Turn-offs for a lady

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31676]

I would like to thank everyone for giving their feedback on this thread....all great and very important topics and a great way for the gentlemen to find out what we don't like lol

Maybe I should make a thread for the gentlemen on what turns them off lol

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I dislike being put between a rock and a hard place. If I ask you questions or for info and you answer me yet ignore my direct questions then I have to choose between wasting my time on someone who I feel didn't respect me enough to answer my questions and then repeat them...sometimes more than twice or I ignore them and risk being spoken of negatively behind the scenes. I don't like being put in that position.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Guys who hem and haw over text deciding if they want to see you making up endless excuses because they are new and nervous. It's understandable with newbies and I'm great with first timers in person but only to a certain extent via text before you realize they are truly waffling yet want to have an entire conversation about it. When you don't answer back they try to guilt trip you saying they think they've scared you off.

 

Sorry I don't have time to text back and forth all day waiting for someone to make a decision. The person either wants to come or they don't. I'm not one for hand holding unless you want to hold my hand in person. -)

 

LOL. Another one.. I can find it humorous now but certainly not at the time.

 

"Hello Nicki?"

 

2 minutes later..."??"

 

1 minute later..."Nicki? Are you there?"

 

2 minutes later.."Hello?"

 

1 minute later.."Helloooooo?"

 

30 seconds later...Nicki wanting to throw the phone in the toilet. I enjoy what I do but damn that's aggravating! lol. I get one of these at least once a week and that's being conservative. Hehe.

[Guest]

I dislike being put between a rock and a hard place. If I ask you questions or for info and you answer me yet ignore my direct questions then I have to choose between wasting my time on someone who I feel didn't respect me enough to answer my questions and then repeat them...sometimes more than twice or I ignore them and risk being spoken of negatively behind the scenes. I don't like being put in that position.

 

It sucks that you even have to feel that way!!!

 

Here's my opinion about that: People are going to talk no matter what; so I just do what's best for me. The people who really like spending time with me are always supportive. In the end talkers are just talkers and actions speak louder than words. For example: Being on time for appointments, giving a good service, ect, ect.

 

That's another reason why I added auto-reply to my emails. Sometimes it would take me 6 plus emails to confirm an appointment, no lie and sometimes the person wouldn't even follow through with calling me and confirming his appointment. First it would be me sending an email to ask for the day, time and phone number: email 1 , Then it would be me sending an email asking for the day or time the client would like: email 2, then it would be me asking for the clients number: email 3, and then the client would want an outcall and I would have to ask for the address: email 4, then the client would make a request(this I didn't mind) and I would answer this: email 5, then I would have to give the details of what the client should do to confirm his appointment: email 6. Believe it or not it would sometimes take more emails and it would result in nothing, sigh. So I don't feel bad about having an auto-reply to do all of this work for me. Technically I'm answering people with with my auto-reply and I'm quite happy to accommodate clients who give me all the information I need (day, time and phone number).

 

I'm not complaining I'm just giving examples of what we deal with. Some clients are model *star* clients and they find it hard to understand some of what escorts go through because it's something they would never do to us.

[Miss Jessica Lee 43328]

When a gent, during an encounter, lists off the names of all the providers he's seen. Especially if it's in some bragging "I'm da man!" kinda way.

 

If I've already checked your references and you're in my room, you don't need to convince me any further. This is information I don't require.

[waterat 20911]

because it's something they would never do to us.

 

Some people worry and cringe and shrink

Owing to fear of what people may think

There is but one answer to worries like these

People may think what the devil they please!

 

Piet Hein

[Guest]

Some people worry and cringe and shrink

Owing to fear of what people may think

There is but one answer to worries like these

People may think what the devil they please!

 

Piet Hein

 

An image to go with your quote.

 

[Ms.Samantha 11568]

My top two turn offs: Bad Breath & Moth Ball Smell..Ewww.

[CristyCurves 169032]

Guys who book to just cancel, seems to be a game some like to play. What they feel they accomplish doing this is beyond me, however,

I do keep a bad date list and know that guys that do this have the character flaw, not I:)

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Any communications that include....

 

I am young and hung and handsome

 

I really don't need to pay for sex but have x amount to offer you.

 

Are you available? I am right around the corner.

 

How much will x dollars get me.

 

Do you offer a discount for students (or unemployed)

 

There are unfortunately so many more but u get the idea

[roamingguy 300291]

Any communications that include....

 

I am young and hung and handsome

 

I really don't need to pay for sex but have x amount to offer you.

 

Are you available? I am right around the corner.

 

How much will x dollars get me.

 

Do you offer a discount for students (or unemployed)

 

There are unfortunately so many more but u get the idea

 

Soooo

 

I am old, small and ugly

 

I do need to pay for sex and have your requested donation plus tip and gift to offer you

 

I live far away, will you be available on this date and time

 

Is X dollars enough as a tip

 

Being old small and ugly is there additional charges

 

Are these turn on's for an SP

Tongue in cheek here btw

 

RG :-)

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Don't ask someone to drink on an appt at 9 am.. Second of all, I don't drink alcohol anymore and never really did... unless of course it was a Cerb social that I helped organize.lol. Guilt trips because an SP said she doesn't drink anymore! C'mon!

[roamingguy 300291]

Don't ask someone to drink on an appt at 9 am.. Second of all, I don't drink alcohol anymore and never really did... unless of course it was a Cerb social that I helped organize.lol. Guilt trips because an SP said she doesn't drink anymore! C'mon!

