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You know, its perfectly fine to not have any kind of love or attraction for bbw`s. But I am puzzled as to why you even bother to take the time to respond to a bbw thread that is asking for references for bbw service providers, only to indicate that you do not know of any and that you are also not attracted to them. Please note, I am not offended by the fact that you are not attracted to us- just get a little offended when people go out of their way to indicate something negative on something that is supposed to be positive :)

There may be consequences not thought of by going topless...just look at the problems a women only wearing a bra caused A Seinfeld episode for every occasion and situation RG

I'd describe your figure in one word- holyfuckingshitsexy!

I hate the term "john." It's demeaning! I go with client, almost always.

Like Samantha, I consider myself to be a companion. At times a label is simply a matter of semantics, but I do believe this term to be a much more representative of the type of experience I offer. It is also representative of my attitude while I'm hosting. Like Cat, I consider my clients to be guests. Colloquially I will sometimes refer to my guests as clients. I've used patron in advertising before, but I never (ever) use "John" or "Hobbyist". "John" as a term really homogenizes all clients, and it also reinforces stereotypes about the 'typical' client we hear about in the media which we all know isn't accurate. I've never really understood the term 'hobbyist' to be honest.

NOPE-Because men pay me to see me topless :boobies:

My lips are sealed. Her parents and other friends won't find out unless she tells them directly. I have no say in the matter and will not touch upon the matter.

I can see Vanessa's point, the comment she is referring to adds nothing at all to the thread. If you have nothing to pass on other than the fact that you aren't interested in the thread what's the point? And I like he fact that SP's comment on threads out of their home location, because they travel and sometimes have good input on the topic...other than that i got a look at a provider I may have never seen otherwise. And on that not, send me a PM if your ever in Winnipeg Vanessa, I think you are gorgeous and would love to see you come for a visit! Cerb is a great community and its great to have positive input...wherever it comes from.

Manifesting is a very real and very simple and powerful thing. The not so easy part is our mental chatter. The negative stuff manifests MUCH easier than the positive so even a few simple negative words spoken in our heads can create outcomes we don't want. Manifesting needs to be a focused intent but it's SO worth it. It also allows you to be kinder to yourself, to recognize the beauty in yourself and others and to be more positive in general. Once focused, good things start to happen which makes it easier to do which precipitates more good things. I try to be positive, thankful and non judgmental every day. Some days it's easier than others. I try to limit my venting or complaints as this creates negative energy which then feeds on the positive. As was mentioned, picture yourself already in the situation of having whatever it is you desire. See it, feel it, embrace it fully. One trick that goes hand in hand with this is after you have determined what you want, and you picture yourself in the situation or having it, see if there are any negative reactions to it. For example, if you want a million dollars, see if any negative thoughts crop up about the extra trouble it might cause or the extra work or people looking for handouts. If you notice these negative thoughts, imagine the worst case scenario for it IE: people who wouldn't give you their time before come looking for a hand out which will make you feel uncomfortable or upset. Take this thought and picture what would happen if you were to become upset. Maybe you lose those people or they call you a name and blackball you. Can you deal with that outcome? If so, you have just de-energized the negative thought thus allowing you to create more positive thoughts easier....end result. Easier Manifesting. Everything is energy and we can direct energy. This is a scientifically proven fact. Direct it correctly and you can create a wonderful existence. LOL sorry, this is all very close to my heart so I tend to get carried away!

