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I am a die hard BlackBerry user and I recently downloaded a new App that I think is great for this Hobby/Business. The App is called "Hide SMS" and while it is for BlackBerry 10 phones I am sure there are similar Apps for other popular phones. Bottom line the App redirects incoming text messages from identified contacts or phone numbers into a password protected area on your phone and not into your regular text message location. This allows clients to securely text back and forth with SP's with no indication of the text trail in their regular text listing. If your spouse checks your phone you are all clear. It also would allow SP'S to flag the number of regular clients so that the record of their conversations were secure in case the phone is ever lost of stolen. I have only been playing with the app since yesterday but it looks very promising.

Do your research is the best I can tell you. Adequate research usually addresses that issue most of the time. If she's blatantly misrepresented herself as in a B&S scenario then it would be appropriate to (in a very polite way) inform her that based on her pics and ad she appears to have misrepresented herself and you won't be proceeding with the date then leave. However, if she's a legitimate provider and never actually pulled a B&S (she did use her own pics) and you just decided that she's not what you wanted when you arrived the gentlemanly thing to do is, be as tactful as you can and advise her that you won't be able to go through with the date ( for whatever reason including being too nervous). There maybe those that will disagree with me but you booked an hour of her time and never gave her any notice or ability to schedule another client for that time so you offer to pay her the full donation. Chalk it up to a learning experience and do better research next time. Now for me personally? It has happened and I've decided, "ok I can pay her the donation and leave with nothing or I can pay her the donation and give her the opportunity to change my impression of her". Some occasions I have been blown away and even done a repeat. That's my thoughts.

I just spent a wonderful hour with Catherine. She is very warm and friendly and tended to me like I was a king. Afterwards we cuddled and talked. She was very soothing and I could have spent all day and night with her. This is the second girl I've experienced from VIPOTG and I leaning to be quite exclusive to them. I can only date SP's occasionally so when I can trust this firm why not look to them first.

Since there was no actual evidence provided in this article, citations, or links to any actual research done, last week I e-mailed both the author of the piece in the Ottawa Sun, and the the anti-prostitution group who makes the "150 women forced in Ottawa" claim, to inquire about this apparent research. I have not received so such as an acknowledgement. I don't expect to. The group who made this claim, imPACT Ottawa, has posted on Backpage today. They linked to a survey asking clients basic questions about their involvement in the sex industry. I encourage all clients to take part in this anonymous survey, to have your voice heard. It's only a few questions. These are the sort of groups who are influencing any sort of future legislation. Take the survey:: https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/5H67FYX As well.. here is a response to that article from Frederique Chabot, of POWER Ottawa: http://www.ottawacitizen.com/touch/story.html?id=9488711

Perhaps there is another point of view. While I have been a member for a long time, I don't post very much. I do read a great deal to understand the SP's point of view, but I suppose I am still leery of posting for privacy concerns. Realistically, not a concern I guess, however, speaking for some of us of a certain age, I just don't trust websites, texting, emails, etc as much as I should. Given the population of New Brunswick is so small - with seemingly everyone knowing everyone (I'm originally from a very large city and I still can't get used to this) - security concerns may be keeping gentlemen from posting. Just a theory. I will endeavor to chime in from time-to-time.

Is there a protocol for when you arrive at an SP's place and she sin't what she seemed. For example larger than her pics, or her is face is not pretty. I had this happen tonight and wasn't sure how to handle it , as i didn't want to offend her. But on the other hand I didn't want to pay a cancel fee. So i just saiod i was too nervous and left.

This is why just as gentlemen should have a phone exclusive to this lifestyle the ladies should do the same...one a lifestyle/business phone and email and one a civilian phone and email. A phone NO ONE ELSE uses. That way no SO's, or family/friends can know about this lifestyle It's about discretion It's not just about protecting your own privacy, but protecting the privacy of others that you are involved with (in terms of this lifestyle) and who have entrusted you with their information A rambling RG

This scenario had happened in my business. I certainly did not S&B the pics. This lady just did not have the "model" face that the fellow was hoping for. He told my girl, he forgot his wallet and left. THIS IS NOT THE WAY you should handle it! She had a stunning body, and in her pics, she did not show her face ( privacy) . He later called me, and said it was cause he did not like her face. I then explained how he wasted her time, and she need to get a babysitter in to see him, paying a taxi to the location and back, so paying at least 50% of donation is prudent. He did not come to offer her some donation, so therefore he is on my "don't book" list:( So now, when he calls us, he will not get a booking with us unless he offers that 50% to the lady first. The thing is, he missed out, as she really is a great girl, sweet, humor, chatty and flirty:( It is very rare you will meet anyone on this planet that has 100% beauty in every aspect. Not everyone is going think the same about who is beautiful or not. As there were others that say she was gorgeous. Then just few days later I seen the guy post about a date that ripped him off, so I guess karma took care of that for us, lol..

