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Fuck Your Morals. ;) Just Kidding..... Ish. I do chemistry not Math. I have had some great conversations and connections with people through texting or Private messages and get this preconceived idea of who they are in my mind- I pick an age, and hair colour and all sorts of crap- then I actually meet them- and im shocked- that theyre either waaay younger or waaaaay older. At first I feel jipped lol. and a sudden loss of attraction to the mystery man I had conversed with. But then....I realize they are still who they were through the screen- Their sexy shone through then- so why let our brains or eyes rob ourselves from experiencing all the sexy people can surprisingly offer us? Morals/Ethics aren't set in stone. What you feel is 'right' one day may be trivial or non existent the next. Dont let your own brain hinder you from enjoying life..... Whether you're 18 or 81 ;) Giddy Up. *Remember To Live*

There are certainly a few things that come to mind, and I think I have mentioned this before but it's special to me... It's only since I started playing as a companion that I learned how to achieve orgasm from receiving oral sex. I had always enjoyed the feeling, but had never actually climaxed from it before I was an escort! And now it is my very favourite way to orgasm... mmmm I just love it! And the orgasms continue to get more and more intense too! This also helped to prove to me how much sex really was in my head. In my mind, I knew this to be true, but this really made me see it more clearly. I previously thought that I simply just couldn't cum that way - then once I focussed on making it happen, and then it finally did - I knew it could happen - so then it was easily possible all the time. :)

My preference, or any guy's preference isn't what matters. What matters is what is the lady's preference. If she prefers to be natural, she should remain natural. If she wants to have implants, she should get implants. But whatever her decision, it should be her decision, done for herself, not for someone else be it bf/cl/husband or even clients BTW the ladies I see don't tell me how to "improve" be it Rogaine because I'm follically challenged (I'm bald LOL) or weight loss, they see me for the man I am. Likewise, the women are beautiful, and don't need some guy telling them how to "improve" when no improvement is needed. I see them for the ladies they are Hope that comes out right A rambling RG

A young lady 18 or 19 would be too young for me no matter how mature. I look at 18 & 19 year old's as girls, not grown women. It may have to do with my values, what I was taught growing up, because I'm a dad, the fact that I am in my very late 50's! I frequent a restaurant that has University aged girls working there and to me they look like they are around 15, 16 or 17 in that age group. One of them I know is in her 3rd year of university and is 20 years old, but to me she doesn't look anymore than 16. She did tell me she gets carded all the time when she is out. The other young lady opens & serves alcoholic beverages so she has to be 18 I believe, to open the beverage here in Halifax Nova Scotia. I have nothing against Men who choose to see these 18-19 year old women so long as they are of legal age here in Canada. It just isn't something that I would choose to do. They look too much like little girls to me! My 5 cents worth on the topic

Being a member of Cerb for approximately four plus years and hobbying for years previously, I would recommend the following: -Paradise Spa, great owners who pay attention to what is going on, very clean facility, fresh smelling showers and towels. Most importantly, the Ladies are first class, pretty/beautiful, a range of ages, pretty/beautiful, attentive, sexy and drama free. Easy to get to in the west end or very easy access to the 417. -Angels Touch, same owners as above, only thing missing from here that PS has is a hot tub. Again, very clean, fresh smelling towels and showers, hot sexy Ladies, easy access to central and downtown Ottawa. Then there are a number of very sexy Ladies that offer incall facilities for massage only, not full service!: -Claire Heavens, a busy little Lady who provides an awesome experience -Michaella (she is going to spank me for misspelling her name) Caress, one of the many Ladies here on Cerb who are going back to uni or college -Erin is a lovely lady also in the west end who is sweet, provides a great massage and is well worth your time to visit -Katrine Cannon is a very skilled Lady, who is on the Quebec side of the river, but easy to get to Also available are Dom sessions with Ms. Samantha and Samantha who are right downtown. Finally, there are a great number of Pretty, Sexy, and SANE Ladies who offer massage as well as full service; Mature Jen, Mature Lee, Angela (she with the walking cast!), Vanessa Vale, Carrie Moon and a whole host of others that I am going brain dead trying to get names correct. As always, cruise thru Cerb listings, and if you see someone that catches your fancy, reach out and send them a note, call and speak to them, they won't bite unless you ask them to! Also read Cowboy Kenny's blog on a regular basis to keep up with the scammers who are out there! Good luck! Apologies to any ladies I have been a client of and have left off this list.

