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This is a thread that resonates very much for me. In many ways, I share the same, or at least similar experiences of many that have posted here. My wife and I have been together for 25 years. She was the love of my life in many respects. We share similar interests, politics, passions. Our sex, at one time, was quite wonderful. A series of things ... stress, illness, back pain, children, exhaustion with life ... led us to drift apart from each other. We had great affection, but little passion. Sex was gone. It's been nearly 5 years since my wife and I made love, and probably 8 years since the time before that. This, of course, was what led me to escorts. A familar path ... strip clubs first, massage parlours, escorts. I sought intimacy, but not love. Sometimes, I felt I had fallen in love Sometimes I actually had. I've had affairs, some of those were meaningless encounters at a weekend conference, some were deeply loving that lasted a significant amount of time. I've been reflecting very seriously on what this means of late. I realize, that despite it all, i still love her best of all. To whatever extent you feel your life has become a "cage", don't look for escape from that cage elsewhere. There is, of course, nothing wrong with seeking out the company of service providers. Indeed, I think it is highly advisable. But don't think it will solve your problems. It will not. Look inward. You either need to escape and leave the cage, accept the situation, or fix it so that it doesn't feel like a cage anymore, but a home. Empty83, as hard as it is, you need to talk to your wife about this. I found it nearly impossible to talk to my wife about this. Why, I don't know. Surely it should be easy to speak to the person closest to you in the world about sex and intimacy. But for some reason we were unable. Ask you wife what her feelings are, if she still loves you and wants you. Today, after the kids left to school, I said to my wife that I loved her, and that I wanted to have sex with her, and it hurt me that we didn't. She said it hurt her that we didn't as well. And that she wanted it too. We both cried. Now we have to make it happen. If anyone has suggestions for low impact sex techniques for a woman with back pain I would be very interested in receiving them. We tend, in our lives and in our loves, to assume far too much. Dialogue is hard. Especially when you are busy, or think you already know the answers, or fear the answers. Empty83, you already think she doesn't want you. Better to ask and know for sure, then live with the doubts and insecurities that not asking creates. I don't regret the wonderful lovers/loves I've met and enjoyed through this hobby. They have enriched me tremendously. And I don't think if I hadn't hobbied that my wife and I wouldn't have drifted apart. But, if one can drift apart, one can drift together again as well. The tide doesn't just go out, it comes back in. As Jade has rightly said though, only you know what is right. I thought of leaving my wife many times. But there was always caring and affection. We were best friends, if not lovers. We had great kids, and a life that was both full and empty at the same time. We got busy, and focused on that to fill our time. That seemed enough. But recently I've realized just how fundamentally lonely and unhappy that made me. Thanks to someone else, a friend and former lover, who has had tremendous impact on me, I've realized that I couldn't go back to that loneliness. That I had to either leave, or make an attempt at fixing our home, to make it something other than a cage. To speak, rather than assuming, and see where things went. I'm glad I did. Some overly emotional ramblings on a monday that seems full of possibilities that I didn't think existed a short while ago. Porthos

One week ago today I was just getting out of the hospital from being quite ill and having pneumonia and a body full of infection. My business partner's good friend had died from pneumonia the day before. My very young son had Menangitis at the time and in a different hospital, very scary ! and my mother was in a different hospital still from heart issues and my dad was in Winnipeg for cancer tests. Today I am happy and healthy and working and living life, and my son just went to the lake about an hour ago with my mom and dad for a day or two :) For me this is a highlight and my family is once again very fortunate. My heart goes out to those Cerbies that weren't so fortunate as of late and you are all in indeed in my thoughts because family means everything !!

My fav! Taken by my friend Mister C!!

I think the hardest part, honestly is holding on, to memories, to dreams, to love. To what WAS rather than what IS. And those are the things that keep us holding on. Some people are lucky enough the evolve, grow and change together. Though its not always the case. Some settle into comfort and are happy there even knowing its not the same. There are a million different ways relationships survive, flourish or end. Every one unique, because no matter what two people are never the same. I've always believed that it didn't matter, you always have the possibility of falling in love with someone again. I've seen it happen many times over, Because good or bad what you focus on, becomes true. All that though being said. I think ultimately our hearts know whats right. And I think we hum and haw for months longer than we need to when we already made a decision. Only to make the decision we had already made to begin with. Theres no right answer. Only the right answer for you. And All I can say is follow your heart....

