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You know, its perfectly fine to not have any kind of love or attraction for bbw`s. But I am puzzled as to why you even bother to take the time to respond to a bbw thread that is asking for references for bbw service providers, only to indicate that you do not know of any and that you are also not attracted to them. Please note, I am not offended by the fact that you are not attracted to us- just get a little offended when people go out of their way to indicate something negative on something that is supposed to be positive :)

There may be consequences not thought of by going topless...just look at the problems a women only wearing a bra caused A Seinfeld episode for every occasion and situation RG

I'd describe your figure in one word- holyfuckingshitsexy!

I hate the term "john." It's demeaning! I go with client, almost always.

Like Samantha, I consider myself to be a companion. At times a label is simply a matter of semantics, but I do believe this term to be a much more representative of the type of experience I offer. It is also representative of my attitude while I'm hosting. Like Cat, I consider my clients to be guests. Colloquially I will sometimes refer to my guests as clients. I've used patron in advertising before, but I never (ever) use "John" or "Hobbyist". "John" as a term really homogenizes all clients, and it also reinforces stereotypes about the 'typical' client we hear about in the media which we all know isn't accurate. I've never really understood the term 'hobbyist' to be honest.

NOPE-Because men pay me to see me topless :boobies:

My lips are sealed. Her parents and other friends won't find out unless she tells them directly. I have no say in the matter and will not touch upon the matter.

I can see Vanessa's point, the comment she is referring to adds nothing at all to the thread. If you have nothing to pass on other than the fact that you aren't interested in the thread what's the point? And I like he fact that SP's comment on threads out of their home location, because they travel and sometimes have good input on the topic...other than that i got a look at a provider I may have never seen otherwise. And on that not, send me a PM if your ever in Winnipeg Vanessa, I think you are gorgeous and would love to see you come for a visit! Cerb is a great community and its great to have positive input...wherever it comes from.

Manifesting is a very real and very simple and powerful thing. The not so easy part is our mental chatter. The negative stuff manifests MUCH easier than the positive so even a few simple negative words spoken in our heads can create outcomes we don't want. Manifesting needs to be a focused intent but it's SO worth it. It also allows you to be kinder to yourself, to recognize the beauty in yourself and others and to be more positive in general. Once focused, good things start to happen which makes it easier to do which precipitates more good things. I try to be positive, thankful and non judgmental every day. Some days it's easier than others. I try to limit my venting or complaints as this creates negative energy which then feeds on the positive. As was mentioned, picture yourself already in the situation of having whatever it is you desire. See it, feel it, embrace it fully. One trick that goes hand in hand with this is after you have determined what you want, and you picture yourself in the situation or having it, see if there are any negative reactions to it. For example, if you want a million dollars, see if any negative thoughts crop up about the extra trouble it might cause or the extra work or people looking for handouts. If you notice these negative thoughts, imagine the worst case scenario for it IE: people who wouldn't give you their time before come looking for a hand out which will make you feel uncomfortable or upset. Take this thought and picture what would happen if you were to become upset. Maybe you lose those people or they call you a name and blackball you. Can you deal with that outcome? If so, you have just de-energized the negative thought thus allowing you to create more positive thoughts easier....end result. Easier Manifesting. Everything is energy and we can direct energy. This is a scientifically proven fact. Direct it correctly and you can create a wonderful existence. LOL sorry, this is all very close to my heart so I tend to get carried away!

I feel the need to mention this again as I've seen to many threads with the theme running through. I can be completely turned on, so totally into the person I'm with and wishing it would never end but NOT have an orgasm. Some ladies are lucky enough to reach orgasm easily, multiple times and with extreme wetness and squirting, others are not. Some take a little work or specific actions. I really dislike thinking someone would walk away from an incredible encounter feeling like they wasted their money because I didn't orgasm especially if I'm left feeling like begging them to come back for more. On the flip side, I'm sure there has been wonderful pleasure and dates with men who might have a little difficulty. Are those any less amazing? NO. I think there is incredible pressure put on the almighty orgasm to the point, it blocks out everything else and this is on both sides of the gender coin. Orgasms are wonderful, amazing things yet even on the basis of orgasms, people feel them in different ways. there are different types and levels of intensity. Do you feel gypped if you get one over the other? or if you have a small one not a huge one? I guess I'm saying why can't the journey be part of the pleasure, the enjoyment and the date and part of the reason you feel satisfied or chose to repeat? Destination is great but if your focus is on that, what did you miss or forget along the way? Just to clarify, I'm not dysfunctional, I do orgasm, I do get wet and I do enjoy every little thing about a date. I'm not scary LOL!

