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I am one stubborn bitch and will do what I please and never bow down to pressure. I am what I am and like me or not is your choice to see me or not and vice versa :). Peace!

So, after reading this thread and the BBFS thread, if some of you say that BBBJ is the same as BBFS then all the ladies who chose to offer BBBJs at their discretion should be blacklisted the same way as when a client asks for it? I offer BBBJs at MY discretion but I am certainly not willing to throw out the condoms out the window and start offering BBFS!!

This might not be a popular opinion and has the potential to offend some ladies but, from where I stand, I feel like it has to be said. Ladies, YOU are the one putting pressure on yourselves! If you do not want to offer a service, DON'T! It's that simple! Fact is, there are many successful SPs in this industry who only provide CBJs. I will not mention names because it is not my place to do so but if you do some research, you will find what you are looking for. Supply and demand: it is up to you to advertise and find your niche market; by having a niche market, you might no longer be reaching out to and/or appeal to the masses, the ones who have to have BBBJs BUT you will definitely find gentlemen YOU are compatible with and therefore, enjoy yourself that much more. Most gentlemen are great and will still see you even if you are offering a different type of service (please note I didn't say a lesser service) when it comes to oral. Most even prefer the whole experience over one single specific act. Ladies, have some confidence in yourselves! You are all great SPs/Companions who deserve to feel at peace when spending time with someone. Find your niche market and rock their world!

The problem with what you wrote here can be summed up in Mark Twain's words that there are lies, damned lies, and statistics. Yes, over 50% of the SP's "who responded" said they felt pressure. However only 30 SPs have responded to date. Is that a representative sample, or are most of the respondents just those who do not want to offer BBBJ? The trouble with this thread and the other on the topic, is that people are trying to use "statistics", and statements that imply they are being coerced, to win their point. If an SP does not want to offer BBBJ, then that is their choice. The fact that another offers it should not concern them. Read that again! It is none of their business. I have seen people argue on these threads that it is their business because another SP offering that service puts them at risk if they see the same clients. Well that would only be true if every client only had sexual encounters with "sex-workers". I can't recall ever getting a CBJ from a "civillian". So that shoots down that argument. The only way you would ever be truly safe is if everyone in the world only did oral covered. Again, whether a sex-worker offers a CBJ or a BBBJ, or DATY (covered or uncovered), or DATO, or Greek, or DFK or Mild BDSM, it is their own business and should not be debated here, or anywhere else, by other sex-workers or clients. Some sex-workers on here are saying they feel coerced to give BBBJ, but I would argue that this whole debate could be seen as an attempt to coerce or use the "court of public opinion" to get those who do offer BBBJ to change their service. That could be for safety reasons, but I could also imply it is to reduce what some may think is the competitive edge given to those who offer it. However, reading these threads and seeing the results of the poll you could draw the conclusion that it really doesn't matter one way or the other. Again, the decision to do a BJ covered or uncovered is up to the provider in question. It has no bearing on any other provider. You make your decisions based on what you feel is correct and guide yourself accordingly. What anyone else does is really none of your business.

I am posting this as remider that we are not super hero's and we are not invinciable! I came across this artical in hopes to just remind us that in our lifestyle, we need to be informed no matter how hard we want to put this issue in a box, and out of mind, we simly cant! http://metronews.ca/news/canada/609197/new-brunswick-officials-issue-std-warning/ This post is not intended to scare you, or annoy you, but just for a reality check. Play safe:)

I get asked to bring my yoga outfits (I wear nothing but Lulu lemon, hihi) just as much as I get asked to bring sexy French lingerie :) I recently had a client who wanted me to do very suggestive yoga moves with my outfit on. To spice it up a little bit, I poured a glass of cold water on my white and fit t-shirt (I was bare breast under), and then surrounded by mirrors I executed myself with very flexible moves. The water was cold as ice but the ambiance was hot as hell!

