Why so many queries about SP's that advertise on BP?

[theliquor (Lost but not fo 50595]

Gents:

I am confused.

I know, that is natural for me these days!!!!

But I want to know, why do some of you ask questions about SP's that advertise on BP and are not on CERB?

I am not a shill for CERB, but with so many beautiful ladies in our community, why would you look elsewhere?

If you check out Cowboy Kenny's ongoing blog about fakes, many/most/all come from BP? Does BP offer CK's warnings.....NO!

 

So do yourself a favour and just stick to CERB, and if you do want to take the risk and play with the SP's who advertise exclusively on BP, don't ask us who support the Ladies here on CERB.

 

Just my opinion.

TheLiquor

[eagertopleaze 2366]

There are a lot of ladies who advertise in both places, so I would think the gentlemen have the freedom to look in both places.

 

I agree that Cerb offers "some" safety that BP does not, but the fact is, Cerb is also a community that does not allow any negative comments, so there is some uncertainty here also.

 

The good thing is, if you dislike the questions about BP girls, you can simply ignore all threads about BP. You have that freedom, just like others have the freedom to do the opposite.

 

This is a community for both the ladies and the gentlemen to share information, and I don't think that info has to be exclusive to Cerb.

[conquistador 18487]

Pretty much what eagertopleaze said... Lots advertise on both, so are you saying they are bad too?!

 

I generally stick to Cerb since that it is safer and I'm more comfortable here but I would never tell someone to just stick to this site and just to look around in general.

 

Guys like options and selection, and if they don't find it here, they'll look elsewhere or just look in general lol.

 

But if you see someone who is asking a question about a bp girl then just skip to the next thread, pretty simple.

 

This place is for both hobbyists and SPs, and we should be helping both out if they have questions.

[loneskater 25635]

There are a lot of ladies who advertise in both places, so I would think the gentlemen have the freedom to look in both places.

 

I agree that Cerb offers "some" safety that BP does not, but the fact is, Cerb is also a community that does not allow any negative comments, so there is some uncertainty here also.

 

The good thing is, if you dislike the questions about BP girls, you can simply ignore all threads about BP. You have that freedom, just like others have the freedom to do the opposite.

 

This is a community for both the ladies and the gentlemen to share information, and I don't think that info has to be exclusive to Cerb.

 

Agree. One thing I learned a long time ago in this business is you don't judge other people. We all have different reasons for being in this business. Some like seeing regulars, others prefer variety or seeing the newest girl in the business.

 

As was pointed out seeing CERB ladies offer "some" safety but its not full proof. Remember only positive comments are written on CERB. In addition, for reasons I don't want to get into, it seems the new girls prefer being on BP and very few join CERB. Therefore I can certainly understand that those who prefer seeing new ladies would venture on BP. It does require more homework, i.e. reading CK's diary but that doesn't mean there aren't some great ladies advertising there.

 

I could add more but it sure doesn't take a genius to figure it out. Its just a matter of keeping up with the business and not judge what others do.

 

As was pointed out CERB is also about sharing all business info as long as we follow the board rules.

 

Food for thought! If we are going to publicly judge other members for which ladies they choose to see, we might as well publicly judge members who target their " Thanked Post" at ladies working only in specific locations!!!

[theliquor (Lost but not fo 50595]

Was just asking, why

 

Also as stated, my opinion, and as such, an opinion can not be judged as right or wrong, just an opinion.

 

So if you don't like my opinion, just move on to another post...same as you suggested

[conquistador 18487]

Yes, and you got some answers as to why...

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

This is a board to recommend escorts whether they be here or anywhere. I think some of the issue comes from those who try to make this a great community by communicating, sharing etc. Also through inviting others they meet or see to join. In some ways, it's a safer place because there is more sharing of information and those here seem more serious because they are putting time and effort into their presence here.

 

Some on BP are fly by night or short term. There is more of a risk because someone has to see them first. CERB may only allow positive comments so some reading between the lines is required IE: if you had a bad experience you wouldn't post a good reco.

 

I would like to see more use of the B&S or warning sections and more reco's for those perhaps not on CERB. This way more people benefit from information without having to dig too much. There are a core of gents who prefer BP over CERB and would love to see more sharing outside the PM.

