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Nope, not at all. I think we all have different desires or needs depending on our moods, how stressful our day has been, how playful we are feeling. I have had some pretty intense, "hot monkey sexin'" PSE style sessions with a lady and then on our next encounter have had a slow passionate time together. I think it is how you relate to the person you are with, and what your mutual desires are at that particular moment that influences how you behave together. I love sex to be adventurous and vigorous and push the boundaries, but I also like it to be tender, passionate and comfortable. It depends on what experience the two of you want to share on the day, that determines how things play out.

Well it sounds like the ladies have given Moncton more than a fair chance, but it sounds like the guys from Moncton who say they would like to see some of the touring ladies didn't do their part by keeping appointments. Why should a lady travel at her expense (yes, expense) to not make money A question to the Moncton guys...how many times are the ladies supposed to keep coming back to Moncton to give you guys a chance. If you really want to see one of the touring ladies, the door isn't closed to you. Moncton to Frederiction 89.97 miles, to St. John 94 miles and to Halifax 171 miles...all acceptable driving for this guy...I know, I do roughly that for almost every encounter I have A rambling RG

Well not much can be said to this thread that has not already been discussed in another one last year mostly in regards to Moncton http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=49878 To be honest, I hate more than anything to remove a city from my list of places I travel too, but it is hard to want to visit in a city where you get disrespected, haggled and treated like a piece of fast food. I travel, I pre-book and I DO NOT visit last minute (as do MANY other ladies) Why do we work this way? to ensure that we have bookings to cover the expenses as well to allow time for ourselves. This may be our means of a form of work right now, but we do have lives outside the hotel room. When I travel I do a heck of a lot more than sit in my room and wait for an email to come through. If I book spa time or a dinner date with a girl friend that time is spoken for as is any time reserved for a date. I like to plan my day - as do most people and when I plan personal time that time is taken. Three different ladies have posted on this thread already, and I can only guess that any other ladies that post here will be adding to the disappointment with their Moncton experiences. When I have had a not very postive trip to a city - I do go back a second and third time as timing and other factors can be a big deal in some cities. With that being said if it does not get any better I wont be coming back. When I am asked from other ladies that travel about cities I am very honest about the experiences and when they have been disastrous (like Moncton) I share as last thing I want to hear about is another lady getting no-showed and disrespected. What is a great client to one lady can be the chronic no-shower to another. It's not the case of a few bad apples in Moncton, it's more like almost the whole garden. We write ads, all the details are in them (and in some cases up to a month before we visit) so I dont get what the issue is with Moncton all I can say from a personal perspective is in Saint John and Fredericton there are no issues, people keep their encounters, follow instruction respect us making it enjoyable to visit those cities. I guess since the situation clearly is not getting better in Moncton, the option is to head to one of the other cities for an encounter, and if you make an appointment I sugget you keep it. This is one of those cases where the reality of the situation is worse than you realize and I don't blame ladies for not wanting to visit there.

In light of the most recent discussion here, I thought I would post this thread about participation and the value it holds as a hobbyist and us SP"S. When I get an inquiry, the first thing I do is got to your profile page. I look at your sign on date, then look at how many posts you have. " Why" you ask? If you have created your profile 2 yrs ago, and I see no post being made, and no one seems to know you, then I may not take your inquiry seriously, or will accept another hobbyist instead. This is because, some ppl will simply get kicks out of asking a ton of questions about my service, activities involved. Strange I know....but it happens alot! There are some who end up no-show or cancel because they get " cold feet" and are too shy.But perhaps if they were to post more often they would not be so shy. As this becomes a way to open up. when you get 2 in one day like this, and you have hotel fee's or plane flights to pay...just simply wont hold my breath or turn away a seasoned member. Also, just as you seek out the best SP for yourself, I also am looking for the best clients to be with. You are able to read my posts, read what other's have to say, pictures, at times some of my most intimate feeling are even posted here for all to read. This gives you insight into the kind of women I am. As an SP, and an elite one at that, I would like to read about you too! I would like to see how treat ppl, what your moto in life is, what makes you smile, cry and all that makes you ...you I see participation all over the board, but none here in NB. WE need hobbyist to contribute here! With no one posting, no one is getting reputation's built, and SP have no way of knowing if you are a sincere client, or someone who just think the site is for kicks and giggles and a way to see sexy pic's. When I do ask a hobbyist from here..." why have you been a members here for 3 years, but no post, no rec's?" They usually say..." well I dont really care about that stuff" I ask..." do you only use cerb?" usually the answer is yes....so now I ask and suggest..." Well does it not make since to contribute, to keep the board active and alive?" They usually shrug at the shoulders and dont answer. If SP's dont see action here why would they want to come here? So this is funny, I am posting about the lack of particpation....let's see if anyone wishes to participate? or will it be a dead post? lmao....