To address OP again, expect that without a reference you will likely be expected to provide real genuine information about yourself (name occupation, phone number etc.. As a first timer, I know that this can be very nerve wracking putting that out there but it will have to be done so make your mind up to it. I did it and so did every other client here at some point. The ladies here on CERB are professionals and just as you might be concerned about letting yourself become "vulnerable" to someone else, you have to realize what you are asking of the SP and how vulnerable that makes her. Take your time, read all the newbie and other threads, note who the prominent posters are and their reputations. Look at the wonderful variety of ladies in your area of interest (posting itself is a little skewed toward Ottawa ladies so search for your area). When you find a lady that appeals to you mentally through her posts and physically through her photo's, review her preferred method of contact and send her a polite complete message (no texting short hand for first contact) introducing yourself. Keep in mind that the more serious, sincere and forthright you are the better it will bode for you in the eyes of the lady. Keep to the three message rule, be ready to book by the third message, if you tend to drag it out she'll think you are just playing around. For me my first time, I actually took the time to write a carefully crafted letter in Microsoft Word, and having viewed the ladies requirements on her website provided her with much of the required information in the very first communication. I outlined that I was a first timer and what type of an encounter I hoped to experience. In my case my letter was about a page and even provided a sense of what the lady could expect from me and my personality (however I can be long winded as you can see from my post). The letter almost had a formal professional tone but softened just a little. In that situation it set the tone perfectly for the lady and she was very receptive to further communication and booking of a date. Think of the first contact as the 5W's (who, what, when, where and why) Who you are (cerb name and real name) What you want (type of experience your looking for) When you want it (time, date) Where you want it (incall/outcall) Why you chose the lady (what appealed to you) Once the first time is over, it'll feel much different after that! I know it can be scary the first time around, but I assure you the ladies are definately not scary one on one :) Now stop reading my post and go and book a lady! Chuck

I'm anewbie here (When will I stop saying that) and I have not had much experience with CBJs. Even though it didn't seem to make a differnce to me, I still find myself leaning toward those who offer BBBJ. That doesn't mean I excluded those who only provide CBJ as I have seen several on here that I really want to meet. I certainly would not be one to pressure anyone into anything they don't want to do. There are many factors to the clinet moving on from an SP. (Although having so many beautiful SPs on here makes it difficult). Price and other restrictions can affect it. The one thing I do look for is DFK (and kissing in general). I haven't seen many on CERb but if they say they will not then I look elsewhere. What can I say, I love kssing This business is like any other business. Supply and Demand. It's the driving force behind how any product is offered. That being said, there is one factor that most business don't have to deal with and that is that something is unsafe. As for you lovely SPs, it is always difficult to figure out a line you are willing to draw and not cross. There will always be clients that will move on if you don't provide certain things (ie the DFK). There are always SPs willing to provide things you might not want to. You have already drawn certain lines. Some won't provide Greek, others at an extra cost ect. Sometimes you have to stay away from the mainstream and find a niche market. Don't worry about what others are offering or what clients you may lose. Most of you ladies on here have so much more to offer so I would only hope that only a select few customers would be lost due to this limit. And hopefully new clients will start lining up

It's scary when you find out your information, particularly your location has been shared without your consent. I've recently had an issue with a few friends exchanging my info, details, location, with each other, and once I realized what was going on, I stopped contact with all of them but explained why their indiscretions can lead to serious problems for a lady, particularly an incall provider.. It makes me feel very unsafe that this info circulates, and while I do enjoy my incall location, and am very comfortable there, it's unnerving to feel it has been compromised in any way, even if the outcome isn't of the worst..

