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Agree 100% :) The body is an amazing wonder, with so many things constantly going on inside us... sometimes you can't control all these functions as perfect as you wish. I think a quick "sorry!" and a laugh would be appropriate for sure. Quiffs, sneezes, farts, coughs and giggles... sex is not somehow magically exempt from these things. Our bodies are magnificent and we should not be ashamed of them in any way. :) I actually posted a video and wrote a short piece related to this subject last night on my blog. Titled, Sex is not a Fairytale, which says it all. Sex is human, raw and so very imperfect. It's not always, (or ever) like in the movies with chocolate dipped strawberries, fireworks and simultaneous orgasms. Sex is what it is. Sex is sweaty, with different smells, uncontrollable motions, funny noises, funny faces, and that's okay, and that is how I like it. :)

I have watched this thread and sat holding my tongue but my edit button has imploded so here it goes... Miss Gabriella, thank you for starting this thread! To the ladies who have weighed in, thank you. Pistol Pete, your hygiene is not in question here. You are far to much of a gentleman to be so blatantly ignorant of such a delicate detail. But... I personally know of a cerb member who claims to have impeccable hygiene which I know for a fact that the times I have met him, it was intolerable and I could not say anything for fear of offending as he is a lovely human being. After the last visit, I decided I simply cannot do it anymore and will not see him professionally ever again. Thinking that it might just be my olfactory perception out of whack, I followed up with other providers who know him and they all had the same experience with him. From his point of view, his hygiene is ticky boo but in reality it is an obstacle most of his providers can't overlook without gagging. This shows me that these threads are necessary, not just for the newbies but the seasoned hobbyist as well. If it saves one provider from having to deal with the gut wrenching smells of putrid B.O., crack chunks or the remnants of a human cheese factory, so be it. Providers are a sensitive lot and we avoid saying anything that may offend. What we can't say face to face, we bring up here. If it seems repetitive, so be it. Dealing with foul odours over and over and over again is more than redundant, its repulsive and repugnant and my second greatest challenge in my work... cat

Ok, I'm gonna be blunt (big surprise!) Guess what? You stink. You may think you don't stink, or that I can't smell it, but you reek. There's no polite way about it. We all need deoderant/antiperspirant/WHATEVER, so for the love of god, do something. Maybe no one told you because they didn't want to hurt your feelings, or embarrass you. I know I don't usually say anything--but I won't see you again either. So just trust me on this one--you smell.

Just feel the need to mention that most SPs wouldn't say anything about it to you as insulting gentlemen will not promote repeat business. That being said, if I encountered someone who's hygiene was a real issue, I would simply not be available to him in the future.

With respect, here's how it looks to me. The first time you see a lady, you steal time that she hadn't agreed to spend with you. If she doesn't know how to assert herself, she's probably inexperienced and has little or no support for maintaining her boundaries. If she pretends to be an enthusiastic playmate, you book another meeting. She agrees to see you because she doesn't know better. You still run overtime. If the time creates problems for her, it doesn't matter because you paid more, this time. Since you didn't compensate her for stealing time at the first meeting, you have a net savings for the total time. You feel like a winner because you've imposed on someone by ignoring your time agreement and essentially forcing her to appear to enjoy doing what you want, whether she likes it or not, while paying less than you should. Based on many years of experience, it's my professional opinion that men who behave in this way are a danger to inexperienced companions because they prey upon their fears and uncertainties, demonstrating a deplorable lack of respect for the women and the intimate care they receive. Such men are not really interested in a fun and playful erotic romp with a lovely lady. They want to exert power over women who aren't able to refuse them. My consistent advice to new, inexperienced paid companions is to establish clear boundaries and not to allow those limits to be violated. Once given an inch, some men will not settle for less than an entire continent. I tell these ladies never to fear that they won't get enough business: there's plenty to go around. Tolerating abuse often encourages abusers to continue to be abusive.