 

Well being a non drinker myself I wouldn't ask someone to drink at 9am, well unless it's coffee LOL

Mind you when I have encounters they are usually evening, sometimes afternoon, and irrespective, as someone who usually is hosting, I always ask the lady ahead of our encounter what she would like to drink, and always, always, open the drink in front of her

 

RG

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Asking an SP if they do all the things they "don't" do when they already know that the answer is no. Same with negotiating and "give me a better deal for an hour" while literally in the middle of a session. Sigh... a very good way to ruin the mood.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

Great thread. Can't believe I missed this.

 

Cock picks. Wasn't so bad on my old phone because my screen was so small that you couldn't make out the picture. No I have a new phone its like ok, well now that I've seen your junk, I think i'll pass. Did I ask you for a picture? Why would you do that?

 

Arriving early. Our time is specific. Don't show up early unless you let me know. Also, if you are going to be late, let me know. If your appointment starts at 2 and you show up at 2:30 it might affect our finish time. Let me know please.

 

Random texts in the middle of the night with "hey".

 

Can I get 420, snow, or any other term for illegal products. Do I have a sign saying I'm a dealer? Just because I am an escort, does not mean I do these things. However, asking if I have beer or wine on hand is ok.

 

If you have allergies to pets, smoke or anything else - tell me upfront. I would rather know in the beginning then have to deal with it after. I do smoke and have pets. I can't change that so it's better to be upfront.

 

There are some services I do not provide and it's clear on my website and profile. So if I say no greek, that also means font put your finger up my butt. Nothing worse then having to stop and shimmy my body away from your access because you won't stop when I tell you I don't like it. Same as saying "can I slip it in for a second without a condom? " nothing makes me more nervous then someone who has no interest in my personal health.

 

Please let me know what you want when I ask you what you are interested in our session. If you cum quick and want to prolong it, tell me. I offer msog, but not everyone can do this. If I know ahead of time, we can work together on this.

 

Negotiate - just don't do it. If you feel my rates are too high, that's your choice to move on. Thank me and go on. Just don't get nasty and say something that will get you into my do not book list.

 

Have a great day!

[roamingguy 300291]

So no cock pics

Is this OK then LOL

 

 

Seriously, beside the ignorance, what guy really would. I mean think about it, we know most ladies use smartphones these days. Why would I reduce what little I have to an eenny weeny phone screen. And I don't need added costs, the lady telling me I owe her a new phone because she sprayed over her phone laughing at my.... ummm, shortcomings LOL

 

Just posted in the lighter side, that's all :-)

 

RG

[LadyMichelle 730]

Not reading the profile, emails, blocked calls, texts, explict questions. Can't stress enough about reading the add or profile. Oh & the ones that try to negotiate your boundaries or for cheaper service. Very disrespectful smh...

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

"Busy day?" Please don't ask me that. I know it may be a light chit chat innocent question but I don't reveal my business. I'm not a high volume provider so that answers the question already.

 

Can you do half hour for $80? NO!!!

 

I just need oral for $60. Hell to the no!!

 

My rates are non negotiable.

 

I am a professional in my business. Please don`t insult me with this b.s.

[peacectryguy 12523]

Any communications that include....

 

I am young and hung and handsome

 

I really don't need to pay for sex but have x amount to offer you.

 

 

These ones always make me LMAO. "I'm young, hung, handsome and don't have to pay to get laid." Uh huh. Awful bold words from the guy who A.Contacted an escort, not the other way around and B. Is still willing to pay but wants to haggle with this lame ass shit?

 

I think there should be a translator for this stuff. This one would read,"I'm a broke ass loser that has worn thin with every girl I know because I'm an obnoxious moron so I will try this crap to see if I can get laid by a pro within my budget."

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

" I am a stickler with my money."

 

Okay well my advice is to keep your money since $20 makes a huge difference to you. You get what you pay for and I don't offer a blow and go service.

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

1. Guy answers my ad where I've included my website address... "Can I get your site address, email, donations and some pics?"

 

2. Clients who request early morning appointments, so I rush to get ready (NOT an early AM person), and then they are 20-30mins late.

 

3. Rough digits. No, you don't need to play ring your finger around my cervix!

 

4. Bad breath. Yuck!

 

5. Clients who push boundaries or cannot respect MY time.

 

6. Being asked if they can ejaculate in my ear. Yes, I was actually asked this.

 

7. Married men who come and trash talk their wives. Won't see them again.

 

Those are the biggest turns offs for me (I'm sure I'll think of more lol)

[IsaMassage 54318]

Recently I had someone txt me... "how much do you Cost?"

 

My reply was.. " I am not for sale, but the rate for my services are....."

Normally I would not even waste my time answering to people like that but i just had to set things straight...

[Jasleen Sejour 2639]

Invasive, prodding questions; that is simply none of your business.

 

Jas.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I do not chat and text all day with people I have not met nor do I do this with clients I have met. Please respect my time and understand that I only use my phone to book appts. If you want to talk, please come and visit me in person. Thank-you.

[daddio 2704]

He is so right. Just wish I was as good looking as him!

 

Additional Comments:

Oops. Just noticed that no-one will be able to figure out what I was referring to as I've completely misposted my post. My reference was to the Anthony Hopkins quote. Christ, I can't even find it now. Forgive me.

 

As an afterthought, reading the posts on this thread leaves me absolutely gobsmacked at what you ladies have to put up with at times. It also embarrasses me that cerb hobbyists would subject you to such unmindful, disrespectful questions and comments.