There was a song in the 70's... and the chorus had one line that resonates: "the hardest part of love is letting go." Thirteen years ago I was at the point in my life when I had to make that decision. I loved the ex... and part of me still does in different ways, but with the benefit of hindsight I can see that she was doing to me and what I was doing to myself. We each lost who we were when we started the relationship and had become strangers living together. What we had left was the comfort of our possessions and the uneasy sense of belonging to a "couple" regardless of how distant we had become. I made the decision that I was not satisfied like that... and after discussing the status of our relationship and the need to improve it, she decided that she didn't want to try anymore. Of course at the time I was oblivious to the fact that she was in another "secret" relationship... so I left. It hurt like hell. It felt like I had thrown away years of my life and that I was never going to feel part of anything that unique ever again. Then it happened. I discovered "me" again... and dammit, I like "me." I discovered that I had buried "me" so that I could be part of "us"... and frankly,by the end of the relationship, "us" sucked. That was 13 years ago. I have been nearly married 3 times since... but in the end, I am a happier man than I have ever been in the past. My kids love "me." I love "me." My friends love "me." You only have one go at life my friend. No need to live it in misery. Be strong. Make smart choices. Most important, decide to live your life happy and as yourself. It won't come easy, but then again, nothing in life that is worth having does come easy. Be strong!

That is correct. In my case for sure..... but the ladies may feel differently however about a visit with me and how things clicked. I do however try and tend to get to know the lady fairly well thru chatting before we meet. Makes a big difference IMO.

I love love love COF...being on my knees in front of a man, looking up and seeing his face as he finishes all over me... love it. I also have a mirror at the foot of the bed that makes this even more purrfect :D

I have had success with dancing like a fool, soaking in the tub, petting kittens, making soup, seeing people, not seeing people, having naps, rearranging furniture, writing, stretching, walking, altering my clothes, meditating in a rainstorm, cooking brunch with friends, watching Buffy until I fall asleep, cold showers, mugs of hot tea, bowls of fruit, pretending not to give a damn, giving every damn until I have no damns left to give, howling at the moon, singing off-key, stretching (again, because it's so important), masturbation, saunas, swimming, spending time in nature, cooking something complicated, and hours and hours of CBC radio 2.

Sometimes I ponder whether a person can have a long lasting relationship with another human being that can span decades and still have the spark to it in terms of intimacy, and sex and everything else that goes with a long term relationship? I have travelled quite extensively, been in long relationships, been in love, lost loves and had my heart broken too many times to count. Yet, I haven't really seen the long lasting relationship that I felt was healthy and still vital. I think one has to remember that humans up until the 20th century didn't usually live past 35 or 40 years of age and marriages were not that long. Today, if you're lucky you can live up into your 80's and maybe beyond and could be married for half a century or more, but I don't know if humans are mentally equipped to be with one person that long? People change over time and usually a couple in my experience doesn't grow or change at the same rate and that is where problems can arise. How many of us have heard of a couple splitting up once the kids grew up and left home? How fun is it to be in a sex less or love less marriage as well? I don't have the answers for all of this, but I feel that if a person is in a relationship and their needs aren't being met and their partner doesn't want to work on the problems or issues then it is time to part ways as life can be too short. I have seen too many people unhappy who are sticking out a relationship because of what others will think of them and are just plain miserable. A person has to look out for themselves first because being miserable is a choice and a prison that nobody deserves to reside in.

I was noticing from what the women have been posting that todays eye candy is much more muscular compared to a few decades ago. It made me wonder if the "Hunks" of yesterday would still make it by todays standers. What do the women think? Examples:

Im just curious, since you say you book so far in advance, did you confirm the day prior or a few days prior? other than just texting for the location the day of? As personally to me, if you don't confirm the day prior we have no date.

Justine, I feel ya! I am by no means a spinner nor a bbw. Kinda 50's pinup ala Marilyn Munro. Curvaceous perhaps?

Nitty Gritty Dirt Band - Fishin' in the dark Think you will appreciate this one RG :)

You could only ever determine the "best" if you actually visited every lady that advertises in the ottawa forum. It should read who has been your favorite :). Not to sound contrary but this thread could be construed as a bit mean :)

I do but that information is only given out to the confirmed attendees two days prior to the social for privacy and discretion. Lexy

Turn on's Fun loving attitude Responsiveness Authenticity Imagination Pleasant scent Clean kitty (trim & taste) Turn off's Stink Bad humour Wham, bam, thanks man, see ya later! Interruptions I don't ask for much, but I like to feel like we both are enjoying ourselves.

