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Standing on the sidelines for a bit... I'll be ready to get back in the game soon! ;)

I started in this business when I was eighteen, and I have always been painfully aware of the perceptions some people hold of young SPs. I cannot address the circumstances of other young SPs in this business, but I can talk about mine. Necessity was a factor that led me to this work, but I have never felt trapped in this situation. I know the risks of my occupation, and I still choose to do it over other jobs because this job allows me to be creative and independent, teaches me business skills and allows me to connect with people I wouldn't have otherwise met. Is it really necessary for me to have access to other high-paying, 'empowered' positions to make this choice valid? I am not a child. I am a young adult with an enterprising spirit who hates doing shift work for minimum wage and would simply prefer not to have to answer to any boss. At last, I have found work that does not leave me feeling exploited. Please don't belittle my agency, maturity or intelligence with sweeping ageist statements. My age does not make me a victim by default. I have tried to de-emphasize my age in advertisements because I am concerned about the assumptions clients will make about me as a young person. But that isn't really something I want to have to conceal, and I would prefer if people would make the effort to see me as a whole person, and not an age-based stereotype.

Now there's a sexy thought.... a Cleo Clava... worn in the proper way, on your face? ;)

Saw this on another site and thought it was such a great post I'd put it here for others to read:) A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed that as one problem was solved, a new one arose. Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She then pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her granddaughter, she asked, "Tell me, what do you see?" "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The granddaughter then asked, "What does it mean, Grandmother?" Her grandmother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity -- boiling water -- but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water. "Which are you?" she asked her granddaughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?" Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity? Do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength? Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart? Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor of your life. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you changed by your surroundings or do you bring life, flavor, to them? ARE YOU A CARROT, AN EGG, OR A COFFEE BEAN?

This is part of the reason I really enjoy working where I do. It's a flat fee for the room and my company! The tiered offerings always seemed to create a lot of confusion. If you communicate with the person you are going to see you can get the financials out of the way up front. This ensures that any tips that are beyond that are a token of appreciation for the encounter. I believe that just like any service industry the tip u leave should be in line with your own comfort level, and the service you were provided. I believe tips are not required, but I definitely remember the gentleman that offers one. In short in my opinion the answer to your question is that if you communicate up front you will never be left feeling like you shorted the lady, and anything above that is a kind token that will definitely be appreciated. Kelly

Just found out about an hour ago that an old colleague and a very dear man was murdered yesterday in Toronto. One of the gentlest gentlemen, soft spoken, polite, calm and a very sweet disposition - I haven't seen him in a few years but this was like a gut punch - life is so precious and it can be taken away so easily....

I completely understand the budget part and that is probably the greatest factor. no one wants to feel like they wasted their budget. That said, life dynamic and if one does not take a risk (even a well researched and thought out risk) then there is no potential for greatness. Remember, all your regular ladies were once a risk (to put it into perspective). CERB is wonderful in that you can explore the person via posts, pictures, PM, and a variety of interactions here before you make the decision thus reducing the risk. If someone is ringing your bells at a distance, chances are they will do the same in person provided you go in with an open mind, openness to the person and no expectations. I for one, believe that a life without risk and potential for greatness is a life not lived. Enjoy what you can when you can. When it's good, give thanks, when it's not, be thankful for the experience (because there is always something good in the experience). in the end, the decision is up to you and what sort of risk limit is comfortable for you.

I've known this for a while now but time is coming, this Sunday I will be riding my motorcycle with 3 of the cast from Sons Of Anarchy.

I've no idea if this would be possible, but I was thinking of a search criteria that might be useful to have when looking up posts. Currently, you can use the search function to find a specific person's posts and sort them by date, views, etc. You can of course also go from their profile and find all their posts, threads started by them, and posts that have been thanked. What I'm thinking is that it would be neat if it went a step further and there was a way to sort a person's posts in order of the rep points received. That is, the posts a person made that were most nominated/thanked would show first. Many people say that much of what they like about Cerb is the chance to read posts by various members as a way of getting to know them. People mention that when they consider seeing an SP or MP they'll take a look at some of their posts; likewise I'm sure a potential client's posts are sometimes browsed to get a sense of them. If there was a way to quickly see someone's most thanked/nominated posts you'd probably get to see those which most reveal their attitude and thoughts. It would let members old and new quickly find the "best of" each person's contributions. Anyway, if possible I'd think people would find this kind of sort function useful. Or maybe this already exists and I just haven't figured out how...?

