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I think I would be considered open minded by many people's standards, though I rarely think of my approach to life in that particular term. I really value things like critical thinking, respecting diversity of experiences and identities, sex positivity, consent, harm reduction, kindness and compassion. When looking at other people's choices, identities and positions in life, it's very important to me to do so with empathy. We're fed a lot of stereotypes about all kinds of people who are different from us, and we're taught to make assumptions, and it is so important to critically examine those things and always remember our shared humanity. I don't think it's possible or desirable to be free of judgement all the time. Some things are worth being judgemental about. But I try to limit my judgement to things that are non-consensual, harmful or oppressive, and recognize that everything else is an okay part of the amazing diversity of humanity. I've found my experiences with the community on CERB to be pretty good. One thing that I do find disappointing, though unsurprising, is the way that many people here talk about trans sex workers. I see both transphobic language get used, and really troubling attitudes expressed, like this idea that it's okay to casually out a trans sex worker who isn't advertising as trans or that trans women are not real women. Transphobia is pretty deeply embedded in mainstream culture, and I've just recently started seeing more media attention and awareness aimed at trans issues. It would be really great if everyone in our communities would take some time to educate themselves and if we could see some resistance and shifting away from the really terrible language that seems to be a big part of the sex industry. And particularly for clients, exercising a bit more empathy, mindfulness and compassion when talking about trans sex workers. Casually outing someone can have really horrible consequences for them. Using language that's degrading or talking about trans women in ways that positions them as less-than perpetuates the dehumanization and devaluing of them. That devaluing contributes directly to the incredibly high rates of violence and murder that trans women sex workers experience. I think most people here are really good about recognizing that sex workers are human beings and that stereotypes and stigma are both harmful and inaccurate. It would be really great to see more of that openness and empathy extended to trans sex workers, too.

I can squirt several times in a short period of time. When I squirt I squirt hard and fast its like a super soaker.

To me, being open minded means that whatever you think, believe, know etc. you keep your mind open to being wrong, to learning, you changing your perspective and while you're at it, you work to not judge others. Everyone is an individual and unique and has had their own challenges, lessons and experiences. They also have their own wants, needs, beliefs, thoughts etc. I would never want someone to judge me based on the choices I make or the things I want, need, desire or am interested in. I make a conscious effort to not do that to others. Just because something doesn't interest me or turn me on doesn't mean I look down on those it does. Open minded to me is keeping your mind open to all potentials and possibilities, to all people, to life.

I am brand-new to CERB but can see already that it's a POSITIVE community of like-minded spirits. I already feel welcome :)

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I would like to have a conversation about being open minded. Not necessarily about specific things, but over all - are you open minded? I am not looking for the politically correct answer. Anyone can say xxx, but can you back up your words with your actions? We all have our likes and dislikes. Some things we tolerate and others we will never tolerate. However, if someone has a belief that is different then ours, are we correct or are they? I am not talking about abusive or dangerous things here - just consensual stuff between 2 (or more) consenting adults. I grew up in a multi cultural environment. My school friends were from all areas of the world - as a child I didn't realize how blessed I was to experience this. I also grew up with others that had disabilities (myself included), so learning how to accommodate their needs became normal for me. So, I've had some conversations with others recently, seen some questions online, and I've been thinking - what is your tolerance for someone who is different then you? Comments like: My son is queer, and my other kid is a faggot who dresses up in girls shit You know the chick has a dick? She is a heffer - must be at least 400 lbs She is so skinny, has no tits or ass Wow, she is so kinky, she would fuck a horse Shit she won't even fuck anything - I think she is stuck up on herself Yes I want to fuck a women with another women there, but don't want another guy there cause I don't want no sword fighting. That's sick. So, at what point do you agree with the comments others make? When do you challenge them? Or do you challenge them? I'm always amazed and sometimes have to stop myself before freaking out. No one is going to change or grow if I'm yelling at them. So, I take a breath, and try to have a conversation to find out where its coming from. There are times it works - other times I just walk away and realize that others didn't have the same experience I have had so will not understand. On this site, I would like to see more acceptance to others that have an experience they would like to explore. Just because you are not interested in that experience, please don't make that person feel like they are weird for wanting to explore this. This is a site, that if you have nothing nice to say, JUST don't SAY it. If you don't like it, just stay out of it. It's like someone who once said "I don't like the wham bam thank you mam" - but what if someone wants that? Is it wrong? Not really. As long as both parties understand, then it should be ok. Yes, you might like to take your time and that is really great too. Just don't judge someone else because they want an experience that is different then yours. Or, someone who is asking about a TG gurl in the area and wants to know what she is like. He already understand she is TG, so you don't have to point out that she has a dick. And, FYI, she is referred to as a girl - not a guy with boobs. How about a threeway? This time, not two women and a man, but two men and a women - maybe the two guys get it on with each other? Is that ok with you, or do you go, "fuck that shit, they are faggots". Don't forget Funky Cold Medina: But when she got undressed, it was a big old mess, Sheena was a man So, I threw him out, I don't fool around with no Oscar Meyer wiener You must be sure that the girl is pure for the Funky Cold Medina For all those that want to experience something that is different from the vanilla mainstream says is ok - please, let them be who they want to be. Don't judge them and remember, sometimes when we have a strong reaction, it usually means that we are somehow connected and need that, just not ready to explore it yet. I am interested in other peoples opinions and experiences.