Just a quick note... ALWAYS make sure you get the provider's permission before you post her pics in a thread!

There's a lot of wisdom in what's been posted here already and I don't have much to add except to say that there is enormous grace and blessing to be found in our relationships with people who have known and loved us for a long, long time. We all want passion. We yearn for transcendence. We want to feel as young and vital and sexy when we're in our 80s as we did, or should have, in our 20s. If so much life didn't get in the way, maybe we would! Love is a complex glory. I think we have considerable responsibility for those we love and for those who love us, too. The personal vulnerability and openness that's part of such intimacy is enormous and doesn't come easily to anyone. I think it's harder to achieve it the older we are, in many ways. I agree with MightyPen about finding a good counsellor to help you sort out what you feel and think, what you need and what's possible. I also agree with Porthos: you should talk to your wife about how you feel. Maybe the counsellor can help you do it if it seems like too big a task to do without some support. I would advise Porthos to take his wife away somewhere lovely on vacation. A romantic time in a beautiful setting can be very healing for all of us. Maybe something like this would help you, too, Empty83. And even if sex isn't possible, because of illness or inability, I think that what most of us want is genuine, intimate connection with another person who truly knows us. Sex is one way to achieve it, but it's not the only way. Long talks, especially when we really focus on listening intently, finding ways to be overt about recognizing the other person and celebrate their contribution to our lives every day--things like that can help strengthen the bonds that have weakened between us. Everyone wants to be loved. Most of all, we generally want to be loved by someone who knows us very well and loves us anyway. And by all means, spend some time with one of us, or even several of us. We're not going to create problems in your life. But be very careful. Right now would be a very bad time to fall in love with the wrong woman, see? Be playful, be engaging, try out something new, but when the encounter is over, close the door on it and walk away. Wishing you much peace, Samantha

Enclosed is a link that I think everyone will enjoy! http://www.flickspire.com/mlp/LifeSecrets/LifeIsLikeCoffee

Kisses from my pug and snuggles from my kitties

Hi there Al...., based on your review i visited Nancy at 172. I thought she did a great job. I agree that Nancy at 177 is also great. Cheers.

Oh my...where to start!! Been here only for a month now and I'm gratefull to be a part of this great community! Everything was new to me...MSOG...DATY...BBBJ...felt kind of silly not knowing what it meant in the first text i got...but thanks to my BFF Carrie...she thought me so well! first thing she told me was...lets sign you up on cerb! She thought me how to search the forum and read some very interesting treads! so much info and so useful...and also...lots of laughs! Thank you to all the gents i have met here and the many more to come...and also the very suportive ladies! Bianca xoxox

First, my heart goes out to you. I've known a version of some, though not all, of the things you're describing. I'm truly sorry your life's path has brought you to this unhappy point. Second, it's VERY good that you're reaching out for advice, and CERB is a great community, but I don't think you can find what you really need here. You need to talk with someone, for a long time and in great detail, about: - what's going on, exactly - how you feel about all the various parts of it - you're wife's circumstances and what has brought her to this point and how capable and likely she is to change - and what's important to you You can find a bit of solace and comfort through CERB but really you need to talk to a professional about this. Find a therapist for yourself; this is what they're for, and they can help you work through your thoughts and feelings on this. It's commendable that you're looking for help in this difficult time. I just advise you to go one step further and consult someone who can help you properly in this terribly complicated situation. I can understand that for those who married young and built their whole lives as a couple, letting go of that vision and contemplating any other is deeply painful and terrifying. It challenges your entire perception of the world, your life, and your place in it. What I can tell you is that, unless you do something about it -- no it won't get better, it will just carry on, unfold into a crisis, or you'll become deadened and resigned to the situation. Don't let those things happen. With some professional gudance figure out what you really want next, and then make changes of some kind in line with what's really important to you. You're not alone. Good luck and heartfelt best wishes.

I have to be honest and say I have never been in that type of love. I have experienced love-for my family, friends, my fur babies-my dogs, but not a so. But clearly I can empathize and offer this. You are mourning the loss of something that once was, nothing stays the same. To sit and wait for something that once was is wasted time and energy. When in a relationship where feelings aren't being reciprocated feelings of resentment can arise making things worse and possibly add to her health issues and even damage yours. Move on, accept your friends back, fill your time and energy with positive things and people, these will help you heal and in time if she becomes more healthy and wants to share in a more balanced relationship with you, then if you are ready, you can accept her back. Hun, people change, life throws us unexpected hits. The true test is how you deal with those and you can still love her, but from a distance and you never know maybe there is another "truer" love out there just waiting for you:)Our hearts are delicate, but resilient, they do and can heal.