Welcome to CERB, Bella! :biggrin: I agree with RNH's sentiments; if you are a friend of Cleo, you must be pretty awesome!! :) Have fun! :cooter:

Well thank yall for the warm and sexy welcomes. Im really excited to get to know you all more. Thanks to Cleo for showing this gal the ropes, I bet you have allot more tricks to teach. ;) xxx Bella Additional Comments: Next weekend Kingston then Ottawa may be on the menu I want to be personally trained by the queen sexkitten herself.

An orgasm that leave you sweaty, shivering and screaming like a banshee oh I love you hitachi <3

Found out that I am going to be a Grand parent for the first time :)

I forgot to post this earlier, But seeing Helix play a few days ago was a helluva lot of fun!

I agree. I had a similar post a while back. Short version: the "green" board has way more activity, but the people here are nicer. I still feel that way. Thanks for your contributions to the Reco section!

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Well lets see. Woke up today so I survived Friday the 13th Walked to the grocery store on a nice cool fall day Now back home, enjoying a coffee and apple danish from the bakery for breakfast while on CERB And it isn't even 0930am, and I have no pressing things to do today, well except the dishes and cook lunch and dinner RG

Saturday Kelly 10-9 aka "Kelly2010" Jennie 10-9 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Hannah 10-9 aka "Hannahxo" Sunday Pandora 10-9 aka "Pandora" Robyn 10-9 aka "robynxoxo" Jennie 10-4 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Monday Jenna 10-4 aka "Jenna69" Taylor 10-4 aka "Taylor_xo" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Tiffany 10-4 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Lexi 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Lexi" Robyn 3:30-11 aka "robynxoxo" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Tuesday Jennie 10-11 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Lexi 10-4 aka "Sexy Lexi" Taylor 10-4 aka "Taylor_xo" Robyn 10-4 aka "robynxoxo" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Jenna 3:30-11 aka "Jenna69" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Wednesday Robyn 10-4 aka "robynxoxo" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Jenna 10-4 aka "Jenna69" Lexi 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Lexi" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Thursday Taylor 10-4 aka "Taylor_xo" Jenna 10-4 aka "Jenna69" Tiffany 10-4 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Nicky 5-11 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Friday Nicky 10-11 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Tiffany 10-11 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Taylor 10-4 aka "Taylor_xo" Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Saturday Kelly 10-9 aka "Kelly2010" Hannah 10-9 aka "Hannahxo" Pandora 10-9 aka "Pandora" Sunday Hannah 10-9 aka "Hannahxo" Chantal 10-9 aka "ChantalSummers" Lexi 10-9 aka "Sexy Lexi"

Lexy Grace and Lilly are now providing a fully interactive GFE/PSE Duo! In/Outcalls to Hotels for a Duo See my current ad in the Halifax Section, the ad link is also on my profile:bddog: My other duo partner is Exotic Touch Danielle an experience that encompasses the best of both worlds a True GFE/PSE (me) with the many pleasures of Danielle! In/Outcalls to Hotels for a Duo PM Me Only for details for either Duo!! Advance Booking via PM Only is always best but same day may be possible but not guaranteed. Lexy Grace: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=29136 Lilly: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=70561 Exotic Touch Danielle: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=17404 Kisses, Lexy

Welcome to Cerbland sexy pants !!!! Enjoy and I look forward to bumping into you around here . And who knows. Maybe purrhaps there could be a Cleo-Clava duo in the future on one of my OTown / TO trips. ;) a different kind of bumping into ......

It would be a pretty quick way for any RMT to lose their license. Add in the fraudulent insurance claim and the customer is also looking at fraud. And if you are one of my employees on WCB or using our benefit plan I'd fire you right quick. And they would only have to do it once for word of it to spread all over these boards. I can't believe you guys keep on asking.

From ChantelSummer's newest album:

Just thought I'd be the 1,000th person to thank you dude. Good work :-)

Great day for horror movies and popcorn!!!!Friday the 13th marathon whoo hoo...and yes I had a pretty good day considering the superstition..hope everyone has a wonderful safe Friday evening xo Additional Comments: Great day for horror movies and popcorn!!!!Friday the 13th marathon whoo hoo...and yes I had a pretty good day considering the superstition..hope everyone has a wonderful safe Friday evening xo

Maybe to keep us all safe they should just skip the 13th in the calendar when it falls on a Friday and declare it the 14th instead, the way some old buildings skip the 13th floor. Then again, some traditions say it's a lucky number, so I guess I'll keep taking my chances. Seems to have worked okay so far!

