A bbbj talk.

[Guest]

I think a similar thread was posted a while ago and I just wanted to refresh or start a recent one due to the bbfs conversation. Take it as a survey for clients. I want to know how you guys feel about bbbj. I want you guys to be honest and candid about this. I have been considering removing bbbj from the list of services. Now I'm very confident in the service I provide. However, there are some people who will simply not see an escort is she does not preform bbbj on him. Some people think that in order to say you give a girlfriend experience you should preform bbbj on your clients, how do you feel about that? PLEASE REMEMBER THAT WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT OPINIONS AND TO RESPECT EACHOTHERS OPINION. Gentlemen are you happy with cbj? Ladies how many of you feel forced to provide bbbj, due to the demands of the business.

 

Just a side note: If you feel like the poll questions did not address who you are as a client, please elaborate on how you feel and what your expectations are for a session in regards to bbbj, cbj, safe gfe's, the gfe(girlfriend experience) or pse (porn star experience)experience. However, you do not need to take part of the tread to take part of the poll.

 

Thank you so much for your participation.

XoXo

Peachy/Val.

[Boomer 33202]

I am quite open to a bbbj and do enjoy it but if the lady is uncomfortable with it, I defer to her decision to use a condom. Every woman has the right to establish her own ground rules for an encounter, and I don't think it right to pressure her to do otherwise. The date goes so much better if both are happy with their arrangement.

[roamingguy 300291]

My opinion. First every lady should provide only those services she feels comfortable providing and not feel pressured to do something she is uncomfortable doing

Most of the ladies I see don't have a menu and details of what happens in an encounter

are private and will remain so

That said if a lady I see and repeat with decides she no longer wishes to offer a certain service and change them I would still see her. But that is because I see ladies not so much for the (I hate the term) menu of services, but for the companionship they provide. And that companionship is more about the interpersonal connection/chemistry we have

I don't know if that is an answer to your question or not

RG

[Guest]

This morning I was a bit sleepy and made two extra polls by mistake, lol, opps. Anyways, this was one of the comments from one of the extra polls. Thanks mod for removing the extra polls, your the best!

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Most on cerb and terb know that I do not partake in BBBJ because I don't consider it as safe enough based on my acceptable level of risk (relative to other hobbyists very low). In fact I used to even not see those who were taking part in BBBJ and especially CIM but I had to drop this requirement as that eliminated most of providers especially ones on BP. Recently I also dropped DFK and I don't partake in that either as that too is risky (when there is bleeding gums) unless I know the provider well. So I am relatively safe hobbyist and strongly prefer safe GFE ladies.

 

ps - Note this post expresses my like and dislikes and views and in no way intended to offend anyone.

[baileydog 9367]

hi,

 

my option isn't listed ... I prefer BBBJ, and will usually steer that way when I am looking at ads ... but it is not a deal breaker

[Guest]

This was a comment from one of the extra polls. I must have extra strong coffee in the morning. Please feel free to post on this thread.

[Guest]

hi,

 

my option isn't listed ... I prefer BBBJ, and will usually steer that way when I am looking at ads ... but it is not a deal breaker

 

I think you would be able to go with the option: I don't care if she provides bbbj or not. As it is the most similar to what you are saying. Thanks for elaborating your thoughts on this subject.

[Winnipegcub 21293]

I'm with Baileydog. Maybe the poll can be modified.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

My option is not listed either. I strongly prefer a safe GFE (someone who does not offer riskier services like BBBJ, CIM, Greek, COB. COF,....) but I still have to see some of those offering BBBJ otherwise my options would be very limited. So I do care if the lady offers BBBJ (prefer one who doesn't) but cannot limit myself to those offering CBJ only either for above reason.

[Guest]

I guess the wording to that question is wrong. Look at this question, I don't care if she provides bbbj or not, as: covered blow jobs are not a deal breaker. This is just a general idea of what clients are looking for in regards of bbbj or cbj. If you feel like the poll questions did not address who you are as a client, please elaborate on how you feel and what your expectation are for a session in regards to bbbj, cbj, or even safe gfe's.

[The General 11309]

I found the options a little narrow, would have like to see one that was a would prefer a lady that provides BBBJ, but would consider otherwise. I went with only BBBJ, because I felt that the other options was too narrow, since I care, but not a deal breaker...

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Great thread and poll

 

When I offered GFE,yes I did feel preasure to offer BBBJ. I was always on the fence with it. However I DID NOT put it in my ads as I did not want every person to think that they were entitled to that.

 

The client that has been with me for long time,usually I would offer it,but not the fly by night client that I know nothing about I did not offer. Even then my long term client could be decieving me and I still would not know it.