This song was basically the anthem of all young people when it came out in 1977 (I was 17). It will forever remain one of those songs where I can easily remember places and people I was with and what I was doing when I heard this come on the radio. Truly, a work of art - Paradise by the Dashboard Light by Meatloaf.

I am a long time member of this site as well as others and don't tend to post a lot on any of them. I don't believe you have to be online posting to gain a good reputation or respect within the hobbying community. I have some great relations with some wonderful SP's here on CERB as well as other cities, mainly Montreal. Some people don't like to post a lot and give too much info on themselves here or other sites and some don't have the time alone to post a lot. It takes a fair amount of private time just to view these sites let alone post on a regular basis. For those just starting out and are uneasy or unable to post a lot, just contact a lady on here you wish to see either through pm or email. In your message be polite, kind and an overall gentleman. Give some info on yourself, you don't have to give your life history but some info would help. Let the lady know what you are looking for in terms of when where and how long but don't be graphic or vulgar. And most important, show up for your date. Once you have seen one lady and had a good time, you now have a reference you can give to the next one you want to see and believe me the ladies talk and don't mind giving references of men to each other. Treat people the way you want to be treated and you will have no problems having fun in this hobby. Just my two cents.

The risk And it is very very real is "nerve damage" to the extent that it will no longer get hard on its own, oh you will feel like it should it will feel like it wants too but it just wont "grow". I had two very extensive surgery's down there and Know the result of nerve damage. I went 18 months trying to "get it back"; haveing sex with a softie, ( Oh yea it is possible,isn't it girls ;) ) until my Doc would prescribe the the cure that works ..... Injection therapy.... That has one large draw back: .... You have to stick a small needle in the side of your penis! (you do get used to it) The good side is: .... It works every time .... It last from 2 to 4 hours (you learn to adjust dosage to the situation ) .... You can have multiple O's with out getting soft in between >>> I know its difficult to do but please take all the good advise here ... if it is working don't even try to fix it .... If it isn't working see a well recomended Urologist and ask how he can fix it ;) Just my 2 cents worth Loki318

"I have another date in mind" with the lovelies on this board. Has anyone got their schedule for Dec. 22 handy? I'm available. :)

I do not offer the mechanical style of service. I tend to agree with mod on their description of GFE. I firmly believe that kissing, looking into each other's eyes, truly concerning for their comfort and enjoyment. I don't think has to have a list of abbreviations, or should be narrowed down to that only, but the feeling that is shared between hobbyist and SP. Besides how would we abbreviate to convey passion? It is the style and approach to a date....to be like a date! Not a transaction.

I'll Start.. One thing I never thought I would EVER hear myself saying.. "As long as you live under My roof, you'll live by MY rules." Damn teenagers. I think I see a grey hair coming on. Sigh...

There are songs that in and of themselves don't have any special meaning, but they take me back to when I was a kid, when dad posted overseas, no tv, just records. And you know, it wasn't a hardship, it was a happy time. One from Johnny Cash (my personal favourite of his, although most everything he did pretty darn good) Have a few CD's of his And Frank Sinatra was played quite a bit, here's one of his songs, reminds me of growing up as a kid http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hlSbSKNk9f0 Loved Meatloaf's Paradise By The Dashboard Lights, I was listening to it in Kingston while Angela, who I had yet to meet, was listening to it some two hours away in Ottawa. Still have the CD There was a couple years listened to Bruce Springsteen...here's one of his songs I liked, especially when played on my stereo I'm not going to keep going, there are some songs that I like just because they capture a period in time for me, but there isn't just one song RG

It works!!!! Thanks!!!! (pic was from Mardis Gras)

I do pretty much the same things Sophia when I am looking at new members that are SP's. I have taken one for the team a few times and for the most part have been incredibly happy. When a new SP here shows up I notice a lot of their recommendations are from new people with very little posts. I am always a little weary to visit someone until I see recommendations from people who have participated on this site a little more.