 

I know there are those who don't like to post a reco or whatever, to me it seems in their best interest when it's someone outside CERB because it encourages more sharing among members seeing others which keeps everyone safe and also may encourage more quality SP's both here and in other places.

 

We all give and take as we find fitting for ourselves, however in some ways, we should also have a bigger focus on the industry because it is what we do that keeps it vibrant and strong even when others try to slap it down.

[roamingguy 300291]

I asked this question a few years back, sort of thought we should be supporting CERB ladies. But as was correctly pointed out, CERB is an "escort" recommendation board, not just a "cerb escort" recommendation board, and escorts even if not on CERB if recommendation worthy should be mentioned

That said, and maybe I've been lucky, or, I don't know, but the CERB ladies (except one) have all been recommendation worthy dates. None of the dates from sites other than CERB I have been able to write recommendations about. And now, I solely support the ladies of CERB

One thing, if you see a non CERB lady and she is a good companion, let her know about CERB

A rambling

 

RG

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Sometimes I have wondered the same, but then thought, hmmm, perhaps by meeting and giving ladies that are not on cerb a chance, perhaps one would suggest to join and become active here, thus allowing cerb to grow in numbers:) We all started somewhere, CL or BP Sexy E ads, etc...like myself:) But I found my community here, and now has been 4 year love affair with cerb:)

 

One thing I do notice that kinda sucks, is I see the same gents over and over complaining they are always getting ripped off, etc...but yet continue to ask about BP or CL on a regular basis, and yet see not one reco of cerb lady in their statistics, lol have no clue why you would keep doing that to your self, haha.

[Sensual Erin 33898]

I think this is a valid question and will try to answer to the best of my understanding.

 

Let's not forget that many of the spa's, agencies and independent ladies advertise on BP as well as other venues. There are people that only search the classifieds. That's how I like to think of BP. It's the online alternative to a newspaper and another place to advertise.

 

Perhaps they become members of Cerb or maybe they are not interested at all? It takes a certain time commitment to be a part of a forum and that may not be something everyone is interested in. It doesn't mean they are not up to a certain standard if they prefer to not join.

 

I think it's fair to ask questions here if they are helping others to make informed decisions. If we limit information and are not welcoming to new or potential members, the board does not prosper.

 

My take, :)

[aimtoplease1 1839]

Gents:

I am confused.

I know, that is natural for me these days!!!!

But I want to know, why do some of you ask questions about SP's that advertise on BP and are not on CERB?

I am not a shill for CERB, but with so many beautiful ladies in our community, why would you look elsewhere?

If you check out Cowboy Kenny's ongoing blog about fakes, many/most/all come from BP? Does BP offer CK's warnings.....NO!

 

So do yourself a favour and just stick to CERB, and if you do want to take the risk and play with the SP's who advertise exclusively on BP, don't ask us who support the Ladies here on CERB.

 

Just my opinion.

TheLiquor

I think it's in hope that someone from cerb has tried the SP in question & has a review on her. There's lots of great ladies on cerb...but personally I have had better luck on BP. I know this is a touchy topic but it has to do with pricing. Please don't chastise me for this.

[Ice4fun 78396]

Sometimes I have wondered the same, but then thought, hmmm, perhaps by meeting and giving ladies that are not on cerb a chance, perhaps one would suggest to join and become active here, thus allowing cerb to grow in numbers:) We all started somewhere, CL or BP Sexy E ads, etc...like myself:) But I found my community here, and now has been 4 year love affair with cerb:)

 

One thing I do notice that kinda sucks, is I see the same gents over and over complaining they are always getting ripped off, etc...but yet continue to ask about BP or CL on a regular basis, and yet see not one reco of cerb lady in their statistics, lol have no clue why you would keep doing that to your self, haha.

 

Just my probably ill-informed opinion but i think some guys are attracted to BP and CL because they live in areas where CERB ladies are not always available buy also because rates for some BP and CL ladies can be lower... i have always lived by the motto... you get what you pay for lololol

 

Just my opinion

[Katherine of Halifax 113931]

I advertise on BP and have met wonderful clients , some can be difficult to deal with as with any site you choose to advertise on .

