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7 pointsThese questions aren't specific to the SP/client relationship, but could be applied to any relationship really, both in the context of monogamy, and non-monogamy (whether negotiated or not). Would I ever have a tryst at my SOs place and/or bed? Sure, as long as my partner was aware of it. Have I ever? Nope. It hasn't come up yet. Is it sexy or vulgar? Not really. It's just a space, ultimately. It really depends on the context I think. I've visited the home of one client who had an SO who did not know about his involvement in the sex industry. However, we weren't intimate in their bed, we were intimate in the guest room which was more comfortable for me. I personally wouldn't care if I was in their bed or not, but I would be worried about my safety, both physically, and emotionally, and I was worried at the time and probably wouldn't do something like that again unless I received certain reassurances from the client in question. If I were caught in the home of a client by an SO, she (or he) could potentially figure out who I am and report me, or make my life a living hell somehow. While I doubt that would happen, it would be my fear and it's a legitimate one. I think it's important for sex workers to evaluate risks and do as they see fit... I personally want to stay out of the lives of clients in that way. It can have real consequences, and not just emotional consequences but legal consequences, and stigmatizing consequences (what if the SO decided to out me, or somehow figured out who I was or where I lived and decided to tell my landlord or report me to bylaw?). I would do it (maybe), but only if I knew their SO was on a different continent ;) It would still make me uncomfortable though - at least ever so slightly... I know my fears will likely not materialize, but still. Scary thought.
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5 pointsTo all the ladies of Cerb. I will probably spend part of the day in remembrance as my mother just passed away on January 3rd, 2014. She saved every Mother's Day card and letter I ever gave her. & I thought we were not that close. :(
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5 pointsAfter a long productive winter it brings Marc and I great pleasure to ANNOUNCE our new rooms are open! We want to first thank all of our fine clients that took the time to provide us with any feedback that would help us improve our business.....we are passionate about what we do and we take pride and genuinely care about our clients needs as well as our ladies and this shows in the expansion....Existing space (2000 sq ft) & expansion space (1800 sq ft) was done 100 percent LEGAL & ALL approved by the City of Ottawa and full occupancy was granted today! What we have added: *** A new discrete side entrance that you can enter and exit through ***Clients have the choice of 2 entrances and 3 exits from our unit for discretion ***All MA's have been trained how to be as discrete as possible in making sure you don't cross paths with other patrons at the spa! ***Separate massage waiting for privacy as well as utilize this space if you would like to meet the MA's in person for a quick hello to see if that special someone and you share some sexy chemistry! ***3 new rooms in addition to the 4 rooms our spa already had for the fast growing Massage industry in Ottawa and to be able to offer you more selection & variety of MA's for your enjoyment! The NEW Rooms are: ***Spacious with nice comfy couches to cuddle up with your favorite MA ***Professional Massage Tables that are adjustable ***Fresh High Quality Towels ***Industrial/Commercial onsite laundry facilities to ensure fresh linens at all times ***High Quality & Professional Body Wash,Massage Oil & Gel ***Erotic dance pole for all your naughty dances for the MA's that specialize in erotic dancing ***2 4 by 8 wall mirrors for your viewing to see all those oh so sexy bodyslides from every angle ***Adjustable lighting & black lighting to enhance your erotic massage experience *** In-room sinks *** the new showers are more spacious (5 ft) and can comfortably cater to 3-4 people at a time ...excellent for Duo's & Couples Massage :wink: we have custom massage jets that we built right into the shower....the jets are all adjustable for your preference of angles during shower fun....soapy shower fun oh ya! ***We now have specific pricing scales for all MA services our spa offers....no more inconsistent pricing guys! This has been long overdue! This I know will make everyone happy! ***We will be holding a private party meet & greet FOR PREGISTERED Members ONLY at the spa one late Friday evening near the end of May! A perfect opportunity to take a couple of hours for yourself and sneak away to Ottawa's favorite Paradise Getaway retreat ;) More details coming soon! ***IF ANY OF YOU HAVE ANY FEEDBACK AT ANYTIME PLEASE DO NOT BE SHY AND SEND US A PM! Friday Salina 9-4 aka "Salinaflower" Pandora 9-4 aka "Pandora" April 9-4 NEW AJ 10-6 Mandy 10-7 aka "Candy Mandy" Cherry 12-8 aka "Cherry Blossom" Samantha 3:30-11 aka "Naughty Samantha" Bianca 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Bianca" Kandice 3:30-11 aka "Sweet Kandice" Riley 3:30-11 aka "Riley Parks" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Nina 5-11 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 6-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" April
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5 pointsyou completely misunderstood, or you haven't read all the comments. saying you wouldn't do it is one thing.... saying it's completely disrespectful is quite another. People should do what they want ... but keep one's opinions on other's behaviour to oneself ...
