Leaderboard

It's like the question about providers that won't see men of a particular ethnicity. Bottom line? Who cares. For every provider that restricts the age, ethnicity, body type, etc there are probably 100 or more providers that are willing able and ready to take that client. You can get angry, you can feel indignant, you can cry all you want but... no one gives a damn. Face it. We have a bajillion choices to make, whether it be here or other sites or media outlets. Are you really going to get hung up on the ONE that won't see you when there are literally hundreds who will? Spend your money and time with someone that wants to see you. You feel better. She feels better. Everybody is satisfied in one way or another.

Why? Just as hobbyists have preferences so do we:) Some like older, younger, all ages and everything in between . So long as both parties are willing and legal I guess it's their choice:) Really nothing should be of a surprise in this business, lol, as just about anything goes. If it's legal that is;) Just don't take anything personally, as one persons taste and preferences aren't another's:)

Easy ... First One is LEGAL: Most people in Canada think prostitution in Canada is illegal. It is actually perfectly legal (if you follow the law correctly). It is not a "gray" area either... if done in private (not in a bawdy house IE. Regular place of prostitution) like a hotel room or out call to the guys house... with no public solicitation with someone over 18 and no one other then the lady herself is making money from the call... it's completely legal here in Canada. People need to stop watching American TV and thinking we follow some sort of American law! Second: Drugs. People assume that all ladies in this industry serious drug addicts and are in it to support drug habits. I have never met a serious drug addict who owns a computer - let along uses one. Third: STI/STD's Probably 100 times more safe with a pro who uses condoms as opposed to the girl you picked up drunk in the bar and "took a uncovered chance with!" most of the ladies practice safe sex as being sick with a sti/std is not good for business!! Fourth: Pimps and forced prostitution Steetwalkers and escorts are often grouped into the same group. Not the same! Fifth: Ladies taken advantage of. Often people think this is done against the ladies will or she is being taken advantage of...

Actually I am surprised that this isn't more common, I have only come across it myself once before......no biggie, but it is amazing how open and accepting these young women are. Whenever I do contact a SP for the first timeI am always open about my age.....don't need any surprised ladies as I step through the door, and to make things go well there has to be some sort of acceptance. The good thing about seeing someone who is even slightly active on the board is that you can get a sense of what the others overall life experience and personality is like.....usually older is better for me...but sometimes a younger lady can still have a maturity/experience level that can overcome a large age gap, everyone is looking for a different experience, but everyone wants a good experience.

Does anyone else think the media hype on CBC and in the Herald, regarding underage prostitution via sites like Craigslist or Backpage is overblown? If the two media outlets are to be believed, underage online prostitution is rampant in the Halifax area. The article points to the arrest of many people who fell for an online sting operation by law enforcement about a year or more ago. Like many people on here, I peruse CL and BP as well. The vast majority of the ads I see on there are fake internet scams to begin with, where they're just trying to get email addresses to sell you penis pills. Then there's SP's who've been around for awhile, followed by people who are simply just game players/time wasters. I can't think of too many examples of what appeared to be local underage online prostitutes on CL/BP in recent history, except for the sting example, which doesn't count because it was artificially created. That sting only identified that there may be a 'demand' for underage girls, but not necessarily a supply. I have no doubt that there is some local ones from time to time on there, but not to the extent that you see it in larger cities. If you believe the media stories, a person might think there are dozens/hundreds of them available in local areas. I'm not seeing that however. I'm not complaining, it's a good thing. But I think it's just another example of the media reporting a non story here. I'm just wondering what other peoples thoughts on it are.

Take a look and sign up and share this link if you agree, with as many as possible :) Now is the time to be heard. http://www.change.org/petitions/justice-minister-peter-mackay-produce-new-legislation-legalizing-prostitution-and-related-activities You can use your psuedonyms, as you will see, but address fields are required. I used the address i provide for someone needing GPS directions, when I am not prepared to give out my real address.

It's not a habit I've ever gotten into but one thing that worked for a relative that did quit was to keep in mind the benefits of quitting. I don't mean just the general idea of knowing that it's healthier but the specific time frame of when each benefit kicks in. It gave him a milestone to aim for, where he kept telling himself if he could manage to stay off cigarettes until the next benefit he'd be doing well. Once he reached it he'd make the next milestone his goal so that he kept having something solid to shoot for. And so on and so on. Below is one of the image that breaks the timeline down. Whatever you try, good luck!

On the flip side, depending on the spa's policy if the session goes into overtime, the MA may be charged the extra time for the room. That is something to be aware of as well. A feel for timing is important for an attendant and comes with experience. If you had a great time perhaps it's just inexperience and best to take the positive from it. The timing takes some practice for a balance that should feel seamless in it's entirety.

