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You know, I haven't really thought about it, nor do I expect it. For me, I'm not looking for discounts, I'm looking to see a lady again that I like. If she offered a discount to me as a preferred customer, the lady would just get a bigger tip/gift from me. I do realize that this is is the ladies' livelihood, I'm not looking for discounts. What I do enjoy with repeat encounters is that you get to know the lady and she gets to know you. And it takes the GFE even further...it seems more like two friends getting together more than just a simple client/lady business transaction. Hope that rambling makes sense, haven't had my morning pot of coffee yet LOL RG

This is the first I've heard of 'preferred customer status'. I seriously hope this is not something men are going to expect - because if you keep coming to see me, it's because we get along and you like what I do for you, which is awesome, and NOT because you think you deserve a discount or some off-the-clock extras. To be quite honest, if someone asked me if they were a 'preferred customer' and what they'd get, I would likely either decline the encounter, or charge them more. If I want to give someone something more, it's because I choose to - not because they have a special client 'status' - we're not giving you cards with stamps and saying the tenth visit is free or anything.

Be careful what you wish for Emma RG

Well I am truly a possible 'poster boy' for this Sugar Kayne and appreciate the ask but will likely have a different take. I am almost exclusively a 'regular' to a woman I've met and we've both enjoyed our time. Does this make me 'preferred'? Well I actually don't really like that term. I certainly would never try and negotiate some deal or extras. Our meetings can evolve - but that is what it is. I would hope not because I passed a certain threshold. I expect nothing extra from being preferred or regular. From seeing a lady multiple times you do get to build a pretty good connection which with human nature has pretty good benefits. Chances are we're seeing each again because we want to - and that's good enough for me. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Gabriella I would like to say thanks for being a positive influence on such a wonderful thread that has brought many of us much joy. It doesn't surprise me knowing how comfortable you are with who you are that you support this thread. It's truly nice to see that there are wonderful ladies such as yourself that do not see any harm in this thread but fully endorse it. In my humble oppinion this thread has been very tastefully done and in no way discredites any of the ladies here on cerb. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I certainly lke what I see.

Gentleman11, I thought for long and hard whether to post anything as I believe this is your personal decision. At the end I decided to post briefly. Mod is fair and neutral and there are certain rules he has to enforce. That is his job. For cerb to remain what it is, that is a civil respectful friendly society with large number of members and a variety of views and ideas to coexist, he has to remain fair and neutral and enforce those rules strickly. In doing so, sometimes he may become unpopular with some members but that is the price that he gladly pays. You will never find another board so civil and caring. I quit terb 1.5 years ago because the mods there were not in my view enforcing the rules. I found that board distasteful. I was hurt to read hurtful reviews against some ladies who were trying to make a living in these difficult times (remember I said hurtful reviews on terb and plenty not fair reviews or even negative reviews) and personal attacks and pimp-like lies and attacks by certain agencies and members on other members. I am sure that I speak for the majority to say that WE DO NOT WISH TO SEE CERB LIKE THAT. And we accept the rules and do our best to obey by them and if we break them we will be suspended or even banned as we have seen recently very popular members have been suspended. It is a fair board and rules applies equally to everyone. I have been suspended too and on one occasion I was exactly where you are now. I emailed mod asking him to remove my handle from cerb. In his fairness and integrity he did not do that. He suspended me for two weeks and told me if after two weeks I still wanted out he will grant my wish. In those two weeks my mind cooled off and I realize what I said above that he was right to suspend me and he is doing his job (and he is doing a great job in my view) to keep cerb the place that it is now. A very friendly family like, caring, respectful civil society. I hope you reconsider your decision. Ask mod for a couple of weeks to think about it instead of making a rush decision but the decision is entirely yours and if my comments in any way offends you, I apologize in advance. Best Regards and good luck in making a right decision,

While I totally sympathize with the OP, I must say that this post seems quite un-cerb-like. It's a "diss" and of an SP who's identified. The issue is one that may well merit discussion, but I have to say that one of the big things that sets this board apart from others is that it isn't a forum for negative reviews. There have been a few posts lately that seem to have gone under the radar. I could be wrong - and will happily admit so if it is the case. But I tend to feel that if a post makes me feel uncomfortable, there's usually a reason. Comments?

