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This whole site and the people using it is considered a mortal sin by the Catholic church. We're showing it disrespect just by being here and I for one am o.k with that.

If I posted about all that I may find offensive on CERB everyone would be sick of me. Bad taste, crass, crude abounds and there is only one way to deal with it. Enjoy it for exactly what it is and do not ask it to change to conform to you. It is what it is and therefore is exactly as it should be. cat

I saw a new photo album put up in the last few days, it's one in which the SP poses in a nun's habit. I've seen porn done in this manner, but never expected to see it here. I'm not terribly religious, and this may be a bit prudish, but I just think it's in bad taste. There are many who do value their religion and would be offended. Seeing a nun in a habit standing there with her tits hanging out doesn't turn me on. Many of the SP's here would like to raise the bar and be considered professionals, and by the same token, no doubt a woman who takes vows and dawns the habit do so for very sincere and unselfish reasons. I see no good professional reason to denigrate her in pursuit of a few extra tricks, if indeed that's the reason. Maybe she considers it artistic or funny.

Yup! You're right, and make a good point. My argument was more general, I guess. It's most definitely dripping with hypocrisy to wrap one's self up in a cloak of righteous piety AFTER having found, registered on, posted on, and hunted through the photo albums of semi-clad sex workers on, an escort recommendation board. ("Oh my stars and garters! A sexy NUN! How unchristian -- this must not stand!") But even if the images were of a non-Church subject, like French maids or, yes, even an adult dressed as a sexy schoolgirl, I'd still defend it. For me the hypocrisy argument, no matter how apt in this case, is too narrow for the overall subject.

I have zero interest in role play....there are religious beliefs and there are ethical beliefs. If pics like this on CERB are gonna become a problem then I personally would have more problem with ethical issues. Nuns are yes religious, but they are adults. The ...."teacher...naughty school girl scenario"...very unethical......(for the record I had a 17 year old niece sexually assualted by a professor in university)...."doctor/nurse and patient scenario"...very unethical....and so on. There are soooo many wonderful....but.....different people here on CERB. For me I have no interest in a Nun pic. Some guys are probably dialing their phones right now. Some ladies enjoy role play as a nun....some don't obviously. Let's just go with it. IMO

GFE DOES NOT INDICATE SERVICES AVAILABLE. I REPEAT...GFE DOES NOT INDICATE SERVICES AVAILABLE. Now I have your attention, I would like to clarify that GFE does not indicate services available but the attitude and feel of the experience you will have. A GFE will come in and be glad to see you, she will be warm in her attitude and ensure you feel like she is a girlfriend. It DOES NOT MEAN ANY UNPROTECTED SERVICES OR ANYTHING THAT MAY COMPROMISE HER HEALTH AND SAFETY. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=52545 as SA mentions.... Just sos ya know... cat

To be quite frank, the term GFE means squat to me. I have met ladies(quite a few I guess ;) ), and services offered are entirely different with all ladies, and there is a very broad range that can be offered pending on the lady you seek out. Getting that extra touch with lady all really depends on any gentleman's behavior,attitude,personality and how he respects the lady during the encounter. I just ask the question now-"what services do you not provide". If she tells me or advertises that she won't kiss, then I move on. For me that who is seeking a lady, my preference is being intimate, that would mean kissing to DFK as I thoroughly enjoy this part of a date. So WE SAY GFE how about.... Girl Intimate Encounters as intimate is defined (as intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship, and the term is sometimes used euphemistically for a sexual relationship) Isn't that why we are seeking a lady for a sexual relationship? of course based on time spent either an hour or two with monies exchanged for her time. :)

Well I will chime in here. I have had boyfriends that I have given blowjobs with flavored condoms on. Trying to force women to do things that make then uncomfortable based on the stereotype that a "real" girlfriend would do that is absurd. Its all about health, safety and the woman comfort. That goes for ALL women not just SP's. Each person is different. If I was to offer a "true" girlfriend experience that would entail backrubs for me, lots of cuddles and a total focus on me. As a girlfriend I am totally selfish!! As April Dawn I am focused on your needs, desires and making your fantasy come true. Every woman is different and just because some civilian girlfriend will do something doesn't mean another will preform the same service. A gfe to me is about making my visitor feel comfortable, to create an air of normalicy, ease of conversation and basically have it feel natural, unrushed and personal. Posted via Mobile Device