I feel the need to mention this again as I've seen to many threads with the theme running through. I can be completely turned on, so totally into the person I'm with and wishing it would never end but NOT have an orgasm. Some ladies are lucky enough to reach orgasm easily, multiple times and with extreme wetness and squirting, others are not. Some take a little work or specific actions. I really dislike thinking someone would walk away from an incredible encounter feeling like they wasted their money because I didn't orgasm especially if I'm left feeling like begging them to come back for more. On the flip side, I'm sure there has been wonderful pleasure and dates with men who might have a little difficulty. Are those any less amazing? NO. I think there is incredible pressure put on the almighty orgasm to the point, it blocks out everything else and this is on both sides of the gender coin. Orgasms are wonderful, amazing things yet even on the basis of orgasms, people feel them in different ways. there are different types and levels of intensity. Do you feel gypped if you get one over the other? or if you have a small one not a huge one? I guess I'm saying why can't the journey be part of the pleasure, the enjoyment and the date and part of the reason you feel satisfied or chose to repeat? Destination is great but if your focus is on that, what did you miss or forget along the way? Just to clarify, I'm not dysfunctional, I do orgasm, I do get wet and I do enjoy every little thing about a date. I'm not scary LOL!

As a service to the good people of Ottawa, please keep it that way. If you started walking around topless, I do believe the entire city may come to a stand still! Nothing would get done as everybody was mesmerized by your beautiful breasts!

I am a man. It has been legal and acceptable for me to walk around the streets shirtless my whole life. Yet I have never felt the desire to do so.

I love going topless also...where its permitted of course! backyard at carrie's place is the best...lots of trees and privacy...on vacation on beaches and i dont care if im the only one...i love getting my boobs tanned ;) and that feeling of freedom...mmmm

I go topless on beaches, and in a yard/balcony if I'm tanning. I do not go topless walking down the street, as I personally find it tacky for men to do so as well.

Additional Comments: http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/calgary/story/2013/06/21/alberta-flood-cat-momo-swim-photos.html?cmp=fbtl ALBERTA FLOOD STORY! Amazing feat upstream from a cat and her babies! What strength and courage this animal has! Facing upstream, facing survival! Love how the owner was so compassionate toward his loved 4 legged friends:)

Count me in as another Winnipeg hobbyist who would love to have you visit Vanessa! :D

Is Identity Thief with Melissa McCarthy any good? Thinking of watching when I finish my appt.

I had an incident where I was working for an agency (back when I first started) and they had posted my pictures on places other than CERB (not to my knowledge). A "friend" of mine who knew all of my close social circle somehow found one of those ads, and showed it to all of my close friends. Luckily, my family is still in the dark (except the few I have chosen to share with), but it caused a lot of heartache and problems in my life. I was mortified, embarrassed (not of what I do, but there are some people I had not trusted with the information), angry, hurt, confused... I am sharing this in the hopes that you will reconsider your urge to possibly say something to her family. If she trusted you with the information and confided in you, just because you know doesn't give you the right to go around sharing her personal stuff - she confided in you, honor that commitment. I may be coming across a little harsh, and if I am, I apologize, but I am trying to be as blunt as possible. Coming from the other side of the experience, believe me, it is unpleasant and causes a lot of emotional pain when someone goes behind your back and tells your personal shit to people. It's not your secret to tell. Even if you think you are doing the right thing, there may be consequences for her that you don't even realize.

I am definitely on board as a believer in the power of the mind, the importance of feeling and envisioning what you want, and positive energies. The mental is important, but it is utterly useless without the physical. To me, the power of the mind goes hand in hand with the power of action. Normally, things aren't just handed to us because we want them, and too many people expect them to be. And more important than knowing and envisioning what you want, is doing what you want and going after what you want. The key to turning dreams into reality is making shit happen. Doing whatever it takes to achieve your goals. Physically going out and fucking doing it. Not stopping in the face of failure. Not letting people tell you that you can't do it. Not being afraid to fail, and not being afraid to succeed. I have always been a confident person, but a light went on in my head a few years ago in a busy time in my life, and I realized that I truly do have the capability to handle ANY situation that arises in my life. There was no need to ever fear possibilities and outcomes, because I can handle all of it. To me, being fearless is the key to it all, and the ultimate goal that I keep as a constant in my life.

