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The rules were broken, it was not a shill, and the Toronto Maple Leafs won't win the Stanley cup this year. Lesson learned and life goes on. Let's have a gin and tonic and enjoy the weekend or for the non drinkers a Shirley Temple or Mary Poppins or whatever you call that drink ;)

There are many ways for ladies to provide information about themselves on Cerb, including reco links: - Directly on our profile's main page - In the "about me" tab of our profiles- there's a space called "Recommendation or URL of a page that is important to me here on cerb" - In her ads - Last but not least, on her website I have recommendations in at least 6 cities on Cerb and my gentlemen have no issues clicking on the links I provide them with to learn more about me. Plus, they can easily search my name on Cerb to find out even more so I do not think double posting recommendations is necessary at all. In the end, it's not a gentleman's responsibility to promote the ladies. It's up to the ladies to do that...

I apologize if my comment came across as "classless", however I was merely clarifying as I was confused as to why it was posted in ottawa if he had seen her in NL? Once I figured it out, I edited my post to say "nevermind", as I didn't need to know anymore. I do agree with RG however, and believe clients need to be careful as posting for a lady in more than one city when they've only seen her in one can be taken as a shill post, and end up doing harm to the lady, even if that wasn't the intention at all. As for the comment about people searching for a lady in a particular city, do a search for her name. Then you can read her recommendations regardless of where they are posted. Just a suggestion! Again, I apologize if I created an issue with my posting!

I see many comments on posts that come across like the person posting was a buffoon, as if all the rules and common sense are straight-forward, and no one could possibly have posted something/somewhere what they did. Recently there was a recommendation on a lady from Ottawa, but the poster saw her in another city. He posted both in the city he saw her, and her home city. People jumped on and question the poster why he did that....really... think about it.. and not just in this case. If the lady works out of a home city, why wouldn't the home city people want to see a recommendation too, why does it have to be in the city that the person was seen. I think it is perfectly acceptable what was done. My question is why do people feel that they should jump on things like that and come across as extremely critical? It isn't even consistent with the principals of the board of, if you haven't got something nice to say, don't say it at all. What is everyone's views? I don't think these types of responses are very helpful for anyone.

The way I screen is almost entirely on my intuition but I do not accept blocked calls. I screen clients and they don't even know I'm doing it. It's called my sixth sense and it's very well honed. I pick on so many different things when I speak to someone for a few minutes. They could be so polite to me but my radar is always on alert. I may pick up on something they say and it will bring up a red flag. I've very good at reading people and this is the way I screen. I am established and reputable enough and I think if this bill becomes law, many men will be looking for established ladies and not risk the fly by nights or unknown ones you see on other sites. Other hobbyists will wait it out to see what the outcome will be in terms of how law enforcement will handle these new laws. Do you really think LE has the budget to set up clients regularily? I'm sure there will a few men who will be made examples of by LE intially but I'm sure most hobbyists will set out and do their research first instead of calling any unknown Jane Smith from BP for example. That is a site where you will see a big change especially with explicit advertising. My advice to hobbyists is to get a secret hobby phone and not in your real name. Chatr wireless does not require you to give your real name or provide identification. Say it's a gift for someone and tell them you want to put it in their name with a fake address. This is probably the best way to do it. I do not book from blocked calls or payphones and always to check to see if someone is trying to hide their number. I'm aware of all of that. If a client wants to play secret agent, forget it. It's a two way street and it's a give and take. I will not be going to hotels or anybody's home. I rarely do that now anyways unless I know the person. I prefer my own surroundings.