I'm not sure how this topic of the Best went to a topic about recommendations. I basically meant that term "The Best" is subjective and is only the opinion of the person who has met the woman. And that the term "My Favourite" is more appropriate.

Let's end the world's oldest debate By Eric Duhaime http://www.sunnewsnetwork.ca/archives/sunnews/straighttalk/2014/02/20140206-081631.html

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I was trying to help a new member get out of moderation. I told him to make 5 posts - even if they were just jokes. He then signed my guest book with a joke - good joke too, but of course, it wasn't in a thread. So, he still has in moderation, but I do understand those that are too shy to post. I've even talked to clients about cerb - they won't join because they have to create a profile. I let them know that they don't need to give their real name - however, they still don't come here. I have many long time clients that never post - we have great times together. I guess there are some that just don't want to post. Especially those that are in jobs that require a lot of time on their work computer. The last thing they want is to come up with witty comments. They just want to look and book.

News love fear mongering.. I guess it's not as interesting to report on the great and lovely vacations people have outside the country. There's is so much out there to discover, learn and see. I actually love visiting (parts) of South America. I heard a lot before going there, but I've never come across anything like bribes or abnormally high crime rates. (Though I did find a lot of people stand really close when they talk to you.) I've walked around at night in Asia, stayed with strangers in Europe... once you get out and start seeing places you start to see how similar people are no matter where they live. Don't let fear stop you. If you want to travel, you should.. you're probably just as likely to face unfair persecution here as you are in a lot of other countries. Edit: Oh and you can totally go missing anywhere! Even here.. Was just reminded of Owen Rooney, who was an Australian who went missing here, in Canada, after being beat up.

I adopted Andy two and a half years ago. I don't know what I would do without him. He is a great conversationalist. He always has something to talk about. He is also a great cuddler.... I love him so much.

I was just wondering if anyone has had the pleasure of seeing Paris of London. If you want to send me a message I can give you a link as I'm not sure if I can post it here.

Has anyone been to this place in Toronto ? I am going to be in the area in a couple of weeks and I am hoping someone can give me some info or at least post a review of their experience

Their sister Maxime finished 12th in the same event. Imagine They swept the podium. :icon_eek:

With all due respect to any who reads this- posting anywhere should be done to express oneself, without worry of how the post is read or interpreted. I don't post to gain friends, fanfare or even clients. I post because I want to express my opinion, liked or not, to get ideas, discuss a topic on my mind, to hear differing opinions. I like that even though this is a reco board for sp's and hobbyists we can discuss things other than sexually related topics. General discussions is a forum for that:) I am very opinionated obviously, not everyone's cup of tea for sure but I'm also entitled to express myself like anyone else, so I do:) when I have the time;) without worrying about misinterpretations, or results:)

I saw this article in a copy of the Citizen lying around at work yesterday and noticed it hasn't made its way to this board yet: http://www.ottawacitizen.com/news/Human+trafficking+Ottawa+least+women+used+slaves+research/9465177/story.html and a link to the funding announcement for the organization that is quoted as having done the "research": http://metronews.ca/news/ottawa/717330/ottawa-human-trafficking-study-gets-200k-from-feds/ and a link to Emily J's blog...since her most recent post is very timely on this subject: http://www.blogasms.xxx/

This is true. also the bribery in places like mexico and Central America, I didn't see any of it in mexico, but i do know some people think some things are bribes, when in fact Canada does the same thing for example fines for traffic violations that have to be paid if full if you aren't a resident or a fee to enter the country, which Canada also does, If you are from certain places, you have to pay for a visa in non reciprocal countries. Canadians often interpret this as 'bribes' i know people in CA that offered a passport stamping service so you didn't actually have to exit the country and reenter 3 days later as required. Someone picks up the passports, travels to the city, sees an official in the appropriate dept who stamps the passport exit and entry and issues another reentry visa with a new expiration date. The entry has a legit fee, everything else is paying for the people to make it happen. cheaper than travel :) I like traveling, and encountered no problems with a very extended trip. most of what i work for now is to do it again, for a long trip or semi permanent basis. Whether you cross the border into the US or go to Asian or Colombia (on my list of places i wish to see), you have to respect the country, you are a guest and no you cannot do whatever you want. And expect the unexpected, give no reason to be arrested, you should be fine.