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Younger women are fantastic.....tight bodies, perky boobs, no wrinkles. Having said that, I'm an older woman type of guy. I'm 55 and comfortable in my skin. So are older women. I have a crazy unpredictable schedule that makes it extremely hard to line up a visit with my favorite Sp at 4 pm on Saturday 100 miles away. My type of girl knows I'm doing my best and understands that life gets in the way at times and if I'm late, she still loves me. No drama, no bs......we're friends, if only briefly. I'm not inconsiderate of their lives or their schedules, but even trying my best doesn't always work. If they can work things out, they do, and if they cannot, it's my fault....they still get paid. Older ladies get back to you with facts, Jack. They don't have time for giggling and incessant chatter....neither do I. The reasons above are why I love and am comfortable with older (30+ ladies). It's all part of the GFE..we relate. Younger women are fantastic, but I am no longer a younger man. Andy Rooney said it better than I ever could........... "In Praise of Older Women Andy Rooney says, "As I grow in age, I value older women most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: An older woman will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think. An older woman knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 50 give a damn what you might think about her. An older single woman usually has had her fill of "meaningful relationships" and "commitment." The last thing she needs in her life is another dopey, clingy, whiny, dependent lover! Older women are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it. Most older women cook well. They care about cleanliness and are generous with praise, often undeserved. An older woman has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn't trust the guy with other women. Older women couldn't care less. Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to an older woman. They always know. An older woman looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women or drag queens. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, an older woman is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Her libido's stronger, her fear of pregnancy gone. Her experience of lovemaking is honed and reciprocal and she's lived long enough to know how to please a man in ways her daughter could never dream of. (Young men, you have something to look forward to.) Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off you are a jerk if you are acting like one. Yes, we praise older women for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coifed babe of 70 there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22 year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize for all of us. That men are genetically inferior is no secret. Count your blessings that we die off at a far younger age, leaving you the best part of your lives to appreciate the exquisite woman you've become, without the distraction of some demanding old man clinging and whining his way into your serenity." signed: Andy Rooney"

I really have no strong preference. I find the important appendage resides above the neck. If we get along well and there's something physical that's not up to par, that's what eyelids and light switches are for.........for me AND her!

Age and attraction are two different concepts. Attraction is an emotional and psychological process. Determining whether it is right or wrong based on age is a cognitive process built by culture, media, social learning, etc. I've never been with a woman older than myself, but have felt that several of them were older in the way they acted. Often, but not usually, you can't place the personality with the age. Scrb. Sent from my HTC EVO 3D X515a using Tapatalk 2

Thanks for the mentions boys! I do offer CIM, and both Ms Bardot and I have spent time doing massage in the past, and we do duos together, so purrhaps we may offer what you're looking for - but as mentioned, I do not swallow

We all remember where we were September 11th. A dozen years later, the wound has left behind a scar to remind of us of that sombre day of ash and tears, where history was forced in a new, darker direction at the expense of nearly 3000 lives. Sons and Daughters. Mothers and Fathers. Wives and Husbands. Family. Friend. Hero. Today, each and every one of us should spare a thought to remember them.

Found out that I am going to be a Grand parent for the first time :)

Deepthroating.. that is definitely something where boundaries can be pushed further and further. As long as it's consentual, safe and not done with intent force, it is something that has the potential to be extremely intense and such a turn on.

JUST TO CLARIFY... I in no way condone men seeing under aged sex workers. It is illegal, that's obvious. My words were simply my experience as a young woman who preferred older men and still does. I'm not encouraging any hobbyist to seek out underaged girls... cat

