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GM 11. One of the features that appears to be special about Cerb is the manner in which it allows such open and free communication while at the same time is moderated to ensure that mutual respect between members is maintained. For each of us we make our own informed decisions regarding participation, what form that participation will be and to what degree. It is the varied nature of the contributions in the forums that takes our interest and provides opportunity to learn more about the industry, and ourselves. At one point I made exactly the same choice as you made, though I am confident for a very different reason, but it took only a very short period of time for me to realize that it was the wrong decision for me at that time. Whatever you decide to do, best wishes, but it would be nice to continue to see your contributions here continue.

Gent11 I can't comment about your differences with Mod as I think none of that has been discussed publicly but I suggest you reconsider not only because you will be missed but because IMO this is one of the most respectful forums I have known of in this industry, in fact the only one I participate in. Differences of opinion is something we deal with everyday in our personal & professional lives but I think as long as handled with respect and maturity it can be bearable. I believe many here including myself at a point have disagreed with something mod does or says and again it can be said and even discussed with him as long as done with respect. In the end as I was actually recently discussing with someone he might be doing something right where this remains a positive community in many aspects. So G11 I invite you to put all in a balance and think if you can let those 'differences' go and in return be part of a community where you can discuss different topics, learn from them, contribute and of course do something you enjoy (meeting ladies) in a safe way. I hope you do stay but if you find at this moment cerb is not the place for you. I wish you all the best!!

01-05-2010 Best bums on the planet (or at least on cerb) Perhaps a new fun thread :icon_razz: for these kind of "best bums on the planet" should be started or posted in the "The Unhijackable Thread of Randomness" ?? I am most positive everyone would appreciate viewing a new bum thread filled with laughter :)

Take a deep breath, and think. Leave your profile in place but take a little time off, lurk for a while. After a bit if you're still of the same mind go ahead, but you might find that with a some time to reconsider you're ready to resume your activities. That said, the mod is the law here. This is a commercial site and has certain rules, but it still allows the members a considerable amount of latitude to express yourself. Good luck, and hope you hang around.

I believe no. 4 is Heidi Virgin.

While I totally sympathize with the OP, I must say that this post seems quite un-cerb-like. It's a "diss" and of an SP who's identified. The issue is one that may well merit discussion, but I have to say that one of the big things that sets this board apart from others is that it isn't a forum for negative reviews. There have been a few posts lately that seem to have gone under the radar. I could be wrong - and will happily admit so if it is the case. But I tend to feel that if a post makes me feel uncomfortable, there's usually a reason. Comments?

I may book an appt through Cerb but when it comes time to verify, I require a phone number and I'm the one doing the dialing to see if they are in fact legit. I don't know why people are so protective over their cerb handles especially those who don't post. Having a handle here doesn't require giving up any personal info and with a different IP/computer can be changed. Even if someone does have a high post count doesn't really mean that much either other than the fact that I know I will be seeing and can check out their profile. Could it mean that if you are high profile poster, you might assume that an SP will expect a review from you? This is not necessarily true in most cases or the ladies that I know in this business. I conduct my business in a discreet and orderly fashion. Like Busty Vanessa mentioned earlier, there are guys here who are beyond paranoid in how they use this site and I really can't blame them. So if they choose to book another way without a handle, who am I to judge? i am discreet in how I conduct my business and do it in an orderly fashion. I am not out to get anyone or "out" them with their identity or cerb handle if you have not harmed me, robbed me or did anything else that is not considered detrimental to me physically or mentally. On other boards, not using a board handle to book seems to be what the majority of people do because it's all about the brotherhood and it's hobbyists v.s. escorts. There tends to be a lot of distrust towards escorts and you can see it play out when people post there. I've said it before and I'll say it again, you could be Mickey Mouse or Donald Duck booking through cerb or on the phone and you're both treated equally. If you mention your cerb handle to me or not, I really couldn't care less. I don't necessarily require it either and don't know unless the first point of contact is through this site. There are other ways to screen and if someone is going to be discreet about their handle, fine, whatever. As long as you give me a number to confirm, show up on time and pay me, it's all fine and dandy.