Better yet , I am sure you could talk them into giving you a duo massage , I had one from them a while back and it was un be ffing leavable...........

Eh. Now I understand why I am missing on seeing so many wonderful gents on Cerb. I'm still too young for them.

To be honest, when I stop having fun and enjoying who I spend time with - I will retire. I may refer to "going to work" and treat it with the respect of a job, however I dont consider what I do "work". Part of the reason i screen is to ensure that we have chemistry - as that way we have a great time.

I have never done a repeat as of yet, but after multiple meetings with different providers, I would tend to stick with the tried and true logic. However, what if you are missing out? Could the unknown hold a better experience? I'm a firm believer in chemistry, and possible on that endless quest!

Welcome to our world! CERB the best place to be if you want to be naughty! And make naughjty friends! Welcome Sexy!

YAYAYAYAYAY welcome beautiful! I am actually dancing with excitement right meow, I love this girl! :D

I think most people find it got better and and better with each season, though I have to say I personally found it pretty compelling right from the start. That first season took its time but also had some high points: Walter's dilemma about killing Crazy 8, and the "this isn't meth" scene to gain the upper hand with Tuco. The show charts Walter's descent as he gets drawn deeper and deeper into a high-stakes, violent, and complicated enterprise while battling his own ego and thirst for power after a largely powerless life. It does take its time so that each step in that progression makes believable sense, and to examine the effect on Walter and the people around him. I guess you have to enjoy watching those character moments, and Walter's steady distortion away from where he started, for the show to really seize you.

I've never met a pair of boobies I didn't like. Some of them have turned out to have shitty owners, though....

Nice looking girl. I met her once and I don't plan to repeat.

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Leigh (Leighxox on cerb)! Fits the body type and menu you described to a tee and she's super sweet and easy to talk to.

Actually CERB makes me happy because it made me realize there's nothing at all wrong with this hobby and the people in it. It's simply a lifestyle choice and anybody who wants to judge us for it can go to hell.

Well, for me, I won't see guys younger then 18 and guys no older then 100. These are hard and set rules, and I won't sway from them. Maturity is what matters to me. Age means nothing. (However, I still id guys if they appear under the age of 21 - just to make sure).

The sp only access ladies currently can not see hidden profiles but this is causing issues with verification, because of this council has voted and we would like to grant any verified sp (sp only access) the ability to view hidden profiles (to help with the screening process) so this announcement is to let veryone know that in a few weeks (if we can get this working) the sp only ladies will be able to view private profiles (for screening and security). This way no "bad" clients can hide from sp only ladies. If anyone has questions or objects you can pm me or comment.

I had a friend -- who, at the time, was 31yrs old and had three children. Happily married, and they had a healthy sex life. However, upon her and I discussing, she told me she'd never masturbated. Then she got curious and called me to ask how. I tried my best to explain it. Of course, I created a monster lol. Truth is, sex on the whole and societal approach has changed a lot over the years. It was once regarded as "unhealthy" or "sinful" to touch yourself for pleasure. Think back to the days of "you'll go blind". Now? It's the norm - but there are those stuck in old patterns of thinking who are having a hard time coming to grips with their carnal desires. I hope for her sake she was lying! Masturbation is, in my opinion, an important part of self discovery.

Forgot about these creative Ad's from Emily J's album: Most creative :)

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Why does cof have to be YOU jacking off? Women have hands too! And I've had many a cum-splatter on my face while my tits did all the work... Just saying.

At this point I think Ariel is a make believe girl :) I have yet to see her. Any one know if she still works at Barbs?

my personal fave is a mix of CoF/CiM -- just spray it everywhere!!! :D

Lexy Grace and Exotic Touch Danielle are being oh so good but very very naughty providing a fully interative Duo! In/Out for a Duo See my current ad in the Halifax Section, the ad link is also on my profile:bddog: PM Me Only for details!! Advance Booking is always best but same day may be possible but not guaranteed. Lexy Grace: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=29136 Exotic Touch Danielle: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=17404 Kisses, Lexy

For the older woman/younger woman experience, I do fully interactive duos with the lovely Mya Rain.