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No one is entitled to a SWER’s time. If someone isn’t comfortable with an escort who screens, has clear boundaries and remains selective, then they were simply never her target client. And just because you consider yourself a good client doesn’t necessarily mean you are a good client for her. A good client for her is someone who does not question her limits or her screening process. Not all money is good money, and I think it’s positive to see more and more SWERs able to prioritize their safety and their standards. Being selective is a luxury and unfortunately it’s not a reality for everyone in this industry. But those who can do it are also helping normalize healthier boundaries. I also think it’s powerful to see women able to choose, to be free in how they work and to decide what is right for them. Our freedom and autonomy should never be negotiable. No one has control over our choices, our limits or how we choose to manage our careers. We also shouldn’t be afraid to be firm in our boundaries out of fear of blackmail, pressure or fake bad reviews. Setting clear limits from the start isn’t being difficult, it’s simply respecting yourself and protecting your safety. The more we normalize screening, freedom of choice and respect for boundaries, the healthier this industry becomes for everyone.

Who hurt you?

Perhaps we would do well to remember companions are somebody's daughter, sister, and in many cases mother, in short, they too have families.

Thank goodness this guy doesn't dictate the norms and standards omg 🤦

Heyy ♥️ I just wanted to share my upcoming availability - I am available for outcalls only at this time. Feb 27 - 11pm - 3 am Feb 28 - 4pm - 3am Mar 1 - 4pm - 11pm Mar 2 - 6pm - 12am Mar 4 - 6pm - 12am Mar 5 - 6pm - 12am Mar 6 - 3pm - 3am Mar 7 - 4pm - 3am Weekday evenings I am available by prebooking only, weekends are more flexible but prebooking is highly recommended. Send me a message at 902-500-4250 with your name, when you would like to book, and any other questions you might have for me. If you message me outside of my posted availability (listed above) then please include if I can respond at any time. ♥️ xoxo Rhyan

Just getting silly now. The amount of things you have to identify yourself for in society. Rent apartment rent car airbnb ride share new patient gym membership on and on and on Deny their personal safety all you want, it’s real. There is no profession more justified in finding out who the hell they’re seeing. And for deposits, I’ve shown hundreds of apartments in a past life , every time there is more no shows than people that show. No shows are a colossal waste of time

Hello my love . I miss you all already,see you soon ❤️

And here we go once again, this shit is never ending Thank fck I ask for a deposit now, the guys that respect our safety and time will send and the ones that don't won't

Just come out and say you dont respect sps or their comfort why dontcha 🤦😂

I find it all depends on your approach. Most won't answer if you are using a text app. Or if you are looking for short notice appointments. Or if you're not using full sentences. Try a good introduction, like this: Hi, ____ , how are you doing today? My name is YOUR REAL NAME and I saw your ad on Lyla today. I'm wondering if we can meet for 90 minutes on Feb 27 in Halifax at 4:00pm for an incall appointment? I can send ID and a deposit if necessary. Hope to see you soon, thanks. Not saying it's foolproof, but it's been working for me.

I ain't opening that...

And interestingly enough, they don't make true crime docs about any of the above .. But they do about what happens to sps Sounds like we're not actually asking too much considering we risk our lives to meet strange men Clearly, even if we find clients in a reputable place like this, it's doesn't mean that we'll automatically be treated with respect People tend to act more respectfully when they leave a trail vs anonymous

She's planning to come back but is curious about how many of us want her back. Is there any interest in @Marianna

Well... The girl in the ad is the girl who opens the door...https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_cash_paiement_verified_100_real_in_halifax-11305341

He sees us like the cops do Nhi No human involved 🤦

I just had the opposite, provided the deposit and have the provider cancel on me 3 times.

@Marianna is planning to come back but is wondering about interest. Who's interested?

And have any of them suffered any repercussions from providing these details to an SP contacted through this forum? Negative consequences? Blackmailed? Outed? Do tell.