 

It is not an issue for me now as I am MA....but if I were GFE still, I think at this point, you would need to be a very very very special client for me too offer this. HFX has a huge problem right now with cyphilas, and it remindes me that the extra 50 is not worth me getting sick or passing it to my lovely hubby:(

[royalflush131313 3480]

For me bbbj feels better than cbj, but that in itself has no bearing on who I choose to spend time with or how much I enjoy an encounter. For me it's about the overall experience and that begins with communication in the days or weeks leading up to the date. I like at least 2 hours with plenty of talk to help build a connection and hopefully make both parties more comfortable with each other. And I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable if the lady felt the least bit pressured. The BJ, which I enjoy as much as anyone, is such a small part of the overall experience that it really doesn't matter to me if it's covered or not.

[royalflush131313 3480]

For me bbbj feels better than cbj, but that in itself has no bearing on who I choose to spend time with or how much I enjoy an encounter. For me it's about the overall experience and that begins with communication in the days or weeks leading up to the date. I like at least 2 hours with plenty of talk to help build a connection and hopefully make both parties more comfortable with each other. And I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable if the lady felt the least bit pressured. The BJ, which I enjoy as much as anyone, is such a small part of the overall experience that it really doesn't matter to me if it's covered or not.

[mrgreen760 37785]

Frankly, I've never asked one way or another, but that being said I find it is much more the norm now than the exception.

 

Peace

MG

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Peachy, IMO, you shouldn't base your services on the results of this poll (or any poll), it can be skewed for a variety of reasons. It seems to me that you are uncomfortable with the bbbj service. I have seen many cases where SP's decide to go the safe route and do just fine, there may be cases the other way that I'm not aware of so I can't say the ratio of success.

 

If you're uncomfortable with bbbj stop doing it, if your business drops substantially and you need to introduce it then you have a decision to make.

 

I realize it's easy for me to say this, just giving my 2 cents worth.

 

Good point!!

When did offer BBBJ, and then decided I was not comfortable with it,I feared that I would loose my clients...and yes I did loose some. BUT I also gained some because there were some that would not book because I DID offer it....

Same as going from SP to MA, I was sooooo worried that I would not do well finacially...BUT again was wrong, as I have encountered a whole new market and think I am actually more successful now then ever!

[Guest]

Peachy, IMO, you shouldn't base your services on the results of this poll (or any poll), it can be skewed for a variety of reasons. It seems to me that you are uncomfortable with the bbbj service. I have seen many cases where SP's decide to go the safe route and do just fine, there may be cases the other way that I'm not aware of so I can't say the ratio of success.

 

If you're uncomfortable with bbbj stop doing it, if your business drops substantially and you need to introduce it then you have a decision to make.

 

I realize it's easy for me to say this, just giving my 2 cents worth.

 

 

Thank you Fred smith. I would never make a decision just based on a poll. However, I believe to make an informed decision you must have all the facts before you and my customers opinion about this matter is part of the facts. The fact is that I'm on the fence about this. So I will think long and hard about if I'm willing to continue bbbj or not.

 

I'm also very curious about others opinion about this matter. I guess curiosity killed the cat on this subject. I always like reading what other have to say about situations like these. Thanks for the concern, tho.

[Hoppinhorny 1219]

I think it's up to the SP whether she's ok with providing a particular service or not. As a hobbyist, you can then decide if she fits what you're looking for based on that. As long as both are upfront about it so there's no surprises or disagreements.

 

That being said, I don't care either way, as BJs have never really factored into any decision for me. They're nice and all, but don't do much for me.

[hoovey7 250]

i prefer cbj. Beter to be safe than sorry.

[livefast1098 2151]

My dear Peachy, if you're concerned about losing your customers go read my "repeat" (3) recos of SweetJasmine, she's 100% safe GFE!!

[Guest Ot**w***og****n]

Peachy:

 

I went with "I don't care if she does BBBJ or not." It is not an absolute requirement or must have as far as I am concerned even though it is most pleasurable experience. If CBJ is on the menu that's fine as I respect the parameters set by the SP. A CBJ can be just as pleasurable depending upon the provider. Nowadays, I tend to gravitate towards all services being protected so I almost voted for "Only SPs who provide CBJ." Ask me again in 6 months. LOL

[2bigalow2 2935]

I prefer to see an escort who provides dfk, lfk and I enjoy a daty over a BJ. those 3 things r a deal breaker 4 me.

[Guest f***nds4f**]

I agree with the opinion that SP should stay in their comfort zone. I like bbbj but I still enjoy the encounter without it if the SP has other talent.

[whiteman 14028]

I can have a good time without bbbj, though I would prefer it. I do think that if a provider wants to give bbbj only after a period of familiarity with a client, then that's fine, but there should be a discount involved with it too.