Here is a good 'plain English' description of bill C-36 including a good description of all the vague sections that are open to interpretation by future courts. Q & A on Bill C-36

Recently I have been thinking about how the amazing Ladies of CERB go about screening prospective clients. I have been around long enough now to know and respect that the SP's take screening seriously and have all developed their approach to screening that meets their individual needs. Many SP's require certain information, or references, or that initial contacts be made thought email or by phone. But when I stop and think about it these wonderful ladies really don't have much info on which to base a decision that affects their personal safety. Obviously guys lie about their name and other personal information... cell phones are a dime a dozen and references can't be a deal breaker all the time because all of us had to start with none at some point. For the last few weeks I will admit it i have trolled the various SP ad sections and then looked at some of the SP profile visitors post history. While I did not see anything strange or surprising in fact I saw a lot of posts very similar to my own post history I was struck by the fact that many of these posts (mine included) did not, for me anyway, scream wow I can't wait to meet this person. I kinda think if I was going to invite this person into my life I might need more. Lololol Anyway.... I think this might just be my long way of saying Thank You to all you wonderful ladies who make the choice to invite us into your life. I guess the fact that you do that based on very little information says something about your faith and trust in others and your ability to assess the essence of our character. For me personally I have benefited greatly because you have. THANK YOU

If I have take out it is usually Chinese Food, normally it's one of two people who wait on me, they are both very friendly, food is always good, I usually tip 3 to 5 dollars, both always say thanks, not sure how much this happens, they always greet me with a smile with great service so the tip is well worth it.

This thread does seem to be about two questions, and though I didn't see the post that spurred this one I would like to comment on the "piling on" idea. It's actually a tricky issue, I think. There are times after all when it's somewhat appropriate for everyone to have their say, even if they're repeating what's already come before. Sometimes people say or ask something where it's useful to get a clear sense of the common opinion or etiquette. Or if someone suggests something truly inappropriate, having several people all come down reinforcing the same point can be a good thing to ensure a clear message is sent. Something like a poster who suggests it's OK to haggle a lady's rates, for instance. However, other times it does seem like someone asks a question in good faith, or makes an innocent breach of etiquette, and the next thing you know multiple people are responding with the exact same points. I suspect I've even been guilty of this myself, so I don't say this as if I'm somehow above it all. I can even understand why it happens. This is a forum after all. People come to share their opinion, and it's simple human nature to want to add your voice to a discussion. However, I can also see the problem when this goes too far. I can think of a couple threads where the OP would post again to say they had clearly got the message and had changed their mind and thanks for the info, and yet people still keep replaying with the same answer. Again, I get why, but I also get that the OP probably starts to feel bullied after a while (even though this isn't the intention of the other posters). The effect, unfortunately, is that a person becomes reluctant to post anything or ask questions. This doesn't make for a friendly, non-static forum. For my part, I'll try better in the future to keep this in mind. Often it's worth adding your own words, to share a new point or view or clarify a previous one. But in some cases it's probably more friendly and sufficient to simply use the thanks/nomination buttons to add one's support to an idea and leave it at that. Again, I say all this without accusation or reference to the other thread. Just some general thoughts.

I'm waiting for the first judge to throw out the first case. Officer, you are charging this person with the purchase of sexual services is that right? What exactly do you consider sexual services? Well, you know, like the lady says, 'everyone knows' what sexual services are. Oh, really.

For me, fully interactive means the ladies, kiss, do daty, some finger play or toy play. For some, it could also include strap-on with one or both taking turns. Semi-interactive might be light kissing and/or, breast touching and caressing, but no touching of the genitals. Non-interactive (girl on boy only): means there are two ladies and one gent, but do not touch or interact sexually at all. When I say I do duos with ladies, it's usually Fully Interactive or Semi. If a girl is not comfortable with any contact at all, she's probably not the gal for me to be doing duos with. Just my two cents worth.

I agree wholeheartedly. I have found myself in situations in the past on other jobs where it became one step away from a sexual harassment case. In other workforce settings, it makes it much more difficult to shut down these other situations due to other circumstances surrounding employment, lack of proof or even just the consequences of reporting it such as being ridiculed by fellow employees. I even had a chance encounter on another job with a well known Canadian serial killer who used his job position to try and intimidate others. He became very irrate and bothersome until I had to get a higher authority to step in and stop it. I knew he was a whackadoodle back then way before anyone else caught onto him. His body language towards me said it all. He ended up killing a woman he worked with and killing another. And they say being a prostitute is dangerous! Being an SP allows me to call the shots, on my own that is. I can shut things down if I don't feel comfortable and I don't have to deal with anyone I don't want to deal with. Yet my government seems to know what is good and what is bad for me. I don't think so!

I agree with you on one thing, if the rules on this aren't clear enough, you should PM the Mod and let him decide Me, I'll write my recommendations the way I always have, one encounter recommended in the city's recommendation forum that I saw the lady in (I see a lady in Toronto, it gets reco'd in Toronto forum, if Ottawa, Ottawa's forum, and so on)...and not copied to other city's reco forums Funny, recommendations have worked fine till this one particular case. If the rules that unclear, you'd think there would have been a problem before now You want the Mods to rule, feel free to PM them with your concerns RG

Why would the CBJ lady change her standard? Depending on the ladies, they may alternate providing oral, one using a condom, the other not. But I can't imagine the CBJ lady feeling obligated to provide BBBJ, nor should the client or the other lady expect her to. It is important that the client be made aware up front so there are no surprises.

Keep in mind down in the United Stated where prostitution is illegal (for the most part) high end upscale (for lack of a better phrase) companions/courtesans, whatever term you like employ screening/verification, it doesn't seem to be an issue And one could always join a verification site (ie Date Check, SP411 etc, if they prefer) Right now, there is fear of the unknown. But and just my opinion, should gentlemen stick with reputable companions here, there shouldn't be a problem. Avoid places like Backpage, CL and most definitely streetcorners Anyhow, a rambling RG

Gwen, Kelly, Courtney - all from CMJ are fabulous at exactly what you are looking for. Now hurry up and get that dick to CMJ :)

This is very old and tiresome but if your discretion is important to you my safety doubles or triples that and more. Its totally fine with me if you don't want to disclose a lot of information on a first meeting but you need to have at least two reference's from this board that I either know or they have a presence here. Today alone I answered my phone to private numbers that were new people to me and they were appalled to learn that I don't book appointments in this manner . ( I use my cell for other things as well) One person was kind enough to tell me he is a visitor to Halifax and would love to see me. When I told him I don't make appointments through a blocked number he hung up on me . Yes a juicy potential date, I bet not. I am very understanding of all peoples needs but if you are not willing to give your information to be properly verified or have a good reference's its not just not worth me risking my safety.

Awesome response Jessica

I have seem this question before and its very interesting that you guys ponder this. Most of our guests are married and well the ones we know really well we even chat occasionally about their home lives, wives, kids etc. It doesn't matter to me at all if you wear your ring at all. Unless of course its a two pounder and then I may be afraid of being scratched or pinched. My opinion is wear it, if you start taking it off and putting it back on then you are going to lose it. Could be hard to explain how a perfectly fitting ring fell off your finger.

The standard for take-out and delivery is 10%

The point is, if this had been one of my customers behaving so boorishly, I'd have pulled over right there on the dark, deserted stretch of highway, and invited him to step out. I'd show no mercy. Besides, the fresh air on the long walk home would obviously do him good. Even decent men, like my husband, routinely put women in situations they know they will be uncomfortable in because it's easier than making waves. And sometimes women end up being more than just a bit uncomfortable. This happens to thousands upon thousands of Canadian women (and maybe even Canadian men) every day. And yet, we need Big Brother to make a law to protect me from my customers. Sheesh!

Yeah def run, I mean I wouldn't consider myself a pro in this field but i've visited with maybe 10 ladies over the years ( some of them many times )... but payment in advance, email money transfer, this is just sloppy everywhere, easy to track her down and most def not gonna result in anything good for anyone who's 'looking for a good time'... U did the right thing .. thanks for the heads up =)