I ...errrr...wtf?

Wow.....Crisry....I never thought I would say those things myself.......hehehehehe....but I have.... Posted via Mobile Device

My song that I feel was made for me is "Dead or Alive" by Bon Jovi. Twenty years ago or so I was mad at the world and decided to change things that had gotten routine and boring to me. I bought my first motorcycle (Harley Davidson) and became a rebel, no fear and no real goal in life just live and let live. Even though I was rebellious I still respected the society, never did drugs, did not care about my relationship and work. I had girlfriends loving me and some hated me, lost jobs and got new ones right away some for long some not so long. My second choice of song is "Lips of an angel" by Hinder. Actually this song played on the radio on my way home after I have met a special girl here from CERB. I still keep in touch with her but not as much as I would like to.

I never thought I would say,fuck me,want me to suck your cock....I used to be so shy and withdrawn,now what comes out of my mouth shocks even me!Also, I never thought I would become an sp,surprise,surprise.Sorry mom,but what is better than getting paid to be naughty and have fun?

under that same point of view most girlfriends give their partners bbbj's and sex without protection,so ?I don't think gfe means any particular"act" but a more intimate encounter,as was said, when the sp makes the gentleman feel like he is wanted not just paying,jmo.

I have no preference or fear of either. To me, it comes down to the person I am seeing. I do fear how much I could spend being endlessly indulged and pampered. I must have been a cat in a previous life.

I like Touch because has danced to Sam Moon and Minglewood . Two of my favourites!!

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My choice is not a classic nor is it from a music group I really like but this particular song has a very personal meaning to me. Far away by Nickleback Unlike the video and under different circumstances, my story ending was much different... Even though it has been years, sometimes it feels like it was only yesterday.

I like WIT because of his many contributions for purposes of keeping us updated on issues in the news, and for his general respect for all. And, he also remembers Sam Moon and Matt Minglewood as a band. Yes, those were good days WIT. :) And he likes Samantha, so we share a common friend.

You may seem disproportionately small to yourself or when you've compared yourself to other men, but I have to say I would find a four-inch long penis to be great. Whether you realize it or not, you're probably well-endowed in terms of girth, and that's a lovely thing, as far as I'm concerned, especially when I don't have to worry about being choked in the worst ways or having the man thrust too deep or off-angle. Other men have told me the same things that Loki has said about nerve damage in addition to reduced or lost sensation and an inability to know whether you're erect or not. And, while injections and even penis implants are available and very effective for many men, I can't imagine why anyone would want to run the risk of needing them if they don't have to. In my experience, sex and sensuality change in a wide variety of ways as we age. Our bodies change. Men who could have a dozen erections and orgasms a night when they were 18 might be able to have two of them when they're in their 40s. Many women, including me, will happily say that middle-aged men make much better lovers in part because of this change. They learn to slow down, to take their time, to enjoy more aspects and nuances of the connection they have with partners. Health problems such as Type 2 diabetes, hypertension and heart disease can also interfere with male sexual response, making erections difficult to achieve and sometimes making orgasms seem impossible. But, whether you consider yourself to be under-endowed or whether you have acquired a problem, my opinion is that the best and most rewarding thing is for you to learn about the myriad ways that you experience pleasure. Exactly where do you most enjoy being touched? How do you want to be caressed? What kinds of things do you find most fulfilling when you have intimate contact with someone? Maybe it's a lot of cuddling and caressing. Maybe you want more kissing. Maybe you like to be surprised and would enjoy being blindfolded so that sensations are heightened because you don't know what your partner is doing until it's happening. Maybe you'd really, really like to watch your partner pleasure herself and/or show you what she likes. Maybe you've never had enough opportunity to explore your partner's body in detail and would feel like your own pleasure is more enhanced if you understood hers better. My point is that you may be surprised at how fulfilling it is not to focus on your penis too much when you have other things to experience and explore.

