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Wow, talk about the word spreading like wild fire. I know this your Halifax party and I have no hand in organizing it or having anything really to say about it, except that this needs to be addressed sooner than later. I have already have a few ladies who have pm'd me concerned about some of the guys who are under the impression that a social means they can expect things like "lap dances" and the girls performing in other ways, etc. You need to be very clear that at least as far as the Ottawa socials were concerned, it was just that "a social" - a place to meet and greet without any hanky panky, groping or inappropriate gestures or language being toelrated. So for those of you who think your $20 is the key to the Champagne room, you might want to rethink your expectations. Private parties where ladies offer services is another type of party format that is generally not organized at a public location. I will look to the organizers Penelope and Taloon to back me on this point, that this is a public social where folks are expected to behave accordingly? Carry on...

Hello everyone... This thread was recently brought to my attention, so I thought I might contribute... just to put any potential fears at ease. I'm the SP who works for FRANK... and though I probably won't attend the social... whether or not I do, I would never "out" anyone who works in the sex industry or who patronizes us SPs. I have been working in Halifax as a ProDomme and all-around Fetish Femme for approximately 5 years, and I would never risk my reputation for honesty and discretion by exploiting my position as an SP to further my career as a writer/reporter. Au contraire... I have no intention to cover this event, and I would never even mention anyone anonymously as a "source" without their express permission, let alone use their name in an article (for FRANK or any other publication). So... please do not worry about me, or base your decision to attend or not attend this social, on the fact that I write for a local publication. Although I am public about what I do, and who I am, I also strive offer the most discretion I can for my clients, potential clients, and SP peers. All the best, and as always... happy kink! Cheers, Miss Jaded

I was thinking the other day about how long I've been on cerb, about 3.5 years, and how much I've changed. Then I looked back at my very first posts and reminisced about where I was in life in 2008. My first two posts are pretty dorky. I remember being shy and hesitant about posting because I'd been on the other boards and never felt they were healthy, welcoming sites. And then cerb came along... So different and I felt at home right away. Here are my first two posts: #1 New to Halifax Hello everyone, I'm new to Halifax and I want to meet new people! I was working in Edmonton and decided to relocate. Everyone's made me feel so welcoming so far, I know I'll find the same here... Feel free to pm me or write here! xoxo Amelia #2 I'm trying to post photos but have no idea how! Can someone enlighten me? Duuuhhhhh :) What was your first post and how have you changed? xo AM

many years ago, I was working for agency. They sent to a house. I arrive knock on the door, and who answers? The friend of my father's lady friend, more or less almost family! I step in, his jaw to the floor, stuttered and was obviously shocked. I immediately took control of the situation, and assured him everything will be fine. I said" no worries, I wont say anything to anyone, either will you. I will tell agency to send you another lady" I then left. I was surprised that I was able to have my head straight enough to take control, as I was shaky after I left. I always say, if they stumble on my ads, well I will point out that I have a right to be there as they have a right to search. This should not go one way. In most cases they wont say a thing, as they would end up "outing" themselves! It is about privacy and respect.

I think you should only post what you're comfortable with. Your picture is very nice. If you wouldn't feel compromised by posting pictures that show more of you then I'm sure everyone would be more than happy to see them. ;) But if you feel like it spoils the mystery then don't do it. I don't post nude photos because I want to leave something for only my clients to see (although my pictures still show quite a bit). It's really just a personal choice. I love looking at pictures of beautiful women whether they're nude, fully clothed or somewhere in between.

He's not a Newfie but still an east coaster and a Canadian treasure... Stompin' Tom Connors - The Hockey Song I also thought it was appropriate it being the play-offs and all.

On an added note, I am proud to say that it's the perfect mixture of my innocent sounding voice and my dirty mouth that makes it such a great combination. ;)

What a sad story! I'm sorry for your loss, Carrie. Since you have so much respect for him, I'm sure he was a terrific guy. As for tasers... I'm not a supporter. They look like one more example of what happens when some people are given a hammer and start believing that there are so many nails around them.