Snacks. :icon_wink: Goes something like, "Life is terrible, might as well have a snack" (A lot of snacks) Kim

I most assuredly believe in love and love in many different forms, variations, intensities and ways. I also believe love is a choice just as relationships are a choice because they take work. I believe people have to start being more honest with themselves and others as well as addressing personal issues like beliefs, learned behavior, ego etc. There are many people who don't know what they want in a relationship or they do but won't admit it or accept it. They settle for someone because they feel they should or it's time or they're scared to be alone. You can have feelings for someone or even love someone and not belong with that person. Sexual incompatibility will always lead to stress and frustration yet people are in these relationships every day. Different goals, ideas, needs and wants all impact. Relationships are work, even the good ones. You have to chose to work through problems instead of throwing in the towel, chose to change or step outside comfort zones. You must also realize when it's time to walk away. I believe if you want something bad enough, you WILL make it happen, good or bad. If you're honest with yourself about what you want, you're willing to take a risk, you have a clear focus, it will happen. I also believe in can happen more than once...at a time. Love is a wonderful uplifting thing that makes us feel wonderful. It's when the ego gets involved with its jealousy and control and ownership that things get fuzzy. I too believe that the SP/client relationship is intrinsically honest. Each partner knows what they are getting, there is communication and boundaries and these are discussed. I also believe within these boundaries real love can and does exist. Love doesn't care that it's a business transaction it only knows how the people feel and what value these interactions add to life. If one or both partners have an SO that doesn't detract from the honesty of the SP/Client relationship. Honesty means what you say is true, it does NOT mean full disclosure. If I have a secret that has no bearing on you, if I don't tell you, that doesn't make me dishonest. If you ask me and I lie, then I am dishonest. Love comes in many forms and if you're open to that, you can and will find it. If you're only looking for the "fireworks and lifetime" descriptors that seem to be societal norms, you are shutting yourself off from anything outside this which means some bliss may be passing you by. This is such a big topic with so many ins and outs but it boils down to "listen to your heart, follow your intuition and be open". Screw what everyone else says or does, this is YOUR life and you have to do what's right for you, including love.

It depend on your preference (age, background, looks, services, budget..) You may should take a look to the recommendation section for the girls who kept your attention! Good luck!

Every lady I have been with is a gem. To compare them to each other is impossible and unfair to all of them. Research, explore, choose and enjoy the company of the one you're with.

I have had 6 or 7 sp's in love with me. Once two of them were literally fighting each other for my attention. The worst part is when the alarm clock wakes me up!

The most simple course of action would be avoiding marriage entirely! ;)

The theme of this thread is sexy black and white pictures of women found within Cerb albums. Sometimes a simple black and white picture is sexier then full colour pictures. Let's see what we kind find :) To start a fairly new member to CERB, she just posted these pictures recently : from Eva Pearl's Album some very sexy pictures : She also has some very sexy colour pictures too :) check them out.

My husband and I recently had our first ever couples erotic massage. We did a lot of research online before deciding to go ahead with this new experience and decided to book with Hannah at Paradise Spa, she also works at the sister location Angel's Touch. The spa location was great, out in the west end, lots of parking, the room was very nice. We booked the getaway room which has a hot tub in the room and this was definitely one of the highlights of the session! Hannah was great! Super cute petite redhead with glasses :) She was very good at listening to our requests and questions. This being our first session we had lots of questions :) We didn't find out until the end of the session that we were Hannah's first couple, and if she hadn't said anything we would not have guessed it! She was great at paying attention to both of us throughout the session, we were both very satisfied ;) I would definitely recommend Hannah for a couples session!

