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I have been complemented on my appearance, or cloths, and just general personality. Just the other day, I was stopped by a gentlemen as i was walking downtown Fredericton. He wanted to compliment me on my walk! This was a new one! I blushed profusely then Thanked him. I began to walk away, and was in deep thoughts about how unique that was. His words rang in my ear...." you have the most amazing gate I have ever seen! You gild as if you are on air! Like a fashion model or dancer." Then of course my attention was on my gate, then started to look around at other ladies walking by. I noticed how sexy a walk can be! Or unfortunately, how unappealing some are when walking. Is it the hips? The shoulders, the length of the stride? I suppose all of the above. Is this something that men notice? Does it cause you to become attracted? This was one of those moments that will have me paying more attention to the way I present myself when out and about. I thought it was interesting take on how beauty can be portrayed!

Don't ever feel slighted if she doesn't. Most of us wouldn't because of the reciprocal unwritten rule of discretion :)

Yes I know there is already many treads on this subject...but I felt the need to create a new one...especially about discretion online. 1) Gentlemen, if you have some online accounts on different social networks (facebook, fetlife, okcupid etc.) and you find a lady on the website. Please respect her privacy and don't send a "wink" smiley. It's creepy. Especially if we don't know who the hell you are. We have private life, families. Yes we may be on dating websites, but our private emotional/sexual life doesn't concern you, unless we share it with you 2) This is about handles.I have came across different profiles on different website...where the person keep the same nickname...I am sorry but if your name is turnipgodofthezooloo...the chance that someone else have the same nickname are really low. If someone Google it, they will found your different accounts on different websites. Try to keep hobbiest lifestyle and private life separate also. and I am out

Since starting in this hobby, this is something I've wondered about. If I was just at the grocery store or whatever and saw an SP that I recognized from this website but had never been with, I definitely wouldn't do anything. It would just be one of those "small world" moments. I figured if I ran into an SP I had been with, I would let her initiate any greeting or smalltalk or whatever because, as you ladies have said, you don't share this side of your life with everybody and I wouldn't want to potentially embarass an SP in front of her friends and family by putting her in a position where she would have to explain how she knows me and why I'm calling her by her professional name.

It is an unfortunate truth that the only actions you can control are your own. The only real way to ensure 100% anonymity is to have zero visual presence online which is quite hard to accomplish when you are in our line of work. I do not show my face or any particularly identifiable pose when posting pics. I have yet to be hunted down on facebook lol :)

A reminder that unfortunately needs to be repeated again and again! I myself started a thread on this last year after someone I'd never even seen before messaged me on facebook saying 'Add me but please be discrete, my life and family are on here'. There is nothing more infuriating that the idea some hobbiests (and by no means all, if it was all I wouldn't be in this business) have that because we're on here, we don't have the right to an outside life. I've been approached in restaurants, concerts, and on facebook, by people I don't know. And as Malika says, it's CREEPY and so inappropriate! On here, I'm selling my sexual side. So I like people telling me they like my appearance, and saying sexy things to me. Because that means I'm doing something right. But for someone to message me on facebook and tell me what they'd like to do to me sexually, or to come up to me in public and grab my ass, makes me feel about THIS <-> big. It makes me want to cry, scream, and most of all makes me want to punch the person doing it. When we're on here, mutually enjoying this hobby and the services the girls provide, let's enjoy. But outside of here, you don't know us. And we don't know you. End of story. Please keep that in mind before 'poking' the escort who's photo you recognize on facebook.

Thanks for the input everyone. Just got my truck back from the shop, told it has a fair bit of life in it...that's the good news To buy another truck...and for the boat I have I need a full size V8 pick up or SUV, well I can't buy cash outright, even newer used...been pricing. Could put a fair downpayment, but not pay cash for the whole thing An older truck, yes, but I'm trading one older truck for another...doesn't make sense But I can buy a newer used car cash outright, maybe even one with some warranty on it. And I drive about 50km/day to work, major savings for me in gas with a car Think once our contract is settled, I'll be buying a car, something 4 cylinder Thanks again RG