Love is a key to life. It only becomes a problem when you love more than one person (relationship wise)

"The market" produces sweatshops, child labour, and kiddie porn. "The market" will blithely chart the point where those who want it can even get bbfs. "The market" says nothing about whether its outcome is good or laudable, it just plots all those points where anything that's desired finally gets close enough to shake hands with someone else's willingness to provide it. That willingness might be coaxed by more cash, or simply extracted by the provider's desperation at some particular moment. Pay enough, or find someone desperate enough, and sure... "the market" will eventually provide just about anything you can think of, no matter how bad an idea it is for one or both parties. Despite the thread we're in, I make this point not to condemn bbbj; I just have no patience for the idea that "the market" is an unquestionable arbiter of desirable outcomes, and that its workings are good for all participants. When your alternative is starvation or eviction for you and your family, you can just barely be described as a free and willing participant in the market for a service you then provide. It's not always civilized to let "the market" take its course. Human values often require intervention, and at least some regulation. This glosses too breezily over what factors might play into what a provider decides is "appropriate". Several admirable and insightful SPs in the last couple of days have stated clearly that they push the line to a place they're not entirely happy with, because that's what it takes to secure clients in "the market". And only an untalented SP, having already made her decision, will let you know during an appointment that yes, the market has forced her into a place she doesn't want to be. I'm troubled by this sentence, but maybe you mistyped. Did you really have BBFS in mind here too?

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Sooooo.... For strictly educational purposes, I have been studying the nude female form on the internet. I know what you are saying, "God Bless you Old Dog for making such a sacrifice for the benefit of CERB." Really my friends, it has been an honour to serve my community in such a manner. I know this has been a topic discussed before BUT... it's so damn much fun to talk about . When I was a kid back in the dark ages, the female form and the actors in the Planet of the Apes had one thing in common. Robust foliage. A vast amount of shrubbery. A tree lined avenue to paradise. A big bush out front to keep the neighbours from seeing the valuables. Then came marriage. <shudder> When I re-emerged into the land of the enlightened, I had noticed a change to the landscape. Women had decided (without my input, I may add) to trim the hedges.... way back. A clean front yard to match the back as it were. No extraneous vegetation. Curtains no longer needed to match the carpet. The wall to wall broadloom was removed for hard wood floors. I tell you it came as quite a shock. My ex rarely let me near the garden. So to see a wealth of women sporting the clean as a whistle look I was at first dismayed, but I have become used to it. BUT NOW..... here's the thing. I finally got used to seeing women sporting that newborn look when all of a sudden.... it seems to be changing. I see little welcome mats. Table runners. Throw rugs in all shapes and sizes. Some are even going back to a sleeker version of the acquired growth. Every site has a good percentage of women that are sporting some degree of folicular activity in the nether regions. So I ask (for purely educational purposes only) is this a trend that is re-emerging? And how do we feel about it? I know for me, bare is great but I have always had a fondness for just a smidgen of what emerged at puberty. It doesn't have to be like the amazon rain forest, but a nice little landing strip just sets me more at ease. What are your thoughts?

Morning all! While I was "off" recovering, had lots of time to think (I know, I know it does not happen often!). Thought about all the lovely Ladies who are so talented, I just wanted to point it out and say "thank you". We have Ladies who are full time MP's or SP's. We have Ladies who balance "traditional" work lives, in the government, at hospitals, in offices, in banks, etc. and then spend time with us hobbyists. And we have Ladies who are still in university and college, some even in Masters level courses handling that workload, then spending time with us. Then we have the Ladies who balance their work lives with children, then work, then with us. To all of you, thank you. You are special folks who work hard to make us hobbyists happy. The Liquor

I digress. I think everything is fair game. To say that some topics are irrelevant discussion just seems bizarre to me. I don't know what you picked up from this thread, but I did learn something new from it. Here's what I do with a thread with a topic I have no care in the world for - ignore it. I can't think of any industry out there that isn't influenced by what their competitors are doing. To say that what another SP does is none of another SP's business is in my opinion massively presumptuous. Nevertheless, I haven't read many SPs on this thread actively denigrating others for offering the service. Finally, statistics aside, lets look at one fact. 16 respondents replied with the feeling of being pressured. I can't for the life of me begin to understand that sort of pressure in this case, but I can do my part in alleviating that concern. Call the stats completely bogus, but you can't deny that for whatever reasons, even for those that you think are dumb or non-existent, they are some you do have the feeling of being pressured. At this point it just becomes your decision with what you decide to do with whatever you've read here. I've already said what I'd do from now on, and if you read my previous comment again, you'll see I don't try to impose this on anyone else. Why this thread is important to me- I saw something that raised an alarm in my head, and decided to do something different. I am glad for this sort of discussion.