Hey my darlings !!, I have decided to start this thread because I find that it is important to all of us to know what are the "turn on" and "turn offs" for you guys and also for us SPs. I would like to open this conversation to more than just physical preferences for example , location, outfits , types of services, ackward experiences, communication experience when booking, what kind of adds, pictures etc... I also invite my dear colleagues to share in this thread as I think it is equally important for both parties to share opinion on this matter. I am going to start sharing about myself first... Turn on's (or likes) : - Gentlemen: What woman doesn't like a distinguished man who is polite, respectful...and has class? - Touching, sharing, kissing, massaging: Some women like to be pleased too. A nice massage, a few caress, a sweet kiss on the neck are things that if well done, would turn on most women. :) Personnally, I like kisses on the neck. - Good communication: Getting to know you a little bit before we start make things easier. Don't be shy, tell us about what you like/dislike before the session. The experience will be more enjoyable for everyone. - Cleanliness: That's why we'll offer you to take a shower. If you know what I mean..;). - Punctuality: Usually, we have a schedule and many appointments during the day. It's expected to give a notice if your running late. ;) Besides that, personally, I love pleasing and being pleased. There's a lot of things that turn me on during sex. If you want to know how to pleased me personally, PM me. It'd be a pleasure. ;) Turn off's (or dislikes) : - Negotiation on rates: I understand why people try to negotiate on rates but this is a luxury and if you can't afford it, then don't do it. The rates that we put are based on the cost of doing business (room fees, ads, amenities, traveling fees, companionship, etc.) and also on the quality of woman you get as your companion. When you start negotiating when you come to your appointment, it isn't motivating to give you the best service. Does it turns you off when things are getting hot and exciting with a girl and she decides to bring up the options list or ask for money upfront for the options?It kills the mood eh?! I hope you understand my point of view. - Not having a good hygiene: It's not cool. Bad hygiene is NEVER a turn on. I had to mention it because it had happened to me often. Get some deo guys !!! If your a client/sp, or bf/gf, husband/wife, or whatever, have some common sense and take a shower and smell good. Also, try to maintain a good hygiene down there. The experience with any girl will be much better. :) - Overstaying an appointment : Don't get me wrong, I like to take my time and I don't like to rush. It happens to me that someone booked me for 1hour and he gets off really fast. Since he booked me for an 1hr and paid the full price, I will give him companionship during the rest of the time so he gets what he paid for. In the same view, I had several experiences where people didn't respect their appointments.I can understand 5-10 mins extras. But when it starts becoming 20-30 mins most of us providers, would appreciated a man with the decency to leave on time or to at least tip. The thing is, we might have other appointments coming or phone calls to answer, emails to answer or other things to do. As much fun as it can be, don't forget that we are working too. :) - Not showing up: Things happens and if someone cannot make it to an appointment, I think it would be respectful to inform the other person. It's like in any business. And this business is no different. Cancelling without notice and not showing up to an appointment is very frustrating... It's a waist of time and money. It's ok if somethings comes up, just let us know. Maybe, there is someone who wish to take your place...? ;) - Rudeness and vulgarity: As you guys like a well traveled, well educated woman, we too like gentlemen. Please be a gentlemen. If not, it kills the mood. Most ladies have no tolerance for rude or rough behavior, disrespect, etc. If you're rude, expect to be turned down. Among other obvious things that could turn off most people: blocked numbers, overcalling/overtexting, threats, not being discrete, etc. What about you guys ? (or girls) What turn you on/off ? PS: I believe in the notion of constructive criticism so guys I don't want this to turn into a bitching session!! ..;)

What sort of things do you do when you're feeling blue? Something that will surely put that frown upside down? Something that can cheer you up? My personal favourite is a nice big hug. Any volunteers

My dear, when asked who is the best (no matter the context), best has the ultimate meaning of BEST! Not one's best but THE best which can only be determined by ultimately comparing the lot. Would who was your favorite not be more in context with the cerb mantra? I am not posting this, or my last post, for disparaging reasons but to mainly point out that by the wording the op could be less negative to the ladies; who is your least favorite would be just as sad. If I were to post "who is your best client in ottawa" would there not be negative comments?

The recent passing of two of our member's fathers and the thread on "Do you believe in love" got me to thinking about a lot of things and I want to share something with you. It is a note I sent to my aunt on the day of her anniversary and her reply. Dear #####, This is one of those days where you reminisce about all the good time you had together (discreetly passing over those not-so-good moments that all couples who've had a long and full relationship together have every now and again) and survey that which you accomplished together. Cue the Happy Dance. Love, ***** Hi *****, Aren't you thoughtful! I doubted that anyone else would remember that this was our anniversary -- our 66th if Sam had still been with me. I did go out to the cemetery this morning which I don't do too often, so I had my remembrance that way. The day is beautiful and I thought about the fact that we probably would have been hiking in the past years. In fact, we hiked to our favorite lake on our 55th anniversary, the last time we made it up that rather steep 2 miles. As you say, that was one of the moments I do remember. I do dwell on the good times we had together and not the last few years when Alzheimer's took over. Anyway, thank you so much for thinking of me. I hope all is well with you and the rest of the family and that you are enjoying a very nice start to summer, too. Love, ##### I think I would be a lucky man if someone thought that of me some 20 odd years from now.