I have found this thread really interesting. I started work at 18 by my own volition and never found the clients I serviced to be seedy or slimy. That said, I looked in my mid 20's and seldom was I asked about my age. I knew what I was getting into, had given it a couple of years of thought before hand and I've never regretted the decision. I have a fairly strong personality and have never had a problem handling men even at 18. I could have easily worked at 16 from an emotional maturity stand point. The foundation for my business today was there already as a teenager and I've changed little in the way of customer service since I started. On a personal level, I'm divided by the "18 is acceptable" mentality. At 16 I started dating older men in their late 20's whom I met thru my older sister. I looked well over 18 and they never asked my age until we had been dating awhile. Most times I lied about being older and it was never questioned. By the time I was 18, I graduated to men over 40 and I have preferred men at least 15-20 years my senior ever since. Boys my own age held no interest for me. I didn't want to go to parties where everyone drank themselves into oblivion and pawed at me; I didn't want to hang out watching videos and making out on the couch or driving around. I wanted to go and do things. I loved live theater, racing of any sort, good restaurants and intelligent conversation. I wanted to travel and see the world outside of the little bit of swamp I grew up in. Boys my own age didn't do those sorts of things. The sex part of the dating was secondary to me. The intimacy was fun, I learned so much and I would do it again in a heart beat. I think older men can offer a better quality relationship because they are experienced. That said, there needs to be more on the mans mind than just getting into a young girls pants. Predators are always disgusting but I don't think we should paint all men with the same brush just because they end up in a relationship with a younger than 18 year old woman. Two of my daughters are involved with older men and I would say it's been a good thing. My 21 year old has lived with a man 17 years her senior for 3 years and is helping raise his 3 sons while attending University full time. They met when she was 17 and she moved in on her 18th birthday. Many were appalled and her step mom tried to have him arrested before she turned 18. I know my daughter, this man didn't take advantage of her; if anything, she took advantage of him. She has had the best 3 years of her life since 9/11 hit and the sky fell in on our family. My other daughter is 23 and dating a man my age. He provides her with opportunities she would never have on her own or dating a man her own age. He adores her and she him. They aren't marriage minded but they live together and seem happy. She's learning about being a grown up from someone she will listen to (God knows she doesn't listen to me or her father) and seems to be getting pretty good advice from him. Our society seems to forget that teenage girls mature faster than their male peers and some of these young ladies are more than ready to experience life with someone who can show them what's out there. The only relationship I had with someone my own age was with the father of my children and while I don't regret it on any level, I do think my life today would be very different if I had stayed true to my nature and married someone more mature... cat

I had a fantastic duo with Cleo and Sara McQ a few years ago...totally awesome, but with respect to the OP's criteria, Cleo = no swallow...which in no way diminishes how awesome she is IMHO!

When you contact the lady be open and upfront with her. Provide her with your real name, board handle (confirmed by PM, I assume she is a lady on CERB) contact phone number and email. Explain to her this is your first time seeing an escort and there isn't a companion who can provide a reference for you. She will likely have other ways to verify you I don't think being a student will be an issue, just so long as you can pay her donation in full. In your email be polite, respectful, in short, be a gentleman Good luck RG

Howdy ladies and gents. I guess I didn't do a good enough job promoting the return of the diary. I simply jumped on the thread that had 3,600 views stating that the diary was down, and changed the link in my signature along with a few discrete ads on CL. In the last few days I've received numerous PMs and emails from folks that didn't know about the new diary's return and new address. Guess I should give myself a failing grade on marketing the return of the cowboy's diary. It was down for a number of weeks due to some apparent issues with the terms of service, but after all the kind support and encouragement from the many readers here from cerb and other venues I decided to setup shop at a new home on the internet... if you haven't been there yet, check it out and bookmark http://www.cowboysdiary.info, be sure to tell your friends and family too. (ok maybe not your family) pardon me for this shameless plug :)

Gents, Eva Pearl is a Gem you do not want to miss. (no pun intended). She is from Montreal and has visited Ottawa a few times. Went to meet her today and I must say that she is a fabulous lady and i'll definitely be back....looks, attitude, smile, enthusiasm, she is soooo Hot! Definitely a Victoria's Secret Model type....beautiful face, body, sense of humour, beautiful lingerie, manicured nails, everything, she is the total package if you are looking for a truely amazing GF experience. I met her at the door and I was Wowed! I'm not going to get into details, but suffice it to say that she is a very beautiful, energetic, enthusiastic, fun and hot lady. We really enjoyed our session :-) She will make you feel weak at the knees and the experience getting there is incredible. She is really alot of fun and you can tell she enjoys what she does. Treat her well gents! We definitely want her back in Ottawa often :-)

What do you like about shoes? Do you even know how many pairs of shoes you own? Do you really wear all of them? Are woman the only ones that have an obsession of shoes? Do women like certain shoes for men? I own 5, and each have a purpose. Work boots Winter boots Running shoes new An old pair of running shoes I don't mind working without worrying they'll get ruined Recently this summer I bought my first pair of flip floppy sandal perfect for when I'm to lazy to find sox lol. I hate finding matching socks. Must admit I love a nice pair of heel on a women and suede boots sexy.

