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A drink with a client is one thing, but before they show up - probably not a good idea. You as the companion need to be in 100% control at all times, and a drink before clients ads up....You cant say your thought process would be as good after date 1 as say date 4. I would not feel good with a client showing up smelling like booze and would send him on his way and I would expect he would do the following if the situation was reversed.

Exactly the point I was attempting to make earlier! Ladies reputations and business have been harmed by less in the past. I wonder if Amelia is starting to regret asking her original question?

Sorry Emily, I'm afraid I don't have any good suggestions. Computers aren't really my thing. What I want to say though is if your worried about not being unique, one of a kind or just another pretty face, rest assured that you are FAR more than that! Anyone who really takes a close look at your site, your blog or your twitter, and anyone who takes the time to know you, even through email, will know that you are something special. You are friendly, approachable and all around fun! There is no mistaking that! Even though it all, remember that. These lazy arses can't take away who you are!! <3

Well I personally don't see anything wrong with this. However you mention to "tame the nerves" which implies that you have consumed enough to alter your mood so that is a matter for concern because that then leads me to my belief that whenever anyone is known to be under the influence of any mood altering drug (including alcohol) any state of consensual consent that may have existed no longer does. So the question then becomes at what point have you consumed enough alcohol to alter your mood and/or judgement such that it needs to be considered in this way? Detecting alcohol because you had one drink is not a problem for me but if I think you are under the influence we have a problem. Would you be offended if I asked you to stretch out your arm and then touch your nose? :) If you wouldn't do this (or tried and failed) I think I have a right to end our appointment. Please note that I often have a glass of wine with a lady so everything in moderation.

We all know RG is a good guy and only wants the best for us, thats evident in his posts, so is the fact that he was speaking of extremes, no need to chatise him, I certainly know about making mistakes and not wording posts perhaps in the best way! and can attest to the hurtfulness of someone thinking you have ill wills when there are none! So cut him some slack, he wasn't trying to be hurtful, most of us are here to have fun, help oneanother, make suggestions, ect. With ONLY good intent. Some are just better at wording posts than others, no need to read anything malicious in a kind persons message.

I don't think it's an unreasonable response to her question about having a drink to say one drink is not an issue. For some people one drink can have a calming effect on them while others need more than 1 drink. I do think implying she has a drinking problem or saying she drinks because she doesn't like being an SP is going overboard.

I think RG only went that far afield because he has no experience or recent experience with alcohol so he is understandably a little scared of the stuff because he can't touch it at all. I know he is a complete gentleman and meant no disrespect. And Ameila is just trying to overcome the nervous pre-encounter jitters which I guess I am a dead man as I no longer get them. I say we cut them both some slack :)

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Speaking personally, I don't care what you do before we meet, provided I can't tell :) If you want to have a glass of wine while you get ready, then that's your business, and I probably won't notice; smelling it isn't an issue if you've just had a little because we all use mouthwash before we meet (right?). But as others have said... if the door opens and either person is visibly under the influence, that's probably the end of it. During the date... depends. If I'm meeting someone new, I'll either not drink at all, or have a glass of wine at the outside. Once I know someone better then we'll both have a much better idea of how much we can relax and indulge, and that's entirely up to the individuals in question.