Don't take my statements to mean the market makes the right or ethical decision. If it did, would I be using my iPhone today? (another topic, another day). The market only has the values that those in it want to stand up for. It's up to people within the market to make the right decision for them and for groups to condemn and oppose factors within said market that are wrong/illegal/immoral/etc. I meant BBanything. The risks have been mentioned and argued about by others in this thread. We are lucky that it is acceptable to use birth control here. We are lucky in Canada to have extremely low, but not 0, rates of HIV and we have fairly low rates of STIs. If you're worried about STIs it's easy to walk in to your local ER, get antibiotics and move on. Is that the case elsewhere? My point is because of these 'benefits' of where we live we're having this discussion. Would those who want BBFS or BBBJ here do the same on vacation in Thailand or Africa?

I'm bumping this thread back up (as a reminder), as i've recently stumbled on a location being shared, with part of the information going "public". As clients, this is not our information to share with anyone, for any reason.

I would much rather get a BBBJ than a CBJ. It would not stop me from seeing a provide however. If the provider meets what I'm looking for she could cover it up twice for all I care!!! :)

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On Valentine's Day I treated myself with an appointment with Alexxandria from ALO. The initial contact and appointment booked was quite easy, plus she has one very sexy accent. :) Here is some eye candy for you gentleman, and some more... We also exchanged some pm's back and forth, and I told her I like to dominate a session by giving a lady a reverse massage, she allowed me too, most of the hour was spent on her, and making her feel like a queen on Valentine's Day. Alexxandria, has one very sexy and fit body, as you can see from above, she loves to work out and it shows. She has a great personality, loves to laugh and loves to enjoy life to the fullest. I think the last 15 minutes was spent with her on me giving myself a massage, and a delicious body silde. The finish for me was amazing she certainly knew how make to make very aroused, with a lot of teasing involved to get to the finish. Thanks Alexxandria, you were a lot fun to spend Valentine's Day with, by the way you looked amazing in your red teddy, and red high heels. 2 more pictures gents.... and her profile link http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=80417

Crank... it's the clown tattoo that you have on your junk. We've discussed this before. It's kinda... ummm... creepy.

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PcarSub, There are quite a few awesome ladies here on Cerb that will do that for you ;), some have posted in this thread already. Chuck

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I have a 19 years old tuxedo cat who just wants to be a pest. It used to be the sweetest cat ever, now he wakes me up at 5:30am for breakfast with is "I'm hungry and it's time to feed me" roar, so I get up and feed him and I go and sit my ass on the couch until he is done and then he comes out from where I feed him with his "where is everybody, I'm all alone roar" until I get up and he sees me then I get the light "meow" I knew you were there. He drinks a lot of water and pisses a lot(always in the litter). This cat is spoiled, we have 2 litter for him(it) and they are the plastic bins for the Christmas wrapper(huge) they need a full box of cat litter to fill them up. Believe it or not there is one for his piss and the other for his poop. Sir craps a lot plays tricks on us, he will go beside his poop litter and drop a fresh one on the carpet about once a week. Come supper time he will beg for food at the table and scratch my leg until I feed him something. Try to figure this one out, I will put a piece of food in front of him and he won't see it even if I point it out to him but he will see a bird in a tree 50 feet away from the house.

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I did not. I thought that if someone else had the same question, they would benefit from seeing the answer too. Polydeuces

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Wow. Where to start ;-) Lulus for you Sin Cindy Emily J Gabriella Laurence Lana lee Sexxxy Rebecca No name but a few of the delightful women here I apologize for the many names I'm sure to have forgotten. I'm sure this list will be updated very shortly lol

To a certain degree pubic hair trends are cultural. For me, I appricate diversity a lot even when it come to pubic hair and I can find a titilating aspect to both bushy or bare. As for my personal taste, visualy I prefer tidy trimmed pubic hair but for DATY I like bare. So a waxed vulva with tidy trimmed pubic hair on the mons is perfect. Christy's right though, with the cuts of some swimsuits the only option is bare. The first time my wife went bare it was to wear some WickedWeasel swimsuits I bought her. If you look them up you'll find out why you need to be bare!