As a service to the good people of Ottawa, please keep it that way. If you started walking around topless, I do believe the entire city may come to a stand still! Nothing would get done as everybody was mesmerized by your beautiful breasts!

I am a man. It has been legal and acceptable for me to walk around the streets shirtless my whole life. Yet I have never felt the desire to do so.

I love going topless also...where its permitted of course! backyard at carrie's place is the best...lots of trees and privacy...on vacation on beaches and i dont care if im the only one...i love getting my boobs tanned ;) and that feeling of freedom...mmmm

I go topless on beaches, and in a yard/balcony if I'm tanning. I do not go topless walking down the street, as I personally find it tacky for men to do so as well.

Additional Comments: http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/calgary/story/2013/06/21/alberta-flood-cat-momo-swim-photos.html?cmp=fbtl ALBERTA FLOOD STORY! Amazing feat upstream from a cat and her babies! What strength and courage this animal has! Facing upstream, facing survival! Love how the owner was so compassionate toward his loved 4 legged friends:)

Count me in as another Winnipeg hobbyist who would love to have you visit Vanessa! :D

Is Identity Thief with Melissa McCarthy any good? Thinking of watching when I finish my appt.

I had an incident where I was working for an agency (back when I first started) and they had posted my pictures on places other than CERB (not to my knowledge). A "friend" of mine who knew all of my close social circle somehow found one of those ads, and showed it to all of my close friends. Luckily, my family is still in the dark (except the few I have chosen to share with), but it caused a lot of heartache and problems in my life. I was mortified, embarrassed (not of what I do, but there are some people I had not trusted with the information), angry, hurt, confused... I am sharing this in the hopes that you will reconsider your urge to possibly say something to her family. If she trusted you with the information and confided in you, just because you know doesn't give you the right to go around sharing her personal stuff - she confided in you, honor that commitment. I may be coming across a little harsh, and if I am, I apologize, but I am trying to be as blunt as possible. Coming from the other side of the experience, believe me, it is unpleasant and causes a lot of emotional pain when someone goes behind your back and tells your personal shit to people. It's not your secret to tell. Even if you think you are doing the right thing, there may be consequences for her that you don't even realize.

I am definitely on board as a believer in the power of the mind, the importance of feeling and envisioning what you want, and positive energies. The mental is important, but it is utterly useless without the physical. To me, the power of the mind goes hand in hand with the power of action. Normally, things aren't just handed to us because we want them, and too many people expect them to be. And more important than knowing and envisioning what you want, is doing what you want and going after what you want. The key to turning dreams into reality is making shit happen. Doing whatever it takes to achieve your goals. Physically going out and fucking doing it. Not stopping in the face of failure. Not letting people tell you that you can't do it. Not being afraid to fail, and not being afraid to succeed. I have always been a confident person, but a light went on in my head a few years ago in a busy time in my life, and I realized that I truly do have the capability to handle ANY situation that arises in my life. There was no need to ever fear possibilities and outcomes, because I can handle all of it. To me, being fearless is the key to it all, and the ultimate goal that I keep as a constant in my life.