The talent is becoming to much for me. Its hard for me to pick a nail polish color. The duo I had with Old Dog and Lee Richards ( Recco on the way) was outstanding, now Notch? As a Nova Scotia gal I do like plaid, so.... Guys I am planning a visit in the fall and will be sure to give you proper notice as is expected. xoxo

I prefer being complimented on who I am rather than lied to. Nothing more flattering than being with a beautiful woman who, irrespective of this being a paid encounter, enjoys being with you. That to me is the biggest compliment this guy could get RG

What a remarkable thread! In the sheer diversity of responses and suggestions. The overall common theme and advice articulated thus far is: "Client, know thyself." Clearly everyone is different in almost every emotional aspect, and there are no hard and fast rules. Everything can and will happen. But clients and service providers alike must be more aware of their motivations and boundaries than the average person is. I suspect those who choose freely to be involved in the sex industry, as a group, are more emotionally matured. This is not meant to sound arrogant or judge mental of the mainstream, but consider the thoughtfulness which is gone into the preceding posts. Others on the "outside" may consider these things, but they are not discussed sincerely and openly.I wouldn't be at all surprised if we have a higher than normal number of people here with degrees in the various psychological disciplines. Apologies, for going off the thread topic but I just wanted to knowledge the tremendous amount of sincere consideration people have put forward on the issue of falling in love with a service provider. In appreciation of the "University of CERB" faculty and alumni. PatrickGC

That's so awesome Samantha.. I have had a few clients quit smoking too in order to improve our encounters and it's fabulous to be the one who spurs them over the edge to that decision. Something interesting about pheromones. Several years ago (about 15 now I'd guess) I was at a bar.. and went up to a guy who I found very attractive. I told him so... He asked me on a date and we were subsequently in a relationship for 6 years. Here's the interesting thing. The night we met he was wearing Obsession cologne. I absolutely can't stand any strong smelling spicy heavy cologne. I asked him to change it early into our dating.. but I loved the natural scent of his skin so much and it was his scent that attracted me even under (or over) the obnoxious cologne scent. That's how powerful pheremones are. What did I get him to change to? Cool Water.. I loved that cologne so much I'd wear it myself sometimes (the guys version.. not the women's). He only wore it when we went out for dinner/dancing etc.. not at home for general hanging about. But with or without cologne.. man I loved the smell of his skin. That can't be changed with cologne, soap or the like but diet and sure can and of course genetics plays a role.

While I enjoy my chosen profession, my SP relationships and my personal relationships are completely separate. I didn't embark on this adventure to find a mate. I really hope I don't come off as sounding too harsh because I do understand that feelings can surface. Sage advice has been given and though it may not help heal the heart, it is necessary to move on!

Today I make my blogging debut with some reflections on the nature of life as illustrated by my seashell collection: http://pixietryst.com/life-is-like-a-tin-of-seashells/

There is already lots of people who don't fallow those social expectations. (open couples, swingers, polyarmori, etc) The problem isn't really the expectations, but the people who aren't honest about what they want and decide to enter a situation they know they won't like anyway. Usually, those who aren't afraid to tell what they want end up being happier. :P

I'm new to the massage business and already, after only a couple weeks of work, I notice that my sessions vary greatly depending on the client. Of course the basics are all there, I don't cheat anyone out of what they paid for, but depending on the vibe I get from a client the session may change. If a client is immediately aggressive once the session begins, and continues to cross my boundaries even after repeated requests for him to stop, I will be more cautious about where I stand and how I maneuver my body. If a client is very respectful and perhaps a little shy, I may move in a way that will allow him to touch me more easily and feel less intimidated. I don't think any MA or SP should feel guilty about providing different sessions to different clients- we're not robots, clients come in for the human connection, and our decisions in interpersonal relationships are always subjective.

Today is a great day to enjoy a relaxing yet sensual and steamy massage! I am 5'4, big blue eyes, short dark hair and curvy with tattoos that compliment my body in all the right places!! I will provide you with a sensual massage to get you started. I will follow up with a sexy body slide that will have you wanting more! Satisfying for the eyes and the body!! Then I will let the bubbles lead the trail for my fingers in the shower!! Duos couples body slides showers reverse massage foot fetishes I am here today to heighten you senses today from 3:30PM - 11:00PM at Angel's Touch 613-274-7073 or Private Message to book.

