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Ridiculous or a good idea? What message is this sending to the youth it is targeting? Should we not be teaching the fact that we are not celebrating war but embracing the memory of those who fought for our freedom? Does this white poppy not change the intent of the original red? I, for one, am against this new trend...thoughts?

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I will close my business for the full day on nov 11 as I always have for the past 32 years I have been in business . I do it to remember all who have sacrificed for us and for my grandfather whose shrapnel that emerged from his body years after his wounds suffered in world war 1 I still have in a pill box, and for my father in law who fought in Italy, holland and the black Forrest in Germany who did not speak of his exploits but left diaries in his safety deposit box only found after his death and for my niece wounded in Afghanistan at the age of 22 who is still fighting her demons unexpected but found there ! I wish the color of a poppy was important but the fact is as we age and as a society our respect for those that have sacrificed all for us is slowly being pushed aside by those who have politically decided it isn't important anymore or was immorally wrong to start with. The rights of those who detest are won and protected by those who sacrificed ! I for one will always wear red in respect and shall never forget.

I recently was approached via text by someone who knew NOTHING about my services, they even asked "how does this work?" Now, my ads here on cerb don't leave a whole lot of room for questions unanswered, that's why I write my ad the way I do so that I won't have to spend half my day only answering PMs about myself and my services. Now, having questions isn't what concerns me here, what does concern me is that this person was simply given my telephone # and told "contact her for good BJ".... As hobbyists, I am sure that you all think it's perfectly fine to give out an SP's phone #....but perhaps the gentleman referring his friend should have told him about cerb.ca rather than give out a direct line to a SP (the person texting me had NO IDEA AT ALL how any of this works)... Wondering how other SPs feel about this... Would you like someone to hand out your number to their friends (free advertising I guess) ? I for one use cerb handles as one way to pre-screen my potential clients, how can I when the person in question has no such username, and clearly has no idea what their friend's username is as a reference. I'm interested also to see how the gents feel, do you all think this is acceptable or not?

So I just had the most amazing experience with Manuella Cruz, it truly was one of the best hours I have had over the past few months. I left the appointment feeling happy and relaxed. The only thing that would make it better would being able to talk about the experience with someone else. Yet I don't really have someone who I would be comfortable discussing the hobby with. Anyone else ever have similar feelings?

Part of the stigma is that client are cheaters. The secrety is kinda comfirming it. In reality, there's two stigma there. The affair/cheating and the seeing providers. The first part in general isn't accepted, be it with providers or civilians. The second part, is already starting to destigmatize. (the articles about disabled people who see escorts, most people are okay with it for exemple.) To destigmatize the part about seeing clients, we'd have to prove that the majority do it by choice and that we'd love to see more severe laws against traffickers and abusive pimps. Then it would be a case of the different types of clients. But as long as affair/cheating isn't accepted, some of the clients will always be stigmatized. If the affair/cheating part becomes destigmatized (by convincing the majority of people that it isn't immoral to do), then a big part of the stigma from seeing escort would also leave.

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I just unfriended you NJ !! Ha But yes it is true story and I now have a bad case of tennis elbow from too much extended repetitive motion ;)

Whooohoooo ! Congratulations Vitto ! You are classy smart and hands down one of the funniest ladies I know and that really shines through in your posts' so keep them coming! Congrats again :)

I keep the time I spend with the few companions I see extremely discreet. The lovely ladies here value discretion thankfully, as I have provided a few of them with my very personal information, and I'm not sure how I would react if that information was shared without my knowledge or permission. Reciprocatory discretion is expected in my opinion. If someone asked me for any information outside of my cerb recommendations that would raise a very large red flag. Personally I would never hand over more information than I would put in a reco, so directing them there would be all I was willing to do. (for the few I have seen that I haven't written a reco yet, it's coming just want to find the right words)

When I ask where did you see my ad? and I get the "my buddy gave me your info" I ask who is your buddy? 99% of the time they never reply back. While I do appreciate of word of mouth, I don't do secret agent BS. If Ive met your Buddy so to speak and he told you contact me - I don't think he really cares that I know he sent you to me, however just cause I may or may not have met your buddy - the same booking policies apply to any new contacting me - so buddy or not Im still going to screen you.

