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This whole issue is very perplexing. If you have the time to respond to threads, why on earth could you not take 2 minutes to write a reco? Actually, I am surprised that we haven't seen an influx of reco's since this issue has come up. No matter how popular the lady, a reco is still very important for many reasons. We are all human and certainly vanity plays a roll. Who does not like to read about how great one is? It is almost hurtfull when you know you had a great time and yet nothing was mentioned, especially when you have seen that person more than once! Furthermore, eventhough not every person reads the recos, alot do, so yes, it is a strong advertising tool. Such a board could not exist without the participation of it's members. This participation should not be limited strictly to the "fun" threads. Reco's are what inspired this board and what will keep it fresh and useful so....get on the reco train!

When I was a teenager, seeing the movie, Scent of a Women for the first time, and watching the scene where the character Lt. Colonel Frank Slade, returns to his limo in a breathless state of absolute bliss, after visiting a companion, had sparked a curiosity and fascination with this phenomena of Hobbying. But up until recently, I have been too nervous, paranoid, and apprehensive to indulge my curiosity. By sheer serendipity I found CERB. Here I found a community of people who share the one common denominator of enjoying this hobby in a safe and fun manner. Through CERB, and its members I have obtained a wealth of information about this hobby through various threads, serious and frivolous (i.e. etiquette, incalls vs. outcalls, legal ramifications, agencies vs. indies, abbreviations, best bums, best abs, what to do, what not to do, etc.). With everything that I was able to absorb from the experiences and wisdom of CERB members, I was able to alleviate my nervousness, paranoia, and apprehension, to take the plunge. Just last week I finally met with an SP for the first time - which by the way was an out-of-this-world experience. Not only did the threads on CERB enable this amazing experience, but more importantly - and to the point of this thread - that within my own self-awareness/realization derived from CERB threads, I can undeniably confirm that this is an amazing hobby and the right hobby for me. A BIG shout out to everyone who has contributed to CERB.

When you walk in the door for your encounter, the outside life of you and the companion do not exist. For the time you spend together it is just the two of you and nothing from real life matters. For anyone to think that because we are Paid Companions and we are not allowed to date or be married, is just plain out there in my opinion. Your married or involved so should I be bothered. Plain and simple we are both meeting for pleasurable stress relief and nothing outside the door should matter. As well, don't ask a question that you may not want to hear the answer too.

I also just want to throw something out there since we are talking about reviews. Some may NOT agree with me and that is fine, after all we are entitled to our own opinions! If you view most, and I say most, NOT all, they are rec's about the smaller/spinner and younger SP's. I have seen ALOT of Cerb members, they have written recs on many ladies, even on ladies they have seen AFTER me, so is it because Iam "bigger" and some men may not want to admit they have visited a "fat" chick? This thread is not about me, I know that, I am using myself as an example and I believe I speak on behalf of some of the "bigger" and/or "older" ladies here. We feel like this is the case. It's sad, but it's reality. Like I said in my previous post in this thread, Recco's are a touchy subject, many ladies do not feel comfortable asking about them, the same way he dont like having to ask about the "donation/gift/money" whatever you want to call it. It's uncomfortable, but we appreciate it when it happens. Like I said, I am only mentioning this because this is about rec's, I am not fishing for rec's, or trying to make thoose that I have seen in the past feel guilty, it's just something, you may want to think about the nest time you see a "bigger" sp...

Well that may be true, I don't know. For me, if I am writing a recommendation it is because I had a good time with a lady, and I will say so. I am not worried if other guys may or may not like my taste in woman. I'm not here to impress them, or ask for their approval, I have more confidence in myself than needing other guy's (that I don't know) approval RG

In the interest of full disclosure, appearance is what gets me to call. I don't have a specific look and am open to a wide variety. I do however prefer someone who is fit over someone who appears soft, and a nicely shaped ass always trumps. However, personality and attitude are what will get me to come back. Some very attractive women will seem much less so, after you have a conversation with them and some plainer women become sparkling when you get to know them.