I just want to say to all those write in their blogs, I really appreciate it. I'm not sure what it really does for anyone else, but for me it adds another layer of comfort with this industry. I think it's also really professional, a great method of marketing, and has time and again surprised (in a nice way) about the topics I've read. So thank you to all you fabulous ladies.

It is very unfortunate that subjects such as this one must continue to be brought up but one cannot deny the fact that since they do, there must be a valid reason! While I appreciate those of you who always put your best foot forward when visiting a provider, there are those who don't. Be it laziness, cultural beliefs or simple ignorance, the fact remains that body odor exists and sometimes it is offensive to others. Would you not want to get the MOST out of an encounter? If the simple task of being as clean as possible (including the use of deodorant or antiperspirant) is not worth the time then why should making you feel special be worth our time? It's quite simple, really! We want to please you! Please just take the small step to ensure that we can; happily!

Perhaps I am old fashioned and this is just my personal opinion. This falls under the same category for me as not eating garlic, onions or strong food prior to a date. I don't like to smell these things so why would anyone else. I realize the body has a mind of its own and may even ad some humor to any situation but for me that is quite a no no. It would just never happen.

One thing overlooked... colognes and perfumes are not meant to be used to mask a prevailing bodily odour; they are best applied to clean, freshly washed skin. In other words, if you spray a wet dog with Polo, it's still going to smell like a wet dog. As for nice light clean scents? The ever popular Acqua de Gio is good... Bulgari Aqua Issey Miyake - Summer Armani - Code Hugo Boss - Soul Lightly applied, they all make you feel just a bit more clean.

This is service provided by a woman from her home. She gives the massage on a table and it is undraped. She gives a light type of massage, more sensual than therapeutic. She gives a very nice finish. I have been several times over the years but it has probably been about 2 years since my last visit. She is a slender older woman, about mid 50's I would guess. This is my age range so I am very comfortable with it. Any mutual touching is done over her clothes. When I first started going she would wear dresses but the later visits she wore lingerie. She is a new age type and I think considers herself more a healer than SP. I did enjoy going there but as always YMMV.

I want to start the long weekend with a bang! Lets get all over each other in a slippery shower for two ;) Then we can have our party that ends with some very special explosions!! Call me at 613-523-6199 or PM Kelly Xoxox

What Cato said goes for me as well. Additionally, I think seeing the ladies, some of who I may have seen previously, interacting with other men would shatter some of the girlfriend fantasy. Intellectually, I understand the women I see also see other men. But I fear when confronted with visual confirmation my ability to suspend disbelief would be compromised. You should know this has nothing to do with jealousy. This is more about sharing something unique and intimate with a provider and not wanting the uniqueness tarnished. Additional Comments: As far as my comfort level on the board, at first I was shy; essentially a lurker. But after reading many informative, funny and erotic posts, I started to test the waters. The warm reception from the board members encouraged me. Now I feel very comfortable sharing thoughts and observations with this community.

I don't think we disagree at all. When I speak of the "dreaded L word" I mean it in the narrow societally accepted way ... love as defined in a certain way and largely in terms of monogomy. I think it's fully possible to love different people in different ways. And I even think it's possible to love multiple people in a romantic and deeply passionate way. It's not easy, but I think as humans our capacity to love is nearly infinite. The world would be a far better place if we could rid ourselves of all those societal hang-ups and realize that. This thread connects with a lot of thinking I've been doing lately about my relationships with people in my life who are very important to me. So I'd like to thank everyone for their thoughtful comments.

Had a lot of fun this afternoon with Jenny, & Sara. Ariel was there also. Thursday afternoons are looking WAY better now! Just need to get Bridgette in then too!

