WildTiger

I have nothing to say but felt I better post something to try to get my score up. 😉 Plus I want a new toaster!

In my experience, like backpage, there are many reputable SPs on EROS, however there are a lot of B&S advertisers as well which is why I suggested searching for other sites or webpages to help indicate their legitimacy.

Bang on Notch, even done up a zipper just prompts the imagination to pull it down.

I feel so lame, my last purchase was a textbook.

I'm sorry RG, but what planet do you live on? You expect people to be responsible for themselves!? (But I totally agree.)

Great idea Nat. You can't have too many options to help those in need.

True, respect always has to go both ways. My philosophy is that I will always give respect to everyone I meet by default, but you can lose my respect if you don't respect me as well.

How to become a favourite client, Aretha Franklin summed it up best R-E-S-P-E-C-T.

Along with "open minded", I'm seeing a lot of ads with "low/limited/no restrictions". Again, it seems to be a lazy copy of what others are posting and leaves a lot of ambiguity. And as mentioned earlier, if you ask for a menu you are wasting their time. To me it sets up the client to be disappointed and the SP in a position of explaining what restrictions there are after the client arrives and risk alienating the client. Personally, I love ads and websites that remove much of the ambiguity so that you can quickly pick the lady that seems to meet your desires, not waste her time with questions, and enjoy each others company without negotiating services upon arrival.

I had the good fortune of meeting Tara today at her in-call east of the Market. Having recently gone independent and become a hybrid MA, I thought I should a new thread (also I had trouble finding an existing thread ). Upon arrival she greeted me with a beautiful smile, big hug, and tender kisses. After a couple minutes of this we moved on to the play room. She asked if I would like to take a shower for two, how could I refuse? It's a cozy shower but that just means there is no getting away from each other, not that I had any intention of doing that! After sudsing each other up and rinsing off we moved back to the bedroom. She has such a passionate, playful personality that I felt like I was in my twenties again with my girlfriend just playfully enjoying each others company with lots of caressing, kissing, and laughing. The other details will remain between us. Bottom line is Tara provides the ultimate GFE encounter. Everything seems to flow naturally as if you are old friends. Already looking forward to our next tryst.

You can try The Other Board (theotherboard.com). It advertises all over the US and includes reviews. I found it quite good in Colorado for instance but is somewhat regional, similar to Lyla, Eros I would not recommend as there is a lot of bait and switch. If you do use Eros make sure you do a google search to find other references or ads to increase your comfort level.

It's members like you that help make the experience on Cerb/Lyla so enjoyable for the rest of us. Thanks for your many, many posts as well as the incredible volume of pics you post in several of the clubs. Where do you find the time! 😉

I can't believe that it's been almost exactly a year since I last saw Sasha May. Not for lack of trying, my schedule just didn't match hers. Well, the stars must have finally aligned and I was able to get reacquainted with the lovely lady. She now has an incall downtown in a nice area with plenty of local parking. Once through the door I was greeted with passionate kisses and hugs. How is it I let a year slip by!? We chatted for a bit and then off to the bedroom where we continued to get reacquainted, this time sans clothes. As nice as her pictures are, they truly don't do her justice, her beautiful eyes and smiles are worth a visit all on their own. We had an incredible time which left me literally weak legged for some time after. As I said to Sasha, I will never consider booking a duo with her, it would be the end of me. I can barely keep up with Sasha. Guaranteed I won't let a year go by again without seeing Sasha!!

So true Greenteal.

I thought it was all just fantasy.

Interesting read and good advice Phaedrus.

While we are going through this period of evolution for the new website, I had previously recommended that CerbMod create a page where he could list all the recommendations they are tracking. He could then provide an update as to if/when (may not want to list an actual date as people will hound him if there are delays) the request may be actioned or indicate that it is a feature that can no longer be supported. This way members can easily see if a missing feature has been identified and if it will be re-instituted or not without having to read through pages of comments.

Still miss being able to readily look up the people I'm following. Similar to the box on the left of your page for people following you, it would be nice if there was a box listing all the people you are following. It was also nice when you could look up an SPs previous ads or thread comments separately. Was much easier to get a feel for the person's personality and interests, helping determine if they might be a good match with you.

I also want to echo the previous sentiments. It was a great time meeting many of the ladies of OIC, some new, some old acquaintances, and even getting to meet a few of the gentlemen members of Lyla. Great job by Nat and her crew!

Greenteal and DrLove made very good points. I have also met some wonderful ladies that I have seen many times and fantasized about what it might have been like to meet them outside of this hobby. And that's where I always stop. I met them in an environment where we are expected to keep the boundaries in mind, especially after many wonderful sessions. It has happened where feelings are mutual and a genuine relationship has developed, but I believe these instances to be very rare. Maybe you are lucky and have been able to find one of these special relationships. My one caution to you would be to consider that if you do express a desire to move beyond the client-SP relationship you may risk scaring her off. Or are you better off continuing within the confines of your current relationship where you have met someone you can feel comfortable with during the time you spend together? In the end, whatever you choose to do will be right for you but be aware there could be unanticipated consequences. Good luck!

I came across Cece's ad on VIPFavours and was immediately attracted to the great photos. After reading the ad and then going to her website I felt a need to contact her. Before doing so I did my due diligence, looked for reviews (nothing that I could find), checked the photos with Google Image search (nothing), etc.. Normally I'm not one to meet ladies that aren't well established but I was very intrigued by her character expressed in her ad and in her website so I took a chance. Also, the fact that she is a new member of OIC made me feel quite safe (I'll walk the high wire but I want a safety net). Communication was easy, provided her a reference and then set a date and time. Met her at a very upscale condo in Westboro. I can attest that her photos are accurate although she does hide her tattoos for discretion. We enjoyed some wine as we got to know each other, she is a very interesting lady and we had a lot of laughs. After a while she reminded me why I had reached out to her and we retired to the bedroom. She accurately describes herself as daringly deviant at the art of seduction, a flirt and tease, and a kinky lovebug. I saw all these sides of her and more. I won't go into specifics, but despite the air conditioning we worked up quite a sweat enjoying each other in multiple positions. All activities are safe. I suggested she consider joining Lyla and hope she does, I think she would be a great addition to the community. Overall I had a great time and will definitely plan to see her again. We have already talked about other things we may try together. I highly recommend her.

I saw that but I liked how the old page allowed you to look at either posts started by people, in the case of SPs this was often their recent ads, or look to see what streams they commented on if you were trying to learn more about their personality. In the new version I don't see a way to sort them.

Features that are used frequently should not be buried in multiple layers. For example, if I want to see the list of people I'm following I have to go to the drop down menu, select "Managed Followed Content" (which sounds more like an edit function), and then look down a side bar to find members. This is fine for less used functions, but something like this I would suggest should be available as either a button on your home page, or if you are trying to keep the page looking clean and uncluttered, then make more popular activities accessible directly from the drop down menu.

If possible, it would still be nice to have a private notes page. No requirement to transfer old notes, that ship has sailed, but a place to keep future notes would be handy.