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Thanks everyone very helpful, it was incall and more or less a b&s. Pics weren't her, or at least a few years old. Also the sp didn't look very clean. I mean it was a waste my time as well gas, I could have book else where. I guess better research before booking is needed on my part

There is no one thing that's the most important aspect to see an SP. It's a combination of a lot of things. There are a lot of exceptional ladies out here, so there are a lot of ways I narrow down to one. Firstly, price. It's just simple logic, I can either afford her services or not. If not, or I think it's too high, I move on. The next is her presentation. I'm talking about things like her ad, her website. Everyone that I've ever seen has a great website up. Not to judge those who don't have a website up, but it feels like she's more invested in her business. I love blogs, but I've never not seen someone who doesn't have a blog. On the other hand, I have seen a lady just because I loved a post she made, and ignored the first point completely. Finally, when I do see her, does it seem as if she's putting an effort? I know that not all personalities click, and it is a tough job (I can't begin to imagine how much), but things like a clean place, a good attitude. In thankfully just one case, I walked in and the SP's incall was quite messy. She seemed blah about the whole thing, and I felt so creeped out, I excused myself to go to the bathroom, and then faked a stomach ache and left.

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I came across this documentary, thought it was worth sharing. So I thought it might be nice to have a thread that we can share articles on different health topics. KEEPING ALWAYS IN MIND TO REFER TO YOUR DOCTOR BEFORE TRYING ANYTHING NEW. Now this particular documentary, is selling a product, but regardless, the information is all well known by many sources of research. I have known about pro-biotics and the benefits of them. But fell out of the habit, and not till watching this I recognise many of the symptoms with in myself. So perhaps you will to? Sit back and watch, it is about an hour in length, lol.. http://keybiotics.com/video_toon.php

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Over the last number of years I've seen a lot of this world. Since the risk varies immensely from country to country, start with relatively safe destinations. You have to realize that you're a guest and must observe the local laws and customs. If you do get into trouble I'm sure that you will get consular services, but you have to understand their limitations. There are many ways to mitigate risk, good advance research, possibly going with a group or a tour, having proper insurance, and letting people know your plans, and you should always try to be unobtrusive. There are so many wonderful experiences to be had out there, take a chance, we only go around once.

I originally posted this just for a bit of fun, but there are a couple of deeper issues beneath this phenomena. You're right, that women outnumber men in China. It's believed the ratio is approximately 117 - 100. This appears to be due to female infanticide, selective abortion of female fetuses, and neglect of newborn females. In 1997 the World Health Organization's Regional Committee reported that "more than 50 million women were estimated to be 'missing' in China because of the institutionalized killing and neglect of girls due to Beijing's population control program that limits parents to one child." So, if there are more men than women, women should have no trouble finding partners. If that's the case, why are they hiring boyfriends? China's economy is growing exponentially and women are becoming more economically independent. Everywhere in the world, when women gain economic independence and/or have access to more education they delay marriage and having children. China is no different. In China, parents still cling to traditional beliefs that their daughters need to marry for economic security and because... "That's the way it's always been done." Parents worry about "losing face" if their daughters are "leftover" and not married by 25. In addition, in a one child society, these young women are the sole chance for grandchildren for many parents. At one time or another, most of us have been asked by our families "When are you going to find a nice woman/man and settle down?" Now imagine multiplying this pressure x 100. China is undergoing rapid urbanization and social change driven by its economic growth. Parents of course not only cling to older values in the countryside, they pressure their "leftover" daughters to comply with these traditional values. Apparently it's a lot easier to make parents happy with a pretend boyfriend than it is to challenge them or put up with their pressure every time you visit. After the visit you go back to the city and resume your independent life. Most of these women will eventually marry and have children, but they're just not following the traditional Chinese timetable for these events. Parents however don't think it's possible to delay these events, they think life will pass their daughters by.

Just to clarify my comments regarding Private Profiles.... i am absolutely fine with allowing members to choose to have a private profile for whatever their reason might be... that said I think it would also be appropriate to allow other members with open profiles to restrict access to only those who also share their details. Under this arrangement everyone's interests are respected. Just my opinion.

For me the most important aspect in seeing sp or ma is to come out feeling better then when I went in. How is this achieved? Well being shy by nature it help to be with someone who is easy going, friendly, talkative. I can't say I ever had bad experience, more like learning experience. I'm constantly changing and evolving so it's really hard to say, I guess it about living and feeling. When selecting someone new I just go with my gut. Wether I saw something physically attractive or intellectually, I just go with what I feel. I take a chance, some of my best were just a chance. It could be spur of the moment and who available. What make me what to repeat and go back. When I feel strong emotional feelings. When I get that feeling good inside that means I had a great time. I know its all vague but it all comes down to how I feel, mostly mentally and emotionally. Cause lets face it if it were only for a sexual release I always got my hand. I don't even need a sexual release to have a good time or even repeat.