I disagree here. as long she is clear on what she offers i'm comfortable having her call herself 'safe gfe'

I had a client who put down his reading glasses beside mine. When he left, he grabbed mine by mistake and put them in his pocket. After letting him out and going to wash my face, I then went to put mine back on, I realized he had taken the wrong pair. I quickly called him on his cell, but it went straight to voice mail. I threw on something really quick and hightailed it down the street to the visitor parking lot as he was driving away. Luckily he spotted me in his rearview mirror and stopped the car. I ran up and explained to him the mistake. He looked mortified and said he was on his way to meet his wife for lunch and surely would have been embarassed if he pulled out "my" specs to read the menu. Good thing I need my glasses for more than reading and noticed right away. I don't even want to imagine how that would have ended otherwise. I realized when I was walking back to my house that I was wearing pajama pants and sandals. One of neighbours drove by and gave me a weird look.

Hope you all have a sense of humour, a little levity needed The Nun's Regret A nun walks into a bus and sits behind the driver and says, "I have just one regret before I die," The bus driver asks "What might that be?", she says "I have never had sex, but I can't have sex with a married man or that would be a sin." The bus driver says, "I'm not married" The nun says, "I have to die a virgin so I will have to take it in my ass". Being the only two in the bus they went to the back and took care of business. When they were done the bus driver says to the nun, "I have a confesion to make, I am married." The nun says "I also have a confesion to make, My name is Rudy and im going to a costume party!"

Dressed in suits the 3 of us guys have finished a "lively" business meeting upstairs and are continuiing the serious discussion as we go down the elevator for beers. It is just the 3 of us in the lift and we stop half way down as another passenger gets on. The new passenger is a gorgeous young lady and is dressed in very business conservative & professional attire. The one of us who is closest to the door and elevator buttons is also the most conservative, polite gentleman you will ever meet. He very politely asks "going down". She (cross my heart), .......looks at him, pauses, and then says "not before drinks and dinner". The rest of the very short ride was absolute silence as the three of us metaphorically picked our jaws up off the floor while she had the most self satisfied smirk on her face I've ever seen. Well maybe this didn't meet the basic threshold of the thread's seam, it kinda fits in my weard kind of thinking..... G11

As a character on Deadwood once said, "What claim does your piety have on my deference?" That tension between the Good implied by the dress and the Bad that's implied by the wearer is exactly the point of the outfit; it makes it a potent symbolic and sexual mix for some people. More power to 'em. That's the hazard of a free society: barring trademarks, symbols like "nun" aren't the private property of any one person or club. The church has invested a lot in building up nuns as symbols of purity and chastity, and I (mostly) don't begrudge them the uses they make of that symbol. But likewise, they need to accept that once it's out there, others can use that symbol for other purposes. Even purposes they don't like. As for individuals who have an emotional stake in Nun Purity, they need to get a grip too, and accept that their devotion to the symbol doesn't earn them special status in adjudicating its use. *Everyone* owns "nun", and can make what use of it they wish. I disagree that using the Bad Nun symbol in what's clearly a sex-friendly setting is in bad taste. I actually think it's plenty clever. What would be in bad taste would be, say, leaping up in a church service and handing out copies of the picture. But that ain't happening here.

Well the Catholic church certainly offended me last week with their 'March for Life' against women's reproductive rights. But I still support their right to freedom of speech and freedom of expression. I also don't think that 'offending others' is a good enough reason not to do something. Many would consider just the fact that we post semi-nude photos to be offensive to their religious views and God-given sexuality.

We shall see soon. You have not experienced the "Cathy experience in full ". Hopefully we will not get in any serious trouble. I for one have full plans to push the envelope to the absolute maximum. Yes I said the maximum, I do not believe in half hearted fun. :icon_smile: :icon_smile: :icon_smile: Game on my sweetie!! xoxo

Correction to the rep point I gave you. If a lady does not kiss, she should not call herself a GFE. A safe GFE usually refers to a lady who does cbj instead of bbbj. Most GFE's allow DATY as well. GFE is more than just certain menu items, it's the whole experience of like you're with your girlfriend which is why there are different definitions of what it is. I am not sure why what using the word "True" before GFE means. I would say you need to person to define for you what they mean.