Great thread. Glad it was brought back to life. The thing I love about this site and these ladies and gents is the same as what Phadreus said. The people I feel I connect with on here are the people who let their real personalities show up in their posts. I'm a people person, but as I have grown older, I let people into my personal inner circle more slowly. I like to gauge people before I commit to some degree of friendship. I absolutely enjoyed the Halifax social because it gave me a chance to meet some of the same people that I enjoyed on CERB. They were as nice a bunch in person as I suspected from interacting with them on the forum. These are the type of people I enjoy meeting. When I give to or receive a compliment from a friend, we both know it's genuine. If it is a fabrication, we both laugh our asses off. I've met some terrific people on here of both genders.......the type of people I'll always think of fondly and look forward to seeing again.

I've gotten compliments on mine, but I have no idea what it is (lol.....good call, Cristy). Call me psychic, but I have a feeling that if you shower at the time of the appointment and, therefore, smell like the soap or bodywash that the SP provides, you're off to a good start.

i always wear "Axe Bodyspray" its supposed to attract women (according to thier ads), and so far so good. everytime i see an SP or MA, they always ask "what are you wearing? its smells sooo good!!! so that works for me, and makes me feel more comfortable when they say that!

Did you know... ...The Clitoris is the only body part in either females OR males, in which it's only function is pleasure? :) ...the "glans" which is just the tip that you can see has over 8,000 nerve endings, nearly twice the amount on the head of a penis? ...only less than one quarter of the clitoris is visible and the internal parts rival the size of an adult penis? ...the clitoris will grow up to 4x between when a women hits puberty up until after 30 years of age? ...ancient cultures used to worship the divine vulva as the gateway for all of human life? Yup, it's pretty amazing! :) <-- All that yellow is the clitoris!

I agree that sps run their biz the way that suits them. I do things with my sessions that gives that extra care and attention that someone paying 100plus dollars should expect and receive. I think about the only thing i would take issue with in situations is where clients expectations go to excess because they might be left with an impression that an sp who actually stays on schedule with the agreed upon and paid for time is now considered a clock watcher or worse, rushing lol I don't mean the times where sps are actually shortchanging agreed times but simply providing the agreed time. At some point that that isn't good enough, but are we now expected to provide 10 to 20% extra off the clock time in order to avoid being accused of clockwatching etc? Things I ponder over the years. :) And of course, we can't forget that when these things are provided, on a regular or infrequent basis, someone is going to put it into a review or discussion topic and the sp will be inundated with calls and appts from people who won't respect the time paid for, and they will be difficult for her to get to leave on time, or compensated for the extra time not freely given?

I used to use this stuff, but just can't seem to find it. Came with a warning and everything LOL Seriously though, I don't use aftershaves/colognes etc. One I have to be careful, my skin doesn't react too well with some after shaves/colognes. Second, a lot of people are allergic to scents...be terrible to see a lady and she has an allergic reaction to an aftershave I'm wearing. Third, the scent may in fact not smell good to the lady, but be strong and offensive I'll just stick to a shower with soap and hot water, dry off and apply antiperspirant Just too bad I can't find soap on a rope anymore LOL A quick rambling with flashbacks to the 1970's LOL RG

