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While I'm on sure this is possible with some ladies, it's comments like this that make the job very difficult for the majority of MA 'who, like myself, Will never offer these services. Men coming in to a massage place thinking they Will get this services will not only be disappointed but they will also put the MA in a very uncomfortable and unwanted position where they're having to turn down a clients request, and it's very hard for a session to end on a positive note when this happens. As suggested above, your best bet is to contact an SP who offers the finish you want, rather than waste your timeand the MA 's trying to get something she won't give you .

I would like to thank those who have, in the past and very recently, brought to my attention the existence of profiles on adult sites and advertisements in other cities that are using my pictures. I encourage anyone who notices one of the lovely cerb ladies' pictures being used in a suspicious manner to let her know. Further, I have learned that watermarking your photos is very important and am working on this as we speak. Help us maintain our individuality and our reputations! :smile:

... or you could say, "What the hell. I am here, let's do it!" You might just be pleasantly surprised about what your type really is!

I am surprised to hear that ladies pics. are being stolen and used illicitly on other sites. That fact other people would steal, and then use as their own, pics. that are of others in order to profit is shocking. Yes, sarcasm is implied in this statement. On a serious note I find the act of stealing pics. to be repulsive! This one simple act is reason enough to (A) stick to cerb and (B) make us all question the validity of ads on other sites. Of course it is not ALL ladies on other sites that do this but with most things it only takes one to cast a net of suspicion over the whole group. I also understand that standing naked or semi naked in front of a camera and then posting said photo to your profile for all to see is not easy. It takes a lot of confidence and guts to be able to do this and be proud...more confidence than this man has I might ad. I know I could not do what you ladies do to promote yourselves and your business. However, to those using photos that are not yours take 5 minutes to take a pic. that is yours. We (the guys) don't need/want a professional 100 page portfolio, all we really need is one or two honest representations of you as a lady/SP. This will ensure copyright is respected and everyone knows that the lady in the picture is the same lady answering the door. My two pennies anyway.

Ask attendant upfront what any cancellation fee is prior to booking....then from there you have 2 choices pay cancellation fee or do as OD suggests have the experience and see where it takes you....as I say try it once if you don't like it don't see her again but at least you know you tried....you will never be left wondering how the experience might of been :)

Thanks for the reminder Phaedrus! I tried to get someone to help me take it down, but Old Dog was still pretty hungover from the holidays And LeeRichards is still dressed in his New Years Eve finest And everyone else seemed a little partied out as well So I tried to take them down myself, and, well, don't ask me how, but this was the result

I've never put much stock into the whole "soul" and "Afterlife" business. Maybe I'm too much of a realist but I believe we're all just meat machines...our brain is controlled by electrical impulses, not by a spirit or some such thing. I honestly don't believe there's anything waiting after life. Is that a frightening notion? Maybe to some.....but to me it sounds like a peaceful notion. I try my best to be a good person and to treat others how I wish to be treated....not because I'm afraid of what might happen to me after I die if I don't. But because I do believe that I only have this one life to live......so I would like to be able to be proud of the person I see in the mirror. Then again I could be very, VERY wrong.......I don't think a single one of us can say for sure what's waiting for us after until we actually get there. And by that point it's too late to tell anyone else. But if there IS a "Heaven" or "Hell".....I don't think it's the harp playing angels on clouds or or the smouldering pits of fire and brimstone that everyone thinks......I wouldn't be surprised if everyone's Heaven and Hell differs depending on that particular person. Heaven to me would be reliving the happiest period of my life over and over again for eternity. But without the knowledge that I'm living a loop (because that knowledge in itself would turn even the happiest time into a Hell all it's own)....I would never be aware that I wasn't living this period of my life for the first time. Hell on the other hand would be the exact opposite. Living the absolute worst period of my life over and over again for eternity....with full knowledge that I'm living it over and over again.

I tend to agree that men and women can just be friends. One of my best friends in the world is a woman. She has been one of my best friends for 36 years. We've been drunk together, slept in the same bed...and have never once come on to one another as we both feel we have always meant to only be friends. We've stood by one another through thick and thin, she's always been there for me and I will always be there for her. I could not ask for a better friend. So yes, men and women can just be friends.

