. No wonder I can never see Alotta Fagina. She doesn't take PMs. What else won't she accept? No emails??? No blocked calls, no private numbers??? Guys... when it comes to the hobby, we have to obey the rules. To obey the rules, we actually have to READ the RULES. If we could make our penisisisiesisisis read the rules that would be better, but the one eyed python of love is blind. Big head has to obey. She has preferred methods of contact. Read em. Understand em. Use em. Your wiener will thank you. 22. I suspect you may clone me. May I have my used condom? Dude. Seriously? Do you have like a used condom hall of fame? Guys, no one wants to store your jizz. Alotta Fagina does not have secret contacts with a mad scientist who pays her for your splooge. There is no secret conspiracy to place your spunk at the scene of a major crime. Conspiracy theories are fun... now run back to your basement and get the foil helmet on lickety-split!!! ohhhh.... there's more.