Re Moncton: as a hobbiest i feel sorry for all you fine ladies that do make the effort to travel there & have no-shows etc...it upsets me & a few of my friends that see ladies in Moncton also....we try to see the ones that come our way..yes i have had to cancel a appt. But i always gave lots of notice prior...it only takes 2 mins or less...i'm following the cerb rules & would like to vent more but i better not.. Moncton & Saint John is closer for me..Freddy is possible but my travel time is hard to explain..lol Thank You Ladies

Fredericton & Saint John are GREAT to visit and very scenic cities as well, the men will treat you wonderfully.

I was born a Cape Bretoner and had an aunt who lived Marion Bridge that we visited with when I was really little. I have camped on the banks of the Mira with my family in later years and the majority of my life has been living in the Maritimes. This song is one that I always go back to as perhaps my feel good song that gives a sense of peace and relaxation and brings me to thoughts of times when there was nothing to worry about and only the joy of being young and having no responsibilities. There are a variety of versions of the song. Written in 1973 by Allister MacGillivray, it has been recorded by amongst others, Anne Murray, John McDermott, and John Allan Cameron,Cape Breton's musical poet. This version by Matt Minglewood is perhaps my favourite. I recall going to dances in the early 70's where the Sam Moon and Matt Minglewood Band were featured, and I suppose that memory also brings me to this version. Even without the memories and recollections that it brings, I have always found this to be a uniquely beautiful and haunting song that presents a version of life in Cape Breton that is idyllic. Out on the Mira by Matt Minglewood. My # 1 choice will be posted before too long.

I was caught in a sting once but was lucky to get off Have to be careful and go with your gut Try and see those you know and trust, or are recommended This forum helps a lot I remember that day vividly 8 years ago. Trust me you dont want to experience it.

The real discussion going on here is, "What did he say?" and "What did he mean by what he said?" Only the OP knows for sure... and he's not here. I'm not questioning the authenticity of the OP, but I do take exception to his dropping a "bomb" and then leaving the room. The reason so much is being read into his message is because he's not here to clarify his hurried message or resolve our misreading of it. When you're in such a rush to get out of town, keep your controversial thoughts to yourself, say a pleasant goodbye to everyone (if you must say something), and quietly move on.

Bob Dylan - Like A Rolling Stone "How does it feeeeeel?" The snare drum that kicks off this song is like a bullet. It leaves you wounded, yet teeming with adrenaline. This is an epic masterpiece that forever changed music. For me, this song is both nostalgic and immediate. The palpable outrage in Bob's seething delivery inspires me and the muscianship is raw, powerful and perfectly imperfect. This version in particular is a favourite. Recorded in his 1966 British Tour (usually mislabelled as the Royal Albert Hall show), this is from his fabled "Judas" moment. And really kicks into a high gear with the edict to "Play fucking loud!" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRk0nCP-rgw (Song starts about 1:00 in)

I don't think it's fair to assume you know the reasoning behind the decision to get implants, and that implants are only gotten because ladies are insecure. Some ladies get them for purely work reasons, and have them removed when they exit the industry. Some prefer the look of implants. Some get reconstructive surgery for whatever reason. It's not always insecurity that drives our decisions ;)

I love Maru so much!

i'm a long time "lurker" but have never posted. i have to admit that i've been selfishly taking everyone's advice but not contributing at all to the forums. anyways, i had an opportunity to see this girl tonight (if it's the same girl I assume...on BP ottawa). not my first time taking part in this "hobby", but first time reviewing so i'm sorry if my descriptions aren't accurate. 'juicy' is as described in terms of her figure. pictures are accurate. she is an attractive young girl who probably is her advertised age. if you're in to petite girls, she is a tiny blonde, all natural figure, with a cozy....fit. i'm not the biggest guy (i'm asian....enough said) and I found her to be snugger than a glove. no daty, although ymmv. overall, i wanted to let you guys know that even though BP isn't the most reliable source, this is a girl that would be worth it if you're willing to drive out there. her rates were reasonable, and like I said, if you're into tiny blondes, this one fits the bill without a doubt. I know it's a superficial description, but it may be what some guys are looking for

Theres a stigma? Really? As opposed to what other fetish? :insert Berlins sarcastic look: lol It's pretty simple Gents, if a Lady offers it, there's no need to be shy. You're both on the same page.