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4 pointsScarlette and I met back in April, and I apologize to her for getting this recommendation out late, so if you're reading Scarlette "Sorry for the late response" I seem to be distracted lately ;) Scarlette is the other sexy MA lady with Mandy66 AKA Karmen, they both share a upscale condo, I wanted to meet her when we both saw each other at a St. Patty's party back in March, and had a great conversation. She has a great personality she is bubbly,great demeanour, and simply fun to be around with, her eyes are so mesmerizing :) I checked that Scarlette does not have her own recommendation, so I feel honoured to start one for her. This lady is beautiful, she has stunning body art, ONE very wicked sexy body, and gives one very sensual massage, she felt very comfortable with me, to allow me to massage her beautiful body with my big hands. I loved giving her body a massage, just look at below of her sexy body... :) Here is some pictures of her splendid body, and the above picture of her genuine sexy smile says it all, she is a real sweet lady to spend time with, I thoroughly enjoyed myself with her. The body slides were simply erotic and having her on my body was very intense and sensual. Thanks Scarlette, and again sorry my tardiness.
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4 pointsI thought it would be fun to start a thread about the things we do in a day "just because". So, here it goes; I bought tulips for a friend just because :)
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4 pointsI will be relaxing at home for the most part in Sunday, a possible special lunch planned tomorrow with my perfect little guy (hate being in crowds) and then hop on a flight Sunday night. Nothing too exciting but I would not have it any other way.
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4 pointsWhile I won't judge anyone, I'll add my own personal thoughts: This is just something I simply would never do. For one, I would feel too much guilt in the act. It would be crossing way over a line...for me. Two, one of the main benefits of this "hobby" for me is the escape. For an hour (or more, or less), I'm able to leave my daily life behind. Inviting someone into my home simply wouldn't allow for that escape.
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3 pointsI'll be celebrating and fondly remembering all the mother (s) we've lost: Mother, Grandmothers, Sister, Aunts and Cousin and of course their children. Peace MG
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3 pointsWell unfortunately I can't make it :( I hope you have a full house peeps !!! Ya gotta love co-ed partays !! My mixed softball team I cruise the local country tourneys with I aptly named Nipples and Nobs ! Sooooooooooo I hope there are 70 nipples there and 35 nobs and that's a partay !!!!!! :P Full house baby Yeah !!!!!!!! Mister TTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT I will still throw in for a door prize. Never-mind. You are too busy with muffins on your mind. Muffins everywhere !! Muffins muffins muffins ...........cupcakes !!! ;) Loneskater. I will still throw in for a door prize !!! Have a blast folks. Ohhhhh and if you find the time organizers........ Seeing that we don't have a competent leader going into the next election maybe we could table the idea if you get a chance of a ............. "Let's Fuck" party. You lost your mojo Stephen. Open to suggestions on that one. Liberal, Tory, N D P, Green or Rhino party sounds so boring ? Maybe Joy Smith will get laid someday and vote for .................................. our new Prime Minister ? OLD DOG he's a dog. He is a Veteran ! A faith-full dog ...... although by the flag there he apparently is not Canadian but still a real good dog !!! now living in Canada. Vote for the dog folks !!!!!!!!!!!! Playin vinyl BTO on Sussex baby ;) Gotta luv Cerbies ! Once again have a hoot !!
