Notice???

[Leroy Jenkins 110]

In the past I usually book with a SP last minute ( within a couple of hours ) but I noticed a lot of SP's on CERB like a little more notice. How much is too much and what's to little notice? I am very hesitant to book to early especially if I see the SP hasn't been advertising lately. ( also I hate to cancel as the SP may have turned down other apps. ) I imagine the SP needs a break now and then so if I don't see there add for a couple of days should I assume they are busy or on vacation?

 

A lot of questions back there but just some things I have been wondering about. Thanks

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

The best way is to ask the individual lady what her preference is. Not everyone posts an ad everyday, and yes, we do take time off, but usually book that around our scheduled appointments.

 

Some require a minimum 24 hours notice - others are able to schedule same day appointments. Just be realistic in how much notice you provide. The only killer is when someone says "can I see you in 10 minutes" - as this is usually unrealistic.

 

I take same day appointments, and do pre-book in advance, but they must still contact me on the day of our scheduled appointment to confirm our appointment. As I said, others require a minimum notice period - so just take your cues from the lady you wish to see.

[The General 11309]

Ladies will have preferences, and some need and require notice, but I find the majority are available on reasonable notice, like an hour or so.

 

I rarely pre-book, although this has resulted in not being able to see a few ladies. But you can always book early for that special lady.

 

I do this, since I don't think I can pre-plan this type of activity, and prefer to endeavour when I most feel like it.

 

Anyway, there are definitely options, and you can choose to keep booking ladies with relatively short notice, or you can pre-book, some even offer pre-booking discounts.

[fortunateone 156618]

I don't mind someone calling ahead and asking about a certain date and time, to find out if that is a day or time of day i'd be around. They'd always have to confirm the day of around that time of day to get the actual appointment, as things can change on short notice, I may not always be available then.

 

Other sps have to book their space, or go to it and need more time to get there. It doesn't hurt either to call them ahead of time to ask about a certain day or time, someone who prebooks will know their schedule the day before. It might also work out if they are already going to be there that they will be open to your short notice call.

[roamingguy 300291]

Me, I book months in advance...I think the longest was something like seven to eight months ahead of time. But that is because much like the touring ladies, I'm a touring gentleman LOL. I live in smalltown Ontario so I need to travel to cities, be it Ottawa, Kingston, Toronto, Hamilton or London (and maybe others in the future) I can't just pick up and go at the drop of a hat, I need to plan ahead, sometimes way ahead, make reservations at a hotel, make sure no one commits me for the weekend I'm going and so on. So I book encounters way ahead of time.

I did find in my newbie days some ladies were somewhat skeptical of me planning so far in advance, but when I explained my situation to them, some ladies took a leap of faith, and over time I guess now I have a good reputation.

A rambling for what it's worth

RG

[Royalfun 55448]

Most of the time, I have to book in advance, since my schedule is tight and my professional commitments are sometimes heavy.

 

In my case, it's not in terms of months, but weeks, or at least many days. That way, I make sure that i will meet the SP I want to meet. And on top of my schedule issues, to book in advance is part of the fun: anticipation and preparation are part of the pleasure of seeing my favorite Lady.

[Ice4fun 78396]

Ok.... just so I understand this thread.... the question is....how much notice should you give an SP when you want to book an appointment with her. Hmmm interesting I always assumed the best approach was to schedule your next appointment before you leave your current appointment. lol

 

Just kidding... in my experience a day or couple of days notice will normally meet most people's need. .. keep in mind you may often be disappointed if you leave booking till the last minute.

 

Just my opinion.

[ottanon 2930]

I try 3-4 days ahead of time with the understanding that if a last minute thing pops up I might have to re-schedule. Only happened twice to me in a few years though. This way I can fantasize for days about the upcoming meeting..

[FunValerie 8573]

It will depend on the escort and her schedule. Personally, I need one hour notice for evening dates and a few days notice for daytime dates. I do other things during the business week and need to work around that.

 

What I dislike is people who call and inform me that they can be at my incall location in ten minutes. Most of the time, I cannot get to my incall in ten minutes.

 

Never assume that a SP lives at her incall and never assume that she hangs out at her incall. For most SPs an incall is like a business office.

 

I have booked clients days and months in advance and that is fine. However, do not book days and/or months in advance and then use that as an excuse to constantly contact the SP about your upcoming date. One reminder of the upcoming date a few days before is sufficient and an organized SP will send you that one reminder herself.

 

Do not use advance bookings as an excuse to pester the SP.

 

An average SP has a life.

[Guest c**io**m7]

In the past, I have been lucky enough to get last minute bookings and have also booked well over a month in advance.

 

Sometimes, due to my schedule, I was only able to do last minutes. There were many days I left downtown still desiring company.

 

It is also in how you present yourself on contact, especially last minute. Last minutes, for me, were almost always because I was downtown and a meeting finished early or was canceled near my time of arrival.

 

I would find a lady on cerb I was interested in...poor Cleo was "victim" of this a couple times and I would just contact with the truth..."hi, it's curiousm7 and I am downtown with time to kill (or similar)...sorry for such short notice but is there any chance you are available?"

 

If the answer is "no", say thank you...I knew it was a risk but thought I would try anyway.

 

That is how my first meeting with Cleo was set up...if I am not mistaken, I saw her the next day too... ;-)

 

 

But, don't make last minutes the norm. Find out the booking policy of the lady of interest and respect it. This will go a long way towards the enjoyment of the session and, remember, if you can't be accommodated on your schedule, be polite and try again another time.