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Very well handled - this is one of the many reasons for discretion in smaller areas. Visiting SP's reduce the risks of this type of encounter but not entirely! Wish I could have seen his face tho - priceless...

Everything is always YMMV. People won't stop repeating it. But eh unless your spunk taste really bad, I normally have no problems swallowing...giving that the person isn't face fucking me and do surprise solo bukkake in my mouth, I'm fine with it...I just like to know that the person is about to cum:) and as for STI...I don't think that there is a big difference bewteen CIM and CIMSW...thought I don't have actual fact. I just know that I get tested each 3 months and never had anything due to it. But again I am maybe not as prudish as some

Well the OP did say family and I have to assume it was hypothetical but it is an interesting topic as just how we do react when we run into someone we know makes us a gentleman or otherwise. Once I was propositioned on the street by a girl I dated in high school :) She didn't realize it was me until I faced her head on to thank her for her offer and very politely decline it, wishing her a great evening as I always try to do. We ended up going for a coffee and having a wonderful conversation (the evening was still young). Another time I did run into an SP I had seen professionally and I was with my wife, we passed as ships in the night with only a slight smile to each other of acknowledgement that no one could notice or be sure of which is the way it should go down. On another occasion a lady tripped (why they wear high heals... anyways) on the front steps of an Ottawa hotel and the entire contents of her purse was dumped down the steps, condoms, pager (in those days) and even her business cards. I was the only one that stopped to help her collect it all before the wind got it and she was so embarrassed until I assured her I felt she was in the world's most honourable of professions (there was no doubt from her business card) and we became friends. I'm just unable to see this job in any way as something other than any other job, except to say that I do have to admire those that choose to do it.

I know this has been covered, but I'll inject my two cents anyway. I know the SP to whom you refer. I would be very, very surprised if she were to write anything about a gathering like this. In my mind she epitomizes discretion.

Peachy, never assume that if you only admit to making $12,000 or any other amount that you don't need to file a tax return. Even with minimal income, it's always better to file a return than not to file one. For example, you're only eligible for things like the GST/HST rebate if you've filed a tax return. Other benefits are also keyed to last year's taxable income. If you want to qualify for a loan or a lease, you may need to provide your Notices of Assessment for the last three years to demonstrate that you have adequate income. Not having those documents will limit your ability to get credit. You need an accountant. Tell him or her the truth about what you do for a living and what your plans are for your business. Ask for advice and have them file your tax return for you. All smart paid companions declare their income and pay taxes on it. The others risk problems with the CRA. Their penalties are harsh and inescapable.

This really is tragic, and completely unnecessary. I don't want to hijack the thread, but I can't help wondering how many people are going to have to be killed with tasers before the powers that be work out that the 'non-lethal' marketing is an absolute lie.

