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This is the kind of dumb shit "boys" I fooled around with in high school said. It's immature and stupid. And I would actually question how good the sex life of a grown man really is, if they have that kind of lame inhibitions about something like that. To each their own, sure, but if you can kiss and you can get a BJ, you can kiss after a BJ too. Most people learned that cooties were not real when they were like 7. :icon_rolleyes:

Providers offering a discount or anything special in exchange for a recommendation are breaking the rules of Lyla. Recommendations & positive reviews should come naturally, if the SP is paying for them they are SHILL (fake) and not warranted. Guys... please report any post or comment where a provider offers a discount of any kind in exchange for a recommendation. We don't want fake recommendations here (it does none of you any good). Providers should earn the recommendation naturally. Thank you for understanding! Lyla xx

Hi guys ! With this post I would like to share one of the most heart touching moment with my service provider. Other day , I went to massage service provider. I found her on CL . She was a healthy Chinese and also advertise her as mighty Asian . Any Way, after all the jobs done , I was still having 20 minutes , and she asked me lay down so that she can give me some traditional Chinese massage . Mean time , I started taking about her ,but that twenty minute chat was enough to made me up set . When I talking abut her customer , she revealed that some of the customers are very bad and they do not respect service providers at all . Like one guys took out the condom and she came to know when he inserted , it was too late .Though , she was able to kick out this stupid guy , but those few minutes without condom are still bothering her . There were many stories , she told , which made me totally upset . How people can be that rude , that for their pleasure they can not even pay . Come one guys if you do not have money please use our hand to jerk .Why are you playing with your and providers safety by taking out condom or cheating with just wearing elastic band . So please respect your service providers they are also human

Most women enjoy being pleasured orally at least when it is done the right way. By the right way, I don't mean there's only one way I mean the right way for the lady. She shouldn't have to feel like you're making yourself do it or that she is "odd" or "not nice" down there. She shouldn't feel like a challenge if she has a smaller clit or can't reach orgasm easily or is quiet/loud. People should regularly check in with their own ideas and biases in case they are bringing some to the table. As was mentioned, talk to her about it. Many women have hang up's regarding enjoying oral sex. She may have been told something that stuck with her or had a bad experience. If you have a trusting relationship and open communication that leads the way to potential enjoyment on both parts. Just remember to listen to what she says, don't take things personally if it comes to that and be willing to help if needed. Good luck.

Would I personally run away from a kiss after getting a blowjob? No. But I also understand that people don't have much control over what turns them on--or what turns them off. While I don't avoid post-bj kissing, the taste/texture of my own semen isn't something that I particularly enjoy. But then again, neither is hummus or cooked asparagus. Yet just because I don't enjoy these things doesn't mean I judge or have any issue with those who do or think they're doing something gross. And hey, if my partner happens to like cooked asparagus I could enjoy whipping her up some even if I'm planning on eating something else. I've been happy to notice on this board that there is very little judgement against people over what kinks and turn-ons they may happen to have. Everyone seems to understand that what excites someone isn't something they necessarily choose, and as long as actions are between consenting adults, it's all fair game. So shouldn't this understanding work the other way too, when it comes to turn-offs? If a man or woman doesn't like the idea of tasting their own cum, I'm willing to respect that. It's not something they can necessarily choose to like or dislike, and as with turn-ons to each their own. Now if a person is judgmental about the act that's another story! It's one thing to not participate in a given act yourself (we all have boundaries) but it's another to judge, condemn, or belittle someone else for enjoying it. So to answer the OP's questions, while I'd say your friends have the right not to do this act if they so choose, they have no right to judge or dissuade you from it if you're comfortable or interested. If it doesn't appeal to them, they probably can't help that. What they can help is perpetuating the idea that it's inherently gross or unmanly.

No need to be alarmed. It is the same in anywhere in Canada, stay away from minors, pimps, street, drugs etc and you should be fine. You should read our legal section for the latest changes/updates to our federal stance on the industry for ALL of Canada. Your on cerb, so this is a good start. many fine ladies here, to provide you with a safe experience:)

First time I got asked the question, I paused to think about it. I was still a virgin and I wasn't sure. The girl suggested I try tasting my own cum to see if i'd like it. Since then, haven't had a problem with the idea. In fact, i'd love to snowball with a sexy lady. Not the porn-spitting type(that I find weird....), but just kissing while her mouth is full and sharing it. Of course, you got to respect everyone's limits. But seems egoistical and stupid to me when guys want BJ but won't DATY or when they want the girl to CIM or swallow but won't even kiss after a BJ. Likewise, if you expect her to accept your dick in her ass, you better be okay with her sticking something in yours. =P