So I decide to go see the new Natasha at Pink Kitty this evening. I figure the best way to start is with a description. She is a very attractive lady, with full lips, long thick hair, amazing natural breasts (probably D), not a spinner, but not much more. She has deep blue/green eyes. So, I was a bit mesmerized from the get go. She leads me to one of the bedrooms, and we immediately start to kiss, and I mean kiss, deep hard full, the girl loves to kiss. This I partook in for a bit, and at the same time somehow her clothes got removed to reveal that amazing body and perfect tits. After the initial kissing, Natasha slipped down to junior, and started to give a fantastic bbbj, lots of spit and deep throat. Wow, I was in heaven. However, it wasn't fair, and it was my turn to explore, I was all over those lovely breasts, which she enjoyed, but had to slip down to the honey pot, which tasted so good. She even allowed some nice ass play, which I was only happy to partake. After Natasha having some fun, and enjoying herself, she return to junior, and since I was afforded some assplay, she wanted to reciprocate and gave a nice little massage. It was time for the main event, which started mish and then onto doggie. I didn't want to cum that way, and held off and was able to shoot my load all over those massive tits. I think she enjoyed this too. There wasn't too much time left for round 2, but she was willing, I wasn't able, needed a little more time. But A for effort for her. So, I put her easily into my amazing slot, if you like large naturals and a lady that enjoys herself, you should see this awesome babe.

Does this count??? Well it's a guy covered in chocolate and candies, doesn't that make him eye candy RG

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In the states they have the right to bear arms ..... while here in Canada we have the right to bare breasts! I have pointed this out before but I'm still of the opinion that my imagination gets more exercise without them (bare breasts, that is!) - not that I wouldn't thoroughly enjoy seeing more of them.

Watched "The Call" last night and have to say I really enjoyed it from start to finish.

So sorry to hear of your pain. I myself am going through it and I wouldn't wish it on anybody. You probably don't want to hear it, but you are young, attractive and your future is ahead of you. That doesn't help with the pain for now, but I promise you, it will get better.

Why? It there some kind of orgasm ceiling that I am unaware of? Daily and monthly allowances?

I was 8 years old when the Christopher Reeve came out so for me growing up with those movies makes voting in the pole very easy. I never quite took to the later Superman versions. I do admit that that as a child I saw reruns of the 50's tv series and remember enjoying them at the time but haven't seen them since and would be curious to watch a few episodes again, although don't know if I would still enjoy them as much as an adult.

I was a teen when the Christopher Reeves Superman came out and I loved it! Every time I think of Superman as a movie I think of Christopher Reeves. But I did not choose that one as my favorite. My decision was also based on nostalgia and the memories that pop into my head of when I first was introduced to the super hero. Even though I was watching reruns this is what I remember most and what Superman really represents to me.

I would also add that you don't say anything to a persons family, friends or coworkers, it is up to them how much they choose to disclose and when. One factor no one has mentioned but it's important is that this is essentially a part of her sex life, yes it's a paid part and it's her work but it involves sex and not everyone has a family they go and discuss the intimate details of their sex life with. My parents would not wish to read the details of when I had sex with another person, they would not feel comfortable knowing I engaged in xyz with a particular person the other day and especially knowing the details of it along with photos of me in next to nothing were available for all to read on the internet. It's simply not how my family talks about or deals with sex. If someone were to share that information with my parents it would forever damage the family relationships, partially with me but also with each other simply because I know how they communicate and it would become a giant elephant in the room. So yes they would ask, like all parents they would want to know simply out of worry and concern (at least if I were 19) but they would be happy to hear that their worries were unfounded, denial is a well used tool in my parents toolbox. I know this, I am comfortable with this and understand that dynamic but if someone didn't know this and shared information with them I would be upset simply because they hurt people that I love and needlessly. This may not be the situation in your friends family but the point is that we all have unique family dynamics, some of us know how to engage in them and some of us do not, still it is through growing up with these families that we gain that experience and we are the best ones to handle these situations not an outsider, well intentioned or not. If you are approached you can simply tell them that you believe it is best to discuss family matters with family, no matter what the issue is because you would not want your parents to come to your friends asking about you, whether that be asking about your dating life or your schooling. Tell them it would make you uncomfortable and you don't want her to feel uncomfortable either.

Dreams take lots of hard work and at times luck and sometimes the chase for the dream is more full filling than actually achieving it as it can be anti-climatic at times. I have achieved many of my dreams thus far and it took vision, discipline, hard work, support from my family and a bit of luck. I have a few big dreams left that I want to achieve and if I can reach them then I'll be the happiest and luckiest guy on the planet!