I can say without question I need love in my life. It's important for me not only to share the good times but more importantly for support during the down times. That can come from family, friends, etc. or even from your pets. After a bad day at work, walking through the front door and being greeted by wagging tails and sloppy kisses from my 2 dogs puts me in a better mood instantly. And I think for many of us gentlemen on here, the same can be said for time we spend with the lovely ladies of cerb. To spend some quality time with a lady I've established a trust and connection with, leaves me smiling and happy for days. It's not love, but it's nice to be appreciated, accepted and made to feel special! And I love that feeling!

She used my pictures again today on BP! I called and texted her but she pretend that is her "real" pictures... Im even arguing with her... like if I dont know if they are my pics or not. shameless. Please guys, Im NOT in Halifax, that "Violet" is another girl who pretend the be me.

After reading some of my naughty stories... I actually have had several clients over the past few months specifically ASK ME to write a story about our encounter, or tell me that it was cool if I wanted to share the dirty details. Kind of like their own personal erotic tale for the spank bank.. hehe ;) I really like this, and I have lots of naughty stories to share on my blog over the next few months :) I would never divulge personal details about someone if it wasn't previously discussed, and have asked everyone who has ever been a character in any of my stories/recommendations if they were okay with it. The one above is just kind of a very generic run through for newbies of how the basic things could play out during a positive encounter. I think what someguy is asking is just to give the POV from an escort, on what to do and not to do, and have it play out in a scenario. He even said it could be a fantasy of a perfect encounter. Laying out rules and etiquette is one thing, but having it play out like a story can be just another creative mechanism to get the point across. Maybe kind of like the same way when I first started I used other ladies recommendations and reviews to find out what guys liked and didn't like and learn how to get better at what I do. :) Edit: Also, the other similar thread that has been mentioned is asking for something different, with actual details about specifics clients by name, (which is obviously inappropriate), and from my understanding, something different than what this thread is suggesting. We shouldn't confuse the two.

yes Love is a very tricky thing. Some people crave it and feel empty and lost without it. Others that feel that they've had it know how much it Hurts when its over. When Prince charming turns back into that frog (or that lady ends up being a witch. Whichever ;)) But there is unconditional love :) with your family, children or pets :) so for those people that feel empty with out love, look around. Call your mom, your sister or brother. Or cuddle up with your favorite fluffy animal. lol or if your like me, stand infront of the fish bowl and watch and talk to the fishy or even plants. Love can be shared in everything you hold dear

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Yes and no. The thing with Vegas and other American clubs is that they have actual VIP rooms, so you're paying more for the experience of having a different/private room and often a host or even waitress as well. Sometimes there are even different (more relaxed) rules in VIP that there aren't in regular lap dances. If you're just after lap dances, it could certainly be viewed as a "rip off" since you're not getting as much dance time for your money, but it's just a different experience in Vegas and clubs with VIP, so it's important to consider it as such.