Exactly what I was going to say. Also, paranoid clients freak me out - so if someone feels like there's a reason they shouldn't pay me up front, it makes me think there is something wrong - so I may ask you to leave and save you the hassle of paying at all.

I just wanted to clarify that if it came to down to someone new inquiring and saying they'd have to think about it and call me back and a few minutes later a regular calls, of course of I'm going to see that person because I know they are reliable. Now, if you have booked an appt with me and you are new, then I would keep the appt since I see new clients all the time and this is how I build up a client base. I don't like the term "preferred" because it implies that we should be givng discounts and that is a whole other topic I prefer not to get into. When I saw the heading for this thread, I immediately thought of those coffee cards at the gas station.. buy 5 coffees and get the 6th one free. I'm sure once you see an SP over time, the way she will treat you will be much more personal than the day she first met you even if she was warm and pleasant initially. To me this signifies something much more in how she values you as a customer. Additional Comments: I agree. The new person could be a one time visit or even worse... a no show which is why it makes sense to see someone you are already familiar with. This is a good principle in customer service. In all businesses, repeat customers have always been valued. This doesn't necessarily mean they are better than a first time customer, it just proves they have shown their loyalty by returning. And that speaks volumes.

I don't know why more guys (with much to lose) don't have a 'hobby phone' to use for SP contact. For under $40, it should be a prerequisite if you have a SO.

I think this concept was dreamt up by guys looking for discounts, actually. Preferred customer status to me is accepting an appointment from a regular over someone new.

Yes, get a pay as you go hobby phone. If you continue using your regular cell or home phone, bad things will happen sooner or later. Play safe as they say.

Perhaps if this a Warning it should be put in the Warning section instead of the general Discussion session.

After a very stressful week a friend takes me out to dinner for support. On our return to the car we notice his suv door light is on. We both remember him locking up with his remote. He gets out to check his the back and all his stuff is gone..his laptop, work equipment etc. Everything had been well out of site. So how the heck did this happen when it was locked? Well he have learned that they sell these universal remotes which can pick up your alarm code. Damn they even tell you how to do it on You tube: the thing is not on;y can they break into your car but they can get into a gated home a well..just being at the right place at the right time so they can pick up your signal. So word of caution...when parking especially in a public area use your hand lock.. kisses, Emma

I think she is relatively new, and only on DL. Probably needs a little coaching to know what not to do, such as call back and perhaps get the wrong person.

The following pictures explains why I have such a strong preference for unshaven (natural )kitties lol: Natural is so beautiful and sexy too :-) A Natural Kitty :smile: a shaved one :sad: .

RG, instead of using the word "hobby", I use the word "lifestyle" ;) It is also much more discrete IF the lifestyle is discussed in a publlic setting. Hope it helps :)

01-05-2010 Best bums on the planet (or at least on cerb) Perhaps a new fun thread :icon_razz: for these kind of "best bums on the planet" should be started or posted in the "The Unhijackable Thread of Randomness" ?? I am most positive everyone would appreciate viewing a new bum thread filled with laughter :)