For me, what makes a person sexy? A lady who has a sense of humour and a pleasant smile, that's sexy A lady who is intelligent (no, I don't mean a Ph.D in rocket science LOL) and confident...someone who you can have an intelligent conversation with, she is sexy A lady who is physically drop dead gorgeous, knows it, acts it, believe it or not, is not to me sexy. But a woman, and I've had the pleasure of meeting a few who are drop dead gorgeous, but don't act it, they are sexy. By the same token, a lady who physically may not meet "society's" definition of physically beautiful, but has the other traits I personally find attractive, that is to me a sexy lady And sexiness, for me transcends age. I've met women in this lifestyle who were in their twenties to fifties who were all sexy. The four bad encounters, well three would be classified as gorgeous and sexy in looks, but upon closer examination, all they had was looks, not much else. A rambling while fighting the flu RG

Love mirrors!!! One of my favourite mirror memories is checking into a B&B and finding a full length 3-way mirror... and a piano stool at the dressing table. Well put those together with a horny couple on holidays... It was beautiful and intoxicating. We got to see ourselves from soooo many angles simultaneously. It's amazing what you can do on and over a little piano stool while seeing your partner and yourself from the front, back and side. The three mirror was great, but the piano stool took it over the top since it was so easy to change views with a little spin. We never left the room until we checked out and we only used the bed for sleeping!!!

LOL...catch your attention? In spirit of participation, I thought this might be a fun and light subject to get to know each other a bit more. So truthfully, how many of us like to catch a glimpse of yourself in a mirror doing the deed? Or are you looking at your date? or do you just say your looking at your date, when in fact looking at yourself? lol... I will admit first......Yes I do like to watch my partner and I in a mirror, or even shadows on the wall, hehehehe. Happened last night in fact, our 2 bodies just looked so amazing together, I had to stop and look. I pointed it out to my date, he totally agreed it was hot! Do you have a mirror strategically placed for this viewing pleasure?

For the first time in ages I found my stomach sexy. It's starting to get toned, it's not bloaty...now 5 more pounds and I am at my goal weight! *posting the random pic...yay or nay?*

Sophia, I started a similar thread awhile ago. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=41310 I love the way women move and have found the sexyness doesn't come from physical attributes but much more from a level of self assurance. A confident woman is the sexiest ever! Cub

You are right Sophia, the way a woman presents herself does influence us man(me anyway). The way a woman walks tells us that you have confidence.

You can call my ex-wife...trust me she'll do all that to you!!!!

People that are like me, awkwardly sexy. When they don't try to be sexy...when they bump me with their elbow in the face, when women have pussy farts...and how they blushes after... but tattoos are sexy:D and lululemons:D

I relate most to Winnie the Pooh. A nice easygoing guy who likes to eat and nap but always gets the job done.

Saw that MontrealCeleste was bringing Becky & Diamond into town for the week and flipped her a PM via CERB to set up an appointment... ate my Wheaties, took my Geritol and requested my first duo ! Appt was quickly arranged at a DT Hotel. I liked the choice of hotel as it is close enough to "2 hour" roadside parking near Gloucester & Elgin, and especially because i could enter the hotel and access the elevators to the rooms without passing the Reception or concierge. Nice... The rooms were typical clean upscale hotel fare. When the girls opened the door, my heart skipped a beat - both the gals were very attractive, and were wearing sexy lingerie. Both early twenties, slim, smooth skinned, with beautiful small breasts. Diamond looks Spanish with long brown hair, brown eyes, perky-almost puffie nipples and a captivatingly cute smile that made me think of pom-poms, bobbie socks and pigtails. Becky is also slim, but with dazzling blue eyes and long blonde hair and a pepsodent smile that lights up the room. both would make you take a second look if you spotted them walking down the street ! Once we got down to the business of pleasure, the girls were very attentive to what i liked. They ensured a fresh glove was used for each new 'samba' and after an hour, my endurance gave way... I don't want to give too many graphic details but will simply say that i was very happy with all that we did... very very happy... I can mention that Becky found some really fun things to do (to me) while i enjoyed Diamond Mish style !!! I believe MontrealCeleste is trying to establish clientele here in Ottawa, so you might like to pay them a visit to see if you have a much fun as i did. i'm going for a nap now.....

Breakfast in bed with flowers on my tray AND... my car cleaned off and ready to go. I am in a very good mood!

That's an excellent question and I think the answer has to be YES! When someone is going though a difficult time (for whatever reason) they might rely on their friends or perhaps they go see a psychologist for advice. The SPs I've met are complete professionals and probably understand more about the real world than many psychologists do. They are non judgmental, comforting and wonderful companions. After a relationship ends they can help someone restore their sexual confidence also. I guess what I am trying to say is it is probably as good or better therapy than any other kind of professional can provide, at perhaps a similar price and a lot more fun. I consider them to be professional friends but there is much more of a dynamic going on here that is difficult to describe, perhaps someone else feels the same and is better at articulating their thoughts. I find the ones I've met to be really neat, cool, wonderful people in every way. Spending some time with such a wonderful person when you are down for whatever reason has to be helpful.

