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It's that time of year again: International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. Today we honour those who have been taken from us and support those still with us. If you're looking to attend a Dec. 17 event in your area, check out the list of events posted here: http://www.december17.org/event-locations/

How do you spend Christmas eve? Do you go carolling visiting friends and family finish up your shopping cozy up to a fire and just relax at home go out to dinner We have a family gathering. Eating, drinking and catching up:) then everyone goes home and waits for Santa- yes I believe in Santa Claus:)

I'm not "seasoned social attendee" just a "rookie" therefore whatever dates works best for the majority, and especially for the individuals running it and those that like to attend from out of town,is my input. As for name tags, I have no issue with it, really doesn't bother me, last Thursday, I made the effort to shake hands and introduce myself to many of guests,gents and ladies that I could. It got very busy throughout the night, as more people arriving at different hours. However, I was on a mission, to see more ladies,chat more with the ladies than guys that evening :) no offence gents..LOL.

I sure hope your kidding. What single mom would choose to have a sex toy for herself over a real toy for her child? If you know of one then perhaps the child should be living elsewhere. Just saying.

I have experienced providing this type of encounter without knowing ahead of time twice. The gents are not members but had just returned home from being deployed overseas for six months and just wanted to talk and be held from what they endured and witnessed. It was very emotional and a huge eye opener for me. You read the papers and see the news but to be in the company of a soldier right after they return home, is nothing like what you read or see on the news. I don't openly offer this but when I'm asked I usually accept, everyone needs a warm embrace, someone to listen to them and possibly even a shoulder to cry on. I would never deny someone in need of that.

If I may help clear up the question earlier in this thread in regards to the definition of upscale. As an independent, there is no establishment to promote, book, or answer inquiries. The client should expect the same attention to detail, environment and cleanliness, that you would find at one of the elite spa's, but in a private setting and priced inclusively for these reasons. These threads are informative and it's never redundant to inform ourselves.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=160855 You will enjoy your time spent.

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And too frequently you may risk some people from out of town not being able to attend :) xoxo

I'm easy on the date. Really, you guys who are getting off your asses and running the show should do whatever's best for you. The rest of us can damn well fit in! I don't really like the idea of nametags, because discretion. And half the fun is finding out who mysterious people are :) And then finding out who was there but you missed, dammit!

If you can sing Oh Holy Night i will I will consider a reduced donation. However you need to be very good !! Love to all . Xo.

The Christmas Song (Chestnuts roasting by an open fire) ... esp. Nat King Cole's version. Porthos

Exactly my thoughts Vanessa. Msog is included with all my experiences, some gents can and some are just drained or unable to but the option is there. After pillow talk and cuddled time, if it's around 5-10 minutes prior to our time being up, then the gent may extend their time but I will not put that type of pressure on myself or the gent, although I have been able to succeed in doing so when the chemistry is just right and I feel like challenging myself all in good fun, sometimes I can and other times it's just not possible in the last 5-10 minutes . I prefer not to have that type of pressure on either of us. Where is the fun in that?:icon_biggrin:

As an older sp who does nor share a face pic, I truly enjoy the surprise and delight once I open the door :)

The Pogues- Fairytale Of New York.

Also...I am REALLY forward...but if it host at the same location is please possible to have for a better wine selection? Seriously, I am well aware I am consider a wine snob..but most of the time I can mange a decent white or red wine...but there was literally no choice. at all.

Thank you everyone for the sweet birthday wishes... It was a great night full of lots of dancing and champagne :) Kisses to all of you

we spend it at home ... some egg nog, a roaring fire, maybe a wee dram of something stronger. Carols playing, sometimes we watch an old Christmas movie. Always a classic ... Alastair Sim as Scrooge, or It's a Wonderful Life. Porthos

I agree with loneskater.....In other words Trying for a cheap deal!!!!!.....And I must say that I learned a long time ago that cheaper isn't necessarily better Guys! Just say'in.........