Well, I'll tell you how I manage things. Every point of my process is in place because before I had it, something fell through, usually resulting in a no-show. The client and I exchange e-mail before booking the first meeting and generally have at least one brief phone conversation before we meet in person. I usually require a deposit for a first engagement. Many of my meetings are scheduled anywhere from a couple of weeks to a few months in advance, particularly when the client is from out of town. I send an e-mail about 5-7 days prior to the meeting to confirm. If the gentleman is coming in from out of town, I ask him to contact me when he arrives. I respond with a cheerful "welcome to Vancouver" reply and may suggest some activity or local event that he might appreciate knowing about. I ask to make telephone contact at his hotel the day before we meet. If he's arriving earlier in the day of our encounter, I will call him then. I will have made all of the phone calls up to this point. At the end of the day-before or day-of call, I give him my cell number in case he needs to contact me to change our meeting time or place, etc. Anytime we're meeting at my place first, whether he's in Vancouver or from out of town, the day before or the day of the meeting I send instructions for reaching an intersection near me along with my cell number to call when he's there. I give directions to my place when he calls from that location a few minutes before the meeting. I never give my actual, physical address at any time. My experience is that pleasant contact ahead of time is the best way to ensure that the meeting will take place as planned. I have never had someone speak to me on the phone and then not meet me without a very good reason. I never book last-minute or same-day meetings for anyone with whom I haven't met previously because, in my experience, the fellows who make impulsive decisions to see me are also much more likely to decide impulsively not to show up. In other words, it's a multi-stage process at times. Those who balk fail my screening requirements. And, finally, because I have read the advice some men post on other boards about proven ways to circumvent a given paid companion's screening, once I have described what I want, I never back down from or lower my expectations. If I can't contact a new client at his hotel--calling him there and being put through to his room--the meeting won't happen, period. I don't accept an out-of-town cell number for this confirmation. If he lives in Vancouver but won't provide a phone number where I can reach him, I won't meet with him.

I saw the news interview with him and remember him saying he can't be in contact with underage, have a cell phone or a video camera - and he said that's crazy, my favourite things to do are with my cell phone and vid camera or something to that effect. I'm pretty sure he's soft in the head. And screw this innocent until proven guilty, it's KNOWN in SP world that he is a pimp and coerced girls if they did certain acts they would become famous via viral videos on YouTube. He purposely sought out vulnerable girls. He is the epitome of what needs to be eliminated in the sex work industry. Independent all the way. He makes my blood boil. I hope he gets labeled a rapist/pedo and put in general population in jail. Yes, I know those are strong words but it's how I feel.

Let's get one thing straight her...We are ALL entitled to conduct our business how we see fit. If you disagree, unless safety is in jeopardy it is best not to comment. Judging from this post you made I can only assume it is one of 4 ladies you are referring to by this post and this is wrong, as if I can figure it out so can everyone else. I am a bit confused by your post, you mention the client in question said he had not seen a lady in several months when asked for a reference, yet after he was declined a date he magically had a reference? and your knocking the SP in questions screening policy for that. Why? because she cares about who she lets in her place? or because she wont accept just any rif-raf for a reference? How do you know his references were reputable? In one sentence you mentioned you would not have booked him either yet you saw him any ways. Your words and actions contradict themselves. The travelling lady you mention did what any reputable touring lady would have done, liars, shadies and deceitful people are not welcome as guests. there is a respect for privacy but when the cards don't add up more questions are always asked. You have no write to publicly call out how others run their business unless you are willing to call out yourself as well. People may have more than one handle on different places, the the respectful gents are usually forthcoming about this, the ones that need to be sneaky can look else where as if they need to hide a handle what else are they hiding. Someone who is an "elite " as you put it, earned his status and has nothing to hide. Someone being deceptive can have life altering consequences, like getting attacked, raped or robbed.

A drink, A glass of wine is exceptable at any time. I have gifted many lady's and friends with a bottle or two of wine, (I make my own so I have lots) sometimes it is tasted and some times saved for later. Amelia's statement above has nothing to do with showing up to a date "drunk' or "tipsy" OR using alcohol as a "crutch" to do you job, or to get through your day. Having said that, .... and as is often said "What two or more people do during the "date" is between consenting adults and of no business to others." Have a nice day All Loki318

Take a look on the back page, there is a large amount of "local" talent for such a small city! unlike Saint John, or Fredericton. It is no wonder that "Quality" lady's with "Quality" prices have a hard time in this city! It is hard to sell Mercedi's and Caddy's in a market that is over full of Toyota's and Hundi's ..... Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with a Toyota ;) I've gotten more mileage for my $$$ out my Toyota, than any other ride I've had :) Have a nice day all. Loki318