In April I found out that I have cancer and the prognosis was not good. I had known for a while that something was wrong, but being the person I am, I just shrugged it off as being over 40 and not a big deal. Clearly it was. Instead of dealing with the issue at hand and informing those I care about and love, I decided to keep things to myself. When I finally started to tell those people depression and anger had set in to my heart. It had become obvious to those around me that I was no longer myself, the positive attitude and sense of humour were gone. I was trying to push those I love and care about away so I could be left alone. I was a fool! After telling my father of the situation, he realized that darkness and despair had filled my heart. He flew over here on Friday to spend a solid couple of days with me. Knowing this I thought it was time to tell him everything about my life since I left home at 18 and joined the Royal Navy. He has always been a pillar of strength in my life, there to listen and never judge. I am sure there are things that I told him over the last couple of days that he never wanted to hear, but he never wavered and just listened. This morning as I told the last of what I wished to tell him, he put that gigantic paw of his on my shoulder, looked me in the eyes and said..."get your goddamn head out of your bleeping ass"!!!! He's right!!! After more words of wisdom from my father, I realize now that it is time to enter the fight. I want to say I am sorry to those I care about and love, I should have been stronger from the start and told you the situation. That was my mistake. Thanks to my father I have my positive attitude back and sense of humour. I do not want anyone's sympathy, for it is an emotion that commandos have little value in. What I want is for people to smile and laugh, that is what gives me strength and always has. Though there will be times where I will obviously not be around while I deal with certain things, those of you who I am in contact with and consider to be my friends will know the situation and where I am. I will not keep you in the dark any longer. Now to leave this on a funny note. ;) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DdeLUA0Fms http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLpO-OvJU74 Spud271

I would be completely turned off if a man didn't want me to kiss him, after I'd had HIS OWN COCK in my mouth. If he thought that made my mouth gross, I'd have a simple solution - I wouldn't put his cock in it.

MsManda.

What is really kinda creepy, a guy changes his handle to become someone else (re-invents himself... why? I will never know unless there is a lot too hide), than blocks everyone (except his allowed friends I guess), but creeps your profile....I find that very weird.

I find this whole thread rather retarded. Why jeopardize the safety of your little one by continuing to meet guys off CERB for services. Just wrong and disturbing in my opinion.

Just like Star Wars day was picked to be on May 4th ("May the fourth be with you"), maybe female orgasm day was put on 8/8 as this sounds out as "Ate it"???

If you begin to research some of the lovely ladies here in Halifax, you'll see that many have been here and providing wonderful services for a number of years with no issues. As the sexy Sophia stated if you think smart and avoid many of the known issues, you should have no problems. Most legitimate ladies are discrete and take measures to keep things quiet and presentable so not to draw attention. A few words of advice, monitor the B&S posts here and use tineye for any pictures outside CERB. If anyone wants to book at date in Uniacke Square, DECLINE. I know instant gratification is a big thing however if you go outside CERB, again, be careful as there are potentially many issues, step back and ask for input from the gentlemen here as many use outside services. Read, research and play smart and you can enjoy here what you enjoyed in Toronto. Good luck and welcome to the city!

I'm sure no ladies would mind if you'd like to celebrate today instead ;)

I agree that we should all respect the service providers. they provide intimate services. Most of them enjoy their jobs and many do it to support themselves and loved ones. Taking off the condom is a stupid selfish thing to do. Not only they risking the health of the service provide, and her families, but also the health of the following clients and their SO's. This job is can be emotionally hard on them along with them taking risky and stressful situations with bad clients. Treat them the respect that they deserve and you will be rewarded. Many of the girl's I've met so far, I have become friends with and maintain contact thru emails and pm. And if I get a chance to visit them again I will. So guy's please respect the limits of the woman and have the proper donation available at the beginning of the session. Be clean and have a fresh breath, and YMMV you will have a great time. So, again Thank you, Women of Cerb for being kind, loving and providing great service. You make me smile, and happy :) :) xoxoxoxox

This one from Midnite-Massage's album always struck me as creative and artistic...