I'd go with the March date. This last one was so well organized which leads to so much fun that it is worth the wait. As for name tags, two thoughts. I seem to remember from the first Social I attended that there were no name tags because of the "civilian" wait staff. Second thought... name tags make it too easy. Each of us who is curious about another of us should take their courage in their hands and go ask. At this most recent gathering, I was asked - which made me feel good that a stranger was interested enough to ask - and I asked - and I think that asking will lead to something interesting. :)

A very good time had by all! At least I got to use my mistletoe and enjoyed some lovely pecks on the cheeks from some very pretty ladies, however nobody took me up on the other spot where I had my mistletoe, maybe next year, I will keep trying. MisterT & Skates did a wonderful job. Thanks.

Im thinking March for me but it really doesn't matter. Whatever is best for you and loneskater. I do have a suggestion though. What are your thoughts on name tags for the gents? Their handles not actual names. Just an idea.

Maybe it is just because it is Christmas and I find myself more aware of the people around me but I think it really SUCKS that so many wonderful people struggle financially and have to deal emotionally with the stress and problems of being without in a world of plenty. I kinda think we can do better and encourage if us to make a positive impact in our community. Let's each reach out and make it a Merry Christmas for someone we don't know. Just my opinion.

oops ... I'm a little late ... had a rather sketchy drive home yesterday across the park ... there's tons of freakin snow here in central Ontario :D anyways ... please also accept my belated thanks for a fun evening! especially to those who's hard work went into organizing it.. great job! also thanks to the ladies who included me for dinner beforehand, an absolute pleasure to meet you all :) have a super holiday season everyone!! I'm going skiing!!

There are no deal breakers in this business. Be you and only show what you are comfortable showing, no matter what your clients want. Find your style, comfort zone and you'll then attract those whom you are meant to attract. Best of luck and enjoy your shoot:)

I answered "no", but... y'know what? My real, slightly odd answer is: no, I wouldn't pay to cuddle with someone I hadn't already seen for a GFE visit. but under the right circumstances, I can see myself paying for a cuddle session with someone I *had* seen for a GFE encounter. The only way I can make sense of this feeling on my part is: if it's someone I hadn't seen before, the comfortable intimacy of the cuddle (if we were able to build that) would eventually fall prey to me wondering "wow, can't we take this further... man, I wonder what it would be like to... mm, I wonder what she looks like when..." but if it's someone I'd already seen and with whom I'd already been, you know, uh, fully intimate, then some of that curiosity would be satisfied. Plus, we'd already have some kind of physical and intimate bond to build upon and make the lighter connection of the cuddle feel more meaningful and reassuring. Yup, I think it's entirely possible that once I'd established a little-r relationship with an SP, that on some occasions I'd like to just "hang out, close up" with her and talk and caress a bit. That could totally work.

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Hey..!! where is the thank-you post I sent out..?? ugghh...!! So, one more time with feeling...! Thank-you to all my CERB colleagues for your kind words and friendships, and especially to MidnightM for taking the time to notice..!! :-) This community has been a haven for me!! Cheers D.

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Traditionally, I spend Christmas Eve having a huge panic over all the things I should have done weeks ago and haven't :)

Wishing our beautiful Tianna a very happy birthday tomorrow, and a magical year ahead, full of friendship, happiness, and satisfaction (and lots of pleasure :))

Christmas Eve for us us all about Family...we eat together... go to church together... it is all family. it is one of the best days of the year.

Good stuff! I enjoy your posts, hope to see many more! xoxo

Congratulations Brad on this cerb milestone. Thank you for being one of cerbs most polite, sincere, unbiased and friendly cerb gents:) Keep posting;)