I really appreciate this good discussion, Charlotte. More than guys who want to haggle over prices, arrive early, try to stay late or, after they've arrived at the meeting place, pressure us for things we hadn't agreed to do, basic hygiene is the number one thing companions complain about. The guys who refuse to shower, the ones who shower but somehow don't get cleaner, the ones who seem oblivious to fecal matter clinging to their bodies are very challenging and sometimes impossible for us to engage with as well as we want to. A little over a year ago, a prospective client scheduled a lunch meeting with me. He wanted to get to know me before booking intimate time with me. Lunch was great. He had a sparkling personality and a great sense of humour. We talked and laughed, complained about politics, moaned about the endless Vancouver rain, told stories and otherwise quickly developed a very good rapport. When we left the restaurant, he walked me to my car. I offered a hug and he happily embraced me. That's when I smelled the strong cigarette smoke clinging to his clothes. I gave him a gentle kiss on the cheek. I could taste cigarettes on his skin. I didn't want to ruin the date, so I didn't say anything. I'm particularly sensitive to cigarette smoke. Heavy smokers often don't realize that the smoke and chemicals are absorbed by their whole bodies and exude from their skin. Without being too gross about it, the aroma is particularly pungent where there are major concentrations of sweat glands--that is, under the arms and in the groin. When he contacted me the next day to arrange a meeting time, I asked him about how much he smoked. He admitted that he smoked about three to three and a half packs a day. He was bashful about it, knowing how bad this was for his health. I had to tell him that I wouldn't be able to tolerate the smoke that oozes from a heavy smoker's pores. It's not a little thing, for me. I've tried to ignore it, but I can't: I quickly feel very ill, and a simple hot shower doesn't take care of it. I was very sorry to lose what I was sure would have been a great engagement with this very charming, personable fellow. He wrote to me a couple of weeks later, asking for another chance. He said that he'd taken steps to remedy the problem and that his wife was happy with the results so far. He wanted to meet me and, if the smoke was still a problem, that would be that. No hard feelings, no harm done. We could enjoy some social time together instead. I agreed to see him a week later. In the interval, he went to his health club and had a long sauna, followed by a deep tissue massage from the club's expert male masseuse. He did that twice that week, including the day before our meeting. The difference was incredible! He still smoked. He said he was trying hard to cut back. I could still detect a bit of smoke on his jacket. He took a shower before joining me in bed and everything was fine. He's become a very good, regular client. He sees me about once a month. He's continued with the sauna-and-massage routine. He's cut back his smoking to less than a pack a day and soon expects to give it up completely. He's feeling much healthier. I'm not the reason he's cut back on smoking, but I may have contributed to it. Whatever is true, he makes his own choices about such things. But I have truly appreciated being taken seriously.

I have to comment on this as I find I have a different perspective. I believe in many different varieties and depths of love. I also believe that many of our problems concerning love is the way we were brought up, the way society views it and how as a whole it's pushed as this very strict thing. By that I mean we're taught that you can only love one person (intimately and romantically) and that if you stray from this recipe you are inviting disaster and it's wrong. If we were simply to follow our hearts and feel and do it in a way that is respectful of everyone (not hurting others, pushing our love on others etc) the world would be a much different place. We have this expectation that one person needs to fulfill all our needs and that is JUST NOT POSSIBLE and more importantly, it puts unnecessary stresses on our relationships. Most people have friends to fill the gaps that a SO relationship doesn't meet but in many of these cases, you LOVE your friends. It's different than your SO sure, every relationship is but that doesn't diminish the emotions felt. Just like some of the relationships people talk about with an SP. The emotions are no less real and they are meeting a need not filled somewhere else. We should all have a commitment to ourselves to live life more fully, in the moment and happily which means having our needs met. Sometimes it's a case of can't or won't with an SO, sometimes it's just not there. Doesn't mean there still isn't love in the relationship but it's changed or is different. It's when we start putting rules on relationships that we get in trouble. For example, if you believe that if you're in intimate love with someone it should be a 24/7 you may be imposing a very negative boundary on the relationship. Why can't you be in love with someone you see occasionally? The only boundaries relationships should have are the ones agreed on by the people involved. Monogamous, poly, married, SP, it doesn't matter, they are all relationships involving people which means the basics should be the same. Communication, respect, consensual, do no harm, support etc. Sometimes it's not what we feel that's the problem, it's how we think!