I wouldn't want any gentleman to feel that he's not allowed to ask questions about what the lady offers and what her restrictions are. If you've checked out her website--where such things are frequently described--and still have questions, by all means, ask for the information. I can't imagine why any of us would consider polite inquiries to be a waste of time. Compatibility makes for a good rendez-vous, after all! Time-wasters are not trying to determine whether the lady is right for them. Most are more turned on by the fantasies they have while making contact than by actually meeting us. Their inquiries are not so much about trying to figure out whether we're compatible as they are about material for their own, private, solo pleasure, for free. Some of the time-wasting things I've experienced from men I've not met have included: Peppering me with long lists of questions about minutiae. I once had someone send me a list of 75 questions to which he wanted me to respond on a sliding scale of 1-5, from "absolutely not" to "our meeting would be a failure if we don't." This wasn't a BDSM scene negotiation: the questions were about "vanilla" activities. Demanding information about what went on in my recent meetings with other clients. Expecting me to provide a list of clothing and lingerie options from which he would decide what I would wear and, if I didn't have something that he thought he would like, also expecting me to go shopping to acquire whatever he thought would be suitable. At my own expense, of course. Sending highly explicit pornographic scene descriptions to which I was expected to respond, giving exact details about how closely my responses to the activities would or would not match those of the woman in the scene. Asking for advice about problems they're having at home or at work. Pointed questions about my sexual fantasies. Trying to turn phone conversations into phone sex, which is not something I offer. Describing encounters they claim to have had with other companions in the city, whom they name, and expecting me to offer opinions about those ladies and their alleged actions. Repeatedly making appointments a week or two in advance and then cancelling the morning of, or one or two hours before, the meeting. (I know that unexpected things happen to everyone. But if short-notice cancellations happen twice in a row, I may not agree to meet with a prospective client a third time without a non-refundable payment in advance.) The most common time-wasters, though, are the fellows who want to exchange e-mail daily or even several times a day about unimportant things like the weather, what kind of music I listen to, what I'm reading, what I cooked for dinner last night, and so on. These men tend to sulk or chide if their expectations aren't met to their satisfaction. I'm quite happy to exchange e-mail, sometimes two or three times a week, before meeting, particularly if the man is from out of town, but my notes will be fairly brief, warm, cheerful and rarely include much info about my personal, private life. I've received many other, similar time-wasting requests. I'm sure that most of the companions on this board could easily come up with quick lists, too. I'm happy to answer serious questions. I know how important it can be to find someone who provides experiences that he hasn't been able to have at home or elsewhere. If the man seems to be nervous or anxious, I usually suggest we have a strictly social meeting, first, like lunch in a restaurant. My social rates are lower than my private rates and I'm happy to get to know someone while relaxing over a meal without the expectation that we'll have private intimacy afterward. These social meetings aren't a waste of time, at all. I enjoy them!

I had to respond as the whole picture thing was a big worry to me ,when I started I was worried about being found out so I used pics that I thought resembled me,but were not me,very bad idea,then I posted a few pics that I took myself,I was then asked countless times to provide more,I gave in to pressure,then I began to get asked how come I don't get professional photos,if you look at my profile I have many pics,some fairly explicit,I have to say I regret doing them,I wish I had left more to the imagination,but still get requests for face pics,since I don't show it,all in all you will never satisfy everyone,nor should you try,only do what will make you happy in the end.No one should have to display all of themselves to gain business, if a man isn't intrigued by what you are providing,then he is not for you.I sometimes wonder if their are alot of voyeurs out there that are just wanting to view naked women and not make dates.

Never, EVER, give in to any type of pressure. Be who you are cause you are amazing and no photos could ever capture your true nature. You have created an amazing example of branding and unless you want to switch things up cause you feel the need, you don't have to bow to the pressure. Those who find fault are not those you wish to spend time with!

Talked to Sophia once on the phone and was very impressed with her sexy voice, can't wait to meet sometime in person

Here's to the days (hopefully soon) when all service providers will be able to operate without fear of the "law". What is it really protecting anyhow?

Just wonder do guys have any suggestion for a boobs job ? Thanks

So, I finally made it... For those who know me, you already knew that I was trainning very hard in sports (Tae Kwon Do). So, I showed up, couple of weeks ago in a very particular gym near where I work. To enter this gym, you have to be in very good shape. Really... And I got refused. How frustrating! Frustration, I believe, is the only bad part of life. And I don't know about you, but for me, I have huge issues dealing with it. IF I let it happen to often, it can wreck my whole day, or week... So, I trainned very hard for the last ... days. My body was hurting so bad, I could hardly use a pen! But I made it! I'm now registered in an official MMA gym, training with Guillaume Vigneault, Dany Caron, and even John Makdessi, on my way to the StrikeForce! During that period of time that felt like eternity, I've come to realize that whatever the objective is, or even a dream that seems inachevable, just the satisfaction of trying to reach it, just to feel that you are doing something to make it happen worth all the frustration you've been thru... Anyways, those are my words for today: Nomatter how stupid you may think your dream is, go thru all the frustration you have to to make it happen... XxXSabrinAXxX