Rapport is everything, and to establish that with a stranger via the Internet can be tricky, so we screen to establish a smidge of trust. The client should have done his research and somewhat trust us to even contact us at all. Both sides are supposed to do what we can to make these experiences go well, and resisting screening isn't exactly trust and rapport building 🤦 We're humans after all, not service dispensers lol

This is the other thing. The best encounters I've had have all been with women who have one common opinion about me. THEY FEEL COMFORTABLE W/ME. You really want to have a girl open up and do all the freaky things you want, it's not gonna happen unless she trusts and feels safe with you. That's UNIVERSAL whether she's paid or not. Do yourselves a favor and be a good human. It'll do wonders for your sex lives

This forum is 🤦 because on one thread people will complain that Hfx has so few providers at all that you should just fly to another continent, but now there are somehow dozens of providers who don't screen? The math isnt mathing I'm not even trying to argue, but more I want this on the record for new sps who might come reading these threads and feel the pressure to not screen, like that's standard, when it's not

That's the lolz 😂 Whole ID verification is only done by a handful of sps, and for some of us it's situational, not standard I still verify who you are, but I don't usually need your ID card to do that, in the age of the internet My kind of clientele want me to be comfortable anyways, knowing that a happy and safe feeling provider is going to give them the best experience. They don't hassle me about screening because they understand why we do it, and want me to be comfortable, not on edge, when meeting a stranger ❤️

THANK YOUUUUUU 🙏

You guys are right. I guess I will just have to limit myself to the dozens of providers that don't require ID or deposit. I'm so sad I won't get to see the six that do.

I'll never understand why the prospect of screening is so hard for guys to stomach. These women are bringing strange men into their lives on a daily basis. If it were me I would want to know who the hell I'm sharing my bed with. And let's be honest, as a guy, the same doesn't apply to us. We don't care who the girl is beyond, are they attractive and will they perform the acts I want them to perform. So give the whole "the sp should provide id also" argument a rest. The risk is almost all on the sp in these encounters. If your biggest fear in this hobby is being "outed" maybe don't engage in these activities to start. Protect the safety of these girls and appreciate the service they provide. If you don't like the game, don't play.

Safety and supply demand. There is not much in higher demand than companion time. There is a lot of supply of hobbyist. All the reputable providers have more or less the same requirements protocols/booking requirements, it’s a simple form. You’re just thinning the heard so to speak if you can’t grasp it, so thank you for that. I appreciate that many have trouble with the protocols if it gives an edge to this old man. Nobody irl gives a shit what my name is and if I’ve seen a companion. real name is Mike btw, please don’t out me

There's that ONE time that everyone here likes to bring up from a few years ago; a man that we HAD to identify between us sps, who had used fake aliases for screening with at least 10 girls, then written reviews on a number of sps who claimed to have never met him because he lied about who he was. He tried to use multiple girls as references who had claimed to have never met him, hence how a conversation was even started between us sps He also got wrong info from here and was pretending he knew things about sps - leading to safety issues when someone thinks they're paying for something that was never actually on the table, because they discussed things in the DMs here and assumed, rather than discuss with the sp he was booking 🤦 We couldn't know who we were meeting and the situation raised security issues for a number of us. It took 10 - 15 of us sps chatting and screening to sort out who tf this was. So yes, I'll keep to knowing who's visiting my location, thanks. If anything happens, I need to know who you are Tbh with how some men discuss us and circulate our info behind the scenes here, I wouldn't expect any sp to not thoroughly screen, especially lyla members. I've had a stranger describe my entire incall apartment to me - thanks to the pm system 🙄 Screening isn't some new protocol, it's been around for my entire career, but the newer ID screening here came about from necessity, which you can actually thank a prolific poster on lyla for 👀

When was the last time one of us hobbyists from this board was outed? Over the past numbers of months at least a half dozen times I’ve read posts in which the providers incall location was posted. I’ll continue to trust those providers who screen. You can continue to choose those who don’t. It’s called choice. No one is arguing that. Yet the implications that our id or other information is compromised in the hands of a reputable provider has to stop and before Steve comes at me again to call me me a simp or that I’m hoping to get free pussy. Let me say that I am here because I enjoy hiring beautiful women and paying for their time. Maybe Steve should do that more and stop watching so many Andrew Tate videos

