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A drink with a client is one thing, but before they show up - probably not a good idea. You as the companion need to be in 100% control at all times, and a drink before clients ads up....You cant say your thought process would be as good after date 1 as say date 4. I would not feel good with a client showing up smelling like booze and would send him on his way and I would expect he would do the following if the situation was reversed.

Exactly the point I was attempting to make earlier! Ladies reputations and business have been harmed by less in the past. I wonder if Amelia is starting to regret asking her original question?

Sorry Emily, I'm afraid I don't have any good suggestions. Computers aren't really my thing. What I want to say though is if your worried about not being unique, one of a kind or just another pretty face, rest assured that you are FAR more than that! Anyone who really takes a close look at your site, your blog or your twitter, and anyone who takes the time to know you, even through email, will know that you are something special. You are friendly, approachable and all around fun! There is no mistaking that! Even though it all, remember that. These lazy arses can't take away who you are!! <3

Well I personally don't see anything wrong with this. However you mention to "tame the nerves" which implies that you have consumed enough to alter your mood so that is a matter for concern because that then leads me to my belief that whenever anyone is known to be under the influence of any mood altering drug (including alcohol) any state of consensual consent that may have existed no longer does. So the question then becomes at what point have you consumed enough alcohol to alter your mood and/or judgement such that it needs to be considered in this way? Detecting alcohol because you had one drink is not a problem for me but if I think you are under the influence we have a problem. Would you be offended if I asked you to stretch out your arm and then touch your nose? :) If you wouldn't do this (or tried and failed) I think I have a right to end our appointment. Please note that I often have a glass of wine with a lady so everything in moderation.

We all know RG is a good guy and only wants the best for us, thats evident in his posts, so is the fact that he was speaking of extremes, no need to chatise him, I certainly know about making mistakes and not wording posts perhaps in the best way! and can attest to the hurtfulness of someone thinking you have ill wills when there are none! So cut him some slack, he wasn't trying to be hurtful, most of us are here to have fun, help oneanother, make suggestions, ect. With ONLY good intent. Some are just better at wording posts than others, no need to read anything malicious in a kind persons message.

I don't think it's an unreasonable response to her question about having a drink to say one drink is not an issue. For some people one drink can have a calming effect on them while others need more than 1 drink. I do think implying she has a drinking problem or saying she drinks because she doesn't like being an SP is going overboard.

I think RG only went that far afield because he has no experience or recent experience with alcohol so he is understandably a little scared of the stuff because he can't touch it at all. I know he is a complete gentleman and meant no disrespect. And Ameila is just trying to overcome the nervous pre-encounter jitters which I guess I am a dead man as I no longer get them. I say we cut them both some slack :)

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Speaking personally, I don't care what you do before we meet, provided I can't tell :) If you want to have a glass of wine while you get ready, then that's your business, and I probably won't notice; smelling it isn't an issue if you've just had a little because we all use mouthwash before we meet (right?). But as others have said... if the door opens and either person is visibly under the influence, that's probably the end of it. During the date... depends. If I'm meeting someone new, I'll either not drink at all, or have a glass of wine at the outside. Once I know someone better then we'll both have a much better idea of how much we can relax and indulge, and that's entirely up to the individuals in question.

Well, I'll tell you how I manage things. Every point of my process is in place because before I had it, something fell through, usually resulting in a no-show. The client and I exchange e-mail before booking the first meeting and generally have at least one brief phone conversation before we meet in person. I usually require a deposit for a first engagement. Many of my meetings are scheduled anywhere from a couple of weeks to a few months in advance, particularly when the client is from out of town. I send an e-mail about 5-7 days prior to the meeting to confirm. If the gentleman is coming in from out of town, I ask him to contact me when he arrives. I respond with a cheerful "welcome to Vancouver" reply and may suggest some activity or local event that he might appreciate knowing about. I ask to make telephone contact at his hotel the day before we meet. If he's arriving earlier in the day of our encounter, I will call him then. I will have made all of the phone calls up to this point. At the end of the day-before or day-of call, I give him my cell number in case he needs to contact me to change our meeting time or place, etc. Anytime we're meeting at my place first, whether he's in Vancouver or from out of town, the day before or the day of the meeting I send instructions for reaching an intersection near me along with my cell number to call when he's there. I give directions to my place when he calls from that location a few minutes before the meeting. I never give my actual, physical address at any time. My experience is that pleasant contact ahead of time is the best way to ensure that the meeting will take place as planned. I have never had someone speak to me on the phone and then not meet me without a very good reason. I never book last-minute or same-day meetings for anyone with whom I haven't met previously because, in my experience, the fellows who make impulsive decisions to see me are also much more likely to decide impulsively not to show up. In other words, it's a multi-stage process at times. Those who balk fail my screening requirements. And, finally, because I have read the advice some men post on other boards about proven ways to circumvent a given paid companion's screening, once I have described what I want, I never back down from or lower my expectations. If I can't contact a new client at his hotel--calling him there and being put through to his room--the meeting won't happen, period. I don't accept an out-of-town cell number for this confirmation. If he lives in Vancouver but won't provide a phone number where I can reach him, I won't meet with him.