A DJ for the Bear posted a comment about the white poppy trend yesterday, calling people who wear them "naive" and "hippy dippy." I saw people post things in support of his comment such as "people wearing a white poppy should have their asses kicked." This is honour? My great grandfather served in the Russian military just after 1900. My grandfather served in WW2. My grandmother is dutch, and lived through the occupation of Arnhem, hiding jewish families from the SS. I've had friends who fought in Iraq and Afghanistan. I plan on being at the ceremony downtown Monday as a standin for my grandfather, who passed away several years ago. No one symbol owns the rights to remembrance. Remembrance is something we do inside, and represent on the outside. It is represented in how we act and how we treat others. Those soldiers who fought and died did so to give us the freedoms we enjoy, so we could choose for ourselves how we want to dress and act toward each other. True remembrance shouldn't be one day a year. In my opinion, the greatest honour we can show our veterans and soldiers is to be involved in the daily dialogue of our nation's governance and how we are represented in the world. A big part of that is making sure that *if* war needs to be fought, that the cause is just and the sacrifice a worthy one. War should *never* be the solution. And I'll gladly debate with anyone the relative merit of the reasons to sacrifice our soldiers recently compared to the Great Wars of the past. There's nothing wrong with the white poppy. It's just as respectful as the red. I'd wear both, although I haven't seen a white one yet, so I'm wearing the red. People shouldn't start dragging deeper meaning into the colour of the poppy (on either side.) White represents peace as well as remembrance. Sorry for the long, rambling post. Every year I write a blog about Nov 11 and what it means to me. I always end it with a quote from Eisenhower: "Every gun that is made, every warship launched, every rocket fired signifies in thr final sense, a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are cold and not clothed. This world in arms is not spending money alone. It is spending the sweat of its laborors, the genius of its scientists, the hopes of its children. This is not a way of life at all in any true sense. Under the clouds of war, it is humanity hanging on a cross of iron"

I have Veterans in my family and they have shared their experiences and remembrance day and the red poppy holds a sacred place for us. However it was not until I visited France and actually stood in the fields among the crosses that it realy hit me the shear scale of destruction of life that has taken place. Most mear kids. I got choked up over people I never knew. War has become sensationalized over time to a point where we watch the news to see bombs explode and rather that react with horror we just shrug and say oh well. Most people on North America have no idea what happened on those foreign soils and the sacrifices that were made. Those people deserve to be honored for what they gave and that symbol has for years been the red poppy. As each year that horror moves further into the past youth have no concept on the value of life. Doing anything that dilutes the message of the red poppy and remembrance day will surely contribute to their demise some day down the road.

Well said, Renegade. Too often people try to de-personalize a matter. Here in Canada we are indeed very fortunate to live where we do: in a peace-loving, caring, nurturing, and safe society. The red poppy is for remembrance of the sacrifices made by not only Canadians but others from around the world. Thank you, thank you, to all those before us who paid the ultimate price. As well, we remember those maimed and injured and still living among us as a reminder of the ravages of wars, not only past but present. We do not celebrate war by the wearing od the red poppy. We pay respect to those fallen and the survivors. Thank you, merci beaucoup.

Well the originators of the white poppy HAVE misrepresented / changed the true meaning of the red poppy, which is remembering, thanking and honoring those who have served our country, and not about 'celebrating war' as they say. http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2013/11/05/matt-gurney-protestors-need-to-learn-history-the-poppy-is-already-a-symbol-of-peace/ So I am definitely offended by their hijacking both the day and the symbol.

They should be ashamed of themselves doing it during the Remembrance Day time period imo. It's a lack of respect as you're not celebrating war but remembering those that fought for your freedom to do do such a thing.

I find younger clients intimidate me more. I've always related better to people older than myself, even outside the business, so I feel more comfortable with the mature clients. That said maturity is not always commensurate with age. I think on some level the clients who are my age or younger make me feel like I'm back in high school and have to live up to false social standards of popularity. The mature clients value my intellect and kindness as well as my looks. That said, the younger clients I have encountered have all been incredibly sweet; the things I said above reflect only on me and comment on my own insecurities rather than the demeanour of my customers. In short, I initially felt insecure around clients under 30, but have learned that there was nothing to be afraid of.