Post your picture of a sexy man in his boxers or briefs

So I decide to go see the new Natasha at Pink Kitty this evening. I figure the best way to start is with a description. She is a very attractive lady, with full lips, long thick hair, amazing natural breasts (probably D), not a spinner, but not much more. She has deep blue/green eyes. So, I was a bit mesmerized from the get go. She leads me to one of the bedrooms, and we immediately start to kiss, and I mean kiss, deep hard full, the girl loves to kiss. This I partook in for a bit, and at the same time somehow her clothes got removed to reveal that amazing body and perfect tits. After the initial kissing, Natasha slipped down to junior, and started to give a fantastic bbbj, lots of spit and deep throat. Wow, I was in heaven. However, it wasn't fair, and it was my turn to explore, I was all over those lovely breasts, which she enjoyed, but had to slip down to the honey pot, which tasted so good. She even allowed some nice ass play, which I was only happy to partake. After Natasha having some fun, and enjoying herself, she return to junior, and since I was afforded some assplay, she wanted to reciprocate and gave a nice little massage. It was time for the main event, which started mish and then onto doggie. I didn't want to cum that way, and held off and was able to shoot my load all over those massive tits. I think she enjoyed this too. There wasn't too much time left for round 2, but she was willing, I wasn't able, needed a little more time. But A for effort for her. So, I put her easily into my amazing slot, if you like large naturals and a lady that enjoys herself, you should see this awesome babe.

Can someone please tell me to get off CERB and go pack a box...HAHA! I'm moving in a week. And what am I doing? Reading threads, nodding my head in appreciation, smiling, laughing all in a room that looks quite frankly like a tonrnado hit it. UGH! And still...here I am.... Somebody help!! Or better yet, somebody pack for me and I will keep reading then have a nap! :icon_lol:

Rod Stewart Da Ya Think I'm Sexy RG

Does this count??? Well it's a guy covered in chocolate and candies, doesn't that make him eye candy RG

I remember the case that resulted in the court ruling. Maybe there was hope for Western Civilization after all. I also remember the subsequent demonstration on Parliament Hill that followed and the rabid juvenile hoard of men that milled about hooting and jeering at the prospect of seeing an unfettered breast. The memory causes me to despair that men, as a gender, will ever grow up. While women have the right to go about shirtless I fully understand why one would choose not to exercise that right.

Great thread. For me it was Lesley Ann Warren in the mini series 79 park avenue. As irony would have it she portrayed a high end escort in this movie. A close second would be Cheryl Ladd when she took over for Farrah in Charlie's Angels.

My advice is stay out of it and don't tell anyone. It is not your duty to let them know. Only hers. If you are a true friend, you WILL lie for her and have her back. Not much of a friend if you don't. What allegiance do you have with her parents over your so called friend? I'm sure you've bluffed, fudged or white lied about something so why not this? We've all been there. I don't know.. but asking this question is a no brainer.. at least if it were me. I'm loyal to my true friends.

"When you follow the dream in your heart, you're energised, inspired, & motivated." Dr. John F. Demartini

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Hello Gentlemen My name is Cherry. I am 20 years of age, with Blond hair and bright blue eyes. I have a fit, tight body. I am 5'3, 116 pounds, and very tanned baby soft skin! I am new to massage. I have been working in the massage industry for just over a month now. I am very outgoing and open minded and I have a lot of class. My services include body slides, full body massage, Hottub sessions and reverse massage. & I cater to some fetish's! Everything that goes on in our session together is 100% confidential. You can find me in the West end of Ottawa, Paradise Spa. This coming's week's Schedule Monday June 24th 9am-4pm Tuesday June 25th 9am-4pm Wednesday June 26th 9am-4pm Thursday June 27th 9am-4pm To make a appointment at the spa for your playtime 613-820-8887 [email protected] xoxoxoxox http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/picture.php?albumid=7172&pictureid=48349