I saw the news interview with him and remember him saying he can't be in contact with underage, have a cell phone or a video camera - and he said that's crazy, my favourite things to do are with my cell phone and vid camera or something to that effect. I'm pretty sure he's soft in the head. And screw this innocent until proven guilty, it's KNOWN in SP world that he is a pimp and coerced girls if they did certain acts they would become famous via viral videos on YouTube. He purposely sought out vulnerable girls. He is the epitome of what needs to be eliminated in the sex work industry. Independent all the way. He makes my blood boil. I hope he gets labeled a rapist/pedo and put in general population in jail. Yes, I know those are strong words but it's how I feel.

Let's get one thing straight her...We are ALL entitled to conduct our business how we see fit. If you disagree, unless safety is in jeopardy it is best not to comment. Judging from this post you made I can only assume it is one of 4 ladies you are referring to by this post and this is wrong, as if I can figure it out so can everyone else. I am a bit confused by your post, you mention the client in question said he had not seen a lady in several months when asked for a reference, yet after he was declined a date he magically had a reference? and your knocking the SP in questions screening policy for that. Why? because she cares about who she lets in her place? or because she wont accept just any rif-raf for a reference? How do you know his references were reputable? In one sentence you mentioned you would not have booked him either yet you saw him any ways. Your words and actions contradict themselves. The travelling lady you mention did what any reputable touring lady would have done, liars, shadies and deceitful people are not welcome as guests. there is a respect for privacy but when the cards don't add up more questions are always asked. You have no write to publicly call out how others run their business unless you are willing to call out yourself as well. People may have more than one handle on different places, the the respectful gents are usually forthcoming about this, the ones that need to be sneaky can look else where as if they need to hide a handle what else are they hiding. Someone who is an "elite " as you put it, earned his status and has nothing to hide. Someone being deceptive can have life altering consequences, like getting attacked, raped or robbed.

A drink, A glass of wine is exceptable at any time. I have gifted many lady's and friends with a bottle or two of wine, (I make my own so I have lots) sometimes it is tasted and some times saved for later. Amelia's statement above has nothing to do with showing up to a date "drunk' or "tipsy" OR using alcohol as a "crutch" to do you job, or to get through your day. Having said that, .... and as is often said "What two or more people do during the "date" is between consenting adults and of no business to others." Have a nice day All Loki318

Take a look on the back page, there is a large amount of "local" talent for such a small city! unlike Saint John, or Fredericton. It is no wonder that "Quality" lady's with "Quality" prices have a hard time in this city! It is hard to sell Mercedi's and Caddy's in a market that is over full of Toyota's and Hundi's ..... Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with a Toyota ;) I've gotten more mileage for my $$$ out my Toyota, than any other ride I've had :) Have a nice day all. Loki318

Speaking for myself I do inform ladies from CERB when I email them that I am BillyBob from CERB. I created my hotmail account 10 years ago and when I created my CERB handle 3 years ago it didn't dawn on me to sync up with my email. I saw an escort site and I said cool, lets join and see what that's all about :)

All I am recommending is that if you have other alias's on other sites it would be common courtesy to inform the lady of your other username's. Pretty simple and vise versa for SP to hobbyist,

Our justice system is also a joke. How is this tool not a threat to minors? I cant believe they are allowing him to mock our city and endanger and profit off our high risk children and teens! It makes me ashamed that I live in such a city. If we don't protect those who cant protect themselves, then the individuals responsible for his release are just as guilty as he is for whatever happens after this point. Disgusting! Posted via Mobile Device

How about a thread where we give props to creative, fun, unique ads( just the titles) that are placed on cerb in the advertising section- Good Idea? if so I'd like to start with one I saw this morning From SweetShay- TROUSER AROUSER- I thought it was cute, catchy, fun-props to you

A question for everyone.... In the last 2 months, I have had my site stolen word for word and various ads and titles used on other sites. Turns out my site has been used again, but this time with some editing. Anyone have any ideas on how to deal with this? I am at wits end on dealing with this (I really do have much better things to do than flag ads and write emails asking for my text to be taken down) I am close to just getting my lawyer involved as I am not sure what else I can do. Even then Im not sure what good it would do. I am open to ideas on suggestions on dealing with this situation, as of late this has been happening again and again and for me it to is just way too often. We work hard to make ourselves individual and stand out, and to have someone steal one's hard work, is basically a slap in the face.