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3 pointsI think each person knows if they are being judgmental or just not comfortable with the situation for many reasons like the ones Nat mentioned above, although I don't know her, she has actually shown not to judge others, I, like her wouldn't feel comfortable for pretty much the same reasons so we can't/shouldn't assume why people do or don't do certain things and try to know their point of view on certain topics.
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3 pointswow I'm surprised at the judgment in this thread ... especially when compared to other threads currently in play. when you say "that's completely disrespectful" or "that's a no-no" that's very judgmental of the people who choose otherwise. adding the IMO doesn't make it any less judgmental IMO LMFAO
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3 pointsI didn't quite expect to get demolished on this thread, and I hate to have to sit and defend myself, but I think a few clarifications may help out a bit? I walked in to the small hotel, with a small lobby, with the front desk directly in front of the entrance. Lady: "Hi, can I help you?" Me: "Oh no, I'm just heading up." It's not like I just walked in sweating, nervous, fidgety. Lady: "And what room are you visiting?" So at this point I think I could try using the girl's name, her room number, but the name I had was not her real name, and thusly the hotel room wouldn't be booked under it. So I used a different name and room, one reason being so that I wouldn't point out the room that other people may be going up to later in the day should the same situation arise. Me: "Oh, I'll give my friend a call and see what the confusion is." So I walked out, while phoning the SP. Told her what happened, that I didn't feel comfortable going back in, which she understood. Mentioned that she should tell future visitors the name of the person the room is under, and it was under a guy's name. Some in this thread jumped to the conclusion that I'm blaming the SP for this. Absolutely not. I am at fault in a way, as it could have possibly been handled a different way, though I can't see that scenario panning out that well. But it certainly isn't her fault that the hotel had an overzealous, inquisitive person at the front desk. Anyways, I'm already dubbed guilty by the court of CERB, so I don't expect that to change, but hopefully I could clarify at least a few things.
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2 pointsI found this video Online and I thought many here would enjoy... http://www.sunoticiero.com/index.php/sexcion-not/30790-literatura-histerica-artista-las-graba-leyendo-mientras-un-vibrador-las-lleva-al-orgasmo Enjoy!
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2 pointsSince my mother has passed, I will be visiting the cemetary and cleaning the plaque and placing fresh flowers there. My sister and I will also replace the artificial flowers that we place in the flower holder beside the plaque. We do this every year because the winter takes it toll on them. I will acknowledge all my friends who are mothers and probably join my niece and sister for lunch. I will make some phone calls to some elderly ladies I know who I am fond of. What will you be doing for Mother's Day (if anything).
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2 pointsHaving 3 tests one after the other and then... think about Mid Terms Next week.... :(
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2 pointsTaking her out to the Royal Botanical Gardens. She loves that place, and then lunch at her favourite restaurant.
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2 pointsClean the memorial at the cemetery (seems to be a common theme for us older pooners). Take the SO out for a nice brunch buffet. Ironically, our kid won't be able to join us due to work commitments. Chill & work in the garden if it isn't raining. Drink some wine.
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2 pointsPlacing Flowers at Moms cemetery, a celebration afterwards with siblings, dinner and a few cocktails. ;)
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2 pointsLicensed body rub parlors shouldnt offer fs, here is a list of licensed studios across city http://ottawa.ca/calendar/ottawa/citycouncil/occ/2007/05-09/cpsc/ACS2007-CPS-BYL-0010.htm
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2 pointsI farted in the office and walked around. Just because........ Posted via Mobile Device
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2 pointsThat is a very nice gesture you do yearly for your mother and elderly ladies. As for me, let's see, Drive to Sudbury, open up the cottage as my mother would like to move back on the long weekend. Make sure there is enough wood to burn all ready for her, then go and visit take her out to diner go back to the cottage and come back home. It's going to be a long one but it's for Mom. Additional Comments: Jeez, here I am replying to your post and complete forgot. To all the mothers out there, From the bottom of my heart I thank you for all you do for us guys. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY You are all great.