Coffee! Started the wood furnace, making my list, checking the news headlines, texting with family, and wishing we were not looking ahead to another 24 hours of freezing rain and then snow.

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first of all I would like to be able to take my shirt off outside without frying . secondly , I have mild ocd . I want to be balanced , ie ; if I scratch my one of my legs I will use the opposite hand to scratch the other leg in the same spot .

Nothing to be ashamed about - our youth is where we learn and grow. It is when we get stuck in our adult life and continue to do/think what we have not learned. It is when you say to yourself, is this what I believe? Or what others tell me? Thank you for your input. xoxo

I am a squirter too and as Geneviève I provide guidance and have a favorite position too to do it and have gentlemen sometimes asking that I squirt on-in their mouth or face well darlings let me tell U he has to quite wipe his face after!!! And I can also can squirt several times in a row in a session and that's fucking hot babes!!!

Mightypen, you brought up something that's definitely important. There has been a slant against "just sex" sessions in favor of a more GFE, intimate sort of session. As you said, both have a place because sex is such a varied, colorful and amazing thing and we are all individuals with changing and varying moods and needs. Just because we might want a slow sensual encounter one day doesn't mean that another we are not ravenous for raw powerful lust. One is not better than the other, they are just different and people should not be disparaged because they want one or the other of something completely different.

Feel a bit award posting this but I think it's the best way to go. Never tried "speaking greek" but I am curious (no more no less). This service is not offered by every provider (or listed when it is). Looking for recommendations please. Thank you

Just bought a new car! I'm broke for the next Four years, well, there may still be some money left for a few SP appointments now and then. I just won't eat for a couple of weeks or so, gotta have fun you know.

Thanks Cristy...good to know, the airport feels so far out there! I'm feeling much better already about being "stuck" out there.

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Perfect day to stay at home, drink a beer and watch tv. Glad when the storms happen on a Sunday - nothing really open anyways, so its nice to bed down and enjoy it.

It appears to be a commercial space, the only other tenant is a dentist.

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Bravo, NJ! Looking forward to your next 1,000 posts. Best, toine

Super congrats! Always enjoy your posts, keep posting! ;) xx

Congrats on an impressive milestone!

The initial membership fee at CMJ is $200, which includes a complimentary 30 minute appointment, which can be upgraded to a 60 minute appointment with an additional contribution of $50. So the net cost for membership is a one-time fee of $70. For this, you sign up, and are a known member of CMJ, which I am sure is a comfort for the people of CMJ, and therefore for you. There is a also a negligible annual fee of $10 for CMJ to keep their records current. CMJ and ALO Spas are well-respected for providing wonderful times and safe experiences :)

Congratulations, Notch Johnson. Always fun to read you !

Congrats, NJ. Here's to many more!

I'm a gusher. The sheets, floor and walls! Once in someone's eye. LOL! My problem is the laundry!!! Everytime I'm in bed, I make a HUGE mess! I went online to find a solution to my predicament. While looking, I came across this article about wet sheet solutions. Its hilarious and infornative! For all you fellow squirters...here may be your solution. I'm positive we will all relate to this article. http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/nvdnu/my_perfect_solution_for_squirters_and_the_mess_we/

You know what mtentertainment77? Your comment is a thinly veiled statement about personal preference. You may as well say bull like: "I'd only let a fat chick blow me", because that's what you're gesturing at....and, you know, there's another board for that crap.

Thank you for your helpful comments on oil pulling. I have been reading about this wonderful natural way of maintaining oral hygiene. Tomorrow during the storm I will put some thought into what I'd like to change . Lots to pick from !!

