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This topic could overlap with several others, but I think it deserves its own thread. I have a client with a physical disability. He's paraplegic, in a wheelchair. He can stand up, but he doesn't walk. He's fully functional and a lot of fun to be with. My incall location isn't wheelchair accessible. The first time I saw him, we met in a hotel. I've seen him in his home four or five times since then. He's charming, great to talk to, empathetic and very kind. He's also a great lover. When he first contacted me, he asked whether I catered to special needs and explained his disability. We spoke on the phone at length before we met. He seemed a bit shy, and I had the impression both that he's mostly seen paid companions since he became disabled and that many others had turned him down. He feels he needs more help than most women would be willing to offer, but that's not my experience at all. I can't imagine why he wouldn't make a fine partner for a good woman. What are others' experiences of clients with disabilities? What helped? What would you do differently? What do you need to know before you meet with the client?

Halifax once had an escort service named Wild Orchids. The woman who ran it was a beautiful busty blonde and I am not sure what name she went by. I was wondering if anyone might remember the place and know who I am talking about. I would really like to know if she is still in the business.

I thought he looked a little like etasman2000! ;) xox

Samantha, you would make a wonderful sex therapist. You are not only knowledgeable, but also care for your clients genuinely and are smart enough to see things as they are. Not trying to influence you in any direction, but just in case you want to retire, that would be an option, and that is a legitimate profession. I am convinced that there are many sex therapists out there who have no idea about male sexuality and instead of fixing the clients they screw them up more. Just an example. I sometimes listen to Dr. Laura, because I am bored and I love to talk back to her:) She is an absolute idiot when it comes to giving advise. She is convinced that all you have to do to fix your marriage and sex life with your husband (husband only, because having sex with a boyfriend is shaking up LOL) is to be nice to him, give him a hug, give him a backrub and everything will be fine. She has no idea that there are cases out there where husbands do NOT want to have a good sex life, because they need to experience something new or something kinky to be satisfied..... With other words, she has never been an sp and has NO IDEA what reality is like. I am not judging anyone, I am just saying that the issue is a lot more complex, and I feel sorry for the women who are desperately trying to seduce their husbands and blame themselves when they fail, and stupid Dr.Laura tells them they should try harder, when the truth is that the husband needs to be spanked, whipped, stepped on or eat his own cum to be happy. Poor husband can't share this with the wife without risking her contempt, and sees sp's to get what he wants. I am wondering, how would in a (pretty common) case like this a backrub help? Another thing that pisses me off is when a husband cheats and she says to the wife "you are not treating him right, buy my book on how to spoil your husband" just to make a buck. On the other hand when a woman cheats she calls her a slut and asks the husband why did he marry her? Stupid Laura, maybe he is attracted to sluts! Go figure! Life is not black and white, and some people don't fit into your artificially happy world. Anyway, when I started out with this post, I had no idea I will end up bashing Dr. Laura, but I will throw this out there and see what people think? I am a moderate feminist, meaning that I want the same rights as a man has, not more, not less. And I absolutely resent to play the subordinate role to butter up my husband to have a happy marriage. If there is buttering up, it should be mutual in my opinion. Maybe, that's why I am happily single ;)

I love the blue hair....I just wanted to mention that they do sell a product called betty dye for the hair down there, they even have a nice blue that would match your hair ;) They also have pink, purple, red, brown, and black and stensil kits for those who want to get creative. Im sure they can easily be found in Ottawa if I found them here in my small town.

The owner's name was Jennifer. She's still around, although the name of the agency has changed quite a few times over the years. You can find it in the Yellow Pages under "all nationalities, prettier ladies, better service". Please post a recommendation and/or review of your experience. Thanks.

As long as the tools are working, or you can get drugs to get the tools working, you'll be fine!

Hi Sam, I too have a para. client who is also deaf. He's awesome! :) I love making people happy and sometimes people with physical disabilities need extra love and care and I am only too happy to please! I also have a client who is a 'little person' and I am 5foot7. :) We should not discriminate in this business or any other for that matter. It doesn't matter if people are a little different to me and I hope all girls would be compassionate as well. What if it was you? What if you woke up and were in a wheel chair for the rest of your life? You would want love and attention just like everyone else. Anyways I do have wheelchair access in my building so I am able to see just about anyone. And yes I would want to know before hand so I could be as accomidating as possible or be made aware of anything I need to be. (like medication ect) I do not discriminate against ANY: Religion, Race, Age, Ability, Size, Class. I do discriminate against assholes!

People will remember the blue hair on the punk girl before anything else that makes you a woman.

This is an extraordinary thread. Thank you to all. It struck me however, that the title has "Gentlemen" in it. If one is truly a gentleman, much of this advice would not be necessary. Perhaps, we need a "finishing" school for all the lads who have not quite become accustomed to the proper ways of treating people, men and women, but especially our delightful courtesans who care to our fragile needs.