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2 pointsHi, The site is clean and concise. However, if you are asking for advice there are a few simple changes that could be made. Hard to recommend what without speaking with you or knowing you and what you what you what your site to make people feel. I will give a few examples in general.... Change of color: The yellowish is nice as it represtives youth, engery and is bright and sunny. Perfect for say a breakfast business. Yellow also increases concentration and metabolism. Hence it's use in legal pads, duplicates in hospital forms and merchant copy of receipt. It is not a relaxation color. Babies cry more in yellow rooms, mental health hospitals jails avoid it. Who are you selling to...... Men like Blue, green and black. Green is nature, refreshing and easy on the eye and also represents fertility. Heard the expression on TV as the guest is in the 'Green Room'. They really were green room as it is considered relaxing and calming for people before tv appearance. Blue is by far the male favoured. It is fresh, oceans and easy on the eyes. Blue triggers emotions of confidence, loyalty and approacbility Black is great, Sexy as hell, strong, confident;but is also a power color so needs to be played with carefully in customer service. Ex: wear a navel suit to an interview. Like a black suit, Navy says confidence, strong and knowledgeable. However navy suits also inspire feelings of loyalty and approacbility where black can be more authortive statement. This is why most hotel chains have navel suits at customer service. Black in common in trendier places that seek the sleek sexy kind vib. Even easier changes would be some placement choices for bolded worlds and color text box to drawn the eye in on an important aspect. With wordy pages many learning styles new way referrance point on pade to focus on and maintain referrance point when using attention or spot on page. Lastly I agree.....ditch the man. That would be my first and recommendation and I believe the most important. Depending on what you are trying to say here's a few ideas. Replace it with a cute pic of you leaning over the massage table with oils in view in background. Consider red, or add a pic in your gallery in red. if you can wear the color we'll. red is sexy because increasing heart rate and studies show men will spend more on dates when the woman wear red. This can be a cute sexy out fit or more professionionally a sleek fitting business suit or low cut top under a suit. Sexy and profession......red pencil skirt with low cut blouse...yummy. All in all a good site so no major concerns. But I though it out there cause you asked. Cheers Jane Additional Comments: Excuse the toys. Did this in a hurry on a phone. I am not a gifted tester
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2 pointsI bought a coffee for the Military Lady in line at Timmies this morning just because she was hot. I always pay for the military coffee when I see them
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2 pointsI have been out every morning (except Sundays) for my normal 6 kilometre walk, and this morning I had it in my mind "let's do this " so I took it up a notch, and did 10 kilometres, with listening to great music and setting a good pace. It felt great achieving that target, took me one hour and 34 minutes :)
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2 pointsIt's obvious that there are many walks of life sharing this here path we all don't want to call prostitution and the common denominator is money = release = mutual satisfaction. There have been many "changes" this business has gone through from my perspective, but from what I'm starting to understand, through maturity, it is really me who is changing ... like starting to be more accepting of and less threatened by others and their choices. Knowing that I am not defined by a culture, but that I am co-creator of that culture. When changes would start to take place I would always dread what would be next, thinking I'd have to join the troupes to get along and then the 15m came up and "OMG here we go again! How am I going to have to lower myself now?" But really, I don't have to succumb to those things that others do and perhaps do quite comfortably, and if what they do bothers me because of whatever hang-ups I may have I am allowed to just let it slide off my back because it really is none of my business.