The downside of using face pics can be seen here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=160542 re: face pics, as in the above link. What is to stop an unscrupulous guy from booking an appointment with this sp he knows, and then go about either blatantly or subtley blackmailing her for free time, discounts, or extra services. What is to stop him from exposing her to mutual friends if she refuses him as a client, or puts her foot down if he gets pushy. When sps started posting advertisements, it was 3 lines in a newspaper column. Then some photos were used, often by mps using stock photography in ads or in the yellow pages. Then the internet came along, and the traditional sps still did not put pictures in their ads, and the ones with pictures tended to be BS anyway. \\ Now the online ad with 3 to 5 pics is 'insufficient'. 10% of anyone enquiring asks if there are more pics. for what? 5 pics showing a variety of angles, what more is needed? OH, FACE pictures, of course, my bad. lol. Sps are already being pestered for videos, live face to face online chats, and endless emails, messages and texting. And I remind you, that the majority of guys managed to call sps, book appointments and have terrifically great times, based on a 3 line ad in a newspaper, with not one single picture. For anyone who felt that was too much uncertainty, they went to massage parlours where they could see and meet the sps prior to choosing someone to spend time with. Where is this demand from clients, the carrots dangling in front of the new sps who don't know what will be a good idea 2 years or 10 years down the road take them? That they refuse to book or consider sps who won't use face pics? Really? I don't know, but to me, that just seems really pushy. The limits of this work, and the advertising included, has already been pushed really far. low rates are pushed for, high risk services are pushed for, and now the sp can't even leave the privacy of her home without the idea that someone somewhere has seen her online ad with the nudity and provocative poses, but never contacted or seen her in person, but they know her general location and what she looks like. In the past if someone collected an address and no showed, the sp still had the reassurance that even tho he knew where she was, he still didn't know exactly what she looked like. She could leave thinking that even if he sat out there for 5 hours waiting for her to come out, to follow her, or see what she was driving, or whatever, good luck with that because at least he didn't know what her face looked like!

My advice for the OP and others who may find themselves in this situation for future reference is to not call her and leave it at that. Just because you find her attractive and want to spend time with her doesn't mean she will go for it if you just happened to just show up. I respectfully disagree with others about telling her you know her beforehand. This is just being an alarmist and for her to be on the receiving end of that is not anything to be peachy keen about. If someone did this to me, I'd be upset and there would be no encounter regardless of whether or not I knew that the person contacted me knowing it was me or had no idea it was me. Remember, if you were to go ahead and set up an appt knowing it's her, that imo is sneaky ( and women can't stand men who are sneaky, myself included) and it's not the way to go about wanting to be with someone even if she never knew this. You could always plead your case that you didn't know it was her. However, this is dependant on if you knew her personally in the last few years to be able to recognize her which you said you did or haven't seen her in a long, long time where people's appearance can change minimally or drastically. In your case, you do know it's her and if you know what's right, this would always remain in the back of your mind as a guilty feeling. You would also be putting yourself in an awkward position for rejection and no one likes to experience that. An SP has the right to refuse anyone...even if she does know them. Please don't go about this the wrong way because it's always possible in her mind that she will consider you a douchebag forever from there on out for calling her out ( esp if she were to find out that you did know her beforehand) and you also have your privacy to think about if you both have mutual friends/acquaintances in common. And let's not forget social media where gossip is rampant. Not everyone is accepting of this hobby. I had an SP friend of mine see a client who claimed to know me from when I was younger and put her on the spot about it by attempting to get it out of her if xxxxxxxxxxxxx was my name. I don't know what was said during their time together. That was not cool on his end or discrete for that matter. If you do recognize an SP online or in public, it's best to keep it to yourself. And don't just show up.. it doesn't make for a good scene that ends on a positive note.

Happy BD.. Have a blast

Have a very Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday Tianna, hope you enjoy your day!

Mr T and Skates, another perfectly successful social! Great job and many thanks!! -Alg

Thank you to mistert & Loneskater for organizing a first rate function! It was great to catch up with some old friends and meet some new ones too! I was lucky enough to win a door prize thanks to CMJ & ALO! The Venue was excellent as was the staff! It was a bit dark in the room but Emily's pink shoes helped to brighten it up! Looking forward to the next social! Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to all!