After a very stressful week a friend takes me out to dinner for support. On our return to the car we notice his suv door light is on. We both remember him locking up with his remote. He gets out to check his the back and all his stuff is gone..his laptop, work equipment etc. Everything had been well out of site. So how the heck did this happen when it was locked? Well he have learned that they sell these universal remotes which can pick up your alarm code. Damn they even tell you how to do it on You tube: the thing is not on;y can they break into your car but they can get into a gated home a well..just being at the right place at the right time so they can pick up your signal. So word of caution...when parking especially in a public area use your hand lock.. kisses, Emma

Gentleman11, I thought for long and hard whether to post anything as I believe this is your personal decision. At the end I decided to post briefly. Mod is fair and neutral and there are certain rules he has to enforce. That is his job. For cerb to remain what it is, that is a civil respectful friendly society with large number of members and a variety of views and ideas to coexist, he has to remain fair and neutral and enforce those rules strickly. In doing so, sometimes he may become unpopular with some members but that is the price that he gladly pays. You will never find another board so civil and caring. I quit terb 1.5 years ago because the mods there were not in my view enforcing the rules. I found that board distasteful. I was hurt to read hurtful reviews against some ladies who were trying to make a living in these difficult times (remember I said hurtful reviews on terb and plenty not fair reviews or even negative reviews) and personal attacks and pimp-like lies and attacks by certain agencies and members on other members. I am sure that I speak for the majority to say that WE DO NOT WISH TO SEE CERB LIKE THAT. And we accept the rules and do our best to obey by them and if we break them we will be suspended or even banned as we have seen recently very popular members have been suspended. It is a fair board and rules applies equally to everyone. I have been suspended too and on one occasion I was exactly where you are now. I emailed mod asking him to remove my handle from cerb. In his fairness and integrity he did not do that. He suspended me for two weeks and told me if after two weeks I still wanted out he will grant my wish. In those two weeks my mind cooled off and I realize what I said above that he was right to suspend me and he is doing his job (and he is doing a great job in my view) to keep cerb the place that it is now. A very friendly family like, caring, respectful civil society. I hope you reconsider your decision. Ask mod for a couple of weeks to think about it instead of making a rush decision but the decision is entirely yours and if my comments in any way offends you, I apologize in advance. Best Regards and good luck in making a right decision,

RG, instead of using the word "hobby", I use the word "lifestyle" ;) It is also much more discrete IF the lifestyle is discussed in a publlic setting. Hope it helps :)

I tried a couple other boards, and they also seem hostile to hobbiests who aren't hostile/mistrustful of SP's (won't get into details, suffice to say the only board I'm on is CERB)...certainly not a "brotherhood" I want any part of Why can't everyone accept that this is/can be a mutually beneficial hobby (hate that term for this btw). As I see it, this is not ladies vs gentleman...more accurate to look at this as we are on opposite sides of the same coin, and encounters are a mutually beneficial activity RG

Visit "Best Bums on the Planet (CERB)" Thread. See post 604 page 64 at this link and submit your answers. I will list the correct answers Wed 29 Jun. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=21086&page=61

Yes humour is nice and it is nice of you to look at it so positively but the fact remains that this thread has been clearly hijacked as this thread was about ladies's bums not monkeys and bears!!!!. As you said I hadn't checked in this thread for a long while and that was what brought it back to my attention and I reviewed a large number of recent pictures and immensely enjoyed them all. It is a great thread (As I said it long time ago on post #1 when you started this thread) and thank you Cato for starting it. Great suggestion by Gabriella and if Cato starts another one I will enjoy that one too I am sure. Thanks for your last clarifications regarding the fact that you have had approval for the pictures (I saw a comment in another thread that none of the pictures posted was with the permission of the person which now I see was incorrect comment). I clearly remember that was the arrangement last year and I agree permission is needed and you Cato as I expected respected your part of agreement. My hat off to you Cato.