 

Why are there so many questions about BP ? Lots of great answers and this is just one of many . Some donations asked for on BP are quite low , this is picked up and a pretty lady with a seemly wonderful rate is soon to be highly discussed .

So for the person that is on a budget they will certainly find those lower donations on BP so it will make sense for them to search and shop there.

[Guest Ou**or**n]

The whole notion of a 'CERB lady' is a bit silly IMHO. It's not like there is a test or standard. It's simply whether they choose to advertise or participate here.

 

Most ladies start out not being on this site but instead on BP (or CL in the past). I think its great that members here inquire about the ladies that interest them on BP. They may get pm's that give them the information they need that will help them decide if they want to spend the $ to see them.

 

When I see a lady from BP who is not on CERB I always follow a few steps. First I must find some positive review or mention of her somewhere. I'm just not a TOFTT type. Second, if the experience is positive I discuss CERB. I find some ladies don't know much about CERB or some are just not enough into the business enough to want to create an account here. I will also recommend the lady here (if she gives permission) and I advise them on the benefits of being a member here.

 

So ask away but encourage the lady to join CERB and if you had a good time then give her a good recommendation here.

[cinelli 22184]

There are five to ten times as many ads on BP as E-C in Winnipeg. It is a crapshoot but that's life. I find BP much easier to use on a cellphone than EC. Maybe a more basic mobile edition of EC could be developed? Most guys use their cellphone to look at ads, NOT THEIR PC! The last thing a married guy with kids wants is someone looking through the PC historyu and finding searches for escorts. So they use the phone.

 

Many of the EC ads are for touring SPs who are not even here, they have left, have not arrived, or are advertising that they are available in their hometown. Those are a waste of time and bandwidth. There are too many buttons and banners...BP is simpler and loads faster.

 

I know two ladies who advertise on BP. I know them outside of escorting and I am not a customer. Both have fulltime jobs and do this on a casual basis. Both have kids. Neither has any interest in bulletin boards or advertising anywhere else. I have suggested they join but they clearly say they have no time or inclination. Some people just aren't interested in surfing the net.

 

As I said they do this on the side, see only a few guys, and have all the business they want.

[fortunateone 156618]

Some only know about advertising on bp, and some who may know about other places to advertise have zero interest in advertising on those other places. Even tho cerb is free to post on, it can be time consuming for someone not fully computer patient to register, set up a profile, load in pics, then go find the correct place to post an ad, find out that symbols and the current nonsense in ad titles are not permitted here, and feel like they've outstayed their welcome, they are not allowed to post, then they leave again.

 

(not saying that they aren't bright enough to figure out that ad titles have rules and that if they followed the rules, the ads are still OK, but first impressions matter. Basically if BP isn't broke, no need to seek other places.

 

Sps don't determine their rates, services or professionalisms based on the advertising site. Nor does the fact that they've chosen a site that some consider unworthy determine their rates, services or professionalism. You can't just automatically assume that the sp who posts on one site is somehow unworthy, nor can you automatically assume she is untrustworthy or less truthful.

 

People who advertise on ad sites with forums, (or those who choose to avoid sites like that), are simply making advertising choices. neither right nor wrong, good or bad. An ad site, in other words, has no attached stigma. It is only those who somehow decided, even without ever using it (sp and clients alike) to attach one to it.

 

Sps and clients who use it, this stigmatized advertising site, know better. They use it because it works.

[loopie 15358]

I've met some really nice SP's on BP. In the case of agency SP's, they leave the advertising duties to the agency, and the agency chooses where they feel like posting the ads, and it seems that some agencies just don't post ads on CERB. I don't know why. Maybe they forget about CERB, maybe they find CERB hard to use, maybe they feel they bring in enough business by posting on BP alone so the effort of posting all over the place is not worthwhile. I don't know.

[Guest Cr**gCa***ng]

I like to do my research and due diligence. There are many sources for one to consider as it is a "caveat emptor" situation. Ladies are free to advertise as they see fit and potential clients are well advised to exercise that which is at their disposal in order to make an informed choice or decision. Ladies use screening procedures and justifiably so. There's no reason to throw caution out the window on the part of either.