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I've certainly been asked for recommendations, and have been more than happy to suggest a provider. I tend to only do this with people I know through CERB. In doing so, I always direct them to the lady's profile/ad/website and suggest they get in touch through the methods indicated in those locations. My own preference is to get in touch via e-mail or pm, so that is what I tend to do. Even with ladies I know well, I rarely would phone. So I would never hand out a lady's phone number. Very poor protocol. Porthos

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Indeed, I handled my hobbying life completely in the manner you just described.. no one knew about it other than the ladies involved, until recently, maybe a year or so. Yes, the anonymity of this community has been wonderful avenue to express thoughts and ideas, I am very grateful. I guess i needed a way to empty the overflowing bucket, so to speak.. but I was finding my secret life to be a little heavy on my shoulders because I could not share/discuss/vent some of these life moments. I find comforting to have the diary as a reminder of details and feelings in all aspects of my life.

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I can definitely relate. I've had experiences on the job, both positive and negative, that I really wished I could have shared with someone. Although I have opened up to 1 or 2 close friends about my "other life", I don't go into detail about any of it with them because I can see that they aren't comfortable with it. Luckily, I've found a few clients that I sometimes chat back and forth with through text messages. I can share my stories with them and they can tell me theirs as well. It's great and really helps with the feelings of isolation one can get. Have you ever thought of joining one of the social groups here on CERB? They're great for meeting people with similar interests... Hey, if you're ever dying to talk to someone, you can always PM me. I'm always interested in hearing a good story! :p

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I saw Savannah in the summer while I was in St. John's. I can only echo all of the other glowing comments. Savannah is an extremely beautiful woman and a very genuine and down to earth person. She immediately puts you at ease, and by the end of a session you feel like you've spent time with a long lost friend, and the best lover you've ever known. With respect to that last part, Savannah is simply exceptional. She is unrushed, creates an atmosphere of intense eroticism, and will leave you breathless. As others have said in this thread she is incredible and someone not to be missed. Although months have passed, I can still look back on the two hours I spent with Savannah as one of the highlights of my time in this hobby. I only hope that I get a chance to repeat with this delightful and passionate woman.

I posted Savannah's first glowing recommendation a few months ago but after some reflection I realized that another was due. Despite the fact that my first visit with Savannah was a fantastic experience quite frankly, it couldn't hold a candle to the experiences I enjoyed on my return visits. Savannah is a generous lady in the time she spends building a rapport and connection with her clients (please make sure you respect this). She has a playful seductive way in her communications that causes your desire for her to build to insane levels until you get to a point where you just can't contain it anymore and book another appointment with her in a raw desperation to satisfy the fire she ignites in you. This is what happened to me. In my desperate state I tore off in my car to race to her waiting arms. I was met with an unprecedented level of reciprocal desire as soon as the door opened. It was passionate, frantic and raw with an undertone of sensuality. That return visit turned out to be one of the most amazing experiences of my life. If you've never seen Savannah do yourself a favour and see her. If you've seen her once, do your self a favour and see her again. I guarantee that round two or three will only get better and better. Savannah is a real genuine, beautiful no nonsense woman who knows herself very well. She is a consummate professional. We have a world class lady right here at home don't deny yourself the opportunity to experience one of the best.

When I lay a wreath on behalf of my father and his comrades who were Merchant Seamen during WW 2, I'll be wearing a red poppie. Peace MG

I think it's great to nail senators for abuse of their office and the public purse. I don't much doubt that all three deserved to be booted from their positions. But I'm also deeply suspicious of the politicized process by which these investigations are being carried out. Can you just imagine all the backroom meetings throughout the city, and the late-night phone calls jockeying to plot out each coming day's script? All the arm-twisting from the PM's office and all of those with equally dirty hands to channel the investigation HERE and HERE but not THERE? So I sense that it's as much of a grotesque political show as it is a serious investigation of real ethical breaches. Sigh.

