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This is "virgin" territory for a mature guy like me but the thought is almost irresistable lately - especially having enjoyed the great CERB experience to date both here in Halifax and in Ottawa. My questions are: how does a gent make the most of a virgin date DUO opportunity? - Should you all have met both first individually? - Suggested duration to maximize things; - Surroundings - incall, outcall, romantic, casual; - Who leads? - Happy endings, who goes when? - Taboos, boundaries & protocols - Hygene Any other thoughts or considerations would be much appreciated! G11

GG, I applaud anyone who is sincerely trying to improve and bring positive energy to CERB. So congrats. One option might be to so a smaller version of the full 'social'. After some time on CERB I've gotten to know a few of the gents and ladies. I probably have a 'core' group of people who I think I know well enough who would be respectful and probably enjoy each others company in a smaller backyard party setting. So rather than open up to whoever, if you have 12-15 or so people who you think would have fun together, invite them over. You're likely to have a great time and avoid any problems that might come from a broader open invitation. Cub

I personally love my body exactly the way it is and I have no desire to change it. I will not get any more piercings, no tattoos, no implants, no hair dye. I respect the choices others make. Your Body Your Choice!

[i'm really short of words, so I'm gonna try this format] This Duo is a must see. They are great, friendly, and beautiful. Early 20's with lots of energy. I tried to guess which one is better, that didn't work. They are happy to be there for you. They work together very well. Great experience all together. Wonderful time. I was already in paradise. More than I expected. I'd repeat as much as I can. Dynamite!!

An alternative use for rubbers? :icon_wink:

It should be noted there are also clients that will contact you because you don't put your face out there, they may not be as numerous as those that like to see your face in advance but if you are the type of lady that enjoys dates in a public setting these clients will value discretion and a number of them will seek you out because you are not so readily recognizable to the general public. I have had many clients contact me because I cannot be so easily spotted when out in public, I have gone on travel dates, to conferences, fundraisers, dinners, etc. with clients and many appreciate the fact that even if we see someone they know they can introduce me as "abc" from "xyz" so that person doesn't know I was a hired companion.

I was able to spend some additional wonderful time with Miss Class (aka Courtney) last week during a trip to Ottawa. It had been quite a while since we had gotten together (she had been off cerb for a while). We had a wonderful time. I got caught up on her professional (day job) career and got to see some samples of her work. This is a very bright and talented lady! And she still has that incredible spinner type body style. I have never felt more at ease, and comfortable, with any other SP than Miss Class. I hope to see her again in the next few weeks.

Hi Gentleman11, My experience would be somewhat similar to those of winkle and my advise along the lines of winnipeg cub. Each one of these scenerios is good. Know the ladies- dont know the ladies. Ladies know each others- ladies never met , but you know each of them. You know one lady - neither one of you know the other. This is not like going to the dentist, you are going to enjoy the experience believe me, and the more open you are to this the better you will enjoy it. For me there are 2 things that are of upmost importance: 1st: don't think that the ladies are there for your enjoyment (sure they are) but don't think that. Better that you think you are all there for each others enjoyment. Take part of your enjoyment from their enjoyment. 2nd: Allow lots of time. If you have to cut out one of your next appointments to afford this one , do it. My first duo was an 1.5 hours because I didn't think I could afford more time. That was my only regret for my duo appointments. I never made that mistake again. My top 3 memories from a duo ( 3 differend duos and in order of occurance: a.) " Can I do that" " do what" " what she just did, sit on your face" " sure, can she blow me while we are doing that " "sure" b.) I cover one of the ladies in whipped cream, fresh fruit and chololate. The other lady starts at her toes and I start at her neck. I eat down, she eats up , we stop at the bellie button for a really smushy , messy kiss ; then continue on . c.) As I am feeding my member into one of the ladies mouth, the other one, with a strap-on, in a comic voice , is expressing regret that she is built so small; just before the insertion. I enjoy comedy as much as anyone. Ohh I forgot my absolute favorite and one that I would try to incorperate every time: I love the kiss, and this is the ultimate kiss! All 3 off you get together while standing for a group hug, which turns into a group kiss. Somewhere in this kiss ( after 30 seconds and before a minute,-I think) one of the ladies goes down and starts to blow you while useing her finger on the other lady. The other ladys and you continue the kiss. If I could trademake this kiss as a "chicas-kiss" I would do it. Not for the money but so they could write on my tombstone " Innovator of the Chicas Kiss" Gentlemen 11, relax and have a good time... o.k. chicas/chavez

I've attended several socials and for the most part the people attending are a great bunch. That being said, I'd suggest going to another couple of socials to get a feel for the sort of people you get along with, and having a smaller personal invite event if you're hosting at your home.

I think it's wonderful idea, but be aware and consider the risks. I've attended four or five socials so far, and they have got better each time. So if you decide to go ahead, I would rely on people like Angela, Nicolette, and Ottanon for their input. They can be a good resource to avoid any trouble and troublemakers.

I do consider the face but it is not a deal breaker. I think personality and caring are the 2 best policies in an SP.

This is what worries me, as it is a real possibility. Considering that Canada now has an elected Conservative majority government, the new laws (if enacted) could have disasterous consequences for sex work in this country.

Why is there a need for a gift? I've never understood the expectation that a present be given altho I love to buy, wrap, deliver and watch said gift be opened; I do not feel that receiving a gift is mandatory. Get him a really wonderful card and write him a letter. Communicate to him what he means to you, how much you appreciate him as a person and how much you love him. He sounds like he already has the material things in life so give him something that is a truly unique gift from a child to a parent...a genuine thank you. I think it will mean more than anything wrapped in tissue... cat

The thing you do not want hear, "Oh my God, it fell off!!"