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I've had this happen to me once and I was very upset as well. The 'gentleman' chose not to tell me until I'd massaged him for about 30 minutes that he didn't want anything else. So I spent my time massaging him, teasing him, tempting him into the decision about what he wanted, only to be told "I don't want any of your tricks today". It felt like a slap in the face. AND, as explained above, I got nothing from that. If you only pay the door fee, the girl is massaging you for free. This is WAY more insulting that telling her at the door that you've changed your mind about the appointment. If you are looking only for a therapeutic massage, you should be going to the appropriate place for that.

Haha! Blindfolds rock, mrrnice but seriously, to answer Castle's question, I like no lights and tons of candles everywhere!

We have a number of song threads that have being going on for a long time and they are awesome. This thread may be shorter because of the restriction that I am asking people to follow. We are looking here for "THAT" special song. The one that evokes the memories. If you can share what it is that makes this "THAT" song, then please do. I know how important music is to people, and how it brings memories and emotions, so the difficult part of this thread is the request that you restrict yourself to a total of two selections. They may be together in your first post, or you can choose to post them separately. So, can you possibly narrow it down to two songs from your life that you could classify as "THOSE" songs? It could be a difficult decision. I am going to give it some thought. One I am certain of and the other will be far more difficult.

I never knew about the information at the end of the film? Be sure to watch to the end. Incredible four-minute footage of a desperate Spitfire vs. ME-109 dual. You feel like you are there! Amazing computer work blended in with real photography. Also an interesting factual story that many did not know. History is rarely 'over'. Now sit back and strap on your parachute harness ... it is the Summer of 1940 over the skies of England . Listen to the perfect 'purr' of the Rolls Royce Merlin ... Watch this full screen. It's very well done. Click on the link below: http://player.vimeo.com/video/31202906?autoplay=1

You see with the "door fee", if you are going to a massage place, the massage place gets all of that and nothing goes to the girl. So even if you go for a non-erotic massage, the girl is still putting in effort on a massage, and a small additional tip is still required. If you went to see an independent, then maybe just the door fee with no extras will suffice. But for the non-independent masseuse, you either go for something, or go for nothing. It would be better if you just paid the door fee and left, that way the girl has broken even.

After reading the reviews, I was almost doubtful that some one could be "that" good. My doubts ended the moment I walked through the door. Jessica is stunning. Jessica is warm. Jessica is welcoming. Jessica is almost too lovely. Too lovely, as in where do you start to describe the experience, really, it is overwhelming. She is playful. She surrounds you in her eroticism. She engulfs you with a passionate touch. I wanted to devour her and submit completely at the same time. The shower is spectacular. The NURU massage takes you to another world entirely. The cuddling makes you release completely. This is a GFE experience I recommend. Highly. Completely. (almost with regret because I want her all to my self - but that would be selfish.) Anything to watch for? Nope. Anything to improve? Nope Anything more to say? How much time you have? (Review 2 for 2012)

Personally, I love having sex with the lights on. Come to think of it, lights off is ok too, just as long as I'm gettin' pounded!

Candles everywhere! Than you can go wax play after a while:D *hope that someone join me on this...I don't want to be the only kinky person that say that* but yeah dim light is the best. Crude light=I feel awkward about my body No light= I am blind as a bat without my glasses and I am more likely to hit someone in the face.

The most attractive part about a women is the way they receive me when I approach them the first time, and the way that they express themselves through the course session. It is the look on their face, the sparkle in their eyes, the lips(lipstick), the eye liner, and the way their eyes sparkle when I look in them. I find myself constantly going back to looking in eyes for approval during the course of our encounters, and it is the attitude, receptiveness and communication that sets one woman apart from another for me. Regarding the physical attributes, I love women's bums, hips, the area between naval and above the knees. I love the way women walk with a sway in their hips. A swaying confident walk, with head held high, with a sparkle in the eyes, and a mischievousness smile is one of the most erotic thing a woman can do to me.