This post is simply my attempt to reach out to say a great big THANK YOU to all the gorgeous Ladies on CERB. Regardless of being a M/P, S/P, Exotic Dancer, or " other " Today, as I was driving, I was thinking of the many ladies I have had the opporunity to meet in the past and look forward to meeting in the future. As a hobbyist, sometimes its easy to forget the challenges life brings to each of the ladies who provide the above noted services and that you are not immune to what life can throw at us. School, kids, family, sickness, cash flow, etc....what ever it is.........Elements of life we all have which we must deal with and are not immune. And sometimes, as a hobbyist, its easy to forget, you also have life elements outside of the Adult Entertainment industry which is filled with these daily life issues which are unique to each of us in some shape or form. Ladies, my hat off to you. You provide a valuable service and regardess of what ever is going on in your personal lives, you continue to smile and based upon my own experience continue to offer 110% to help each of your clients forget ( even for a brief moment ) about their own life troubles and bring a smile to your clients faces. Some of you are 24/7 others on a part time basis. You continue to bring smiles to your clients faces. Sometimes, clients tend to be selfish, myself included, and just for the record, I prefer not to be this kind of client. And to any who I have come across as being selfish, I sincerly apologise. The industry you are in, regardless if it is by personal choice or by chance, it is not an easy business to be in, and it can be a tough racket filled with its own business related drama issues. And sometimes as hobbyists we forget this. I wont forget. And if I do, please kick me in the ass as a simple reminder - lol Each of you must wear a different " hat " each time you meet with a client regardless if they are first timers or a regular, and then at the end of the day you change hats again to go home only to face your own personal challenges So, anyway, although I may not be saying this in the right way, or expressing myself in a way I would like to, I just simply wanted to take a minute to reach out to EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU IN THE ADULT SERVICE COMMUNITY AND TO SAY A GREAT BIG THANK YOU - Each of you are unique in your own way and thank you for what you bring to the table and to my life each time we happen to meet as I am not to old ( or stubborn ) to learn or listen to good conversation and advice. AFT MOPO

I personally am surprised that two thirds of the ladies that have responded feel pressured. I am further surprised that only 18 have put up a response, not sure what to make of that. I would hope that those that feel pressured, that isn't directly from the gentlemen, but more so that they feel that they need it to be competitive. And that isn't just in this life, think about all the athletes that put drugs into their bodies to be competitive and they would do it again, knowing the risks, which can be much more severe than the risk of a BBBJ. A lot of athletes shorten their lives because of it, and in some sports, the physical brutality, especially football can have some long term brain damage effects. So, why are they doing it, it is because the rewards can be significant. Smokers on the other hand, can't figure that one out. Anyway, the point being there are risk taken in life, we need to be aware of them, and make a decision that is right based on balancing the risks and considering the outcomes of not taking those risks. In the end, you shouldn't feel pressured, you should feel you made an informed decision. If you don't feel comfortable because of the risks, then perhaps those risks outweigh the benefit, and therefore you should not offer the service. I sure hope it isn't happening (the pressure) during an encounter, but suspect it may at times. The only one that bothers me are the ones that tell you up front they offer it, and when you arrive they now tell you they don't, must have been some misunderstanding. That is not right, and this happens too.

Drive me nuts? I don't even know where to begin. The dog: - Gets in our bed and licks her privates leaving huge wet spots. - Is completely immovable. Plunks herself down wherever you want to be and all you can do is slide her around with your foot. - Did I mention immovable? Gets in bed with you and progressively inches her way into wherever you are until you only have a tiny spot left. - Eats poop. I've given up on trying to stop her since it's mostly harmless but when her belly is bad and she comes back inside to throw up afterwards...you've not lived until you've cleaned up poop-barf. - Oh yes, immovable. If you're in a recliner, her favorite spot is under the footrest so you can't put it down. The cat: - Only drinks from the tap. This leads to her scratching the tub spout in the middle of the night to wake us up if we forget to close the bathroom door. - Excessively talkative. Constantly needs to tell you all about her day. - Needs to be fed even if she already has food. "Five in the morning? I better rub my whiskers in masters face just to make sure he doesn't forget to get up and feed me." - Trained assassin. Her preferred method is to make it look like an accident by tripping people going down stairs. - Cannot be behind a door. This means no more pooping or sex with a door closed since she requires entrance and will scratch the door or 'boing' the door stop until you let her in. Anyway, I love the critters but sometimes....Anyone want to adopt some pets? Slightly used, still got plenty of miles on them.