Speaking for myself I do inform ladies from CERB when I email them that I am BillyBob from CERB. I created my hotmail account 10 years ago and when I created my CERB handle 3 years ago it didn't dawn on me to sync up with my email. I saw an escort site and I said cool, lets join and see what that's all about :)

All I am recommending is that if you have other alias's on other sites it would be common courtesy to inform the lady of your other username's. Pretty simple and vise versa for SP to hobbyist,

Our justice system is also a joke. How is this tool not a threat to minors? I cant believe they are allowing him to mock our city and endanger and profit off our high risk children and teens! It makes me ashamed that I live in such a city. If we don't protect those who cant protect themselves, then the individuals responsible for his release are just as guilty as he is for whatever happens after this point. Disgusting! Posted via Mobile Device

A question for everyone.... In the last 2 months, I have had my site stolen word for word and various ads and titles used on other sites. Turns out my site has been used again, but this time with some editing. Anyone have any ideas on how to deal with this? I am at wits end on dealing with this (I really do have much better things to do than flag ads and write emails asking for my text to be taken down) I am close to just getting my lawyer involved as I am not sure what else I can do. Even then Im not sure what good it would do. I am open to ideas on suggestions on dealing with this situation, as of late this has been happening again and again and for me it to is just way too often. We work hard to make ourselves individual and stand out, and to have someone steal one's hard work, is basically a slap in the face.

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I LOVE Dorinda!!! Well... for a thousand reasons.....

Well Georgiana inspired me as the super sexy lingerie queen to change my ways and instead of my hands getting dirty and oily and manly, I now use them as sexy lingerie ;) I have cloned and have 3 sets now so if duo partners Nathalie and Gabby need my hands on their boobs too just ring dingle me Gia ;) PS.... they don't come in pink...sorry

I like RG ....Great guy, enjoys life and respects our Cerb gals and treats them like they deserve....Kudo's big guy Now I know you sold your boat and I also know you have a cat..... Perhaps time for a kitty trade in ?? Hmmm ???

Having done the drive more times than I would have liked to, I would say after 7 things should have settled down.

Does someone want to tell me how to comment when you write something? Lol. I read a few posts I would like to respond to but am not sure how to do it.. Your posts are awsome and I want to say thanks to all of you for your feedback as this thread was suppose to be positive and informative. Noone here is a drunk I am not going to take offence to anyones oponions but just to state the facts I am most definitly NOT an alcoholic and do not need liquor to have a good time with clients.

apologies for providing the name correction, RG, however, my experience with the 'lot' is over 25 years old, so maybe there's hope!

A great thread, and needed by this junk food junkie, your knowledge is appreciated and admirable.

I've seen you how many times now Amelia??? Never ONCE have I had any indication that you were drunk at all, or even had a single drink. The first time we met I made you that drink with the blue passion-fruit liqueur too lol That was the first and ONLY time I could taste alcohol on your breath...and it was my fault for making you the drink!