[Katherine of Halifax 113931]

I can't do last minute bookings . I need at least and hour or two I am not sitting here with straight hair, looking my best and I need time to possibly screen you and even more importantly start to get in the mood . I am not a machine and its really nice to have that time to chat the enjoy the feeling of expectation . I really love something to think of prior, this can only lead to the very best explosive times.

 

For those that do short notice my hat is off to one and all, great job ladies . Its so much to be able to have many ladies to cater to every need . Some gents like the fast drive through experience and I always say we all deserve to get what we desire .

 

For me though, I am very diverse . I am a teacher of holistic and natural remedies and I do my best to work around this.

You never know what your lady of choice may be doing in another part of her life so just ask , I will do my best to see you but it may not always be possible.

 

So many things to consider in out busy world ...

[Andee 220524]

Most Sps will indicate on their ad or website how much advance notice they require.

 

For some of us who are "same day bookers", we can acommodate with as little as half an hour, if we are available at the time you request. Always take into consideration the lady's posted schedule for that day, as well.

 

For most ladies, if their ad says available until a certain time (e.g. 9 pm), that means you need to book for 8:00 or 8:30 p.m., not right at 9:00.

 

Also, please adhere to the lady's choice of initial contact. If she prefers contact by phone or text, chances are you may not get an immediate response if you pm or email her, and vice-versa.

[Monique Matheson 2615]

Planning in advance works best for me, weeks or up to a month ahead of time is great. My schedule is usually full for at least three or four days in advance so to me "last minute" means sometime in the same week.

[kmwq 5477]

Basically, it's communication. Just ask the ladies and they will let you know. For me, I travel a lot and I like to book in advance (several weeks) to ensure I get to see the ladies that I want at a time most convenient. I've had some ladies completely ignore my request but most get back and say sure but please confirm when it gets closer. I can only remember once where I had to cancel because I caught a cold a couple days before the meeting. Bottom line, ask and they will let you know what will work for them. Respect their preferences and everyone is happy.

[Athos 108589]

I think if you are booking last minute the best thing to do is inquire about availability rather than asking for a specific time. IN other words, rather than saying "I'd like to see you in 10 minutes", you say, "I'd like to see you this afternoon if it's at all possible. I realize this is last minute, but if you can see me, what time would work for you". If she can accommodate you she will, and will let you know when.

 

Responses to last minute requests can also vary depending on whether you have a relationship with the provider. I once texted a regular who I saw every couple of weeks. It was totally spur of the moment and unlike me. I just texted her, told her I was thinking about her, that I had some free time in the afternoon, and wondered if she was available. I was standing at her door a half hour later and spent a delightfully unexpected afternoon in her embrace.

 

In general though, to answer the OP's question ... I would never call last minute and expect an appointment in anything less than 1 - 3 hours later.

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

I personally prefer 2-7 days when in Toronto, it give me time to plan my schedule ahead...but at the same time sometime when things are plan months and months in advance...something can happen, sickness, an unexpected event in your personal life (which could be good or bad) and you have to cancel.

 

When I am touring, I prefer the more advance notice.

 

I sometime accomodate last minute notice...when I do so, it's normally when I don't have plans and will have "things" ready, like the bedroom, I will be shave and I'll just have to quickly jump in the shower and put make-up on...

 

 

But when someone I've never meet ask me ifI am available now or in 30 minutes...i am not so inclined to see them "now" compare to one hour.

Regulars are a different story

[Leroy Jenkins 110]

Thanks very one for all the different opinions. I have come to the conclusion that if I want to get an appointment with the SP of choice the earlier the better.

[Ashley Ann 75247]

Because I do not host from home, it is pretty much mandatory to book in advance. I will not leave home until something is booked, as I do not believe in paying a hotel fee and just taking my chances to sit there all day and hang out. Before - I used to do this, and it made me miserable.

 

Booking in advance is what works best for me. For me personally-a minimum of 3 hrs is required. So please, for those who like to pm or text me with the..are you available right now? Um...NO I am not :-?

[LDBF123 675]

I'm usually a same day guy so I'll normally text ahead and if I get an appointment...great. if not, I will try another provider. the only time it seems I can book well in advance is when I am travelling and want to be sure to see a specific lady.

[Layah 7013]

I usually require about an hour's notice but a lucky few have caught me at a good time and came after 30 mins notice.

 

When I'm on call, I try not to do other things or stray too far from home.

[Guest S****r]

I liked a line I heard one of the ladies on here use once, (maybe JoyfulC?) She said that men need to understand that we are CALL girls, and not LADIES in WAITING.

 

lol

 

In my case, you can TRY me on short notice, but it rarely works. But...you never know. It can't hurt to try. But as I always say, it is always best to book ahead.

 

Good luck, all, and play safe!

xoxo

[Passiveelect 407]

Much like roaming guy, as someone who is far away from anyone else here, I like to plan far in advance, usually months. For me, hobbying is not something I can do from home, (for legal purposes for me) so I want to have things planned out, especially as I am often traveling with people who don't know I partake in this hobby! Only once, on my most recent trip has something come up, and in that case I managed to make an appointment with someone else I had always wanted to see (Cleo) with 1 hour notice! I just realize that when looking long term, people might have things come up, and when booking short term, people might not be available exactly when you're looking. Such is life. Either way, both can turn out well if you have the right outlook.

[Carly Black 578]

I try to accommodate last minute as much as I can. But most of the time I can't do same day bookings. Ideally I would prefer 12-24 hours notice but booking in advance is always appreciated.

 

It's strange that people have had bad luck with advance booking. Personally you're much more likely to see me if you give me as much time as possible than if you try to book same day.

 

Also, I'm sorry this OT but it's on my mind so I have to ask. When calling to see if an SP is available why do most guys dive right into asking questions before introducing themselves?

It's a pet peeve so I'm just curious.

 

xx