It's entirely possible for men and women to be "just friends". But you need to dump the "just"; by itself that word betrays a bias within the question. They're friends. The first step in maintaining a quality friendship between a man and a woman is to recognize that friendship by itself is highly valuable. Sometimes friendship *is* the ultimate and most rewarding relationship for two people; you can't think of it as some kind of lesser, consolation prize you settle for instead of sex. The vast majority of the most important, deepest, and enduring relationships in my life have been friendships, and several of those have been with women. And these were not, if you'll accept my word for it, cases of either party settling for friendship instead of a secretly pined-for sexual relationship. Friendships let you explore each other's minds, attitudes, hopes, fears, and enjoy each other's company foremost as two human beings who just happen to be of different genders. Lifelong friendships endure through all kinds of dramatic changes and transitions, and your friends can know you deeper than lovers through accumulated time and experience. It's a different way of engaging with another, whole person that doesn't depend on scheming to bump crotches together. The video might have produced different results if the people polled were older. As samples go, hyper-hormonal college kids who are just starting to figure themselves out and find their place among social hierarchies is a tad biased.

Well everyone.....I was a little surprised by this as I hadn`t really noticed my post count lately ! Thanks for the kind words ..... it really does mean alot as do all of you ! My posts aren`t exactly overly serious or mind challenging for sure :roll:..... but folks I luv being here so as long as you put up with my senseless bibble, ridiculous shenanigans, bad jokes, and Austin Powers like charm.....then I am going to hang around for a bit ;) As for my serious side....I do have one...really I do...lol True story....I was meeting with the board of directors 2 weeks before Xmas....annual budget meeting. I got just a TAD bit pissed off at some things said so I stood up and spoke and started with a quote from one of my favorite SNL actors .....may he rest in peace. I still have the same job fyi...but wow....interesting ;) Thx again everyone !

I'm proud to be one of the odd beans out. ;) I think a lot of people feel a disconnect with the world around them and that's not necessarily a bad thing, that's what makes you question the status quo, that's what inspires change and that's what keeps us moving. If you didn't feel a certain disconnect, if you always felt like everything was going great then you'd never want to question why things were done a certain way, why the law was the way it was or why the government was making the choices it was. Our laws would stay the way they are, our policies would be the same and everyone would be in agreement and that is never a good thing. Our best decisions come from debate, when we disagree we discuss, we go back and forth with different viewpoints and we challenge each other to defend them and hopefully (though not often enough) we make the best decision from all of that debate. So if you don't feel like you are connected to the world around you then voice your opinion, tell people why and chances are there are others around that feel the same way and want to affect change as well and that is how it happens. It doesn't matter if it's small or large, that disconnect is important and that in itself is a community.

I'm with you Steve, I do hope Island... was just curious and will be more careful in the future, we should all be able to get along and enjoy our hobby as Islanders and gentlemen.

Be very careful today and tomorrow as the roads and sidewalks get very slippery, if driving remember no rush getting anywhere is worth being involved in an accident and leave space in between cars. If you walk be careful too, watch your step and wear proper shoes/boots is very icy out there. Do your best to stay safe :) xx

I like Andy primarily because he lives in my hometown so he must be awesome!

One of the problems with judging talent, is that evaluating the physical talent isn't hard, that can be measured, evaluating the will to win, the heart and the mental toughness is another. And in the QB position, this is can be more important than pure talent. Many talented QBs have failed due to attitude/effort and other intangibles. Ryan Leaf one of the biggest, now we are hearing perhaps Mark Sanchez just doesn't work hard enough. Don't underestimate this intangible, clearly Tebow is not lacking in this area. Realistically, the talent is marginal, but we shall see. I read where Fran Tarkenton was viewed in somewhat the same light, and we certainly know how his career went. I don't think Denver can beat NE, but that won't stop me from rooting for them, and I like NE.

A massage with a different ending??? Hmmmm. I once got a massage by a butcher's wife. He came home early and chased me with a meat cleaver. That was a different ending than I anticipated. My grandma used to massage my tummy to make sure that I didn't have trapped gas. I would toot and the massage would end. That would be a different ending too.

I have nothing useful to contribute to The Great Tebow Debate... so here is something useless. If he were a beer, he'd be...

The only problem in booking with Cupid's is deciding which of their women you want to see first. :) This time it was relatively easy, as Amber looks outstanding in her pics, exactly what I like. And she is. She arrives five minutes early, sparing me that grueling last few minutes of "the wait". She's dressed elegantly, and presents herself as assured, poised and mature for her age, and incredibly attractive. You can see how fit she is in her form-hugging skirt. She has a warm and engaging smile, and good conversational skills. We can't talk long though, as I have to sample her. Off come her clothes, and she's an amazing hardbody with nicely defined abs and beautiful c-cup natural breasts. And the ass....it inspires worship. And worship I did. She's responsive and eager, and eager to please, and just keeps going. I was struck by the contrast between how firm her abs and her bum are, and how soft her breasts felt. I loved running my hands along her gorgeous body, and feeling the sensations. Kissing, tenderness, intimacy, laughter, pleasure. Amber, you are outstanding! I'm glad we met, and hope we meet again soon.