What a shame. It sounds as though he wasn't trying anything underhanded, just mixed up his handles. He could avoid this next time by PMing the lady he is using as a reference as well as the lady he wants to visit on EACH site to clarify that he is both member ABC & XYZ. Then they will both know he is the same person, as opposed to someone trying to produce a false reference. So much wrong with this, I am at a loss as to where to begin. So I will start from the bottom. An SPs business strategy is just that: Business. Hers, not all of Halifax. A Hobbyist HAS no business agenda. And while he may not be trying to be deceitful, but like Billybob, unable to secure his favoured handle on CERB, his identity or any other information she requires is for her safety & comfort. And I imagine SHE cares. So if she asks for 2 references, provide them or move on. Also, I have yet to see a website where a lady who requests references does not provide alternate options. If you have none, that's fair, but follow her secondary protocol. No shit! If he had none at first, where did he suddenly find them only after she declined an encounter? And who is to say they were legit? Him? Another SP? If she now requests more, provide it or move on. And seriously, who really cares if he is Elite? By virtue of his behaviour, that is the last word I would use to describe him. As a long time member, he should know the score. If not, hardly her concern. It's very gracious of you Steve to assume this was not the intent from the onset & I am sure you are sincere. I on the other hand do not possess the " benefit-of-the-doubt-it " gene. And right now I am too incensed to wait until my little yellow pill kicks in. I find the entire post was in poor taste. And quite obviously deliberate. Of course, I am ALSO working under the assumption ANY of this is true & not just an attempt to slander a touring lady. Wouldn't be the first time. That said, I highly doubt the man in question ( real? ) will be happy right now! Although I have little sympathy for him. ( should he exist ) Or, frankly, respect for either party. Firstly, a hobbyist with Elite status discussing with one SP another SP, to the point of naming her, stating that he was declined by her, is not only immature, whiny & classless.... .....it is really pathetic. Have you no decorum? Have you no pride? Lastly, have you not the ability to discern the difference between an SP who can keep secrets & one who....well.......clearly cannot? It's no wonder she said no!!! I hope it was worth it. Because if this attempt at an encounter was real....& now you are known to talk out of school with less than circumspect women.....good luck with all the other touring ladies.... ...because bad news travels fast. On that note, said SP, coming to an open forum, detailing another SPs security measures, trashing them, then alluding to her identity with this, is inflammatory, beyond unprofessional & potentially dangerous to the SP. But don't you just love irony? By doing that with the presumption of impunity, she has shown ALL of Halifax, CERB & by extension Canada, she also has no problem discussing publicly what her clients tell her. Makes me wonder what she says without an audience..... Sandi P.S. My regards to NM. I happily take responsibility. For this time & the last.

Wow this thread went not the way I was hoping at all lol...I ment one drink before my first date of the day(not necessarly in the morning)and only that one date..Yes its a nerv thing for me.(My own preferences)Usually a cooler or cocktail is what I have.(For example) It could be a sunny afternoon and im getting my nails done before a date and the salon offers a cocktail with your mani/pedi... Thats not wrong to have a drink I dont think..I would never impare my judgement in situations like this,as yes I have to be incontrol for many reasons... I rarely drink with clients but some have brought bottles of wine and more often then not I decline to have a glass with him. I have never been drunk in front of a client. Also like to add I understand clients do not want alcohol on anyones breath or smoke for that matter.. I just wanted to know if you indulge in a beer/glass of wine before your date but now I would like to take that question back haha..

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Mine tonight has been sitting on a deep freezer with my laptop so I can get an internet connection when I should be surfing online in my bed. lol. It's cold down here!

Really not the question. Are there any SP's that are willing to spend time in Moncton period . My experiences in Moncton have been very frustrating and unrewarding over all. Many other quality SP's will probably agree. All the best in your search!

Thank you very much for the good time. I would definitely recommend Amanda to everyone. And do yourself a favor, book the 1 hour session and you will thank yourself for doing that afterwards. She is a clever, welcoming, sexy, and very accommodating. Her massage skill is fantastic. It was my very first time visiting any MP and the experience was definitely positive. She made sure that I was comfortable throughout the whole session. Thanks again, Amanda!

That will HAVE TO BE arranged at some point in my lifetime :)

Emily: Bottom line is stuff can be copied if someone wants to copy it. You do own the copyright on it though like others mentioned. My suggestion is to add a copyright notice to the text, especially in the page code. You already own the copyright when it was created as already mentioned, but proving it is the issue usually. If you actually sued someone though I am sure your web host would provide logs and they can show when you uploaded the text in question. If they know they copied your stuff, then even a threat of a copyright suit may be enough to scare the persons straight. I realise this can be a a bother, but one or two successful suits might scare others into not doing it ever. When it comes to images, steganography is your best friend. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steganography If you need help with a particular piece of steganography software feel free to ask. It is nice of you to be a nice person, but I think you should shame those in question by pointing them out here where we know you. Public places, well, Lexi covered that, but here everyone knows you and would believe you and know you are doing it for a good reason.