Screening has been standard since at least 2014 🙄 You're going to limit yourself to certain providers, or maybe yfl if you're unwilling to screen No town is too small for sps to use measures that help keep them safe and alive ❤️

Why would you be so eager to give up real name, ID and a deposit? If they steer the conversation to those things, that's a non-starter. This town is too small to have those things floating around out there. And you're putting it in text. That shit is forever. Try asking them for their real name and ID 😆

I had MFM encounters, and the guys dont interact with each other. MMF is when the guys interact with both.

Hi handsome, Let me introduce myself, I’m Brooklyn. In my 20s, university educated and residing in Halifax, Nova Scotia. I am a travelling companion and can be found mostly throughout the Maritimes. I would describe myself as a small town girl with big city dreams. I stand at 5’6” with physique that can be described as curvy/athletic. I have hazel eyes with blonde highlighted silky hair. My curves are to be enjoyed and my face is to be admired. I consider myself to be a professional companion, bringing both kindness and sensuality to our dates. I treat others with respect and am a huge believer in treating others how you’d like to be treated. Manners go a long way with me. Due to my down to earth nature and bubbly personality I consider myself a true GFE. I have been told that both conversation and intimacy with flow easily with me, making you feel as if we’ve known each other for years. I value quality over quantity and am particular with who I choose to spend time with, prioritizing longer dates so that there is time to truly enjoy each other’s company. UPCOMING SCHEDULE: 📍 Moncton: February 26 (early afternoon) - February 28 (lunchtime) 📍 Fredericton: March 1 (afternoon) - March 3 / 4 (lunchtime) FOR BOOKINGS: 📲 Text: (782)-(774)-(9674) 📧 Email: [email protected] 🆕 New X account: @brooklynxallure HOW TO BOOK: Hi, my name is __ (name), my Lyla handle is ___ (username, if any). I am __ (age) and am ___ (ethnicity). I am looking to book __ (desired date length) on __ (date) at __ (time). 💰 Deposit required at my discretion for bookings 📱 No texting apps, real phone # is required to book ⏰ Hour+ dates only Hope to see you soon, Brooklyn

I haven’t seen her in over a month. She has not been working for some days not sure what’s going on, but I sure do miss her.

Dear providers & clients , I am here today to ask for your cooperation and support. As a provider , I am struggling to find a platform that is not only friendly to Sw , but also affordable. Lyla was once , not only the most popular board , but also the most positive place to share & connect. Since it died , what do we have ? We had Backpage , average affordable, but adds were flagged and scammers started ruining it for everyone. We had Kijiji that was not very sw friendly or popular. We have Terb , pricy and it became extremely hard to even post for providers without being flagged for self advertising or banned. I myself got banned. Twitter that turned to X and banned providers hard work promoting with over 10-20-50k Followers. I got my account banned , like so many other hard working providers. We got Tryst that is slowly starting to be somewhat kind of popular. But again , they take a our money to advertise. We got OIC , Bloom ect .. and …. We got here on Lyla [ FREE , SAFE ,SW FRIENDLY & already established ] If clients are browsing & providers posting , it will get alive again. So I am asking everyone to give it a chance. If you are a provider , please post …Start threads and support your peers. If you are a client , please scroll and see what’s offered here. Participate to conversations and be positive. It is great for new providers that are starting because this platform is full of information and resources. It is great for providers that will be posting here instead of paying ridiculous amount of money to other platforms taking advantage of their popularity. Let’s migrate to a better place. Let’s make it strong and revive our Lyla together. Thanks for your support. Kisses Ali

I’ve had the pleasure of seeing him, baby paradise several times now she is a sweet, charming, accommodating young lady easy to talk to makes you feel comfortable as soon as you arrive never in a rush always willing to accommodate. I highly recommend if you have the chance to visit her that you do, she is worth every penny, you will invest in her.