I like Sky because I learn things from her through her writing, and I even learn from her when she is not trying to convey things. As an example, here today I thought I would include a picture of the Great Library of Alexandra in order to represent her knowledge and intelligence. Lo and behold I learned that it is actually The Great Library of Alexandria. Thanks Sky. It's a dull day that one does not learn something new. :)Always enjoy seeing you on line and in the forums.

Hell on Earth, yes...Totally. Afterlife, nah

The real conspiracy theory is...is that all the so called non believers are in fact the true conspirators but by saying they don't believe in conspiracies covers up their involvement in them, and the focus of attention is away from themselves and more on believers, especially extreme conspiracy believers who are written off as kooks and makes others afraid to let their beliefs on conspiracies be truly known. Thats a mouthful, don't tell anyone where you heard it though LOL RG

all right.... Ronnie Lane was part of the Small Faces with Steve Marriott. Steve Marriott was in Humble Pie with a cast of characters including this guy...... Peter Frampton - Do You Feel Like We Do http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ut1q-SzURjo&feature=fvst

Am I the only person who doesn't believe in any of these things? :)

I've been reading and participating in another thread (Sex Basic Human Right,) and have also had discussions with some friends that have brought me to wonder: what would the ladies and gents here say is the importance or meaning of sex in their lives? It's one thing to say sex is good, and sex is a human right and that more sex is better than less sex, and it's another to explain why. What is sex to you? What does it mean? What does it do for you? What part of who you are is linked to who you are sexually in a way that it isn't to anything else or any other activity you do? (I may quote you (without attribution to protect the innocent) elsewhere in my blog because this is all part of the research for my master Machiavellian wonder opus. It's what us scribblers do, yo?) I'll start: I have varied and probably pretty dull intellectual interests, one of which is the way that people construct their notion of Self and their identity. Without getting into that, I keep coming back to the idea of sex as the most basic representation of true self; when we are having sex for the sake of sex, we are as close to knowing who we really are as we possibly can be. In sex, we are ourselves. In every other situation, we are more in control of the persona we want to project and our need to live according to the perceived expectations placed on us. I love sex because of the unspoken, unspeaking bond between myself and my partner. I enjoy the way certain touches, changes of position, light breaths and light licks are met with reactions that can be read and adjusted to. I can completely lose myself in the moment of absorption into someone else's sensation, where I can sense and feel a woman's reactions, mounting excitement, and the tension and anticipation building up to an intense release. I could spend happy hours repeating that whole cycle, because in those moments everything else about myself is stripped away, and what's left is the most basic essence of who I am as a person, if I can begin to understand it.

Being drunk is not an excuse. It's an escape.

My entire life, for as long as I can remember, DP was always Dr. Pepper. And then I hit high school and everyone thought I meant double penetration. I can assure you, I stopped saying things like, "man, I could go for some DP right now."

Amelia's new website is mind-blowingly amazing. You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll start checking prices on flights to Yellowknife. Two thumbs up! www.stateofamelia.com

The great majority of the clients I've seen have excellent boundaries; I admire this enormously. They know what they want, they're eager to enjoy themselves--and me!--as they pursue it and they keep a clear separation between the rest of their lives and the time they spend with me. Time with a paid companion is less stressful, less demanding and less expensive than having an affair. For a man who just wants some company and some relief that won't threaten his marriage or other relationship, engaging a companion is an excellent option. He can be loving without having to be in love; he can feel admired and desired without having to wonder about where the relationship is going. It's not going anywhere. He can feel as though he's got a very attentive girlfriend without all of the drama, joy and adjustment that having a real girlfriend entails. And if I'm not available when he wants to see me, I might suggest someone else. No girlfriend or mistress is going to do that! :icon_biggrin: The men who recognize and value these things are gems!

I've tried the gift thing with mixed results...some are appreciated and some are thrown to the wayside. I play it by ear. I think the best gift I should always bring no matter what is myself, all clean and in a good mood, teeth brushed, flossed, shaved, clean clothes, well rested, etc. End of story.