I am speaking from my experiences,that most men prefer all the lights on.I have visited a "few" hotel rooms,lol,and each time if there are 4,6,8,lights, they are all on,I always found this amusing.When working I prefer dim lights,it's more erotic,imo,sort of a veil of mystery.With all the lights on ,it feels to much like an examination.

I rarely use the chat room, but I visited tonight, and members were talking tonight about ways to make it more fun. We thought a chat room party might be a good idea, where people (and especially our beautiful sp members) could drop in and get acquainted. We're going to try this out this Thursday at 10 PM EST. Please join in the conversation if you can. Looking forward to meeting some new friends.

I wanted to join but unfourtainly I eneded up with a headach and could not bare to look at the screan all night:( Next time for sure!!

It is a weekend coming up and I am travelling today to Halifax to spend an extra long weekend with my kids. Lots on the agenda including skating on the Halifax oval, a nice dinner out, no doubt some Wii MarioCart and just relaxing and catching up in person.

What about just staying for the therapeutic massage without finish and paying only the door fee? You have booked her time for the massage appointment and should honor that... but there is no obligation to tip if you don't want any more from her. Is that appropriate? I realize she could make more with another tipping client and might resent having to give the massage, but you shouldn't be obliged to take unwanted "extras" either I did that once and the MA was very upset...

You are so right! Having been over seas many times in the last year (and obviously having to come home, back to Canada at some point), I know they are really unwelcoming to say the least (quite an understatement actually). Surely it doesn't make citizens of other Counties feel welcome or want to come back. I always dread this even though there is nothing for them to find. Many years ago (circa 1984), I did have a run in with them as they wanted to do a cavity search and I lawyer-ed up, missed my connecting flight but made them eat humble pie in the end. While I was young, daring and foolish back then, I doubt the eventual outcome would be the same today, post 9/11. In fact any hint of resistance probably gets you zapped with a tazer these days.

Hey, have I been doing it wrong all these years? During missionary I usually support my own weight with my hands on the bed beside the lady (push-up style). That's not to say we're not close or she can't feel my weight on her. I control and vary my weight and proximity. I never thought about putting my hands on her breast the whole time, but it sounds like fun. But seriously, is it common for men to allow their full weight to bear down on a woman during mish?

Sometimes people behave impulsively. That's understandable, but when it comes to relations between paid companions and clients, surprises may not be interpreted in the ways that they were intended. After a lovely long walk with my dog I came home in the late afternoon today to find a box containing 18 exquisite long-stem roses on my doorstep. There was was a generic Valentine from the florist; the note said, "Thinking of you," but there was no signature and I don't recognize the handwriting. The florist's seal was on the box, so I called them. They didn't deliver anything to my house today. Whoever bought the roses must have gone into the florist in person and then delivered them to my house himself. Since it's Valentine's Day, they've been swamped with customers and have no idea who might have purchased the roses. I've had a quiet day to myself: I didn't see anyone today. I never encourage people to drop by unexpectedly. But someone has presumed to come to my place, uninvited, and left this ostentatious, expensive, anonymous gift. While it may be that the fellow thought he was doing something thoughtful and kind, my experience of it is very different. I feel unnerved. My boundaries have been violated, and my privacy has been breached by someone who didn't have the courtesy to identify himself. I wouldn't have been happy if I'd answered the door this afternoon. I would have told him off in no uncertain terms and I would probably have refused to see him again. I'm assuming that this may have been someone who has only visited me once or twice. I'm sure that none of my longer-term, regular clients would do this, just as I never call any of them without having been explicitly asked to do so. Discretion and confidentiality are essential to everyone. However, unless the person who delivered the flowers confesses, I will probably never know where they came from. That is deeply unsettling to me. I had a difficult time with a stalker last year. The police were very helpful and I know they got the message across to him loud and clear when they visited his home. He consented to a no-contact order and knows that if he were to breach it he would be arrested. I don't think he sent the flowers: he has too much to lose to risk doing something like this. Gentlemen, please take time to think things through very carefully before doing anything surprising or unexpected. In particular, never arrive at a companion's place uninvited and never send anonymous gifts or messages. What might seem to be a romantic gesture to you can easily seem much more ominous to us, unfortunately.