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2 pointsI still use print advertising in some remote cities and those are still the rules. They're very strict, they allow no vulgar language and no website links. When I started in the biz everyone was 'hard core' ... almost every ad claimed the provider was the dirtiest, the wettest, the hottest, the horniest .... so I became sweet petite jessica. Worked like a charm :p
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2 pointsI Like it when men refer to it as "bottom lips" nothing like a good make out session;D
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2 pointsExactly! I do not judge it, but I just prefer not to accept these types of booking as I know how I will feel throughout my session. And if I am not comfortable being there, no amount of money will make that feeling go away.
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2 pointsA man who knows how to pay special attention to my feet or belly will have me eating out of his hand. But that said, I must admit that I'm often disappointed by those who approach me and announce that they have a foot fetish. When they do follow through (which is rare), they usually expect to get off super cheap (if not free). They often start off with a demand for a pic of my feet. Unfortunately, it rarely works out with guys who tell me they have a foot fetish, but that's certainly not because I'm not responsive to sensual attention to my feet!
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2 pointsI think there's a demand, and a place, for everything from 15 minutes to a week away on vacation. What matters is who is comfortable, and willing, to offer the service and which clients will be good clients no matter the time, or service, involved. I would never want an extended weekend stay with a lady as it's just not something I'm interested in, but I get why some do and think it's great. Although I don't think 15 minutes would be for me, I can see the appeal. Forgetting about all the logistics (time management etc.) behind the possible option, if the same level of respect is present as with the more commonly accepted options, why the hell not. :)
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2 pointsLots of very judgemental people here... Fact is, some guys don't want to get to know the girls because they have a SO at home. They don't want to develop a friendship, they don't want to hang out. They want sex! That's it. That's all. So maybe a 15 min visit is exactly the right thing. Lets not forget these are business relationships...
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2 pointsWell I think 15 minute sessions are great...so great in fact that I always book at least 4 of them back to back! :icon_wink:
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1 pointSo, let's say you're stuck on a tropical desert island. Just to add a little background ambiance, you were sightseeing on a small fishing vessel. Suddenly, a major sea storm blew in from nowhere and the dang boat sunk. So sorry, no refunds. You, the lone survivor, were washed up on shore during the night. Don't know why you were sightseeing during the night, but what the hell - this is just setting the scene. In the morning, you wake up in a daze, face-down in the sand. Mmmmm...sand. Ptuooeee..spit..spit..spit. You pick the sand crabs off your nipples and other parts (ouch ouch ouch) and stagger to your feet. Your clothes have mysteriously washed away to a bare minimum. Good thing too, cuz it's starting to get pretty hot. Under the brilliant sun, you wander along the beachfront hoping to find a telephone or convenience store. You come across a banged-up brass vase. "Well", you say to yourself, "it ain't a telephone, but it might make a nice souvenir for the coffee table". You're obviously not thinking clearly yet, because there ain't a coffee table in sight! You decide to pause and shine the artifact with the scant remnants of your clothing. With each slow, deliberate stroke the object vibrates and hums with increasing intensity. You linger and stroke and pay very close attention when rubbing the top of the vase. To your amazement, the top pops off and a wonderous, creamy vapour spurts and pours forth. In front of you stands a vision of joyous, incredible beauty. The creature introduces itself with a combination of dignity and sensuality that defies gravity (ok, screwy metaphor). It also gracefully offers a gift of 3 wishes - with restrictions naturally (the creature mentions something about no Greek): Ixnay on wishing for more ishesway Don't try to bring back the dead - they stink ....other than that - you're good to go. Don't forget you're on a desert island, no coffee table, no telephone, no boat, no clothes, no food or water.... What are your 3 wishes master?
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1 pointThe other difficulty around this time of month with Mothers Day, years back we also lost our father in this month, so it will be a very somber next couple of weeks. No matter your age, and if your parents are still around, take that time to visit,phone and enjoy the moments together it is always so important in your life. I've always had a very special bond with my mother and father, and still do. "What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us. " Helen Keller.
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1 pointLoved that.... thanks for sharing.... looks like a fun thing to try with your favorite person.