I titled this WOW! because thats all I was able to utter following my WOW filled visit with Miss Constance! Although I vaguely recall having a conversation before leaving, I cant for the life of me remember because all that was happening in my mind was WOW. On my way back to the car people must have looked at me funny as WOW kept leaving my mouth every few paces. Thankfully I did not walk into anyone, nor into potholes(or off ledges). Which is surprising really, considering I am a clutz at times, and generally a spazz. I just kept thinking how I want to turn around and go back up and spend more time. Truly incredible!! Anyway... Where do I start...I guess at the start... Setting up an appointment was easy, or as easy as it gets with me as a client. I generally introduce myself in what is probably an epic email or pm, which may or may not put the person to sleep as I ramble on for like 30 pages. Well she responded right away and wasnt all "I think you need to get on some meds". After a flurry of correspondences, and nerves somewhat allayed(I am a bit neurotic especially upon a meeting), date and time where set! (and hyperventilating began). So the day comes, and my mind is going about a billion miles per hour. Any of the ladies that have seen me can probably attest that at first it probably seems like i could pass out at any moment!... I get to her door. Wobbly legs. Thinking 'Oh my God...I hope I dont know her or her me in personal world'. Knock. Thinking 'its probably going to be like my wifes best friend or some other..."Door opens. Thinking 'WOW!' I just stood there and I think I did a semi hand wave as I said 'hi' and stood. She semi hand waved back and suggested I'd feel more comfortable inside, so grabbing my hand she led me in, closed the door pushed me up against the wall and gave me a deep and passionate kiss. I think this is where I said 'WOW' out loud for the first time. She smiled at me and gave me a look as if to say 'if you thought that was WOW, wait til you see what Im going to do to you' (Now I doubt thats what the look was saying - I may be taking a writing liberty here, cause for all I really know, the look could have been for 'oh boy he is a terrible kisser!') Taking my jacket she asked If I wanted a drink and told me to make myself comfortable. Some chit chat ensued, and slowly the nerves started relaxing, but I think I managed to actually speak. As Lonskater mentioned, she is very intelligent. She is funny, sweet and gorgeous. Her personality is very warm and welcoming. Very easy to talk to(that is, when you finally get over the 'OH MY GOD SHE IS HOT AND SHE IS RUBBING MY LEG AT THIS VERY MOMENT AND WILL BE RUBBING AND TOUCHING OTHER PARTS SOON' that runs through and clouds your mind). As the conversation winds up she starts kissing me and its even more passionate then at the door. Taking my clothes off she starts kissing me all over and then stops at the one area and my mind explodes! Watching her give me a BBBJ was 'WOW'! she makes eye contact and does things with her tongue that you cant even explain! Well I wanted in on some tongue action too and went down on her. 'WOW' She is extremely yummy, so very tasty and very responsive as her legs started tightening up around me and she pulled my head in more and more. Hearing her and feeling her twitch was driving me wild. I could have stayed there in her tasty wonderland for a long long time... and i did for a bit longer(yay) as she positioned into a 69. And again I have no clue how she makes her tongue do those things. After a little while she looks back at me and says 'I want to feel you in me' and reached over for a cover. She turned around to face me and lowered herself on me and grabbed my hands and rasied them over my head as she rode me and kissed me and thrust her nipples into my mouth... and she started getting into a rhythm faster slower faster slower and it was getting intense as we pushed into each other. Before we had met we had discussed a multitude of positions that we were going to try out, but the way she was riding me with the intensenity and the ecstasy I was feeling I wanted to be in this same postion and rhythm all day and night long. To be honest I dont know how I lasted this long and was still going, as our breaths were getting shorter and the rhythm got faster and i could feel her quivering as she thrust me deeper and deeper within her and then she leant down and kissed me and then arched herself back as she started her orgasm and with that I joined her in that moment as she kept pushing herself down on me and i kept pushing myself up. She then collapsed onto my chest, pushed her hair back, kissed me lightly on the lips, looked at me and I said 'WOW!'... she laughed and rolled over onto her side and snuggled up as we talked a bit more... or I should say she carried a conversation with a guy who can only really recall 'WOW!'... Im just keeping my fingers crossed that my side of the conversation didnt paint me as a total moron! All in all it was an abosolutley mind (and I suppose, body) blowing experience. So much fun. Constance is extremely hot, gorgeous, so very nice and I could go on, but lets just say she has it all! I wish I didnt have to leave but like Loneskater I too did not want to over stay my welcome, as she is not a clock watcher. So heading to the door she again pushed me against the wall and kissed me, hard and soft all at once as our tongues met for the last time before leaving. Giving me a smile that said 'Good luck paying attention at work' (again writers liberty here...as it could have said 'Thank God hes finally leaving') and I stumbled down the hallway saying 'Wow!' Constance - I thank you for such an amazingly delicious time! It is something I will never forget and I can not wait until the next time (which hopefully will be really soon!!!)! Constance is for those looking for a smokin hot, smart, fun and amazing GFE gal. Treat her well guys as she is a gem that will (echoing Lonskater here)hopefully be around for a long while :) peace, spacey PS. Repeat? Duh... will be, I imagine, many many times! PPS. YMMV PPPS. WOW!