I kind of blame the e-world for the decline in basic humanity. Everyone is plugged in and that has led to a very egocentric society. My rant is based on a minor incident that recently happened to me. While it caused me some minor discomfort, I was able to "give back". I am not sharing this for any type of accolade but as a reminder that people have feelings, needs, requirements, emotions...well, you get the gist. So, this past Sunday I made a trip to Giant Tiger. (Yes, Giant Tiger rocks!!!!) It was about 10am but the lot was pretty full. I parked a fair bit away from the entrance but was confident in my stride as I sported my hiking boots! Twenty steps and down I went. Down hard! (a bump the size of a grapefruit on my thigh, as colourful as pansy!) Of course, first reaction was embarrassment and then a bit of panic. Try as I might I couldn't get up (life call commercial immediately sprang to my mind). Many people around, young'ins, my age, etc. NO ONE STOPPED TO HELP! As I finally realized that I should probably roll over onto my knees, a lovely woman stopped and offered her walker as a lever to get me up. Out of a ton of people over 5 minutes (OR MORE) she is the only one to show me kindness. I helped her shop for the St. Patricks day party she was having at her senior's residence. We had such a great time that I made a great big pot of Corned Beef and Cabbage and brought it over yesterday. Back to why I feel that the e-world may be ruining humanity....no one cares to help anymore! Everyone...hug someone today! Show someone, even if in a small way, that you care about all who surround you!

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I'm only starting my adventures and my interest is growing stronger every day.....so many beautiful women out there...i like to meet them all....wish I could have won that 50 million and tried. Like to live in Wpg again too, if only to see Adryanna Ace who frequence there. Seen her in Calgary and she rocks!!!

er um... flesh colored ;)

Bright orange boxers with little black spiders. They are my Halloween shorts.

I am sporting dark blue boxer briefs

Blue boxers with white polka dots. They're the favorites of someone I know...

Nude colour! No panties on today! Yay, the freedom! lol

Same as Peachy, I'm wearing none, but... I'm in my bed (always sleep naked ;) ) on my lap top, now as the exhibitionist that I am :) I will go get my morning coffee naked as it is ready. When I get dressed I not sure on colour,there is red,black,blue boxers some are silk some are warm cotton, I haven't made up my mind yet, maybe even go commando too :) LOL

G-string black with white polka dots and pink lace and bow

So this is my first reco that i have started and it was well worth the wait. We were planning a buddy's bachelor party for a while, and when it all came down to it... everything fell through and left us scrambling, and thank god it happened! I contacted Jasmine kind of last minute to see what we could make happen, after recently finding out that they would host a bachelor party. We agreed to an afternoon kick off to our day and agreed on 2-4 just as a guide. We closed the place!!!!! We enter CMJ to be greeted by Britney, a wonderful woman, short, gorgeous, total knock out! We get led into the room where we then meet the lovely Amanda Paige, half British and half Asian vixen, Holly, a stunningly good looking woman with legs that never seemed to end, Justine, a gorgeous and quite girl that looked like she was right out of a magazine, and we were reacquainted with Britney! The whole party was kicked off by Britney showing us some moves on the pole, and really getting us into the mood. Everything started to mesh and we all decided to go off on massage sessions with each of the lovely ladies, believe me... no complaints from anyone! we all rejoined in the party room and that's when things started to get interesting. I wont go into to much detail on what happens inside of CMJ because... in all honesty, youll have to go see for yourself to believe me! We were about 2-3 hours in and who walks in... but none other then the lovely Sophie, the life of the party from there on out. She was over the top exited, a lot of energy and kept us all going for hours and hours. Come 10 o'clock and CMJ was closing, we were still there with Sophie and Amanda. Needless to say, we all left having an amazing time! Again, thank you Jasmine, Justine, Britney, Amanda Paige, Sophie, and Holly for the most amazing time any of us have had ever packed into what seemed like a very short 8 hours! Will i repeat... in a few crud words... HELL YES i will! Im now looking forward for another friend to get married! Ill most likely edit this and add more, I'm doing this on my cell because i just couldn't wait any longer. Zoro

I've been a reg of Courtney's for a number of years now and will continue. A beautiful person in and out. Perfect body, awesome service and always on time. thank you Courtney.

Of course it is for real and it feels great! ;) To answer your other questions, yes, the amount varies depending on a few factors like hydration and yes, the velocity also varies... It's never the same for me. As far as taste is concerned, it doesn't taste like anything but sometimes it can have a sweet light taste to it (I am guessing it depends on the "diet" of the lady).

Do not ask if I am alone. That sends off huge warning bells to me. Some of us are and some of us have a girlfriend who remains discreetly in another room. And I mean really, do you think someone with nefarious intentions would admit that some big muscle bound body guard would be hiding in the closet LOL.