Strawberry is my very first escort, I have had others after, but she is definitely the best. I am glad to have been with her because now I know what it is like to have a truly good experience. I feel very comfortable with her and she really knows how to put you at ease! After talking with her on MSN we booked an appointment, she has a nice location is a quiet neighborhood. When I got there I had a warm greeting and she told me to proceed upstairs... I had a very nice talk with her on her comfy bed before we started anything. After a little time passed I found myself with less and less cloths on, same with her as well... I began to get hard when she took off her shirt exposing her beautiful breasts and then got instantly hard when she stood up, bent over, and slowly peeled down her sexy panties. She got on top of me and we made out for bit, then after giving me a BBBJ. Afterwards I told her to lay back so I can taste her sweet pussy, I gave her oral until she came. At this point she was really wet, I slipped on a condom and started fucking her (she was very tight). It was some of the best sex I had ever had, I definitely plan to see her again. 10/10

Some CERB members who are giving advice on this thread appear to be good candidates for the priesthood

Nathalie! I'm also a prison abolitionist! Yeah, I know the organizers and let's just say... Some of my close friends tried to jump on the organizing train but then were pushed out a bit because they were too "radical" (sigh). But yeah, i've been doing a lot of reading about prisons/sexual assault and the research will show time and time again that more incarcerations/harsher penalties do JACK SHIT to lower crime rates (particularly sexual assault crimes) and I'm pretty pissed off that these people who are organizing are taking this perspective. On the other hand, the mainstream prison abolitionist movement has failed to provide the anti-violence movement with viable alternatives for dealing with these awful crimes! Bleh Sigh sigh sigh! BUT! I will be marching as a slut and wearing all my pride that day too! Additional Comments: THIS JUST IN: Folks will no longer be marching to the courts. And the demands are: "to have an introspective analysis into the systemic cause of gendered violence"

...i am pretty sure that this is a recommendation board and not a review board so negative comments about an MA/SP should fall into the "if you have nothing nice to say, then don't say anything at all" category. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_rules

Well, I am not a PC supporter and after an interesting 10days in NFLD and taking part in my first ever PC rally I can tell you that Stephen Harper you do not have my vote. I have volunteered for various political parties in the past, but never in my life have I met such self centred shallow individuals as I did this Thursday past.

I've seen her a few times, last year. She comes and go'es. Great service good price.

Not to hijack this thread, but there are many wonderful SPs on CERB who are never or rarely reco'd. Not sure if this is laziness on the part of hobbiests or what. It is a bit of a mystery. There are hobbiests who complain of lack of recos but then when they see a lady, don't bother to write one themselves. But, please do not complain that ladies do not have recos if you are not willing to write one yourself. Thank you.

If this truly is the case then it's sad as someone cannot fully express their feelings. I remember reading a thread on another board in the past where they were discussing a larger lady's review. Of course the thread quickly turned negative where someone quoted "Fat chicks are like mopeds...they're fun to ride but you wouldn't want your friends to see you on one." I hope this isn't the mentality here. Everyone has their own tastes where physical attributes are concerned.

To be honest, I don't see that it's any of my business, provided it doesn't have any impact on me. I see no reason why any SP should have to tell me about her SO (or lack thereof), much less justify any decisions she's made to the likes of me. This is her life we're talking about, not mine. This sort of thing would, of course, be the one exception to what I wrote above. Fortunately it's never happened to me... touch wood...

SA I think you might be looking at my post incorrectly (and I know what you are stating) I was just pointing out the aspects that do happen outside of the bubble/world? I respect your views on it, so it is not that you are unpopular on here as you might think, and its not a matter of belonging or not belonging or in that fact believing or not believing. You are also entitled to your opinion as well.