Unfortunately I won't be able to make either of these dates, but I encourage those interested and able to go, to do so, it was quite a lot of fun last year! FR

Can we pick a combo of both? Haha. I guess if I had to chose, CIM nothing hotter than a woman tasting your passion juice ;)

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I like emiafish because, while I never thought I would be saying this, every time I see his little bug eyed fish icon I get excited. Now it's happening in other places. Walmart had clown fish on a shower curtain, I stood stupidly in the aisle wondering why I was turned on and THEN....I realized it. I giggled a little! DOH! Mind you, they were missing the big sexy lips!

Some 4, 6 and 8 months ago (or more) the girl at 172 was called Udy and advertising threads here indicated she was a 28 year old Korean and showed 2 pics which presumably were her and looked like she was sitting in an airport. 3 months or so ago Udy left and was replaced by Miko. She only lasted 2-3 months. Now a 3rd girl is there and it is being said her name is Nancy HOWEVER 172 is back using the old pics which are not of Nancy. How can you trust these places?

For those of you who I haven't yet had the pleasure of meeting, my name is Bridgette, and I'm an exotic dancer at Barbarella's. You might recognize me by my long auburn hair that grazes the curve of my back and leads to my toned and perky bum, or perhaps by the black thigh highs that show off my long and shapely legs. I'm a sensual rocker, and I can't wait to rock your afternoon in the Champagne Room. You can sit back and get comfortable in a plush leather seat while I slowly strip down for you. I'll heat things up by getting close, stealing eskimo kisses and massaging your shoulders. I love to touch and be touched, and intimate dances with me are an afternoon you won't soon forget. You can find me at Barb's on Tuesday afternoons from noon until 6pm or so, and some Saturday afternoons, 2-7pm. Take a break from the office or a busy day and let me tantalize you. XO

You are grieving, and it hurts bad. Given the emotional investment you've put into your relationship, the grief and the hurt... both understandable. It's good that you are reaching out; and while this community can offer you some respite, we are also detached. So if you no longer have a close friend to confide in, seek professional help, someone who can coach you through your feelings to help you get to a point where you can make reasoned decisions for yourself. And by that I mean a point where both your heart and head can work together and make an informed choice. When you do get to that point, choose to be happy. After all, you gotta be able to love yourself first. Good luck.

I was 5'2 for most of my life, but yoga has stretched me up to almost 5'3. Good tip for anyone who wants to be taller, lol!

Having just had the opportunity to try the place out I would have to agree, it is definitely a fantastic place with an excellent deep tissue massage :)

I've seen Gina twice over the past 2 months. I had a blast the two times. We had a great connection the first time. It was beyond what I could expect the second time. Gina is back in the business after a bad break up and moving back to HRM. She is very enthusiastic about what she does, is very open-minded, loves sex very obviously (ymmv of course) and is not her clock watcher. I don't recall meeting an SP who wants to please her client more than she does. She insists and you leaving with a big smile on your face. She advertises as dominant, but she played submissive for me twice and did an amazing job. She has spectacular oral skills. What impresses me as I have a rather wider cock. The other details will remain between her and myself but I can't recommend her enough. Her BP pics are faithful to her curves. Be aware, she's not a spinner. She accommodates wardrobe requests. Her apartment is clean and tidy. Her rates are very reasonable and more affordable than most of some well-reviewed SPs who don't deliver for the donations they ask for. There's so much I want to explore with her. I will definitely repeat.

Turn ons -white teeth-fresh breath -cleanliness with everything -humor -more humor -humbleness -confidence -respect -someone who appreciates the whole package -dog lovers Turn offs -bad hygiene -bad manners -judgemental people -gossip -bullies -troublemakers -people who diet -those who refuse to read ads in their entirety and fail to follow their instructions

My favorite SP experiences were with Katherine, Exotic Touch Danielle and Penelope Davis!! All maritime ladies but Katherine tours Ottawa and Penelope is on leave at the moment but was touring Ottawa. They are all yummy, beautiful and amazing ladies. There are a number of others but they are not members.

I had had the pleasure of meeting Julzie. She was prompt on time. She is a delight to converse with, well spoken, and is very sexy. (YMMV) She is an amazing woman, smart, sexy and she is very easy to talk to. She was a please to spend an hour with, this lady's skills are first rate. I will be seeing her in the future. See Her Touch Her Taste Her V E R Y *** S E X Y See here for her CERB Profile: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=81677