You are pretty amazing yourself and I SO enjoy our time. :makeout: --RAWR-- xx

Any person asking for or offering BBFS is insane and is a threat to us all. Blacklist them. :vf: As a hobbyist, I am really glad to see our SPs here come out so overwhelmingly against the stupid idea. :ThankYou:

One of the best parts about getting older in the hobby is that you can finally realize one great truth. Your penis is NOT the only thing that has an orgasm. True, it is the one part of the body that can give "evidence" of a successful encounter, but in reality the process of aging opens the door to the "mind-gasm." It's that little shiver you get when you see her at the door. It's that breathless moment when she places that first soft kiss on your lips. It's the moment of exultation when she guides your hand to the swell of her breast, the curve of her bottom... It's the childlike moment of expectation when she begins to remove her clothes... and yours. It's a myriad of moments, involuntary body reactions and snippets of frozen time that you have captured in your mind throughout each and every second of her time with you. When you are younger, most of that is just a blur - a preamble to the physical orgasm. The moment you savour most is when you have reached the state of physical euphoria... that briefest period when your body aches to release. But now, I remember. I remember when she walked through the door. I remember that kiss. I remember that caress. I remember the flush on her cheeks and the quickening of my heart. I remember her every move and each of those memories transports me back to that time. Getting older is not so bad. Not so bad, at all.

From the Client's Perceptive, Ladies, your running a business and clearly, there is a demand for your services. Please consider me as one of many examples. I do enjoy the services you provide however your services are not limited to pant's off to pant's on. Granted, that's the fun part. I appreciate the following skills, 1.The ability to schedule, don't throw an ad on the last page and wait for my call. You'll be too busy with the drunken sailor. 2. The ability to pick a quality location / hotel. I can blend in an upscale lobby in business attire but I can't stand outside knocking on your door looking over my shoulder. 3. The ability to keep me informed of your travel schedule. When our schedules meet up, It's great to know in advance and allows me to book in advance and gives me something to look forward to. 4. The ability to know your strengths. One example may be that most SP's are not great photographers. An i phone and a mirror is not considered a professional photo shoot. Post a professional photo and the quality of calls will come. 5. Work your regular clients. Trust is not something initially purchased however is something I will gladly pay for again and again. I pay for it in dollars, time and miles to see one of my regular SP's. Well, that's it from my perceptive. Anyone providing these skills gets my attention and my dollars. Speaking of which, thanks to a quality provider sending me an email two weeks ago, including a professional photo, advising me that she will be in town at a quality hotel.....I had the most wonderful lunch date today. Just my thoughts.

Thank you for making this thread. I would like to ad that there is nothing creepier than a gentleman contacting me either from my street corner claiming he has never seen an sp before, (strange) or worse having a guy demand your adress as first contact or the brutal, confirm your adress to you despite not having given it to him yourself. All of this is downright scary as far as I'm concerned. Posted via Mobile Device

Don't know about Jessica but I was there this weekend because I saw Lucy's car in the parking lot. I needed a pedicure badly and Lucy is the one I trust the most with my feet. It was great to see her and reminisce, we know each other a long time. I then went for an hour massage from her heavenly hands. Guys, let me stress ...... NO FINISH HERE. But the massage is excellent as well as pedicures. And yes, insurance receipts are provided. For all the Lucy fans, she said she is working Fri, Sat & Sun for the time being as she is going to school other days. She also offers acupuncture services now, that's what she was at school for the last few years.

Thank you very much mod for this. Although I obviously do not need a banner for myself, however, I find it very pleasant to purchase a banner for the favorite ladies that I have the pleasure to meet and spend time with and this one month banner at a much more affordable price (more affordable for me) would definitely make it possible for me to do just that and more often. I encourage fellow members (those who can afford it of course) to take advantage of the more affordable one month offer (or more if you can afford it). It is a small gift to the very precious ladies on this board for all the great time and unimaginable pleasure they grant us and I am sure they would all appreciate it. Besides this is a very small way to express our thanks and show our appreciation to the board which I believe has provided a very safe environment for our precious SPs to work and paves the way for us to meet them as well.