I thought for long whether I should respond to this thread as I was concerned that my response may offend someone or two. But I was asked this question (in another thread) and I am sure I am expected to give my honest response, no matter how unpopular it may be. Speaking only for myself and those who know me I am a very safe and cautious hobbyist (outcall only for legal reasons, No BBB whatever for safety reasons, no cim, no greek, no GB, no ...... for personal/moral reasons .... no drugs, no alcohol (recent), going for emotional GFE rather than list of services, preference for hugging and kissing rather than sex, which may appear strange to many .... and in many cases my views are in minority (like strong preference for natural kitties, preference for younger SPs, preferences for pale skin, very tall ladies, blue eyes, inner beauties....), so very likely my views below, like above, are in small minority too, but they are mine :-), and since I was asked I am going to comment as honestly as I can..... To me the sanctity of marriage is too important to be broken. Regardless of whether it is with the full knowledge of the husband and his approval, a marriage is a marriage. In my view, people marry to commit to each other and to each other only. Married people belong to each other and I don't wish to borrow or rent someone else's love for a short time as I would know for sure that while she is with me, she will be thinking about her real love (her husband) not to mention that I do not wish to be the one breaking the sanctity of marriage. That is why the word adultery applies only to married people in relationship with a person other than spouse and to my knowledge the definition even extends to cases where the spouse is fully aware of it. Beside I don't know for sure how the husband may really feel in his heart about this. May be it is a situation that severe financial needs forces him to agree to it and his heart may be bleeding because of that (have you seen indecent proposal movie). If I am in a relationship I will not hobby or see anyone else and expect the same from my spouse or GF, otherwise I would be a total hypocrite if I am in a relationship and see other ladies and expect my wife or GF stays in a monogamous relationship with me. ps - This post reflect my personal views and may not be shared by many.

I'm ambivalent about reviews and have never asked for them. Most of my clients are older men and the few who have mentioned reviews have also apologized in advance, saying that they don't want to write about what has happened between us. It's very personal, and intimate--not something they want to broadcast to the world. I have no problem with this, at all. That said, there are not a lot of reviews about me out there, and most of those that do exist are on American boards. Ageism is rife. There are not a lot of women over 40 in this business and most of us are rarely reviewed. I think that some men enjoy being able to say that they were with so-and-so, a companion they imagine wouldn't spend time with them if they'd met her in other circumstances and tried to date her. They don't think it's much of an accomplishment to meet with an older companion and they're extremely likely to try to haggle about rates and restrictions when they do contact us. Whether there are a lot of reviews about someone or not, it's a pretty good bet that if she's has been around for awhile and has a good presence on the boards and forums, she's doing a lot of things very well, indeed. Ultimately, while good reviews may encourage clients to visit a companion, whether they'll continue to see her has to do with the quality of their interaction, not what anonymous posters have written.

With all the talk of democracy, who the hell made the media consortium the ones who can decide who gets to debate or not I'm referring to the media banning the Greens from the debate, arguing they have no one in Parliament Well first, at least they are running candidates ACROSS CANADA unlike the Bloc which only runs in one province and gives a rat's a$$ about the rest of Canada (unless it suits their own political agenda) Second, democracy is about ideas, and when a corporate enterprise (the media) answerable to shareholders, not taxpayers, can shut those ideas down by barring their discussion, then democracy is doomed Third, now, justifiably so, the Greens are taking this to court. And that bill is going to be footed by...yup, the taxpayers Even though I'm not voting Green, maybe a question can be asked in the debates by Elizabeth May which requires accountability on the part of the PM, Opposition Leader etc etc etc. RG

I understand what you are asking for and just as Peachka ponited out, I believe you are referring to lack of transportation but you also express discretion to be your major concern and Yes, I have no doubt you can find a very discreet lady here but again as Peachka said it takes one noisy neighbour, or the wrong person at the wrong place (yours) or even worse your wife having to go back home for some reason to this not ending the way you expect. I'm speculating here as you did not provide us with many details but is it worth the risk? Perhaps looking for a lady located close to your place and you taking a cab there could be an option?

I think Maxwell is referring to a lack of transportation during the day rather than a disability. ie The wife has the car to go to work. BTW if this is the case, you could be taking a chance here if you have noisy neighbors. A little research will give you your answer of which SP to see!

If your conscience is telling you no, don't do it. I've met with several guilt-induced married men and I find their inability to relax and feel comfortable doesn't allow them to truly enjoy the experience.

What do puffy nipples look like? :boobeyes: