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If anyone thinks an advertiser on cerb is underage i will suspend the ladies account and ask her to send a photo of her id and a verification photo as well to ensure he id is hers. Feel free to pm me with the name as well.

Whew, if they advertise they are 20 you are okay then.. And pretty easy to get good fake id too. I think you have to be careful to make statements that are absolute, since nothing in life is that simple.

Either go to the police or social service agencies, show them the advertisement and tell them of your concerns about her being underage. And don't be concerned about the "men", in my opinion, any man who would have sex with a underage girl deserves what he gets. My two cents RG

disturbing ... http://www.thestar.com/news/canada/article/1314154--gonorrhea-superbug-resistant-to-cefixime-other-antibiotics

To those guys who see younger adult SP's, especially those that advertise they are 18-19, irrespective of whether you are a young guy yourself or older check the ladies ID. If she is unwilling to produce an ID, do not see her. You do not want to have an encounter with an underage girl and get caught. You'll find the police (and courts) will not be understanding if you get caught. A simple ID check will ensure two adults are having a consensual encounter A morning rambling RG

The best thing to do is contact the police and take it from there. Although you say she is working on her own terms and if in fact she is underage, she really wouldn't be at the maturity level to make a wise decision as to working in this business. And for those who see younger escorts and are unsure of their age, don't hesitate to ask for identification to avoid any type of prosecution. When I was younger and in this business in my 20's, many men were leery and asked for i.d. because they really couldn't pinpoint how old I actually was. I showed it to them without revealing my real name and other info except for date of birth and the year I was born. As an SP, I wasn't offended as all since there are many underage girls out there in this business who are working without being coerced into it and sadly there are those who are . You did the right thing.

Can we change that to "any man who would knowingly have sex with a underage girl deserves what he gets"? Some ladies don't look as young as they really are or lie about their age when asked. Of course this is not a risk for me as I have no interest in someone young enough that age would be "questionable" at all. Common scam in the third world, were the police are always able to come busting in (prearranged) and hustle the client out of a couple of hundred dollars to avoid prosecution because he wasn't smart enough to check her cedula de identidad, of course in Canada a lady is likely to take offense or refuse if you asked to see her ID.

Cover your personal information by your hand or fingers (like your name for example). your client is only interested in two things. Your birthday and your picture none of which is personal information.

Yes, absolutely. Even if it was eventually accepted that you'd done due diligence and been fooled anyway, a public accusation from LE about having been with an under-age SP would probably have a pretty devastating effect on your life; people would probably assume that you'd set out to find an under-age SP, regardless of what had actually happened.

I'm with the majority here; I don't see what there is to be gained from telling her at this point. Kicking someone when they're down just isn't cool. But you should take extra care not to get found out accidentally... because that would be even worse!

Well worth the risk for all gentlemen if they have doubts about her age as opposed to taking a chance and engaging in sexual activities with an underage young lady.

Boy that's a tough one. I guess it might influence your decision if you knew that she decided to do this of her own free will (and that's debatable if she's a minor). If she's being pimped or influenced by an adult then I don't think you have a choice but should indeed report it to the authorities. No one has a right to abuse children in this way. If you don't have enough confidence to let the police know then an anonymous call to one of the social agencies who are responsibility for youth welfare, who are charged with investigating and following through with child welfare issues.

I know some of this has been covered here already, and I just posted this to the other board also, but I thought it could be a useful reminder here too. Knowledge is power (and health!) :) ______________ As part of some New Years resolutions, some people are thinking about their health and taking it more seriously. Well, sexual health is a very important part of that, and something that should be taken seriously all year round :) Getting tested is very important for hobbyists too! Many of the most common STI's (particularly in men) have no symptoms!! Treatment for the most common STI's is usually quite simple and effective, often with one dose of antibiotic. Left untreated can lead to serious complications. The Ottawa Sexual Health Centre is THE BEST place to go for this because this is their area of speciality and they will order all the proper testing. You need: urine samples, blood tests and throat swabs to be given a complete sexual bill of health. The Sexual Health Centre's testing is anonymous, you don't have to give your real name, and you do not need to provide a health card. There are different ways to get your results, but generally you give a phone number and if they don't call you, your tests have not shown any problems. (No news is good news!) The Sexual Health Centre has more than one location, as they offer satellite clinics throughout the city on various days of the week. Locations and hours here: http://ottawa.ca/en/residents/public...-health-centre For example, I always go to the Barrhaven clinic, I get there right when they open at 2:30, and I have never had to wait more than 10 minutes to see the nurse. If you are worried about discretion this is perfect, because they host the clinic within another regular Health Clinic (so you could be there for any number of things). To make it eve more discreet, you can go to a location in a different part of the city than where you live/work. The nurses at these clinics are very friendly, non-judgemental, knowledgeable on sexual health, and are happy to answer any questions you may have. I recommend the Ottawa Sexual Health Clinic above a regular health clinic or your family doctor, because they know all the exact testing you need and specialize in this area. For your own sake, and the benefit of the Escort/Hobbyist community, Please get tested regularly! :biggrin: Thank you!

Ok guys, I have seen this lady twice now. After the first time, I did not review because once she becomes known, she will be very busy, and hard to book. After the second time though, I thought I would let the secret out. Nikki is what I would describe as a pixy of a lady. Very cute with a nice smile and personality. We have all seen the pix in her album, and I can tell you that her tiny tight bum looks just as good in person as in the pictures. Boobs are well in proportion to the rest of her body, as well as perky and firm. Nikki loved to DFK, and her breathing became heavy very quickly. After a few squeezes and rubs of her pussy, she became very drenched down below, and starts making those sexy noises we all love to hear. DATY was nice with her doing some grinding in my face, (oh so wet!!!) Pulled her to the edge of the bed for some DATO, and she seemed to like that. Switched to 69 with her doing some very nice and wet BLS. On to full service with me on top, and oh she is tight... :-) I only lasted a few minutes, with her voice in my ear repeating those dirty words I said to her. (One of the hardest orgasams I have had recently.) I did ask what her restrictions were, and she told me that she did not do CIM or GREEK. (No fingers in the back door either...) In my opinion this gal should not be passed up. NB: A shout out of thanks to the good folks at Pfizer for helping an older man like me make these encounters possible. ;-)

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If you know this person, I'd also recommend trying to connect them with some resources in the city they're in. Perhaps there's a sex worker's rights organization in the city, or a youth service that's sex worker friendly? (I know Maggie's, POWER, and Stella would all fit under this description or have knowledge of other applicable resources). I've worked with a lot of youth, and while the cops or child welfare agencies are sometimes really great and helpful, sometimes they're not (especially depending on the city), and it's very possible that this person might need someone else around for support. Without that support, it's very possible that she might end up just turning to much less safe and less regulated ways of working if she feels like she's losing her only source of income, and end up feeling like she has to take much greater risks with her body and push her own boundaries a lot. On another note, I don't think it's very likely I'd ever be mistaken for under 18, but if asked I don't think I would be comfortable showing my ID because it has lots of personal information about me that I'm not generally comfortable sharing with clients. Does anyone know of another way for SPs to verify their age?

Welcome to Cerb. All I shall say to your post is that in my experience the photos that are posted on Cerb are indeed accurate. The board is run in such a way that should that not be the case then the member in question would not be a member for long. I also suppose that I hesitate when I read your statement about pictures not always telling the truth. Probably I would agree in the sense that the women almost always are better looking in person than what they portray in their albums. I trust our Cerb ladies and if you read the reccos and for a first encounter stay with a reputable woman then I can virtually guarantee that you will be a very happy man.

SaraMQ is close to Lincoln Fields Emily J is close to Algonquin if I remember well I think Taylor Monroe is in the area as well

OP, You'd be more likely to find that what you're looking for in Toronto, or NYC. But that's a long way to go just for one hour. My suggestion is to look at websites of escorts in those cities who command those fees, and compare them to the escorts available in your location to see if there is a very big difference in terms of the standard of physical beauty you have in mind. My guess is if someone took a photo of a woman who matched your description of beauty from each location - with one at $300 per hour and the other at $1,000 per hour, but hid the info from you and only showed you the photos, you wouldn't be able to tell who's the super pricey fancy NYC date, and who's the lady offering her company at the going local rate. Remember a lot of what you see in photos has a lot to do with lighting, camera angles, and background setting. It's not hard to create an luxuious "money shot" in a photo, then slap a high sticker price on the model's time. Something to consider anyway. Have fun, whatever you decide.

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I have been forturnate over the years to have traveled extensively and my fav city pic would be Kelowna Charlottetown - in the summer would be pretty cool too

Having visited, Vancouver,Winnipeg,Calgary,Montreal,Toronto,Kingston, Quebec City, Moncton,St.John,Halifax and Charlottetown. It is a very hard decision, to say which is the best to live. But in my travels I thoroughly enjoyed the east coast hospitality in the four cities I visited and if I was to retire I would seriously look at summer home in Charlottetown or Halifax. I found both cities very charming,easy to commute and very friendly people and to be that close to the ocean would be a great place to retire. Kingston would be a close third, with the waterfront and scenic downtown core. I should say I really love Ottawa and living here, I'm looking at it from a retirement point of view.

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I love scars. Because they mean someone did live. Battle scars, surgery scars, cat scratch scars, acne scars, body mod and even more SI scars Someone that has the strenght to pour inner emotional pain into physical pain and actually survive and not kill themselves...is beautiful to me Give me an imperfect body of someone that has a story to share over flawless skin of someone that has nothing to say

Following Emily's post, i wanted to add information and resources on the Québec side (Charlotte covered the Montreal resources in this thread, so i am adding info for the Gatineau side). The Hull CLSC offers the service. Contact information in French and English. The service is offered by appointment, and the staff is very professional. Still on the Québec side, the only private clinic i know that offers the service is Arrimage Santé.

Looks like you have this feeling of guilt for not telling your wife about getting intimate with another someone. This is your reason for posting this question. Your wife is still ill so maybe it's best to hold off seeing an SP or starting a new relationship. When your wife is fully recovered (hopefully soon), you can see if you two can share a bed again.

Unfortunatly under aged girls will post for themselves and lie about their age to do so like some older ladies will lie and say they are younger. I've had a long time customer tell me a story the other day that he had been contacting a girl inquiring about availability and rates. a few days later her starts getting messages calling him a pervert. these were apparently from the 16year old girl's mother. YIKES that's awkward I'm sure

Time and marketing are the answers. If your a new lady and you want to start at the top your gonna need an experienced agent or a miracle. As an independent with no contacts coming into the field your gonna want to take every call you can that is safe. See you don't get to choose who you see. You screen through who contacts you. If a client sends red flags your way then you don't see him. Besides that this is the job we do. Ugly as sin or brad pitt, as long as he/she is polite and clean and what you not willing to do is respected, then a call is a call and everyone deserves a lil fun....... That why they call us :) Our job is to be the playthings and fantasies for men and women. The GFE, the PSE, the fetish, candle light dinners, the public date, and the more often then not "I just wanna fuck you and go"........... This is our job, to play these roles. Personally I have a closed list of clients that can msg me anytime they want that are tres bon. Mind you I've been in this city slightly over 10 years and have marketed myself to be a "rare treat" for availability these last few years after the many it took me to get to this place. I don't do as many calls as I did 10 years ago, but I do make just as much and have time for a full life outside of sex work. Market yourself towards those that you would like to seek you out. my advice is to market yourself as well as you can. If not then find an agent with experience in the area. And be sure they can show you credentials, asking for a T4 from the company for tax purposes is the best way to go. Only licensed agents can do this. There are lots of places in town that are just a # in the local paper taking 1/2 of ur pay illegally.

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If she takes offence or refuses, walk out the door... Fast! Additional Comments: It doesn't matter what your purpose was in posting. You have a responsibility now and you know it. The legal age to be a prostitute is 18. Look, I understand that when we were young we all made various poor choices. Choosing to be involved in prostitution is a choice that should be made with some maturity. Regardless of what age we believe someone really becomes mature, I think someone less than 18 is too immature to make this choice.

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My advice would be identical to what everyone else has said. There are times when one ends up in very difficult circumstances through no fault of their own. There are life's realities having to do with basic human needs and intimacy is one of those needs. What is more difficult is what it appears as if you are struggling with. You did not use the word guilt as you described your dilemma, but I am reading that into your question. You obviously care a great deal for your wife and this lack of intimacy is leaving you in a very difficult position in your mind. Guilt is sometimes an irrational feeling that comes even when it is not deserved and when it is not a valid emotion. Geeze I still feel guilt at times for seeing SP's and my wife passed away almost 2 1/2 years ago. Totally irrational and illogical but real none the less. Your wife need not know about your liaisons with SP's and this is a situation that is not simply rationalizing away an action but is important for both her and for you. You require your intimate moments somewhere and she requires your devotion and support. Those two things are not mutually exclusive. You can do both and be very proud of what you are doing. Best of luck to you and don't let this detract from what pleasures you derive from SP's and neither from your devotion to your wife.

If anyone suspects child sexual abuse, they have a legal, and ethical, responsibility to report it. The appropriate authorities will get to the bottom of whether the facts confirm child sexual abuse. It doesn't matter whether she's doing it voluntarily or is coerced. It's still child sexual abuse in the eyes of the law. I'll explain why below. Too much of the history of child sexual abuse involves people who have had suspicions but did not report them for various reasons ("I'm not really sure... I don't want to make a wrongful accusation... I should mind my own business..." etc). You'll never be certain because you can't investigate the facts from afar. Contact the authorities who can. All reports can be made anonymously. The criminal code identifies various "age of consent" for sexual activity. It's lower where both parties are consenting youth ("young lovers"). Underage prostitution falls into the category of of "exploitive sexual activity" and the age of consent is 18. Since there is likely to be a pimp involved with someone who is under this age, it's fairly obvious why it is called "exploitive sexual activity". As for who to call, call the Police. The NS Child and Family Services Act only applies to children under 16. This leaves a gap for 16-18 year olds under the Provincial Act and the potential for an investigation to get lost in the bureaucracy. If she's under 18, the Criminal Code will still apply. The Halifax Police have repeatedly shown their willingness to take action on underage prostitution and the Crown lays charges against the pimp, not the victim.

you should be more concerned about her if she is underage...as far as hobbyists seeing her, they are adults who are usually of sound mind to make their own decisions and deal with the results. Though one should definitely be concerned for both, I think you have your priorities backwards.

Happy birthday Sophia! Hope you had fun

I'm an advocate of the flu shot, but everyone gets to make their own choice. I'd just throw this into the mix: the flu shot doesn't try to make you clean, it actually makes you dirty on purpose.(1) It contains the actual virus (or parts thereof) in order to make your body stronger, not weaker. The virus you get in the shot is dead, so your body gets to learn what it looks like without the virus trying to kill you. And then your body will react faster next time you're exposed. It's the same process that would happen in nature if you simply were exposed to the living virus; your body learns its shape and you overcome it, left stronger for next time. But it's controlled. As Jesse Pinkman would say: Yeah science! (1) And now some community-targeted advocacy: C'mon -- who on this board can turn down a chance to get dirty on purpose!?!? And I mean that deep-down, it-runs-in-your-veins kind of dirty that's worth paying some money for. And you get the shot from a nurse. Who's making you dirty! So she must be a naughty nurse! Etc. etc.

Hahahah was thinking of this song last night while looking at some albums of sexy women here on this board. Here is one song I would love to have a lady strip away for me...guess I'm old school and showing my age..

I am a non believer in it, the one year I had it I ended up with pneumonia not once but twice. I will never get it again and am against it. We never had vaccines for the flu or pneumonia when we were kids and we were fine, you need some germs to build your immune system and the flu shot to me is just like a light cover, it wont prevent anything, just prolong the inevitable of eventually getting sick. PLus has anyone ever thought of what the long term effects maybe - every drug or immune altering thing has a long term effect. Why put anything else into your body when in this day and age we take in more than we did 20 years ago. Get your rest, drink water, eat healthy, wash your hands and for gads sake cover your mouth when you cough. I say use at your own risk.

Do not tell her. It would be cruel to do that while she is ill.

Yes, I don't know what these girls are thinking when they post ads like this. You'd think that it would make more sense to advertise yourself using the name you used at Nevada's.. there must be some of your old clients that would follow you, when you went indy, right?. So, as for this "newcomer from the Netherlands" theme.. Obviously she's not a newcomer, as verified by several reputable posters.. From the Netherlands? maybe, or maybe just her grandfather emigrated from the Netherlands.. regardless, this promotional approach doesn't work with me, and in fact, has the opposite effect.

I have not been on very much of late and it seems as if there have been intermittent server issues. The intermittent things are the most difficult to find and fix! I have never written this before but have said it to a number of people. This site is pretty amazing and is very sophisticated in the way that it functions. It is user friendly, easy to navigate, and thanks to Mod is responsive to suggestions from our community of members. To the Mod, a good luck with the server issues and a huge thanks for the work that you do on our behalf, clients and SP's alike.

I personally disagree, many clients have a particular fetish or specific interests and I for one would not like to have a client leave unsatisfied because he never asked if I offered that and it turns out I didn't. I am a firm believer that if you want something, ASK IF IT'S AVAILABLE. This helps to ensure a good client/SP match rather than throwing your sausage and beans into the dark and hoping for the best. If I don't offer what you're looking for, rest assured that someone does and hopefully other SPs agree with me that being asked what is on the menu is not distasteful. The only distasteful way to approach it would be to ask if there is any reduced costs for such & such services...as most of us know, it's the time you pay for not the service. But asking what services are available should not be taboo, imho. That's like saying it's wrong to ask the McDonald's cashier if Big Mac's come with pickles or not. You're not asking for a price check on a pickle-less burger...simply informing yourself of the...err...toppings. :) Additional Comments: Yes, most of us I'm sure have "heard it ALL before" ... I don't think there's much left to surprise me!

Winnipeg may have it's issues but there are still many of us gentlemen here that really appreciate the services you girls provide! It saddens me to here my city has a bad reputation :(

'Don't call us, we'll call you' - CORRECT An SP should never be cold-calling or cold-textinga client, unless he has said this is fine to do. I have a couple of clients who enjoy getting the occasional text from me just saying hello!, but I've only done this at their encouragement. Otherwise, the only time I may call/text a client is at an agreed-upon time, such as, I'm supposed to contact them the morning of an appointment to let them know my location. They're expecting my call. This is a business of discretion, and I assume, unless told otherwise, that every one of my clients has a spouse/family/coworkers with them at all times, so I would never place their privacy at risk by contacting them randomly.

Here is a question for the SP's: Would it be okay to ask for a session of DATY, DATY & more DATY??? With some hugs and kisses thrown in?? What do you think?