I am sorry you have to deal with this, Emily. I know just how frustrating and time consuming it can be to deal with plagiarism and copycats. Unfortunately, there is not much we can do to prevent it (even if we copyright everything) but there are steps you can take to prove that your website text and ads are yours... Once my ordeal was over with my last Cerb copycat, I hired a paid professional to do a few things for me; I first start out by writing everything I want to publish online in a word doc then I send him the documents and the links to all my ads (not just the Cerb ones). He converts them into PDFs files, 'time stamps' them and takes screenshots of my ads. Once everything is complete and put together, he sends it to my lawyer for safe keeping. Screenshots of my entire website are also taken on a weekly basis and also sent to my lawyer. This way, I can at least prove that my work is mine and mine only and that plagiarism was used by someone else to advertise. (A few more things get done but I won't discuss it publicly- PM for details). So, basically, after the first and only request to take down my text, the copycat has three choices: pay me for my work, remove my text, or get ready to go down by K.O. in the first round :) This could be with or without the help of my lawyer depending on the circumstances. I wish I could give you better advice or more ideas, Emily but unfortunately, I don't have anything more to offer... At least, not publicly ;) Trust me when I say it is not! ;)

Posted in the wrong spot and now my words my be considered high jacking . Katherine has re thought!!

I don't think a single glass of wine or shot before an appointment is a problem if the provider is low volume. If she's seeing 10 clients for 15min appointments a day...that could be an issue. The bottom line is that she is comfortable with it. I don't indulge before guests because there are no jitters but a photo shoot? I start with 2 shots of tequilla before I'm out of the shower! Then I continue to sip from a flask until the ordeal is over. I don't get drunk but I definitely mellow out and don't throw up during every costume change... cat

Hi Emily Perhaps (don't know if you have done this) copyright your site and put on your site that it is copyright protected and legal action will be taken Take legal action against those who steal your words, thoughts and pictures and pass them off as their own And I can't speak for all gentlemen, but if legally allowed, let us know who the SP is that is stealing from you. Certainly a SP who so obviously steals from a lady isn't someone I would ever want to have an encounter with. From that SP's end, it may prove business wise counterproductive, she may lose (or never get) clients..well at least me for sure. And if she is on CERB, report her to the Mod Good luck RG

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I do not think any of my guests would be offended especially in the evening. Actually many of my friends bring me a bottle of red wine as its no secret wine is my beverage of choice! :icon_smile:

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Pretty sure the OP was looking for info on who offers this, not on who thinks it's "yuck" or "nasty". If this is something you don't offer or are not interested in, fair enough, but then why even click on a thread entitled "Extreme Gagging" in the first place? A fetish is a very personal thing to many. And usually, not something one has very much control over. I feel that someone should be able to come to cerb (and to the "BDSM, Fetish, etc" section of cerb of all places) and inquire about a fetish openly without having to be told his/her fetish is gross, immoral, etc.....regardless of what it is.....assuming of course that said fetish is occurring between two (or more :p) consenting adults. Ye ol' cerb motto applies here. If thou shant have anything good or helpful to say, thou shouldn't say anything at all. That being said I'm also interesting in knowing who provides an extreme-ish DT (although for me personally, not to the point of puking). Additional Comments: You may want to inquire with Berlin about this. I haven't had the pleasure of seeing her yet and I'm not sure if she offers exactly what you're looking for. But on her website she quotes "messy/gagging blowjobs" as part of the fetish/submission services she offers. Like I said, I haven't met her yet but she's very reputable and has very good reviews. Considering the nature of the request it's probably a good idea to PM her or e-mail her first to determine if she offers exactly what you're looking for.

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