Thought this thread might help a few of us who do not eat our veggies. My father does not eat his veggies and now is facing near blindness! Yes this is from not eating our veggies folks! I know it is hard to eat balanced meals all the time. I am one of these too..lol. Too much junk food, too much wine, too much smoking whatever the case may be. So if we can learn to balance the good and the bad, I believe we can maintain our health and beauty with....JUCING!!! Foods like Apricot, the very best for eyes, and skin care!, Pineapple for digestive enzyme, ginger root for cleansing the blood and all digestive organs. Here are a few combinations I have started to use weekly, sometimes daily. They are very fast acting, so if you are detoxing, best to do on a day when you do not have much planned to do. Blackberry( about a 5-7) Pineapple( about a good hand size ) Beats ( about 1-2) YUMMY!!!! NO JOKE, YOU WILL GET HOOKED ON THIS ONE, LOL This is to boost immune function, and great for anemia, also for weight loss. OR Carrots( about 4 reg size) Ginger root( just a small chuck) Apple ( one reg size...any kind but red delicious) SOOOO YUMMY!!!! This is great for inflammation, blood cleanser, complexion, digestive upsets. and as all juicing immune support. These are just 2 of my fav's, have many more to share with you! If you try these, and they work, please share with us. If they do not work, then just keep doing it, lol...it will work eventually. Either way nutrients are nutrients.

I love Dorinda because she's the cat's pajamas.

I like Lee Richards because he loves to laugh and has a wonderful smile! xo

Well Georgiana inspired me as the super sexy lingerie queen to change my ways and instead of my hands getting dirty and oily and manly, I now use them as sexy lingerie ;) I have cloned and have 3 sets now so if duo partners Nathalie and Gabby need my hands on their boobs too just ring dingle me Gia ;) PS.... they don't come in pink...sorry

I like RG ....Great guy, enjoys life and respects our Cerb gals and treats them like they deserve....Kudo's big guy Now I know you sold your boat and I also know you have a cat..... Perhaps time for a kitty trade in ?? Hmmm ???

This may be of little comfort Emily, and some suggestions have been made in your other thread, but you are one of a kind, and a class act. There is only one Emily Rushton, and no one can mix up a class act like you with someone so low class as to steal from you. And for me at least, it speaks volumes about this other person's character (or lack of it) that she would steal from you or any other SP RG

One thing that has not been mentioned is just because some dude tells me he's so and so on this or any other board, does not necessarily make it true. I have had guys email or call me saying, "I'm so and so from cerb, blah, blah". If my gut feeling is off, I will ask them to pm me, and if they make some excuse or don't, then I have my answer. I think this thread is going off the rails. I don't know if I am more concerned about the SP who was being called out, or the SP who is calling her out (business suicide).

In less than 8 hours I am flying to Europe. I will be in England for almost 2 weeks...second time in 1 year. I can't believe how lucky I am. and oh so freaking happy right now.

I love my veggies...Sophia you make the best tasting berry smoothies ever!

MMM yes!!! I just got a magic bullet:) Defiantly gonna try that one!! Thanks for posting it:)

To relax I like to fly my model plane or play with my parrot. Some times I'll offer my partner a massage because I can free my thoughts while I'm working on someone elses body, it can be deeply meditative.

billybob: people here sure like to dump on Moncton Yeah, that is true. That aside the topic of the thread is not about whether Moncton is a desirable city or not (that has been discussed in other threads) but about Greek services available in said city. The OP asked a legitimate question and if the thread goes off on a tangent how will he get his answer? This does not reflect positively on the membership in the eyes of new members.

Indeed, thank you for sharing! :) Entertaining, and sheds light on this life in a few important ways. I can certainly relate to "Mary". Most people outside of our community would think it would be absolutely crazy for a prostitute to say they feel "genuinely blessed', in reference to their line of work, but I really do feel the same way. I love what I do, and feel grateful to be able to do it. :)

Emily: Bottom line is stuff can be copied if someone wants to copy it. You do own the copyright on it though like others mentioned. My suggestion is to add a copyright notice to the text, especially in the page code. You already own the copyright when it was created as already mentioned, but proving it is the issue usually. If you actually sued someone though I am sure your web host would provide logs and they can show when you uploaded the text in question. If they know they copied your stuff, then even a threat of a copyright suit may be enough to scare the persons straight. I realise this can be a a bother, but one or two successful suits might scare others into not doing it ever. When it comes to images, steganography is your best friend. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steganography If you need help with a particular piece of steganography software feel free to ask. It is nice of you to be a nice person, but I think you should shame those in question by pointing them out here where we know you. Public places, well, Lexi covered that, but here everyone knows you and would believe you and know you are doing it for a good reason.