Takate toke and futomono tsuri... easy to do. Now I want recreate that and the fact that I know the Japanese name of the ties show that I spend way too much time doing ropes.

Outside, that is! As we happen to be having a gorgeous week(for February), I would like to offer a $20 discount to entice you into spending a part of your gorgeous week inside with my curves wrapped all around you, you'll be warm either way, but it's much, much sexier with me! And warmer, lol This discount applies to all sessions of any length, until Saturday February 18th, 2012... Our erotic massage session will start with me meeting you at the door in sexy and elegant lingerie... Leading you into our candle-lit and relaxing chamber with an embrace, we'll undress each other for our first sexy shower... In the shower we'll take advantage of some face-to-face time, better acquainting ourselves with each other while we wash and explore each others bodies in a sensually arousing fashion! When we feel we've warmed and lathered up sufficiently (very, very, hard to judge), we'll make our way back into the chamber where I will help you relax, teasing your naked body everywhere, slowly massaging you into a state of ecstasy. Starting our massage with you lying on your stomach for a sexy and tempting full body seduction, eventually moving our bodies toward more face-time with a sexy, slippery, and naughty body-on-body-slide. When we can no longer resist the temptation we'll turn you over, continuing with our body-on-body friction while moving into the final, luxurious, finishing touches of our interlude... With your guidance, I'll draw your pleasure out, massaging you with my hands, breasts and other body parts in a variety of sexy ways you'll be eager to experience again, and again... Following our massage, if we have time, more relaxation-minded massage- focused now on ensuring your being able to stand in the shower- relaxing you into my touch completes the experience, leaving you feeling refreshed, relaxed and really pampered... Our time together will be sexy, sensual, and fun, leaving you unimaginably erotically charged. Memories of this sweetest massage will not soon be forgotten... Please see Bethany's website www.sweetestmassage.com and call 613-282-7805 or email*: [email protected] to book your session today! Bethany's CERB photo album collection, available at: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?u=17242 Sweetest Massage Ottawa Donations**: 40Min Lusty Liaison $140 1HR Erotic Experience $ 170 90Min Sensual Seduction $ 230 2HR Temptress Tryst $ 290 **$20 off of these prices until Saturday at 6pm! Come relax with Bethany, at her easily accessible Sandy Hill location, just EAST of the market! Upcoming Availability Thursday Feb 16th 2pm-10pm Friday Feb 17th 8am-10pm Saturday Feb 18th 11am-6pm Sunday Feb 19th 5pm-10pm Monday Feb 20th 9am-10pm Tuesday Feb 21st 8am-10pm Wednesday Feb 22nd 9am-10pm Thursday Feb 23rd 8am-10pm Friday Feb 24th 9am-8pm New Clients If you are mature (25+), respectful and looking to connect with a gorgeous, extra-curvaceous, sweet and sexy brunette, please call 613-282-7805 or email*: [email protected] *Please include your name, age,cell phone number and the date and time you are interested in meeting me. If you can't provide a phone number please offer a reference from an indy provider or MA/MP. Bethany Xoxox

I will say that it must be made clear to the government that search warrants must be provided. To have unscrupulous police prying into every day peoples lives is unacceptable. It could be likened to a form of voyerism by the law enforcement that do not have their morals intact. I am sure we have met a number of them in our personal lives and heard of many more through the media. They are not all above the law, nor do they all abide by the laws.