This is a topic very near and dear to me and one I hope you all won't mind if I ramble about for a few :) As the subject of my post suggests, I firmly believe in there being a difference between lust and love, as well as arousal and attraction. And it is VERY easy for us, as human beings, to blur the lines between the two. I speak from experience when I say that... as I have blurred them in my past. LOVE is a choice. It is something that we CHOOSE when we commit ourselves to one other person for the rest of our lives. It is born out of history, respect, unconditional admiration and acceptance. Out of knowing things about the other that no one else knows. About seeing them at their worst, their most vulnerable, and believing that is when they they look their most beautiful or most handsome; Their most attractive. It comes from complete openness, complete honesty and complete trust. With it comes a desire to be a better person - for yourself so that you can be better for THEM. It comes a complete freedom to be yourself, no matter WHAT that entails - because you know that no matter what you say, or do; no matter how grumpy you get, or how crazy or silly, at the end of the day you are welcomed into the loving arms of your CHOSEN partner. LUST is a feeling. An intense, passionate feeling. It is born from newness, from sexual desire, from excitement, anticipation, anxiousness, intimacy and arousal. It is all encompassing, it is amazing, it is FUN. The reality of this is though, lust fades. Even in a relationship with someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with (because you've made that CHOICE to do so), lust fades. This is why marriages ebb and flow, have their ups and downs, and often fail. Too many people believe that if the lust is gone, then the relationship is over. What they FAIL to see, is that if you make a CHOICE to love someone, and ride the rollercoaster through the next down, the next CLIMB is better than anything lust could ever allow you to experience. The CHOICE to love someone is a conscious choice that requires great effort, great committment and great amounts of work. The FEELING of lust is involuntary. It just happens. It is beautiful and natural and wonderful. But it just is. Let's face it: Being with someone we've CHOSEN to love, vs an SP/client that we LUST for is very different. Even the SEX is different. Sex with someone we lust for is fun, yes. It may even be intense, or passionate. It may leave you reeling, thinking about that person and longing to see them again. It envokes all kinds of strange thoughts in your mind that you are left trying to make sense of. But really, it IS just sex. It is erotic, enjoyable and wonderful -- as is the connection that precedes it. But it does nothing for the soul in the long term. On the flip side, SEX with someone you've CHOSEN to love, and have a history and committment with is the kind of sex that relaxes you and makes you feel all warm and loved inside. The kind of sex that makes you want to stay in bed all day naked. The kind of sex that can make you cry because its as much of an emotional release as it is a physical one. The kind of sex that makes you want to crawl inside them and you still wouldn't be close enough to them. NO SP or client could ever replace that very thing with someone you've CHOSEN to love. And that is why although the client/SP relationship may be good... no, GREAT experiences, nobody will ever be better, or replace the ONE person you've chosen to let in your heart. No matter how good the physical connection between SP and client, they will never replace that very same thing in your bed.

Wow, clearly you are new around here so I'll hold back a little but you should know this isn't the place to come and brag about such accomplishments or conquests, this isn't the clubhouse locker room. Put yourself in the providers shoes. How would you like it if you were doing your job, very well in fact, both your boss and clients were happy and impressed but your boss came up to and told you "Sorry Luv269 we can't pay you for last friday even though you worked late, we really appreciate it though, oh yeah from now on, we need you to work 5 days a week, but we're only going to pay you for 4, keep up the good work Luv269" How exactly would you feel ?

Dear one.... Are you saying that you book 30-minute meetings and then always go overtime, getting that extra 50% for free, and that you're proud of it? Has it occurred to you that these ladies may not feel that they're able to tell you to leave or to ask you to pay for the additional time? Surely you're not advising others to engage in such exploitation. That's not how gentlemen behave.

I'm sure they exist, but I'm not into that sort of thing. I prefer to just be myself and be genuine. It's a lot easier! Posted via Mobile Device

I'm actually surprised that people even need to be reminded, however im glad that its being done and mentioned here, but I could never imagine presenting myself somewhere getting naked in front of a stranger which is intimidating enough at times and then smelling too lol...yikes

Lee must have taken this picture from my profile on facebook. I have to be honest here, yes I use this picture for my profile but it was taken back when I graduated college 25 years ago. I just hope I have not changed that much since then, except for the beard like I said.

This has been an interesting thread to read through and I respect the thoughts and time put in to things thus far. The one thing I've not seen in the thread (although might have missed) is the request I've seen from ladies to use unscented deoderants, which should be totally respected in my view. I might be dating myself, but as an Old Spice original deoderant type of guy, I still ensure a supply of unscented quality is used prior to an encounter. On the smoking note that Samantha so carefully crafted, it goes both ways - smoking stays on an anyone's breath a long time. Even if one is a light smoker (as I have been in the past), it stays on one's breath for a quite a while. I've had the occasion where an incredible sp experience was taken down a notch or two by a faint smell of smoke on her breath.