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1 pointI list my mom a few years ago but we were very close in fact she lived with me for the last 20+ years of her life.... she was an amazing lady who still inspires me to be a better person. As is our normal practice we will make a donation in her memory to one of the local community organizations that she was active in. Besides that my children and I will take my wife their mom out to supper.... for a number of reasons mothers day is a little tricky in our home but we do our very best to celebrate.
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1 pointThis is a great thread. I have laughed to the point of a painful gut. If there was an internet thread hall of fame, this baby would be a first ballot inductee. (sports metaphor, sorry). I love it and am amazed at the stories I hear from providers of men who haven't got the common sense to grasp what is mostly, a very simple concept. One of the craziest things I've heard and I've heard it from a few ladies is the young guy who actually calls the provider and when his lame attempt at "negotiating" doesn't work, he has the idiotic nerve to say, "I'm a stallion and don't really have to pay for it, ya know." You called her, didn't you? Truly sad, when you think about it. Maybe it's the failing education system, I don't know.
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1 pointBe careful, its the same chick that posted before with anthony's agency. http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/anthonys-247-escort-service-presents-emma-our-own-personal-green-eyed-pornstar-a-petite-freak-24/1862597
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1 pointActually you are correct, the OP didn't blame the SP. This post laid some blame on the SP however, and I believe that is where the replies in regards to blaming her came And given the revised version of events, I would suggest that the manager of the hotel be contacted and a complaint lodged against that lady working the front desk. It now sounds like she is trying to scare visitors away. Frankly if it was me and I was asked what room and who I was seeing I would have told her to go rub salt...it's none of her business. Hotels aren't supposed to keep track of the comings and goings of hotel visitors and guests I'm sure what she allegedly did violates their privacy policy. A rambling RG
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1 pointDuring my 20 years (or so) in this business I've seen a serious increase in vulgarity and a major decrease in sensitivity both in advertising and support and unity (amongst the ladies). When advertising was in newspapers and phone books there were guidelines to what could and could not be posted, I'd assume it's because the companies had a say over the end result because they had an image to uphold. ANY kind of nudity was a NO-NO, describing ANY kind of sexual services (especially for money) was a NO-NO. A girl had to get very creative to catch the eye of a passing gent. Then something happened - maybe it was the internet, maybe it was looser social morals, maybe it was a higher tolerance for different strokes - but when that something happened slowly, but surely, harsh and blunt was the word of the day, and considering the majority of people this business attracts do not have a higher than high school education blunt and in-your-face will catch your attention, but does not take much imagination. Also to mention, competition always adds to the mix. The services being offered openly were getting riskier ... I remember when I worked with a group of girls "what you do in the room stays in the room" - the key to everything was discretion. And so girls had to make a very big decision are they going to go along with what "she is doing because he says well she does it" and take a chance of not making that money or is she going to have to lower her standards to keep with the changes? I am a firm believer of "to each their own" and "live and let live" and all those other little diddies that are the tune of the day, but let's keep it real too. When money and sex are involved in business people will get vulgar in order to get over on others and vulgar is as vulgar does.