This sort of reminds me of GW Bush's rant after 9/11. Thumbs firmly hooked through the belt loops, Bush announced to the world "You're either with us or against us". A more temperate Laura Bush told him to tone it down. Toews is just towing the Harper "we know what is best for you" line. The government line is to brand all those in favour of personal liberty from government intrusion as a pedophile. oy. http://news.nationalpost.com/2012/02...+International From the vitriol shown in the various articles, the battle has taken a personal turn against Vic Toews. If Toew's past personal life becomes a larger liability to the government, Harper will just do a minor adjustment and rotate a minister or two and insert a different flunky. It is still Harper driving the Homeland Security bus. You bet! So, if this bill passes, who's going to police the Police if personal information is up for grabs? No - you should now all assume you are a potential pedophile if you believe in personal freedoms or privacy. What to do? Write/e-mail your local MPP and demand a response to the indignity proposed by this bill. Argue this bill infringes on the Canadian charter of rights and freedoms: * Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of the person and the right not to be deprived thereof except in accordance with the principles of fundamental justice. * Everyone has the right to be secure against unreasonable search or seizure Make clear in no uncertain terms you will publish the MPP's response in all forums available at your disposal. Make clear that you are willing to shine the clear light of disclosure on all of the private political linen. Assure them that you are only interested in the larger public interests and hunting down pedophiles that may be lurking in the House of Commons. Grrrrr! I therefore propose the following form letter you could address to your local MPP: Dear Mr/Mrs/Ms: I'm writing to you as a constituent to express concern about the proposed on-line surveillance bill. I believe this bill exceeds the following articles of the Canadian charter of rights and freedoms: "Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of the person and the right not to be deprived thereof except in accordance with the principles of fundamental justice." " Everyone has the right to be secure against unreasonable search or seizure." This bill seeks to deprive ordinary citizens of the right of security against unreasonable search. I believe this bill mainly serves to undermine the spirit of the 1st article, but more concretely, the 2nd article of the charter. The bill is therefore unconstitutional in essence. Furthermore, as a member of your constituency, I will vigorously stand against any unilateral movement by your government to impose such measures. I suggest Mr. Toews distance himself from using an inflammatory approach to winning public opinion: "With us or with the child pornographers..." I strongly object to any kind of characterization which compares conscientious objection to this bill to moral depravity. As your constituent, I ask you to stand to oppose this bill on my behalf. Kind regards, xxxxxx

One underlying code of conduct in this lifestyle is discretion. Don't draw unwanted or un-welcomed attention to a lady, and likewise, a lady is not to draw attention to her clients. Imagine if the shoe were on the other foot, and a lady dropped off a present at a client's home or place of work. Do you think a guy would welcome it, or would he post on all the boards possible about this extreme lack of discretion Whether it is a guy seeing a lady at her incall, or a lady seeing a guy at his place, be it hotel or home, encounters and contact are done at at a set time/date/place. If you see each other outside that time/date/place, you just act like total strangers. As for the flowers, not signing the card, well if it was truly innocent, wouldn't you sign your name...keeping it anonymous makes it not just in-discrete and a violation of Samantha's privacy, it leads me to believe something is wrong. A innocent gesture you wouldn't do anonymously. And frankly, unless both parties are aware of the gift giving and agree to it, the only correct time to give a gift is when you are having an encounter. Surprise gifts outside of an encounter are completely inappropriate. As for taking a deep breath, well I too have been stalked by an ex-g/f. And a stalker's behaviour appears innocent to the naked eye, but has sinister ulterior motives, nothing worse than someone obsessed with you. It isn't fun, and nothing to take lightly. Samantha has every right to be concerned, and she shouldn't minimize this I hope all it is is a misguided client, who needs to take the course How To See Escorts 101 along with How To Treat A Lady 101. Behaviour is creepy to me RG

I just read this moments before logging on to CERB. It is a bitter irony that the day after a social for sex workers and clients that expressed not only good will and mutual respect, but generated a mountain of toys for charity and donations to a needy family, sex workers are being warned that they are being targeted. Bitter and sickening. Directed at street workers or otherwise, please please be careful ladies. Until this kind of menace can be abated by a proper reevaluation of laws and legislation, it's up to the community to care for itself. Speaking as a client and, I hope, friend to some of you I hope you'll take whatever precautions are necessary to ensure your safety and the safety of your fellow workers. And if there is anything the clients can do themselves, let us know. Sent from my HTC EVO 3D X515a using Tapatalk