I do believe how you are treated is reflected in how you treat others The old adage, what goes around comes around That said, for me, the following cities have been the friendliest, Ottawa, Kingston, Peterborough, Belleville, Trenton, Toronto, Hamilton, London(Ont), St Johns NB, Halifax...and why, I for the most part have a smile on my face and treat others the way I'd like to be treated. It's not the cities, it how you treat people...JMHO of course RG

So went to Barbs last night looking for Jordan as I've seen her work some afternoons there did not find her but noticed a very pretty girl on stage.. Not very often do I watch stage shows but I couldn't help but keep peeking up at the dancer ... I was running very out of time before my bus came but when same over and starting chatting she introduced herself as Bridgette.. after introductions and knowing that I was running low on time we went to the CR... We didn't get to chat enough but the experience was intense and personal it was a fantastic time and had I had a dance with her in 2013 I would have added her name to the best list! Course I'll have to wait until the next one comes later this year :P But I can say while I was initially disappointed in missing Jordan ... Bridgette made me quickly forget! Best "disappointing" day ever!

Are always discrete no matter where you visit. I have visited CMJ and been a member since inception,but also have visited ALO Spa's, Vibe Spa,and Angel'sTouch and Paradise Spa's and of course number numerous independent ladies they are ALL discrete. Just remember,treat them with respect and show up when booking ;)

Last time Lee Richards was in Ottawa, he challenged me to a game of poker. It was fairly even to start with; win some, lose some. But then... we get a really big hand. And I'm sure my luck's in. I'm totally going to win. And then this really hot girl in a short dress comes over and starts making out with me. Yeah, my luck's in... ...this pot's mine... ...it'll be paying for a lot of fun over the next few weeks... ...fuck. Well, Lee, I'd like you to know: I've finally worked out what happened. I'll get you next time... just you wait...

If you pay for an hour, you should get an hour - no questions... period!

If the SP is 18 or so she may not be comfortable seeing someone old enough to be her grandfather. If she does not feel that she can serve that age range well, it is better not to advertise to clients who one does not want to have.

And she will think a lot more of you if you leave her alone than if you approached her asking about services, believe me. She will recognize that you respect her privacy and discretion, which if she is working under a new name she may approach you one day to let you know. In the meantime ignore her and pretend you have never met her before under any circumstances. Should your paths cross, treat her as you would any random stranger. If you know someone who knows her from school and you cross their paths and your friend decides to introduce you to each other, say, hi nice to meet you, and carry on with your day. You will earn a ton of respect and good will from her that is invaluable.

What Excaliber said. Don't approach her for that reason. I can't say if it's a good idea to see her even if she does still advertise her services. Privacy is a huge component in this industry for both parties involved, and it might make her uncomfortable.

If she recognises you and wants to approach you, she will. Let her take the initiative. Otherwise, leave it.

Noooooo thank you. Harsh chemicals do not go near my nethers. It is absolutely normal and natural to have darker pigmentation near the anus - much like the labia, testicles, and nipples can be a darker colour - and has nothing to do with cleanliness.

It is after great thought and consideration that I have decided that it is time to announce that I will be leaving the Massage business. I would like to thank all of you for the wonderful memories and I will never forget the kindness of you all. Thank you for teaching me so much about myself this business and how wonderful the world can be. CERB is a Great Community filled with wonderful people, and I am thankful that I have had the opportunity to experience some of that greatness. All that being said that I will be retiring from the business at the end of February, So you still have some time to live all of your Tiff Dreams ;) I'll be here at Angel's Touch all day today 10:00am-9:00pm then I'll keep you in touch for future days To reach me Call Angels at 613-274-7073 Text me at 613-277-4328 or Send me a PM here on CERB Hope to see you all soon for some Kisses Tiff XoX

Also... as a heads up to the ladies... be aware that in cities where they have and stringently enforce bylaws regarding sex workers, such as Saskatoon, they browse B P and some of the boards to find the unlicensed workers, set up appointments, issue a fine for working unlicensed and ask them to leave town. I think the license for a resident or a transient (touring) provider is approx $300 depending on the city. The fine is closer to $1500. Add to that the loss of room deposit and loss of appointments. I also understand some cities will then issue you a ban from working within the limits of the city for a period of time. Its a good idea to go online if you're touring and check city websites for their bylaws. Licenses can be applied for online in most cases. Stay safe :)