Exactly what I was going to say. If you don't stand up for yourself, she'll lose respect for you as a man and that's the beginning of the end. Learned that the hard way. :-(

TODAY 3:30 -11!! Fellow hobbyists If this is your first visit be sure to check out.. RECO'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=R&t=82591PIC'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6979 I am a M/A with an INCREDIBLE drive.. A nautarlist at heart <3 ME in the buff = YOU leaving happy I am petite (5ft' - 32D - 107lbs) but my presence and personality are larger than life. ( Don't be nervous ) I have a soft approch and a HARD finish. My techniques are magical And I love to entertain. Lucky you ! My Schedule: **Thursday 3:30 pm to 11pm** Friday10 am to 11 pm Sunday 10 am to 9 pm Exclusively @ Angels Entertainment in a relaxed environment 613-274-7073 to book or PM me :smile: Hope to see you soon ! xoxo

It's very hard to give advice on relationship when you don't know the people and unsure of their problems. Only thing I would suggest is communication and he tells her how he feels.

3sums and Group playdates are always exciting in a unique way. Each one is different. It's like visiting someone else's garden. Women are so fun to play with, especially when there's a Gent(s) involved. But yes, you have to do your homework when it comes to what a Lady will or wont do. Some have restrictions that are within their comfort zone and you have to respect their choices. Other Ladies are all encompassing as long as everyone is comfortable and into it. I have brought my do's and don'ts into my play from past experience before I was an SP. I'm pretty simple with my rules. Others have their own. So asking your questions are certainly not inappropriate and most certainly your list is available in Ottawa. As for MSOG, I have never understood why this is an issue. If Im going to orgasm multiple times, how is it fair that the Gent/Lady should not? I guess everyone is different. Just my 5cents worth. :tongue:

The world is indeed a small place. I have relatives in the United States. One is my cousin who was in the US Air Force, assigned to the Pentagon. Just by chance his office and other's offices were having renovations done on them, so they actually worked out of an office building, not the actual Pentagon while renovation work was going on. He could have been killed except that they were doing renovations in his office area And my second cousin, works as a manager in some company in Long Island. On 9/11 she had a meeting at the WTC. On her way to the meeting she received a call that the meeting was cancelled. Had the meeting not been cancelled she could have been killed And finally, at work, a co-worker's daughter was touring in NYC. After the attacks he couldn't get a hold of his daughter for two days. Never seen a man so scared waiting for bad news, and when she finally got a hold of him, never saw a man so happy that his daughter was alive RG

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For me it would have to be my first FFM experience. Had fantasizes about it often and finally got to experience it.....one of the hottest moments was having one giving me oral and the other cuddling on my chest encouraging her friend on and telling her exactly what she wanted to see her do to my manhood with her mouth. Very, very hot.

Well that just goes to show that you can't trust my memory! Next time I'll keep my big mouth shut and let the ladies speak for themselves. On the upside, this means Ms Bardot has now been added to my hobby list! Yay!!!!!!!!

... hundreds of thousands of lives. That day was just the first day of a very, very dark, violent, and slightly insane decade that followed from it. I spare a thought for the thousands of innocents killed that day, and also for the hundreds of thousands who died needlessly in the cataclysm that followed it. The two cannot be separated; it would be like sighing "ah, poor Franz Ferdinand and his wife" every June 28, and leaving it there.

That's wonderful feedback for Lilly. I know many gentlemen are interested, maybe a reco is in order as she seems to have made a believer out of you.

Happy Birthday Emiafish...all the best on your day!

I like to keep it within my age range, so from 25 to 40 and will adventure over 40 if i really like someone, no problems there. It's all about the person and how they act for me. I just find i prefer someone in that age group but always open about things. But won't go below 25 or so as i'm just more comfortable with that.

Since all pleasures are delicious, I cannot pick one but I can certainly tell you about 2 erotic discoveries that happened to me as a companion. One of them was squirting! I will always be grateful to the gentleman who showed me how wonderful it could feel. The other one was discovering that all my toes were like a mini clitoris on their own when licked and sucked on and that I didn't really need much (if any) other stimulation to be able to reach orgasm. Just plain awesome!!

All of the Mp/Mas' listed are wonderful, but if I was visiting, and had only one experience available, then the Jessica experience is not to be missed.... Her hours are curtailed for school, but good luck

I do think in your post when you say "pubescent girl" you meant younger-18+ at least I hope:) But the next sentence is the one that worries me. Young girls do want to have sex but I don't think they always know what they are doing when they pursue it and *some* will have sex with anyone that gives them the right attention. It is for that reason my mothering-protecting instincts are ignited. I know when I was at that age I slept with a lot of guys, I was searching for affection, love and mistook sex as affection. The repercussions of those encounters deeply affected me, the affects of which really never arose to later in my life. I'd hate to see that happen to anyone. Being a young sp can in *some* even cause more regret, since especially today your past lingers forever in this techno world, if you are not completely grounded and resigned to the affects this lifestyle can have on ones future. I am in no way defaming this profession as its one I embrace but for those just starting out, beginning their lives and not thinking long term, who you have sex with, how many times, when and where can leave a trail mentally and physically you may not be mentally prepared or mature enough to deal with at such a young age. As we age and gain life experience we are better prepared and more able to deal with unconventional choices, make better decisions and have a better idea of what we want or don't want our future to hold.