Tough choice. I love the feeling of a long pair of legs wrapped around my waist. (when I had a waist, at least). Erotic art or erotic fiction?

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The minute someone calls me dear, or sweetie, or honey on the first message ... I usually don't bother responding. But back on topic, there are very few ladies who has any issue with age. They are more concerned with maturity. However, there are those that have preference, and when they do, it's usually advertised.

Whether I am working or off, I live my life the same. However after what happened in April, my life is a bit more under an umbrella so to speak - but that being said not much has changed. I go out, I have fun and I live each day to its fullest. If I see you in public I will not approach you and I expect the same in return.

I think everyone goes out sometimes. I'm not sure what let loose means but I don't think anyone prevents themselves from living because they are an SP or an MA. It's a rule that if you recognize an SP or MA while you're out and about that you don't approach them, the same goes for an SP or MA who recognizes a client out in public. We keep our distance, pretend we don't know each other, and perhaps send a PM or an e-mail to be like "Hey! I saw you!" in a not-so-creepy way ;) Alternatively, (and if more appropriate), you don't e-mail or PM at all... especially if there wasn't mutual recognition or you've never met the person privately.

Age is a number. It is not about age. It is about respect. There are terrific 18 year old clients and terrible sixty year old would be clients. I get a mountain of emails of this sort: "I have a very large penis and I would like a very large discount." or "I am the world's biggest stud and not to be missed." All of whom I have turned down or simply deleted. A nice person who writes a nice simple introduction generally makes the best client.

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I started at 25 then moved it to 30, because of the continual responses I'd get from 20 something's-hey, hey baby, what's up, I'm a hung young guy, lookin for a stud?, etc, etc!! Realistically though if someone is respectful and I get a good sense from them and don't feel the need to call them dear, lol, instead of their name then they are old enough:)

JoyfulC, I understand where you're coming from, but I think the stigmatization of clients has another effect that we aren't taking into consideration here. When clients are stigmatized, and we don't fight that stigma, it can (and does) lead to their criminalization. There are lots of 'John sweeps' happening in Canada and they don't always happen in the context of outdoor/visible sex work. In Canada we seem to be moving towards a model of regulation that would criminalize the clients of sex workers, but not the sex workers themselves (known as the 'Swedish' model, because this is the system that exists in a lot of Nordik countries). It's easy to criminalize clients if society thinks they're 'gross' (etc). That's another reason why I think it's important to destigmatize clients...

In my experiences of hosting gang bangs, I can honestly say that this idea wouldn't be worth the efforts. It's hard enough finding people who are available at the same time, let alone trying to decipher a bunch of rules for a "game". Imho, this idea is best kept for social get togethers with friends, not so much SP/Hobbyists.

I had the pleasure of meeting Courtney recently. I'd been wanting to for some time, but for some reason I'd never actually gotten round to it... my loss, but at least I got there eventually! Courtney is every bit as delicious in the flesh as in her pics, although if you've read the rest of this thread then you probably know that already. We started off with a shower, and then a very nice massage with some fantastic bodyslides. But it wasn't until I'd turned over that her talents really came through. It wasn't very long until I was about thirty seconds away from... Five minutes later, I was still about thirty seconds away. Ten minutes after that... well, you get the idea? The thing is, Courtney is very good at getting you to a very high level of arousal... and keeping you there, for as long as she feels inclined to do so :) And yes, all MAs can do that to some extent, but being able to do it that well, and being that close for that long without going too far is... rare. The end, when it came, was awesome - but rest assured it didn't happen until Courtney decided it was going to! There was just time for another shower, and then it was time to go... but I'll certainly be back!

If I can't cuddle and kiss you I don't want to see you. Love my cuddles and kisses!

Amen sista! In general I've never understood why people put other people down. It's a waste of energy and time. I guess because I'm so positive and I can see the good in everyone it's hard for me to understand why people waste their time being petty. How much satisfaction can one possibly gain from being negative towards others.

I think Emma raises a fair point, its a bit of a double standard, if we want them to accept CIM, we should be prepared to lean in and kiss them and share it.