Watched Django Unchained the other night. Really enjoyed it. I also watched Taken with Liam Neeson. I wasn't expecting to like it but quite enjoyed it. I also recently watched Children of Men which I quite enjoyed. I'm a big sci fi fan, so I also recently rewatched Serenity. For Firefly and Joss Whedon fans it is a must see. Porthos

As I said on my previous Post... First off.. make sure you and you SO are in agreement of the lady you want to meet... so pick a few that you both think would like to spend time with... after you have done this preselection process contact each lady diretly and tell her /them what you are looking for... how would you like the session to go... would you like the session to be focused on you, on her, or both... Check if she is comfortable with ladies... or if she rather just see men... Communicate.., dont be afraid of asking.. is better to ask and make sure .. specially being something that you are sharing with your SO.., you want this to be a memorable and enjoyable experience as a couple.. and not an experience that will bring you trouble in the futiure :)

Very much agreed!!! It's his fetish, so let the man enjoy it...no reason to sit here and judge him for it!!! I hope he finds someone who can accommodate him!

I believe that is why the OP referenced the smoking as a fetish. Many things that wind up one person's fetish motor completely turn someone else completely off. Part of the joy of Sexuality is the wide variety of it all.

What? I couldn't see what you wrote with that small font Jake_1957 ;-) ...and I didn't see any boobs ( . )( . ) Is that it, you know you are getting old when boobs become blurry? :P (hehe, jk of course) I can definitely say I use Zoom a lot more nowadazes though :-)

Good Afternoon gentlemen, I'm a young fit MA who loves to massage and can do it for hours. My sensual erotic GFE massage will relieve your tension while I provide you with sexy teasing fun that will lead to an explosion of heavenly pleasure, just tell me what your into.. I'm petite 5'4, athletic 120 lbs, perky b34 bust, dark hair, golden tan, juicy round bum, seductive lips, hazel bedroom eyes and very open minded fun and comfortable to be with.. Join me for some hot steamy fun 613-614-2117 schedule: Friday: 3:30pm-11pm Saturday: 9am-9pm Sunday: 10am-9pm -Sasha xxx

Slipped in fell on the wet floor of an apartment building lobby and broke my ankle. So no motorcycle riding for me for the month of August. Anyone know how to dress up an aircast to make it look sexy?

Well I had lots of great bj's MsManda was the best. Hands down You will not be disappointed

Before writing this I went back to the first recommendation by Pistol Pete, who was the "chosen one"...... the dude lucky enough to be the first guy to see Claire. I don't add the "erotic Emily" simply because that was before my time, seeing that handle reserved for the "originals" who saw Claire in the beginning. Funny thing, move forward a few years and I strongly suspect she is exactly the same girl, because as I read the words that Pete and the first page of her recommendations offer I can definitely relate to now that I have seen her. Ok, first of all Claire states she give a "mediocre message". So right of the start I am here to stay she give a GREAT message. You just have to understand what a Claire message means. She is a straight up, no BS tells you whats up lady, if that's not attractive enough she is absolutely gorgeous with a smile that takes your breath away... add that to her message technique and I'm sure the pages of guys recommending her would agree, Claire gives an awesome message. Seeing Claire was was both an sensual and treasured experience. She R O C K S, and a closet therapeutic masseuse. Keep being....you girl.

Wow, do I really wish I was in Ottawa right now!!! I would sooo like to contribute as much as possible to your day, ladies.... hehehe Enjoy!

Thanks Amelia :) I did / do check all the time. Just in case I missed someone's ad they might pop up here. Like you :) Watching people....stand up comedy....sex stories...you had me at "watching' :) You seem like an amazing answer to my question lol.

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Like most folks here, I just love kissing - period. I especially love and crave dfk with my favorite SP's before, during and after the sessions. When my lovely lady looks up at me while giving me a bj, I usually can not help but hold her head gently with both my hands and bend down to give her a nice wet dfk - it is nothing more sensual than this!

This is exactly what I'm thinking. All 4 of my friends got repulsed by the idea, and they have great sex lives. WTF? Maybe it's not as great as it could be? Additional Comments: WOOT! Finally off moderation.

I had a guy say this to me one time but we were both in our late teens. I was stunned. Ok, to some degree I can understand the snowballing. I'm not into cim but when a woman gives a man a bj without completion and he doesn't want to kiss her directly afterwards, I don't understand the problem. Is he afraid of his own cooties? lol.

I have certainly tasted my own cum when kissing a lady after a BJ or DATY with a regular partner. Never found the taste offensive and ladies have responded positively to my comfort in doing that. I guess I've always felt that "if I expect you to taste it, I should be prepared to taste it as well".