Great show tonight! Britney's goodbye message to Boogie was by far the best moment of the show this year. Ian was sure wound up tonight but I think he did a good job. He's definitely opened some eyes tonight, not just the odd nerdy guy anymore, good for him. Frank is a beast, you have to give the guy his due. Should be an interesting week, Frank is on his own and it's hard to see anyone moving to his side but he's almost impossible to beat in competitions.

Hi Emily Perhaps (don't know if you have done this) copyright your site and put on your site that it is copyright protected and legal action will be taken Take legal action against those who steal your words, thoughts and pictures and pass them off as their own And I can't speak for all gentlemen, but if legally allowed, let us know who the SP is that is stealing from you. Certainly a SP who so obviously steals from a lady isn't someone I would ever want to have an encounter with. From that SP's end, it may prove business wise counterproductive, she may lose (or never get) clients..well at least me for sure. And if she is on CERB, report her to the Mod Good luck RG

I've just gotten into House after a long time of wanting to get into it... Breaking Bad Sons of Anarchy Game of Thrones (read the books!) True Blood Community Boardwalk Empire Walking Dead (though you must read the graphic novel!) Defying Gravity was great, but only lasted a season :(

Received today: - Did you get vaccinated for hepatitis? HPV? - Do you have a regular medical checkup to prevent STD's? I almost feel like asking him what hepatitis and HPV are and tell him I don't remember the last time I went for tests... I also didn't know medical check ups could prevent STDs! I guess we learn something new everyday (tongue in cheek) ;)

Rescue Me, Boardwalk Empire. Iam sure I will think of more. T.T.

I saw her this afternoon and I was blown away. She is beautiful, great smile, great natural body. And she treats you like you're her long-lost boyfriend. She's funny, affectionate, sexy. Perfect hygiene. Loves to kiss. To-die-for oral. Great FS in whatever position suits you. I left after two hours completely satisfied in every way -- certainly wanting to see her on her next trip to Ottawa. But here's the problem, guys. She had a no-show just before me and no other appointments booked for the day. That, to me, is unbelievable, considering the quality of her service and her great looks. She's a star in Toronto -- just look at her reviews. We need women like that to come to Ottawa, but I don't think she'll be back unless things pick up.

I do not think any of my guests would be offended especially in the evening. Actually many of my friends bring me a bottle of red wine as its no secret wine is my beverage of choice! :icon_smile:

Okay...I'm just going to say it. You ALL have very nice tits. Every one of you ladies have great bodies. Any man would be lucky to have you gals allow us to touch them. :-)

Officially back in Ottawa! My new website is: laramassage.com For booking, you can contact me by email on my website contact page. I will only give my new phone number to regular clients. For location, I will give the address upon booking. As Jude has already announced on her thread, we have decided to team up and share a studio with our own rooms. It is located close to downtown and will be available late October. For now, I am currently providing out-calls. Cheers, Lara

If you like experienced mature companions, when visiting, Emma Alexandra is definitely a lady you should spend time with ;)

And of course Gabriella Laurence

I went for a haircut today and decided to get a different style. It looks great, I feel good and I'm loving it! :)

Pretty sure the OP was looking for info on who offers this, not on who thinks it's "yuck" or "nasty". If this is something you don't offer or are not interested in, fair enough, but then why even click on a thread entitled "Extreme Gagging" in the first place? A fetish is a very personal thing to many. And usually, not something one has very much control over. I feel that someone should be able to come to cerb (and to the "BDSM, Fetish, etc" section of cerb of all places) and inquire about a fetish openly without having to be told his/her fetish is gross, immoral, etc.....regardless of what it is.....assuming of course that said fetish is occurring between two (or more :p) consenting adults. Ye ol' cerb motto applies here. If thou shant have anything good or helpful to say, thou shouldn't say anything at all. That being said I'm also interesting in knowing who provides an extreme-ish DT (although for me personally, not to the point of puking). Additional Comments: You may want to inquire with Berlin about this. I haven't had the pleasure of seeing her yet and I'm not sure if she offers exactly what you're looking for. But on her website she quotes "messy/gagging blowjobs" as part of the fetish/submission services she offers. Like I said, I haven't met her yet but she's very reputable and has very good reviews. Considering the nature of the request it's probably a good idea to PM her or e-mail her first to determine if she offers exactly what you're looking for.

I too am a foodie, of late I have been craving Colin Farrel covered in cake, any cake.

"Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many. Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it." -Buddha

One that I like and have always remembered : Courage does not always Roar.....sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying.....I will try again tomorrow :)