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This "things that suck" is not just for me, it's for all the cerb guys that call St. John's home. Very recently, St. John's lost one of the best ladies this town has ever seen. Other Cerb members and I will lament for a long time to come Danika's ("Sweet as Pie" here on Cerb) decision to move to Halifax. Although she asked not to be reco'd (she was in huge demand just from word of mouth) in a very short time this fantasic woman became the ATF of pretty much every guy who who was lucky enough to met her. Treat her well Halifax. Right now you guys have no idea the treasure that you have gained, but you soon will. We certainly realize just what we have lost. I got to know her very well over the months and feel genuine sadness to know she's gone. :(

Owning a farm and having kids.........it's been a ride, for sure. New calves that need names and attention- especially preemies. Litters of kittens every time I turned around and being torn between showing them to my kids or praying the kids didn't find them. Accident-prone foals. Baby birds......omfg......my kids would find them, bring them to me, we'd work out a mothering routine for them, and then my kids would disappear to grampies house for a few days.....grrrr. Friggin' things were usually too young when they were found and they would usually die just before my kids got home, but the kids just moved on to the next adventure without a "thanks for trying, dad"! Dogs....love 'em. I grew up with Border Collies and my current girl is now 15 and showing it. Loves the indoors in the wintertime (like me) and, when the time comes, my wife will have to take her to the vet because I cannot. I'll bury her on the farm in a special spot and cry when nobody's watching. My wife has a useless furball that she loves and spoils (okay, I kinda like her, too) that is a Lhasa Apso- Schitzu cross.....sorta like a cat. Oh, btw......cat lovers......you don't own cats- they own you! LOL .

Realnicehat is bang on: it's a considerable difference owning cats vs. dogs. I've had both (though the cat belonged to my girlfriend at the time). Cats are solitary creatures, and dogs are pack animals: so if you have a dog, prepare to provide the PE, or Pack Experience. A LOT. Your dog wants to be with you, and to DO things with you. A LOT. Cats are mostly okay if you feed them and they'll let you know if they want to cuddle for a bit now and then. Your dog will become depressed if you don't walk him/her, play with him/her, and make him/her feel loved and part of something. On the other hand... that's just true of any worthwhile relationship, so love your dog and make him/her an active, ongoing, frequent part of your life and you'll get all of that back in spades. It's the only really unconditional love. Incidentally I have two dogs -- siblings from the same litter so they've known each other from the womb onward. Much as I love my dogs and doing things with them, they provide each other with a kind of peer companionship I can't give them. They love to sniff things together, bark at things together, and lick each other's ears, and at least one of those things I'm not much inclined to do. I'm definitely NOT suggesting getting two dogs now -- it's a double handful. I already had one rescue dog from midlife to heartbreaking finish, and only took on two in this second round of dog ownership after a pause of many years. That said, for those who feel up to it, I can report that I think it does wonders for both of my dogs to have each other in addition to me.

One other factor you have to look at here in addition to the smaller population, less disposable income and still a number of traveling ladies is that the more people who get into this line of work are drawing from the same pool as they are now. For those who seek variety it's great....for awhile. However, if someone is in this to sustain themselves it may become a case of not enough disposable income to go around and they move on to bigger and better. If it's all college students (as were mentioned), great however if it's not and all you have is a constant stream of new faces and new skills, then many of the pleasures that others in the hobby enjoy would be gone. It's a balancing act for sure and quite honestly there ARE a LOT of people involved in this industry, they're just not on CERB which means that you have to take your chances and hope for the best. If you do meet someone good, encourage them to CERB so we can grow the NS section and make it the place people want to be. Variety is there to be had it just comes at a price. Some have paid it and won, some have not been so lucky. As for traveling ladies...as has been said, many have visited and have had dates canceled, postponed or been messed with in some way. One established lady was treated so badly on a recent trip she was contemplating not coming back. No one likes deposits, many don't like to book ahead but it is those things that will get more traveling ladies here. You can't control what anyone else does, but you can control what you do. How bad to do want it and what will you do to get it? This is a two way street. Would you want to be left holding the bill after someone screwed you over? Neither would she. There is also a steady stream of ladies from away agencies so it seems there is generally quite a bit of variety coming and going from the province. Okay, random ramblings on a rather trying day.

This is NOT a recommendation thread. This is in the general discussion for massage section. Ladies are WELCOME to post here and join the conversations as long as they are not advertising in here (unsolicited) meaning if someone asks for someone who speaks Russian the ladies can say "I speak Russian" some would consider that an advertisement so I just like to clarify that when this is questioned. Harsh comments are not appreciated, everyone's questions should be addressed with respect as we have lots of newbies and lots of veterans here. Let's keep cerb a inviting friendly place.