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1 pointI used to be terrible for clutter and keeping things I didn't need. Not hoarder levels by any means, but boxes and boxes of things in storage that I hadn't looked at for years, piles of books, clothes that still fit but I hadn't worn in ages (but I might!), stacks of stuff I might use or reference some day... Then several years ago I was in a position where I needed to move cities, and I didn't want to spend a pile of money doing multiple trips or renting a moving truck, so I decided I needed to aggressively pare down. It was haaaaard. I really had to work to change my mindset before I could be successful at it. I used to have hundreds of books. I got rid of almost all of them, only keeping ones that I really loved and knew I would re-read. Everything else, I reminded myself, was replaceable or could be picked up at the library. I gave myself permission to get rid of things like birthday cards and photographs. I kept one shoebox to hang on to really sentimental items, like cards from my grandparents who are no longer here, a few small childhood items, and photo negatives. If it didn't fit neatly in that box I'd have to really work hard to justify keeping it. With most other stuff - clothes, decor, kitchen stuff, etc, I tried to ask myself: - Do I really love this? Will I actually miss it if it's gone? - Can I replace it easily? - Can I replace it with something better? - Is the cost or effort of moving it more than the cost/effort of getting rid of it and replacing it? - Would this bring someone else more joy than it brings me? I found the honest answers to these questions resulted in me getting rid of most things that weren't small, valuable and useful. A few other things that were really helpful for me: Practice. Getting rid of stuff and then realizing that I didn't regret it or miss it helped a lot. The fear that I would get rid of something and then want it later was a big barrier initially. Making money. I didn't want to put a lot of effort into selling many small, inexpensive things, but where I could get a decent chunk of money in one shot for something, it was often well worth it. Having $100 instead of this thing I wasn't actually that into felt great. Giving things away. I hate throwing things in the garbage. It feels so wasteful and I feel guilty about the environment and so on, and so contemplating throwing something in the trash was a much bigger emotional decision than giving it to someone who would make use of it. Thrift stores are great but they only take certain types of things. Discovering things like Freecycle, Artsjunktion and other ways to divert things from the landfill made everything a lot easier - places like this are often good for getting rid of stuff that's almost garbage (old greeting cards, the dregs of a bucket of paint, a broke light fixture, broken dishes, clothing with holes etc.) Having people take things away. One of the wonderful things about Freecycle and selling items in the classifieds is that people come to your home and deal with the heavy lifting. You don't have to move stuff yourself - it just goes away, and sometimes people leave money behind. Either way, it's less work than dropping stuff off at the thrift store or landfill (or even hauling it out back to the dumpster.) If you're really not sure, deal with it later. If you're finding it really hard to make a decision, stick that thing in a box and move on to something else. It was really easy to get caught up agonizing over something, which was bad for productivity. Giving myself permission to deal with certain items later and move on to other stuff that was easier to get rid of kept me moving in the right direction and making progress. Sometimes I could revisit those items later that day, sometimes I needed to keep them for a year or a month before I could feel okay deciding to be rid of them. Once you've decluttered and pared down, stay on top of it. Do it on a regular basis and be selective about what you buy and bring into your home. If it's not useful and/or beautiful; if you don't love it or really need it, don't let it cross your threshold. Good luck!
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1 pointI can understand the fantasy of it, and I have visited gentlemen in their homes (although most of the time I believe the spouse was aware of our activities beforehand and it wasn't an issue). Personally though, I wouldn't be with a personal partner in my 'office'. That's where Cleo fucks. The other me has her own room :)
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1 pointJust came to read this thread for the first time and... OUCH people! Wow is all i can say to some of these responses. I used to regularly offer 15-minute encounters when I started in the industry. A lot of guys liked it as a 'quick introduction' and would book longer the next time. They NEVER made me feel cheapened or like cum dumpster. I don't offer them regularly anymore (I don't really offer anything less than an hour) because I personally prefer longer encounters - but I would never, EVER judge someone for wanting a quick release. And I definitely would never demean a woman for offering it. If you need more than 15 minutes, great! You're in a place where many ladies specialize in longer encounters. The 'full experience' so to speak. But some guys can only afford a quick bj. Or maybe their SO is watching their time so really that's all they can fit in. ANd maybe the SP needs to money to pay her rent. If it doesn't work for you, then find what works - but why in the world are people judging and saying things like 'Okay great, glad to see people don't want these encounters'. All you're doing in insulting the people who DO, and the girls who DO offer them. And you know what? I do have one regular gent who pops in when he can for a quick BJ. I like it. He walks in, I get on my knees, and I get him off. Do you think that cheapens me? If you do, I shake my head at you, seriously. I thought this site was the place to keep it to yourself if you're not saying anything nice... well judging and insulting others for their choice of encounters is doing the exact opposite.
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