I wrote a blog post today, outlining the case for no new laws, and detailing how existing provisions in the Criminal Code can already deal with the more harmful and negative circumstances associated with sex work. Please share widely, and feedback is appreciated. :) http://www.msnikkithomas.com/canadas-sex-work-laws-dont-break-what-we-worked-so-hard-to-fix/

Its a bitch of a habit - I still smoke, but did manage to quit previously for 2 years. I'm a believer of finding out where your problem triggers are. If you can go 4 weeks without smoking, its not the actual nicotine you are craving, so stop smoking products probably won't work. If however, you can't get past a day, then use any form of products out there. I've even used the patch and the inhaler at the same time, it helped me with the withdrawals. Just talk to someone who had a heart attack and nearly died. Look at the real issues that smoking causes. Get it in your head that smoking is worse then the withdrawals. I'm with Emily - cold turkey is the way to go. If you need some help for the first couple of days, chew gum, eat fruit. Most of all though, stay away from other smokers and things that trigger your urges. It gets easier, and remember, the monster is going to try to do anything to get you to smoke again. Think about if you were marooned on an island - what would you do then? You wouldn't be able to smoke, you won't die of not smoking - but smoking will kill you. If you slip today, stop, redirect and don't give up. Tomorrow will be a better day! Good luck!

I have never have an addiction or anything similar..., but i have met people that had serious addiction to cigarrets... IMO the one and only thing to achieve your results is to really want it! I see people that instead of being addicted to the cigarrets.., they get addicted to the Gum or what ever product they are using to stop the craving..., to me that is just changing one for another.., yes maybe one less harmful than the other.., but yet an addiction.... My 2 cents... Good luck with quiting smoking :-) You will see that your body will thank you for it :-)

No traffic on the drive to work! I had time for a leisurely breakfast at my favourite local diner. It's the little things.

Admittedly I haven't been to all of our Canadian cities but out of the ones I have visited-hands down Charlottetown:)

Being 60 I would rather see age restrictions in the ad as opposed to seeing someone who is only grabbing the cash and not into the session. There are many beautiful ladies to choose from who will rock my world!

From Ninamour's album:

Hi friends, Im back for some erotic playtime tonight at Angels touch from 4-11pm.Im looking forward to seeing old friends and to make new ones too.Im a curvy,playful young lady who loves to spoil and be spoiled sensually. Erotica is what I do best..I can show you just how talented I am using my sexy assets to satisfy your every desire.Please feel free to call me 613 274-7073 p.s Come see me in my sexy beach day wear :)

Come get a relaxing massage by a hot little vixen, I'm ready too please and tease you today, let me show you xoxo About me- Sexy petite 21 year old with long red hair, sparkling green eyes! Out going, bubbly and ready to rock your world!! Providing- Flirty and dirty relaxation massage Soapy sexy showers Reverse4 massages Body slides- Duo massages(4 hands, 2girls) Hotub session9s & you'll leave happy. Schedule Today: 4-9 Rates- Single Massage 30mins: $50 45mins: $60 60mins: $80 Duo Massage rates also available upon request Location-Clean, cozy, discreet westend location (paradise spa) Please send a PM to book!

Thank you for checking me out :smile: About me .. I am 5'1 about 115 pounds ..... Busty, Sexy Long Dirty Blonde Hair , Deep Ocean Blue Eye's ... I am easy going , love to laugh ... New to MA .. I enjoy massaging in sexi linguere , Dim lights , sexi music .. Making it a pleasurable atmospher and connections are made .. Don't be shy now , you can leave me a pm :smile: Follow the link for my schedule : angelstouchmassage.ca/site/the-angels/marlies-profile/ Have A Marvelous Day :wink: MarlieXoXo 613-274-7073

Come enjoy my sensational massage at a discreet west-end location! Don't miss out on an amazing session with a beautiful young lady! You deserve to be spoiled and I wanna be the one to do it for you. Finally an MA that undeniably loves to play! Sessions include full body massage, reverse massage, extremely hot body slides, mutual touching/rubbing. Book now by email [email protected] or call or text(613)-302-3007 You won't be sorry you did! You will leave feeling sensational. Duo's available with my couger! She's smokin hot! __________________

hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ services ( the lady, the services, the place) My name is Vivian. I'm 26 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes and full sexy lips, beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places (32C, 24, 34) You have finally met the sweet girl next door, also the naughty girl in your dreams... I greet you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft, sensual, tease touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only mon to sat 10am to 7pm Call / text me at 613 727 9000 __________________

Although I'm single here's my take. My first couple of encounters, well I thought what is so great about this lifestyle (one reason I now avoid sites like CL and a Toronto based site that rhymes with CERB ;-) ) But then my forth encounter, WOW!!! and fifth WOW!!! and so on and so on and so on. The ladies provide more than just sex, they provide companionship. And it takes a very special lady that can provide intimacy, companionship and sex to a man on the very first date without strings attached. It has an intangible value far exceeding any donation asked. Seeing companions has brightened my life. I enjoy the company of the ladies I see now far more than any ladies I saw (ex-fiancé included) back in my conventional dating days. So to all the ladies I have seen, or will see, thank you A rambling RG

Our birthday girl, Claire Heavens, my goddess of the day. This is one of my favourite cerb pictures.