There are a couple of factors here that need to be addressed. I've been thru this dozens of time with girls and the consistent theme every time with every family/loved one is exactly the same each and every time. It's a betrayal of trust. They don't have to like what she's doing but they have to be able to TRUST THAT SHE WILL TELL THEM THE TRUTH! Being honest with them may very well have long term ramifications but most of the time the loved ones will come around to a degree once they see she is safe and not on a self destructive path. They may never approve or support her decision but at least the basic trust hasn't been diminished. Once they suspect, the game is up. If she doesn't come clean, she is risking permanent damage to a foundational relationship. As for your part in it, you need to remove yourself from the situation. It's going to bite you in the ass no matter what happens. Her parents will never trust you again if you deflect, they will be angry you didn't tell them sooner if you spill. This is on her and she needs to fix this. If she is mature enough to decide to become a sex worker then she needs to own it and handle herself like a grown up and honor the people who love her enough to tell them the truth and remove you from the equation... cat

This all boils down to respect on BOTH sides. Everyone's time is valuable and worth something. Yes, sometimes things happens: sickness, accidents, people getting in the way but this can be handled respectfully, with notice and an apology. If it becomes recurrent, there is loss of respect and each party must decide if they are willing to accept that. I have felt bad every time I have needed to cancel and have offered something to make up for it later. If I can't offer the best of me, I respect someone enough to cancel. If there are things going on that can't be handled or I'm personally not doing a good job at balancing, then I need to respect myself and others by not scheduling appointments. If that becomes an issue, the onus is on me to fix the problem(s). Being upset by this is completely legitimate and it sucks when it happens. If it's something that can't be helped, chalk it up to life. If it ends up being more a respect issue (or lack thereof) then whoever is in the non respected issue needs to respect themselves and move on. There is also something to be said for communication. If you feel comfortable with the other ASK what's happening. Maybe it's something that can be overcome. We're all just people.

Don't tell her parents. Ever. That is her decision, and hers only. That is the only way to handle this.

Let me put it simply, if a friend ever betrayed my trust in such a fashion there would be more than hell to pay! Your feelings of discomfort around her family are of no consequence.

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Of course, that's what its all about having a great and mutual experience. We all click with different people for different reasons so when you do find your sexual match it can only get hotter with repeated visits. I love to see the men again that made me orgasm, they are special as I can be a challenge;)

I'm still cursing the loss of my good bottle opener. I'm currently using an inferior one. Alas, they tend to have pissy beer inside. Why, yes, I am a horrible beer-snob...

If your significant other left you, they are NUTS! In my opinion they were stupid to hurt your feelings like this. Wish I was in town just to give you a hug, cook dinner for you, run a relaxing bath and then tuck you into bed safe and sound for a good nite's sleep. Sorry for your crappy day, but it WILL get better.

I have met with her, pics are accurate,obviously she is generous with her description,would give her a 7 overall, very out of the way location (west end),donation request very competitive for the value! cheers

#2 WOW what a babe

Although CERB is the best resource for NB ladies there still is not a big presence here. When it comes to BP you may have to TOFTT sometimes and report back. To be safe I would not take a chance if there were any indications of red flags. For example, one of the ladies you asked about uses fake pics. That is a red flag to me and I wouldn't take a chance on her. I recently say sexyjessie from BP and did not know until I spoke with her that she is a member here, she did have a couple of positive comments so I saw her and the posts/comments were accurate. My suggestion to guys who visit BP ladies is that when you see them tell them about CERB and how it would be good for business for them to join here. Good for them and good for us. Sorry, more of a rant than helpful information.

As I get older, the more appreciative I have become of honesty and the expressions thereof. That being said, I too would like to reinforce the beauty of that expressiveness, the feel of nerves betraying control, the sound of excitement expressed in a myriad of tonalities. It's like a symphony reaching a crescendo... you feel the pace rather than set it, you sense that something magical is happening and you know that you are no longer just watching or hearing... you are a part of it. You are the conductor... and she is the orchestra and together you have created a masterpiece, if only for that briefest of moments. I love to know that we have done well - for your multiple orgasm is mine as well. I may have just one manifestation physically, but in my mind your body has given me many many more. Never apologize for giving me that gift.