Well, decided to stop by this past friday after work. The place was booming. Busiest I have ever seen it. Parking lot was surprisingly half full by the time I got there. Once in, I saw the party going on. Place was hopping, music was good, lots of new girls. I would say that most of the newer dancer were 18 to 22 at most, fresh faced, spinner type girls. The same light dark skinned naturally big breast dancer from last week was there. I missed out on a the dance that miss Skyla (blond blue eyed nicely toned body-22-25 yrs old french girl) promised me as she was busy in the CR for a better part of the evening. I chatted for a bit with a young lady who goes by the moniker of "Jade" who is lovely dark skinned dancer with an immaculately toned body (maybe 110 lbs soaking wet). Amazing natural set a 34D's that were begging for attention and a pearly white smile that made her irressistable. She and two of her fellow dancer kept jumping up of the stage for each others dances so there were like 3 or dancer on the stage practically all night. The night was capped off by some random female client seeing nobody on stage and jumping on the pole. The Dj, who is awesome, handled things quite well and kept her motivated and and she gave the crowd quite an amazing show. A good time was had by all. Hope to see you all there next time.

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^^ I agree re: private profiles. I am of the opinion that client members do not need private profiles, for example, and there is no point in any sp on a free ads site to have one, if she is posting ads and here for biz. So as a feature being used it seems shady lol. I'm on another site with a main forum that covers the US and Canada, with mostly US members. The main forum gets everyone from everywhere posting, but i once pointed out, why don't the sps have their location right in their signature? Many post for marketing reasons, makes sense that they make it easy for the clients, who are also from all over the US, would know if that sp is an option for them ever, without going out of the forum to check a profile that is.

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Here is something that happened recently... A gentleman sent a PM requesting information... the problem herr is that he has his profile set as PRIVATE.. not only we were not able to see any information about him.. BUT WE WERE NOT ABLE TO REPLY TO HIS REQUEST... why even bother sending a request for information when you don't allow people to contact you either...

Packing and heading south to warmer weather for a couple of weeks, golf,sun,fun and babes as I look forward to the encounters I have lined up. :)

Don't think you need to spend 3000 on a plasma, maybe 1200 or so. Panasonic usually makes really good ones, well they really developed the technology. If you watch a lot of sports or action movies then plasma would be better than an lcd or led. I think my next hdtv would be a plasma...have lcd at the moment.

Honestly, I'm just a bitch when traveling in certain places. My friends and I were in Central America together, and any time someone would approach us to rope us into anything, we all just said, "NOPE!" and kept walking. We didn't make any friends, but we didn't get into any trouble either, so it all worked out :P

2+ hour long debate between Bill Nye (the Science Guy!) and Ken Ham (founder of the Creation Museum). I've only watched part of it myself, but am quite enjoying it. Well..especially Bill Nye's parts, but still, it's a good watch.

When I screen, I can be particular. I find that hotels here ask for the name of the person you are trying to connect to (the upscale ones), so I do ask for the name the room is booked under, otherwise I can't verify your actually there. Safety is a huge concern to me, I use discretion, I'm not going to call your cell phone unless you ask me to, and I'm not going to get into random conversations with you, but providers have to give out lots of details, yet we don't get a lot of answers back to our questions. I'm inviting you into my home sometimes, I want to know who's coming to me.

Seen her end of 2012. The photo is not her. Or maybe when she was younger but don't expect to see what's advertised. And her place is not very clean. I am surprised she has resurfaced. You better look elsewhere.

Everyone can have a favorite which they personally prefer over others. That favorite may be best for them.

I was in Ottawa a few weeks ago and was lucky to visit Paradise Spa and meet Sasha. Great experience! I really enjoyed our time together and am looking forward to another visit.

I think most of us feel more comfortable in our own space so in that sense I prefer hosting however, I do enjoy outcalls and understand that is more convenient for some gentlemen. I feel more at ease when is with someone I have met or have communicated for a while but I do not worry about safety as I would not meet someone I have concerns about for incall either. The only thing I would not feel comfortable with and I'm not saying is wrong just is not for me, is to visit someone at the place he shares with someone, particularly when that someone is a SO. I find is a bit disrespectful (and I'm talking on my side, I do not judge the other person views on it) and also there is a certain level of risk as even when the other person is not expected things happen and plans change and having the person show up while I'm there would change a nice date to a disaster one.

QUite a few actually advertise as GFE MA these days. BUT, what each girl means by GFE differs from girl to girl - which is likely why people aren't responding here. MAs, generally, do not offer more than a massage with release. When I was an MA, I did not, ever. What happens in your session is really up to the girl once you're in the room. So trying to script your session, or to talk about receiving more than the standard MA fare, is still pretty taboo. When you read the reviews of most MAs, you'll read 'now I won't go into details', or something like that. Because what goes on in there is really no ones business but the MA and that particular client. Posting expectations or desires of more in these sessions I think could cause gentleman to always expect these types of services when visiting an MA, and honestly, most of the time they will NOT get those services. Not even if she says GFE - some girls just mean GFE in attitude, or kisses on the body.