It's great to see good humour prevail, and the recent posts and discussion have certainly attracted a lot of attention to this thread (garnering several hundred hits in the past few days). As the above posts show, ;) nothing is stopping anyone from posting whatever they like, within cerb guidelines, so that if certain body types are more often represented than others, it seems to follow that this is just a reflection of members' preferences (without wishing to malign or belittle any other body types, as I'm sure no one intends to do here). But I agree with Daniella that these pics probably belong in a different thread. BTW, my understanding was that we would only post here with the approval of the person whose picture it is. I had thought from our previous discussion of a few months ago that this was an acceptable arrangement to everyone, and agreed to, because it allowed those who wanted to be here to be shown, while not imposing on anyone.

and too bad that I'm away next week while she visits Ottawa. I need this mini get away. But my' o 'my, I would of loved to meet her, she is very appealing to the eyes,Taylor is gorgeous and her body is a temple. She is a lady that you like to spend 2-4 hours with. :)

Thank you for sharing Cato! Taylor is gorgeous and has an amazing behind!

I personally actually prefer communicating with a SP via PM on here, or if they're not too active on here (or aren't on here at all) I'll mention my handle and cerb in an e-mail. I really don't see how giving out my handle to a SP can threaten my privacy at all. With my handle, if she so chooses to, the SP can see my post history, get a good idea of my personality by reading some of my posts, get an idea of my preferences by reading past recommendations, and checking me out in the SP Only area and not seeing any complaints or red flags from other SP's (I hope :p ). Doing all these things in no way threatens my privacy, and would most assuredly make her more comfortable seeing me, which all but guarantees a more pleasurable encounter for both of us. I'm also not worried about being pressured to give an unwarranted recommendation. If she's the type who expects a dishonest recommendation from me, then she's probably not someone I want to keep talking to, even online. If she tries to spread BS about me because I didn't give her a recommendation, well, my history on here should count for something. And upon request I'm sure at least a few of the SP's I've seen who are still active wouldn't mind vouching for me as a dependable, respectful and trustworthy client. Long story short, if you're a decent person, and intend to treat the ladies you see with respect and kindness, then I don't see why anyone would be worried about giving out their handles.

So if a red head lives up to their reputation for being bitchy, you can say "That's okay, she's on the RHAG." ?

So here it is my first (my VERY first) out call and I am left with a smile on my face. Albeit a little on the tired side preparing...I know now what the ladies mean when they say it takes time to prepare the location...phew. Okay so onto the actual recommendation and relevant details. Last night I had the good fortune of FINALLY being able to meet Bobbie. It seems as though I have been attempting to meet with her since, well seems like the beginning of time, and tonight it finally happened! Seriously it has only been about two months but as we all know when a guy wants something he want it now, now, now! God bless the inner child in all us men. Ha ha. So as I was waiting for the inevitable knock on my hotel door I was dabbling in my second favorite hobby (Red Sox game) although my mind was wondering from the game. So when I did hear the knock, knock, knock on my door I more or less flew across the room in an excited and curious state. When I regained by cool I promptly opened the door and stumbled with the word "hello." Sigh...not off to a good start on this one I was thinking. Better recover with a kind gesture I thought. So I extended my hands to take Bobbies coat and she promptly shook my hand. Really not on my game tonight at all I began to think!!! So after I was done humiliating myself I was instructed to sit down "while I (Bobbie) go change." Okay I muttered as I complied. Well, well what emerged from the washroom was a sexy young woman in a sexy corset, fishnets and black boots from Heaven, or were they from Hell (insert wicked wink here)? Didn't even have a chance to stand as she quickly and boldly sat in my lap. Yes sir I again chose well!!! As usual the details are not included but if you want to enjoy a bum spanking, hair pulling, loud moaning, dirty talking, big boobied good time you should really look into giving Bobbie a call, email, PM, text, carrier pigeon, smoke signal or Bat Sign...now...right now...go!!! On a relevant side note I get the distinct impression from this lady that if you are caring, kind, respectful and tidy the sky is the sexual limit as far as your, and her, enjoyment level goes. Again don't quote me on this but from MY experience and therefore my perspective her abilities and services offered far exceed her donation amount! But, as with all "dates" YMMV depending on one or any number of criteria being met...or not met.