I'll run a hypothetical on you then. There is one lady I see. She is well a regular. But she doesn't have a home town...well fairer way to phrase it, her home town is Canada, coast to coast Every time I see her I have had GREAT encounters with her and I've written recommendations of our dates in the city I saw her. Now should I (and no I wouldn't) by the same logic not just post my recommendation of her in the city I saw her, but in every city she tours too. It's the same logic as yours except when applied to a touring lady who has no home town as such, the cities get multiplied even more. That's because every city for her is her hometown This is what CERB rules say Some may think this is helping the SP. This is considered shill posting and against the rules Can I advertise, help out or promote a lady here? If you are an agency then yes you can. You can only have ONE account but you can use that account to post ONE ad per day the shows who is available with your agency. All the same rules apply. If you are a Customer and are "Helping" someone out (This is considered a SHILL post and is not allowed). When you post a recommendation and answer someones questions about a lady you must be a Customer and not have a connection with the lady that goes beyond the customer & sp standard arrangement. If you become friends with the lady and are posting to boost her business you are in fact SHILL posting and that is NOT permitted. If you are posting to "HELP" her out you are breaking the rules... if you are posting because you have a great time and wish to share this with other members you are welcome to post. You CAN NOT post mutliple posts about the same lady and no one else! This will appear as a SHILL and your probably doing it for other reasons but it will do MORE HARM THAN GOOD. So Don't do that please. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_recarea Posting the same recommendation more than once is not allowed and could come across as a shill posting. There is no grey area here. This is black and white in the rules. So if he wanted to post the recommendation in Ottawa then he shouldn't post in St John's forum as well. One recommendation, one city. Not hard, especially for someone who has experience posting recommendations already RG

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Well, in that case people were just trying to point out the poster's error and remind him of the board rules. (He saw an SP in city A; he posted two recommendations from the same visit, one in City A and one in her home city, B; the B recommendation, if posted at all, should have been put into an existing thread for her in City B.) It began simply enough with one comment about the error, but then the thread kind of got on a roll because people were confused. I began to find it more funny than anything else. (I hope I helped push it firmly into "absurd".) So I don't have a problem with simple corrective comments like the first one in that thread. But yeah (barring confusion as in that thread), once the problem is pointed out it's not really helpful for multiple people to pile on pointing out the same thing.

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This bill is soooo screwed, it's not even funny! Look at how much is open to interpretation! I will laugh if this bill gets tossed out. The Cons are heading down a road where they shouldn't be going when they have no clue what they're talking out. If they lose the next election, it will be someone else's mess to clean up when shit hits the fan. Typical Cons.. you won't be getting my vote you bunch of idiots!

Sorry my mistake I will ask the Mod to add this to the Thread Pete started.

This thread is IN the Ottawa section :P

This week I had the pleasure of meeting a beautiful sexy lady from Ottawa who came to visit us in Newfoundland. For the last few months I have been ...to put it mildly an admirer of this lady ... I have read and reread her ads and CERB posts and been completely captivated by her. Her amazing pictures have been a gift to my eyes and my imagination.... and the amazing composition of her ads made me know that I needed to meet her ... i wanted to know how it would feel to run my fingers along the amazing definition on her stomach.... I wanted to run my fingers through her long hair as I kissed her lips.... I wanted to know what it was like to breath in her fragrance as I held her naked in my arms... I wanted to look into her eyes as her body quivered in orgasm as we made love.... Over the past few months I became more enthralled by her and my desire to be with her heighten.. unfortunately I was in Newfoundland and she was in Ottawa so while my desire for her increased the likelihood of us being together seemed remote. As you can imagine when I learned this wonderful lady was coming to Newfoundland I was way beyond delighted... the wait from when she posted the Ad saying she was coming till her arrival was tantamount to torture but this week she arrived and I finely was able to meet her.... As I approached her hotel room door it crossed my mind... what if it was not possible for the reality of our visit together to live up to the emense anticipation I was feeling... could the reality come close to the fantasy.... the door opened and my answer was clear... my imagination had let me down she was more beautiful then I could have imagined... she welcomed me in we embraced and I held her amazing body in my arms as we kissed....for the next two hours I was treated to an amazingly passionate experience that I could never have anticipated or dreamed. Yes she was beautiful... yes she has an amazing body...yes her smile will melt your heart...she is young and cute and sexy... a sexy angel but an angel with an amazing kinky side..... sweet enough to take to church on Sunday yet dirty enough to fulfill all your dreams. It was an amazing 2 hours ... in fact it was so amazing that we repeated again the next two days. BeautifulDelilah was in Newfoundland for three short days ... Every second I spent with her was a gift that pleased me physically and mentally and for which I am extremely grateful...however it still feels like my time was too short....Gentlemen this is a very special lady and I am looking forward to seeing her again. Thank You Delilah

