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Hi Everyone, I'm back, have missed everyone and ready to go out with a bang. I'm retiring my independent west end location, that has been so good to me and my guests. I'm going to miss this place so let's give the walls more to tell before they receive a fresh new coat of paint. There's some sexy memories in these walls. ; ) I would like to celebrate my upcoming move with you, and leave us with a memorable imprint. I've just logged in here again after my spring departure, and am just waiting on the MOD to approve my pictures. I'm booking a few intoxicating escapades these next few weeks, and have a few treats up my sleeve for a few of my most sexy of friends that have stepped through here. ; ) I'm not sure yet where my next location leads me, but am going to enjoy this one in it's last weeks. Care to join me? Please just send a pm for details. Sensually yours, Erin

Yes. Nuff' said.

Of course Incalls are risky, you could get hit by a bus or a car, fall down a manhole, get a parking ticket or stuck in an elevator. If you are seeing a professional and established provider who understands the definition and reason for discretion then you will be fine, so long as you don't get hit by a bus or a car, fall down a manhole, get a parking ticket or stuck in an elevator.

I was wondering how many encounters it took for you to get comfortable in meeting a new SP or MA. It's nerve racking for me to meet someone new each time. In the beginning, I was not sure what to expect. And then spend time with a beautiful naked woman and then having to get naked yourself and try to relax and enjoy yourself is hard to do. I tend tend to repeat with same women because of this fact. I think it wasn't till my 6th encounter that I knew what to e xpect and could enjoy my self without the shyness. Now after years, I still get excited when the door opens to reveal my next date :). Now I am more confident. What was your experiences like ?

I love wearing different styles and colors but my favorite panties would be the g-string style such as I'm wearing in this picture. What are your favorite styles and colors?

I hope you two do continue on as you have described. Best wishes to all concerned!

Sensual Erin Seeing that she is back make me oh so happy and I need to share it:D

I wanted to send all my cerb friends, correspondents, and social group members my very best wishes for the weekend. I enjoy being on here with you, and there's so much to be grateful for. Time to celebrate. Thank you all for enriching my life.

This may not be very politically correct, but as a father, and grandfather, my feeling is that, based on your opening thread, you have some very high expectations about how rewarding or how "magical" fatherhood, and influencing the life of a young person through bloodline will be. I think you are (highly) overrating the future rewarding feeling you think you are going to get from being a "father", and in this case, little more than a donor. There are lots of other options that allow you to actually have a relationship with a young person, albeit not a descendant of yours, that you may want to look at (maybe "Big Brothers"). I am gathering adoption was not an option for you and your wife. Although I am not in your situation so cant relate to your feeling a vacuum in your life if you dont have offspring, but I can tell you that I wouldn't, if life had been different, have the same yearning as you. Lots of people have lots of $, so going on about it is not that big of a deal either, as you can use it to establish trusts for many worthwhile legacies you may feel proud of instead. People hate it that I think that childbirth is not a "miracle" . The proof being that it is replicated, so many times, in so many places, and by so many people, every day, under so many circumstances, that it is a actually a pretty common event. Obviously the new mothers and fathers feel differently, as did I at the time, but taking a step back, I see it differently now. Good luck in whatever you decide

arck, some will say it doesnt really suck ;-), but having done all my house chores early, i got bored this afternoon and had to keep busy. Just put a batch of cookies in the oven. Too much food, but there is that zen feeling about cooking and baking...

Thanks Luckyme. I find it is a lot easier to socialize and converse with the opposite sex these days. A long history of interacting dating back to mid 90's in Montreal dance bars (when as a young fellow I was nervous as hell to even ask for dance. Almost shaking), and later for almost ten years here in Ottawa in strip bars making hundreds of female friends (not sexual), I am not nervous with opposite sex anymore as the barriers are broken. Ladies are no mystery to me anymore to be scared of or be nervous about. Generally speaking, they are too beings with hearts (most often bigger) and minds (most often smarter) who like men wish to be treated with kindness, love and respect.

I like Lee, because he's easy on the eyes....:obs55: ;)

I like Notch because he is a friendly, fun, funny and intelligent fella... He treats the ladies with respect....and he enjoys the fine things in life :)

Are you referring to ladies you have already met, or someone new? You may find that some ladies might be reluctant to meet for the first time in a public place and I urge you not to take offence to this. Also, be prepared to pay a social fee for this part of the encounter since that is officially when the time between you starts. I think the biggest concern in this case is that both parties behave accordingly in public. Someone who is not going to drink too much, get too touchy feely, etc.. As someone who knows you as a friend, I can vouch that you are above board, a total gentleman and that you can provide references for same. Have fun!

What discussion? Certainly not the discussion the OP had intended when he started the thread. Had the thread not been jumped on to express a few hang-ups over the B-word, we probably would have seen 25-30 happy hobbyists highlighting 30-35 of their favorite ladies (yes, B-word notwithstanding, some would likely name more than one). And what would have been wrong with that??

Had my Thanksgiving dinner which was great and I ended up having some family members help me so it all worked out. I'm tired but friends want me to go out for a drink so I guess that's where I'm headed.