The poster was throwing a name out like everyone else did on this thread. If you know more Brittany's than him then kudo's, but he was happily trying to help I do believe.

Happy B Day Claire!!!

Happy Birthday Beautiful!

Happy Birthday Claire. 23 now eh! Don't look like a day over 19.

Thank you everyone ;) I am totally milking this birthday for all it's worth. Today is my bday, Tomorrow is my bday, Everyday in January is Now MY Birthday hahahaha. ;) Thankya millions for the birthday wishes, spanks, and recognition. ROAR!

That is your humble opinion and your entitled to say that. Just like me saying you can't go wrong with ALO spa's, Paradise Spa,Angel's Touch Spa, CMJ Spa and Vibe Spa, each spa have beautiful women working for them, they are all great spa's. Ottawa also has many independent ladies too. As long as you act like a gentleman while you're there, show up for bookings, don't use false names and cancel on ladies that you've booked time with because you basically screw the lady out of coin,when there is others wanting to book with that lady. This does happen to the spa and the lady, we like to call theses guys "time wasters" "lurkers" "bad clients"......and well probably other choice names ;) All the Spa's have their unique style,atmosphere and of course many ladies, it is up to the gentleman lastly to book with a Spa,to visit that lady, OR an independent. Just check the recommendation section,for a lady that may interest yourself.

Sorry to burst bubbles, but 25% is too low. I would say about 50%. I agree many dancers keep that side of the business and their affairs quiet, but many would or have escorted. And although I won't say at what clubs, and I realize that talking about extras in SC's is frowned upon in here, I will say generally from what I have seen and heard from those in the industry, there are a lot of extras going on in the champagne rooms around town that basically are the same services offered by escorts. That is Ottawa. I am not personally familiar with the scene in TO but have been told by a sex-worker there that it is more rampant and has really started a bit of a price war with MA's and SP's. MA's are giving more "extras" so as not to lose clients to the SC's. Now I will say that I don't have first hand knowledge of that, but did get it from someone who's judgement and knowledge I trust.

Yes this can be a very memorable time for one and all . I have enjoyed this with trusted partners in my personal life and I am very lucky to have a gorgeous model like man to share with the right folks. He is truly hot and I have encouraged to him to go forth in the world and become famous! :biggrin::biggrin: Of course as mentioned I need to know and trust the gentlemen and if that if the case get the fireworks ready!! This is also a case where some notice is necessary! Please let your desires be know and as always Katherine will endeavour to be your fantasy granter!

The first thing to do is communicate well during the appointment. Maybe she's forgotten some of your favourite details. No problem; bring up the topic of the missing bits with a smile and a laugh, and guide her and the session on the course you had discussed. If you haven't established friendly, positive back-and-forth communication with your provider, then that's your first problem right there. Then again maybe there's some reason why, now that the moment is upon you both, she doesn't really feel comfortable following through. Again, communication during the session is key. Raise the subject in a friendly way to make sure she hasn't forgotten, and if she's not comfortable with X, work together to find another way to have fun that works for both of you. But ultimately, if all of your discussions to resolve the problem fail, then you need to remember that the contract between the client and provider is solely for time spent together in which things will probably happen, but there's never a guarantee. She's a human being, not a vending machine; your money gives you no claim over her body. So all of those details you discussed are requests, but there's never an ironclad guarantee they'll be fulfilled. If you ultimately aren't satisfied with a session, and your conversation with the provider hasn't resolved that to your satisfaction, then just don't go back. Chasing after your money with "but you didn't do X! Give me Y dollars back!" is crass and fruitless. And, last of all: don't compare sex work to other industries. The comparison is always misleading when it comes to these types of up-close human interactions. Your SP is not your mechanic.

I agree with all the points by mod (and everyone else), but if I had to choose just one thing, it is 'all sps are diseased, carry diseases, and anyone visiting them is going to get one and pass it to their SO". That is among the first questions newbie clients post on various boards, and among the first assumptions posted in comments whenever the topic comes up by random public people. The 2nd one would be coercion, but the first one tends to be STDs, as if sex workers are incapable of using condoms, or even consider using them.