I know MOD made some adjustments recently - the site is getting bigger and the archive is getting HUGE.

As Hector said.. is actually 5 locations, all in different areas all around the city (East, West, 2 South and Downtown) which allow having lots of posibilities, not being restricted to just one in place town... I get to meet people all over Ottawa :)

I find this thread interesting and confusing. As I thought there was a difference between sp/client relationships and so relationships but after reading a lot of the posts, maybe not. For me most of my relationships will never garner 100% honesty as I'm always guarded and believe that most people have agendas, everyone wants something and I never know what a persons intentions are clients, so's or friends, even after many meetings. So in order for me to be completely honest with anyone I'd have to completely trust them and that probably will never happen, some may find that sad but I think I'm realistic and believe if you don't want someone to know something then you don't tell anyone as most will gossip and repeat secrets. The great thing I find in a client/sp relationship is the not knowing, I find it easier to be intimate/sexual with men I know little about, as it intrigues and excites me, the mystery of it all and the realization that this meeting may be the last. Now not all meetings are good or exciting as we don't always have chemistry, or attraction but that's to be expected, you can't please everyone, but is there honesty then, usually not, especially from clients as they try hard to be gentlemen and will still, lol, say they will call or see you again, or that you were wonderful or great, so honesty in that sense isn't there. As far as discretion I always give it, I would never share some ones personal details but I don't necessarily expect it. I hope for it but I don't know if I believe clients are as capable of being discreet because I think if an sp wanted to know something from a client she could get him to divulge, men think with their penises. So I don't think clients are always discreet, so anything I say or do with a client is only what I wouldn't care about being made public. For anyone that is able to find and develop any kind of a relationship weather it be client/sp or with an so I hope they cherish and nurture it as it is very special, takes time and time is irreplaceable so are great relationships:)

Probably a Gong Show, as I am inappropriate, sometimes intentionally and sometimes unintentionally, entertaining to some and I think funny:)

If I actually knew how to budget I would have blown it all to fuck today because I bought a new Princecraft pontoon boat today.... Jaysus Anywaysssssssss that's my hightlight :) I shall drag out the trunks and bring on the warm weather and lake time baby !!!! Looks pretty much exactly like this... Who cares to join me ? Dress code is ..... guys no speedos !! shorts and shirts please. Ladies somewhere between skimpy to nekkid is purrfect :)

I've long been a fan of EmilyJ's witty subject lines. In the same line of good attention-getters are SexxxyRebecca, Cleo Catra. Claire Heavens is also witty and has nice ads, although they don't come around quite so often. I like a light, fun tone. It's like sneaking to the girl next door for some naughty fun.

Had the pleasure of meeting Katrine last fall for my first MA experience, and just getting around here on cerb recently. It was such a great experience that I thought I should post a recommendation here. I had the "sensual excitement" massage for 30 mins, although I should have gone for the 45 min or even the 1 hour. Massage was 10/10 for quality, and then add on all the details that made the experience as good as it was (great personality, great body, and those tits...wow). I'm glad I chose katrine as my first MA experience. I would highly recommend her. Take my advice, and enjoy!

Continue to care. How could you not care at this point. But do it from a distance. Don't read her ads. Don't read her posts. Not until you can do so with some degree of dispassion, some distance. If you need to, leave CERB for a short while to give yourself a chance to be distracted by the Real World. In any event, the most important thing for you to remember is that this is your issue. Not her's. It would be tremendously unfair for you to look to her for help in this. I hate to be blunt, but it is like this. You broke it. You fix it. You are not alone. There are lots of people here at CERB that have been where you are right now. Most of them are willing to help. Chat with people - other people - not her. Good luck as you follow this path.

Booking for 30 minutes with the planned intent of taking around 45 minutes, is just absolutely wrong, it might happen once, but it should not be the intent, and if it happens you should tip to cover the extra time. The egregious part of Luv269 is that this is not only planned, but expected and viewed as a major accomplishment. This is not something to be proud of, more that you should feel guilty of your behaviour.