Forced Bi and Cuckolding are two of my favourites! And I've got a pretty hot bi friend too. :)

I really like the part about paying cash outright. I did this the last time I purchased a vehicle and oh what a great feeling, no payments and you do save in the long run not paying interest. Of course you still have to keep the truck licensed, insured and road worthy (repairs, etc.) so if you buy a car to save gas will you really save as much gas as all of that will cost? Not knowing how many miles it is from and to work as well as all the other details, I can't do the math for you... but you should be able to do the math on this one easily and figure out what is more cost effective. I guess it comes down to if you need to buy a whole car to save gas and still repair the old truck, maybe you just need a new truck (so the expenses from the old one go away). Insurance, repairs on the old truck plus buying a car and insurance on that also ... anyways, I'm not sure the savings in gas (with a car) will make up for it. The math will give you your answer. Of course don't buy a NEW truck (unless you are really rich), just a really good used one with lots of warranty left. One that someone has already lost 5 or 6 thousand dollars on the second they drove it off the lot new. Hope that helps.

Not sure how big the boat is but if I was in the same boat as you I would consider getting a jeep.

I think you answered your own question rg,in your last paragraph.Jmo,I probably shouldn't even respond as I am rather uppity when it comes to cars,I will only drive new and luxury,which realistically is stupid,as a vehicle should be about getting you from point a to point b ,be reliable and gas efficient.

Well as I see it you are now doing very very important personal research and getting laid instead of laid off ;)

One day I will be the star of an enticingly underground, wholly bohemian, and deeply moving porn production that explores not only the delicious curves of my body but the deep existential questions humankind has been asking for centuries. But sadly at this moment I am unable to help you with your query.

Here is mine :)

I am a hobbyist and a secret at this point ..... My parents are very very old fashioned in their beliefs ... and both have had 2 heart attacks each in the last two years so it will remain my dirty little secret .... for now ! Otherwise this experience has been awesome and man have I met some amazing people ! I wouldn't care who knew and quite frankly should be legal in every sense IMO ! and I use secret deodorant in the summer months .... it rocks .....strong enough for a man baby ;) and I eat Chunky soup with a fork not a spoon if that counts......

Here's some really funny commercials and videos. The last one always brings me to tears of laughter.

I loved this one the first time I saw it!

Sometimes people behave impulsively. That's understandable, but when it comes to relations between paid companions and clients, surprises may not be interpreted in the ways that they were intended. After a lovely long walk with my dog I came home in the late afternoon today to find a box containing 18 exquisite long-stem roses on my doorstep. There was was a generic Valentine from the florist; the note said, "Thinking of you," but there was no signature and I don't recognize the handwriting. The florist's seal was on the box, so I called them. They didn't deliver anything to my house today. Whoever bought the roses must have gone into the florist in person and then delivered them to my house himself. Since it's Valentine's Day, they've been swamped with customers and have no idea who might have purchased the roses. I've had a quiet day to myself: I didn't see anyone today. I never encourage people to drop by unexpectedly. But someone has presumed to come to my place, uninvited, and left this ostentatious, expensive, anonymous gift. While it may be that the fellow thought he was doing something thoughtful and kind, my experience of it is very different. I feel unnerved. My boundaries have been violated, and my privacy has been breached by someone who didn't have the courtesy to identify himself. I wouldn't have been happy if I'd answered the door this afternoon. I would have told him off in no uncertain terms and I would probably have refused to see him again. I'm assuming that this may have been someone who has only visited me once or twice. I'm sure that none of my longer-term, regular clients would do this, just as I never call any of them without having been explicitly asked to do so. Discretion and confidentiality are essential to everyone. However, unless the person who delivered the flowers confesses, I will probably never know where they came from. That is deeply unsettling to me. I had a difficult time with a stalker last year. The police were very helpful and I know they got the message across to him loud and clear when they visited his home. He consented to a no-contact order and knows that if he were to breach it he would be arrested. I don't think he sent the flowers: he has too much to lose to risk doing something like this. Gentlemen, please take time to think things through very carefully before doing anything surprising or unexpected. In particular, never arrive at a companion's place uninvited and never send anonymous gifts or messages. What might seem to be a romantic gesture to you can easily seem much more ominous to us, unfortunately.