From Cleo's latest album :

Not sure if the first one is a bikini or lingerie, but who cares? :D

Was gardening in a white tank top. I turned on the hose and it happened to have a leak in it and soaked me entirely. I came around the corner of the house to try and get inside quickly without anyone noticing and of course my neighbor who is a dirty old man caught me in a soaked tank top.... nipples and all!!!

I dunno, the original menu sounded like a great combination!

'Cashback' (2009) Speaking of Denzel, 'Inside Man' (2006) surprised me.

Hello there !!! And I am pleased too say I am one of those lady's who can squirt and yes I am over 30. I am 49 and love the feeling when I get that rush !!!

Setting your profile to be visible to registered members only seems reasonable. I don't get why you'd want to make it more restrictive than that - after all, if you're going to be part of an online community, it'd make sense to participate, no? However, this is a bit different for the ladies, for whom their profile page and pics are another chance to advertize... so I'd guess keeping it public makes more sense for them.

Peek at me baby. Leave a message. I love it,

I've been going to an RMT once a week going on 3 years. They have a license and study up to 2 years to get their license. They are a 'God send' to those of us who actually need them. They could lose their license doing anything that would be considered unprofessional. I can not see any of them risking their license for a few extra dollars. They make excellent yearly wages doing what they have been trained to do. IF someone is looking for a happy ending you would not go to see an RMT in the first place. Personally I am looking for a VERY HAPPY ending, so I find the provider who can do that. It is just a matter of going to see the right person for what you are looking for. My 5 cents worth.

I have to agree with all of the above comments, sent Leigh a text late last Sun night, she responded promptly, I had some requests that she had no problem accommodating so I decide to give her a go, when I arrived I was pleased by the gorgeous sexy lady that met me at the door, we exchang$d our intros and got down to business I am not going to go into all the details but the BBBJ is still etched in my mind and its been almost a week, the girl knows how to take care of her man, can't wait till my next date with her.

What makes you think they don't look at this site? I know for a fact they do as I have spoken with police in the past in regards to the site. In fact a very nice lady police investigator contacted us not too long ago asking for assistance in a case. Now, your new so I suspect you think prostitution is illegal right? We watch a lot of american TV and prostitution in Canada (unlike MOST of the USA) is very much legal here. In canada streetwalking (public solicitation), brothels (common bawdy houses) and pimping/procuring is illegal. The actual exchange for money for sex in private is very much legal and since a website is not considered a PUBLIC PLACE discussing and advertising such activities in classified ads and online is NOT illegal. We do not allow discussions of illegal nature here. Included on this list is - streetwalkers - FS massage spa's - public brothels - sex in public (including "Car dates") - underage (18 is the legal age) - drugs - pimping and so on... Hope that helps

The three of us are very much looking forward to seeing everyone there. Everything is coming together nicely and we will keep you all informed as to all the details as the time gets closer. Again as mentioned feel free to contact myself, Loneskater or Mistert with any questions you may have at any time! :D

When I had a banner here on CERB my Moto was "Dom with a Difference" I provide a mix of Dom/Teasing/Sensuality/ I'm not a traditional Dom.

Couples are soooooo much fun! Let her look around here, check out the ads, and find a girl who turns her on. What men like, and what women like, is usually very different. There are some girls out there that men drool over, and I personally think, 'She's hot, but not for me'. Then I'll see one particular woman...and WOW, I can feel my desire for her instantly, even if she's not the one all the boys like. So first advice is let her pick. For the tipsy part...I once had a man contact me about seeing him and his wife, and he said 'She's nervous, so she's a bit drunk right now'. I flat-out refused. I will not see someone who is drunk, because I do not want to be part of something that someone will regret. But drunk and tipsy are different. I personally would be fine to be invited out to meet a couple and enjoy a couple of glasses of wine together. I know that inhibitions can drop after a drink or two, and might give your wife that extra courage to let loose and get it on with another woman. But for me anyway, as soon as that turns from tipsy to drunk, I wouldn't do it. Because also, you want her to remember this! So I would ensure to clarify with your chosen companion what her policy on drinking is, before asking her to join you and there be the possibility she'll decline once she sees that you two have been drinking. I hope you find what you're looking for! You are definitely in the right place :) Oh! Another site to check out is escorts-canada.com, as beside the listings for girls there are icons that tell you exactly who does and who doesn't see couples. So you can see which ones have the couples icons and choose from there :)