Zoe..she is AWESOME!!!..not quite a bbw...but sexy curves, extremely nice, smart, pretty, and FUN!!

There is something very very wrong when a grown man has no issues about having sex with an underage girl...even if she does want it. So wrong...

Somone is REALLY on my ass about wanting to get a Pug and naming it Puggles! I love you but the answer is Noooo!!

The more I get laid, the more I want. In a purrfect world, I think I'd get fucked twice a day, and I'd get myself off once or twice too ;)

^^ and that when he makes an appointment, he shows up to the appointment. If the sp you saw isn't in the online community, it doesn't mean that she is inaccessible. You would contact her to see if she is reference friendly, and if she is, then let her know you would like to use her as a reference for yourself for (name the sp). She may provide an email contact. You'd give the new sp the contact info and let her know the sp is expecting to be contacted by her. if the sp you have chosen just doesn't have an alternative, there are other sps available who can, I am sure. And considering what you have mentioned in your original post, do not rule out an MA as not being 'worth it'. If you are new to this, an MA may actually be your better option, considering in your first appointment there were some concerns. You may need the different kind of care and attention that comes with an MA experience, just to get your feet wet, so to speak, without the pressure of having to have an erection to get to the 'worth it' point that comes with an sp :)

After a hot shower, exfoliating, cleansing getting smooth all over. Preparing my space for "his" or even "your" arrival. Dolling self up, those last finishing touches of blush and lipstick. Taking the sexy number I have chosen to melt you with and devour you. One stocking on, reaching for the other with sexy music playing to get me in that sex kitten mood I much prefer to be in.... The telephone rings, I answer with a prrrr. I am ready and looking forward to a hell of a sexy day with a gentleman I hope is polite, fun and also a great time for me. "are you avail. right now? addy? "rates?" they are in my ads hun....... long pause (sexy vibe suddenly threatened ) by the chance that he may......oh please don't..... "how about 50 less than your rate?" other girls have agreed to X amount and even Y amount. But I will see you if you will agree to their rates!" My legs start to cross as he begins to bid with my body and services. Suddenly all that sexy preparation and bad girl sexy, devour you vibe I spent the morning slowly, carefully preparing myself for you. That warm, sexy soft and wet feeling is suddenly threatened to become the very place a negotiation always proves time and time again to take me. "Fuck it." Nothing dries me up faster than suggesting less than my rate I have offered myself intimately to you, (a mysterious stranger) now douchbag...... I suddenly feel like throwing some clothes on and watching soaps. Better yet Screw this..... I'm going shopping! (it's due to days and conversations as stated above that I have aquired a questionable amount of battery operated "devices") AKA.... sorry not available today. Please guys, nothing kills a sexy vibe faster than nickle and dimming over 20 dollars that I will need to replace those sexy stockings you love so much.

You guys can argue this stuff until you're blue in the face but it doesn't change the reality on the ground. Ever heard the saying, "I don't make the world. I just try to live in it."? Wanna try to negotiate rates? Go for it. Be aware though that the consequence is that many of the better ladies here will IMMEDIATELY blacklist you and never see you just for bringing it up. Hope that $20 you were trying to save was worth it. I'll even go you one better. I would bet dimes to donuts that you guys are ALREADY in some ladies blacklists just for having this discussion. It shows a certain level of tastelessness and low class that I expect many of these ladies are not interested in experiencing. But hey, good luck with your bargain hunting. More ladies for me.

To put it bluntly, and I apologise in advance if this offends anyone (not my intention) but do any of the independent contractors you mentioned above get intimate with you? Do any of them kiss you, suck your cock, massage you, shower with you, put on beautiful lingerie for you, let you explore their bodies, etc. and give you orgasm(s)? I bet not! If it's all the same to those of you who like to negotiate, perhaps you should start a side-line business and experience first hand how it feels to be low-balled by someone looking for a deal for this type of extremely intimate experience/service. On a different note, if you can't afford your car repairs, yes, you can always try to get a better price and that reduction will come off the price of the parts --the mechanics will still get paid the same-- OR you can always take the bus, train, subway, or better yet, walk or bike... No one says that you HAVE to see an SP when you don't have the money.