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As you want to separate your personal life and the one you enjoy for adult entertainment, you should maybe adopt a different persona for the pillow talk. Just create an alternative family(or single) life, workplace and hobbies. Something average, simple, relatable and easy to stick with. Just don't make the mistake of changing your story with different ladies. Some get away with it, but it's also a good way to expose yourself. And if you rather skip the pillow talk, just tell her. That also work. Take care.

I agree there's likely much more to the story and highly doubt that was the result of only one incident. I don't condone this kind of vigilantism and public humiliation, but was likely well deserved. Could be from being abusive or by paying with fake money. Would be interesting to know what built up to this. As for being cautious, I don't think the treatment is reserved for clean and polite lobbyists. The normal screening process should be enough to avoid this type of situation. Enjoy the rest of your weekend.

Remember when watching porn meant buying dirty magazines from convenience stores, buying or renting VHS tapes behind a curtain or going to a movie theater with very sticky floors?

Just seen "Ready Player One", the latest Spielberg movie based on the Ernest Cline book of the same name published in 2011. It feels more like a ride than an actual movie. The story and characters are a bit generic and predictable and the runtime is a bit long at 139 min. But the real attractions are the virtual reality environments and countless(literally) amount of pop culture references from movies, comic books, anime and video games. Far from the best Spielberg movie I seen, but certainly worth seeing in IMAX 3D. Like other spectacle movies like "Avatar" and "Gravity", it's the kind of movie that won't translate well on a smaller screen. Better take advantage while it's in theater. Worth the price if you enjoy a good dose of nostalgia and eye popping visuals. Enjoy the long weekend.

Wrong city, my bad. Additional Comments: He's talking about her: http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/natasha-russian-blonde-in-out/4405397 Take care.

Good. Case closed!!!

He said he UNDER pays by $50 an hour. NOT pays. Please read his entire comments that very clear about that. When he started seeing her, her rate was $X. According to her recent ads, her rate is now $X+50 and he still pays $X. Understand?

His exact words :"I have been under paying by $50/hr for the past year or so." Additional Comments: In my world, "taking advantage of the situation" and "exploitation"(presumably for $50 an hour) is pretty much the same.

That's not what he said. He said he's been seeing that woman for over two years and her rate has raised by 50$ since, but she never told him. He knows because he seen her more recent ad, but this was never addressed in person. He's simply asking advices as he's not sure she's giving him a preferential rate or if she's too afraid to ask him for more. Nobody is exploiting anyone.

He's at least seeking online advices. I suppose that's one positive first step.

It's not really a taboo subject, but to maintain a status quo people would rather avoid a subject than risking an answer they wouldn't like.

I agree with you. If the question bothers him enough to create a thread about it, it's certainly worth discussing with her and modify the "preferential rate/arrangement" if a real problem for her. But as it was mentioned by livenudecats and Blondenextdoor, different rates for newcomers and regulars is not unusual. It's maybe just a question of making it official instead of an awkward and outdated arrangement.

If she never mentioned it, it's likely because she consider you a regular and want to keep it that way. If you feel like you're taking advantage of her, you can leave her a bigger tip.

Without being too technical, you need to hide your IP address to navigate out of the U.S. internet. You can download IP blocking software or use a proxy website that will relay you directly to the Canadian website. Hopefully this will point you in the right direction and you'll gain back your access. Take care.

You ask a good question as this could be interpreted both ways. To be recognised as a "great client" one has to start putting their money where their mouth(or keyboard) is. Also, being clean, punctual and respectful will help a lot. The more well know and recommended the SP, better the visibility and recognition. But as he mentioned, he lives in an underrepresented area. Meaning he'll need to travel or take advantage when recommended providers are touring his area in order to make this happen. Again, this may not be the best place for him.

Blacklabdog is right. The board rules prevent MA's from advertising sexual services. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_caniadvertisemy Massage Only (Cities with a dedicated MASSAGE ADVERTISING SECTION) In these cities the ads in the massage only section are for BODY RUB massage only (NO SEX ACTS INCLUDING ORAL OR EVEN HAPPY ENDINGS ARE TO BE ADVERTISED HERE!) Anyone offering any sex acts of any kind CAN NOT advertise those services here on lyla.com. Your welcome here as a member and you can post ads for other things if you wish but you CAN NOT advertise sexual services for sale (Prostitution) this includes acronyms implying these services or masked words trying to circumvent the censors.

Welcome to Lyla. Just start slowly. Post comments, start threads, thank or nominate good posts and responses, build good rapport with members and make friends. You don't need a "reputation" to be respected here. Just be an active member. As for the Alberta forum, I can't help you with that. Some cities/territories are better represented on other message boards or other communication platforms. Hopefully someone for the area will recommend you alternatives. Enjoy your stay.

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Not sure why telling someone to be cautious would be considered going "on self-important tangents". Erotic hypnosis is a mixed bag. You can have 10 sessions with different ladies and get completely different experiences(good and bad). We can argue the same could be said about most BDSM disciples and therapies, but when you got someone screwing with your mind it's good to know their true intentions. Reasons more to look at the right places and check their credentials first. Also, thank you for being part of the conversation. LOL

For me, "Non-pro" is when she's not seeking more than one arrangement at the time, when the compensation is tailor made for the needs and capacity of both involved and when it feels like a real relationship.

I used one of those website before and noticed a fair amount of professional SP's taking advantage of it. I had more success on CL and the good old IRC chat software.

Unless you're very familiar with the Mac OS and require it for video or sound editing, not sure I would recommend one. A decent PC is inexpensive and Win 10 is a very stable and fast operating system. In term of hardware, most differences are in term of style. Processors, ram and other components are not very different. If you're looking for a gaming machine and the ability to play MP3 from sources out of the Apple Store, a PC offers more flexibility. But at the end of the day it all depends on your comfort zone with an operating system. If you never used a Mac(or vice versa), you'll face a learning curve. Better stay with what you know.

You can't blame anyone else than yourself if you paid knowing the picture didn't match the lady. The "taking this appointment for a friend" should have been your cue to run for the door.

I seen many discussions about fake pictures, but few about inappropriate pics for the services offered. There's no doubt that sex and nudity sells in the adult industry. Suggestive pictures does give visibility for SP and escorts. But when MA's, RMT's and providers of non traditional therapies use the same kind of pictures, it kinda sends mixed messages on what they really offer. I spoke to a few MA's who use nudity in their pictures, but complain when men ask for extras or confuse them with an SP. Health service providers don't need to dress like nuns, but should present a professional image while remaining attractive and feminine. And it's not just a woman thing, I seen a few men posting pictures of their penises and don't understand why they're confused with gigolos. LOL Am I the only one who encountered this kind of situation or want to talk about this?