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I totally believe in the law of attraction and the key for it to work is that, to believe. Yes, repeating what you want many times helps if you really think and believe it will happen. More like repeating is affirming it will happen and in fact you have to decree it like if you already have it and even thank (whoever you believe in or even the universe) for it. You can also have a vision board with pictures/images of what you want. In my case, I have a notebook kind of a diary when I paste images of what I want/need and the reasons why I want that in my life. Something to also keep in mind is same as if you believe and keep repeating good things will come, bad things too so as difficult as it is do not repeat or think about the negative in your life, just like we have to act as we have what we want the most we also have to go on like what we need to get rid of is not there anymore. Peachy thank you so much for this thread because as much as I believe in this problems sometimes make me forget so this just reminded me and inspired me to not allow that to happen or at least to really try hard :)

I don't know about you guys but im a huge fan of Will Smith...he manages to make me laugh and bring the emotion the a next level...''after earth'' is my next movie to go see!!! any Denzeel washington movie also...i loved flight...so intense!

This all boils down to respect on BOTH sides. Everyone's time is valuable and worth something. Yes, sometimes things happens: sickness, accidents, people getting in the way but this can be handled respectfully, with notice and an apology. If it becomes recurrent, there is loss of respect and each party must decide if they are willing to accept that. I have felt bad every time I have needed to cancel and have offered something to make up for it later. If I can't offer the best of me, I respect someone enough to cancel. If there are things going on that can't be handled or I'm personally not doing a good job at balancing, then I need to respect myself and others by not scheduling appointments. If that becomes an issue, the onus is on me to fix the problem(s). Being upset by this is completely legitimate and it sucks when it happens. If it's something that can't be helped, chalk it up to life. If it ends up being more a respect issue (or lack thereof) then whoever is in the non respected issue needs to respect themselves and move on. There is also something to be said for communication. If you feel comfortable with the other ASK what's happening. Maybe it's something that can be overcome. We're all just people.

Let me put it simply, if a friend ever betrayed my trust in such a fashion there would be more than hell to pay! Your feelings of discomfort around her family are of no consequence.

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Totally agree. Others have said it very well, just wanted to add my thanks for an incredible time with Roksi referred by Cato. Looking forward to the next time - may it be soon.

Of course, that's what its all about having a great and mutual experience. We all click with different people for different reasons so when you do find your sexual match it can only get hotter with repeated visits. I love to see the men again that made me orgasm, they are special as I can be a challenge;)

I Love Love Love My Bum

No it won't, I always reccomend an hour session though, more time to get to relax with your atendant and get comfortable with eachother is always better. Nothing than having to rush or send her out to extend your session(which I have done ;)). Better to have a bit of extre time than not enough!

well you are in luck then lol.. honestly you couldn't even tell I was until about two weeks ago...no matter which way I stood lol.... will get some pics up before monday night..promise

I have been very blessed, yes I said blessed!!! in meeting some very orgasmic ladies. I like the chatter back and forth and watching a lady rise with goosebumps,quiver and shake with a full body orgasm. Using your tools, and assets with a lady and thorough chatting to get to that height is mind blowing for both parties. I love giving a lady head, nothing like DATY for her, I love my smooth lips sucking and using my tongue and finger very gently, it's delicious fun! I enjoy so much more the foreplay for her, as that itself really gets me off too, where I would be dripping with precum (I usually will get a wash cloth and clean up in needed ;) ) , I get hard as rock, nothing more then satisfying your lady. I also find great kissing a orgasmic rise to both parties too. I love it :) When that orgasm is achieved, then it's time to reverse roles and I love it from both perspectives. You ladies are the best :)

Like Genevieve, I can have one orgasm after another. While orgasms are a sure sign that things are going well, allowing a cool-down is definitely ideal. The quality of the sex really isn't defined by the shear volume of orgasms. I prefer to be given a chance to recover and enjoy the moment after a while, rather than being treated like a wind-up doll. Fortunately, most men seem to intuit when it is the right time to switch things up. And those that do get over-excited have always been polite and understanding when I ask to shift the focus back to them for a bit. ;)

I enjoy it if I can have my partner orgasm more than once... Some women's bodies give away obvious signs of having an orgasm, others less so... I like the ones that give it away when they have reached their peak.. If they are faking it, it is a turn-off for me.