Thanks everyone, I appreciate the warm welcome :-) Waterat, I'll definitely be heading to Ottawa as I get established. I imagine there are some incredibly sexy businessmen in need of helping hands there... ;-)

Well for me it won't change. I trust the ladies I see or want to see with screening/verification information. They can be trusted with it Now the government on the other hand, don't trust them at all Professional companions have integrity, Stephen Harper, Peter MacKay, Joy Smith et al have none But my lack of trust in the government doesn't mean I won't do my part to keep ladies safe...including being screened A rambling RG

I love dogs, I love all pets but I am on my last nerve with my neighbours' dog. They let it bark incessantly and take no notice as to how much it annoys the rest of us trying to enjoy our backyard! I am seconds away from calling bylaw.

What I do is very simple. Treat her like she is a valued guest. Greet her warmly, take her coat if appropriate, offer drinks, etc. Unless you normally ask your guests to take a shower I might hold off on that one. One critical thing is to read her website or other instructions and follow them exactly. For example, if she wants an envelope in plain sight, make sure it is there.

Yeah... we guys just have to remember that GFE is GirlFriend Experience, not GirlFriend Eventually, and if you have a GirlFriend Expectation then it'll screw everything up in no time at all. So don't do that.

Wonderful! Congratulations to MN2 and the entire family. Blessed day for sure.

Membership is free, just give them a name to get your membership number. It gives u the benefit of booking a lady for a specific time when you call in with your # so that you're not wasting any time by showing up & there is no one there that u want to see. Additional Comments: Just give them a name to get your membership # (they'll give u a card with your # on it), then when you call in with your #, if there is a lady u want to see, you can book her for a specific time. This way u don't waste your time going there and there is no one that u would like to book a session with. J999

You were not misunderstood. I believe you did not care for replies you were getting because I read your original post before you edited it and removed the part where you basically likened a warm and genuine woman to someone who would be willing to stay in touch with you and you wondered why majority of sps don 't do that. There are lots of sps who are genuine and caring out there but doesnt mean all of them would care to stay in touch afterwards for reasons echoed by other posters on this thread.

Lily, first, let me welcome you to Cerb :) I would like to add that Indy Companion is NOT an agency. I am a full-100% independent companion and only advertise with them ;) Same goes for all the other ladies you see on the site. We pay a monthly fee to appear on the site. Nothing more to it.

With the papers i have advertised in, i usually have the least trouble with guys calling from the paper ads. They respect the hours posted in the ad, they don't ask for celphone pics, more pics, graphic pics, in fact they don't get any pics in the ads, and still manage to muddle their way thru the booking process and show up to have a good time. Online ad clients seem to have the devil of a time figuring stuff out lol. The most common # blocker comes from the online ads, and also the callers using magic jack phones (ID shows at area code 239, for example) And they get pissy when you tell them to call from a real number, oh, they say I can't do that, i don't have a cel phone i can use, i can't use the hotel phone, or other nonsense. MJ callers have to prove to me that they are actually in Canada, BC, Vancouver area first and foremost, because 99% of the time they aren't. I had someone call from the paper ad, I don't ask for but get his name showing up on his home ph, the # shows up, then again cel ph#, and name, and while here a complete rundown on his family history, i think he told me the names of his parents and sibling by the time he went home. Then you get the other guys who claim they can't phone, or if they are texting, they can't call, or they ignore your reply telling them they have to phone to talk to you, like its a big secret. The other big secret for some guys is telling you where they found the ad. Like I really can see them looking thru the computer, the camera automatically goes on and reveals them to me, uhuh.

She kiss me. I kiss her She go down on me I go down on her. oh and boobies Probably forget the guy for a little bit...*no one did hear that* The toys aren't always needed, they can be fun at time, but not needed in my case.

Pretty much what Angela said. Fully interactive means the whole deal with the girls into each other almost as much as they are into the guy (almost ;)).