Long weekend ... spending most of it in front of the computer working. But the pies are made and tomorrow there will be a feast. Additional Comments: @Emma ... yes, indeed, Pumpkin pies, and a peach pie as well just for something different. These are things that don't suck. Porthos

Opening the hot oven door, only to have the outer pane of tempered glass shatter into a million pieces all over the kitchen floor. Luckily the inside pane was intact, so the food did not get glass splattered all over it.

Of course, without over analyzing the whole situation. We are people, not robots!

Well, I'm not Mod, but... :) Most people post the reco in the reco section for the city where the encounter took place. Yes, this means that some traveling ladies end up with several small reco threads rather than one long one. I'm not aware of any length limit, except the site-wide limit on post length (10000 characters, I think). If you hit that, I guess you could always wait 24 hours (or for someone else to reply) and then post part 2.

It is difficult, especially if you are on the shy side; there really no two ways about it. The nice thing is that very social places like cerb give you a chance to get to know the lady a bit before you actually get together, and those communications can serve as an icebreaker when you meet. That said, first meetings are always going to be a bit uncomfortable. Your best bet is to sincerely give the proper non-verbal cues (be polite, deferential, clean, friendly and look the lady in the eye). This should always end well, and if it doesn't, maybe there's something else going on. Second, third, etc. meetings can be very different, especially if the first meeting went great. One of my favorite recollections, from a couple of years ago, is with a lady who is very well respected on cerb but who doesn't post a lot. We had seen each other on two previous occasions. It was mid fall, so she was wearing a medium length coat. Well, she came into my room, in a bit of a rush. She quickly handed me her coat, and she had on a proper, but short black skirt and a white blouse, high heels and stockings but that was it (smile). Still standing, she gave me a big hug and kiss, pulled one leg up, announced "Right Now!" and, well, there you have it. Afterwards, we caught up with each other's lives with a great conversation and then has a more relaxed session. Lesson? There is no substitute for familiarity in these things .. its just too personal of an activity. But its worth the investment.

I meet really nice girls who are awesome. I always see the same one now as she is awesome!! I believe you shouldn't see a service provider if you can't afford to pay them well. Look what they do for us! I only go when I've saved up well more then they ask for and am treated very well! Fred

Why not read the laws (section 212-214 crimnal code) prostitution is legal (paying or sex) you just need to do it right. No picking up streetwalkers or discussing anythng in a Public place, no usng a common bawdy house (brothel) and make sure the lady is over 18. ....and Stop watching american tv and movies too you live in canada! We do not have the same laws.

I understand as a hobbyist you may have a budget, as any person does when looking for anything but to compare girls and their rates is unfair and unreasonable. As each of us offers different styles of services and different services. We all have different ways of evaluating our costs . We all have different expenses therefore different rates. It is silly to expect "Jane" to charge what "Jan" charges and so on, silly! Pick a girl if you like her you pay her asking fee, to whine or complain that it may be cheaper here or there will win you no fans or providers!! BP is a fine site I suppose but the difference between here and there is, here you know the pics you are looking at are the ladies , not stolen, you will also be guaranteed to get good service as we all value our reputations here, no fly by nights ! Also when you call a provider please do not ask any of us to lower our rates or mention that you think they are to high that is just rude .

Hate to play the Devil's Advocate here but how do any of us know he's worried about getting an STD from an SP? Maybe he's worried about giving one. There are always two sides to a coin.Sadly a lot of hobbyist's seem to immediately think the SP is the one to worry about.Just my opinion.

New Highlight of my day!!!!!!!! The shoes I ordered online arrived today. Ahhhhhh, that near erotic tingle you get when you open up your package and smell the fresh leather of your new Boots <3 nothing quite like it

I want people to be with me because they truly desire my companionship, not because I've created an environment where they don't feel safe to explore with other providers. I think the CERB community is truly beautiful in that sense. Of course when a regular patron decides to see someone else I have a little moment of "ah..." but it usually lasts no more than a couple moments. When the moment passes I move on to being happy for them and the provider in question. I think that's simply a normal human emotion... It's not the feelings themselves we should be concerned about, but rather, how we manage those feelings. In these instances 'grace' seems to be the most appropriate response. Also, I would never (ever) sabotage a reference, or engage in catty behaviour. This is about safety and solidarity amongst services providers, and for me, that's of the utmost importance.

Just sayin :) Peace MG

Tell her you're unsure and you want to learn!!! You'll be in for the time of your life!!!

Wherever did you get the impression that it's supposed to be all about the client? You can still provide top notch service to your client while still enjoying yourself. In fact you will find many men who love to please their partner and it turns them on when you are turned on. You have absolutely NOTHING to feel bad about.

I don't know if this would be considered mainstream or not, but I love women with long labia lips.

I think if she really wants to become an escort she should maybe register by herself on here and ask tips to others SP. No offence, but I would not like my "boyfriend" teach me how to become an escort.. lol You said she wasnt really good in bed.. so are you sure she enjoy sex? If she really wants to do this ONLY for the money, I dont think she will become a great escort.. I think you need to like sex to do it, no? Just my 2 cents