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To each their own. We should all focus on what works for each of us individually. Variety, after all, is the spice of life! :)

Hi, this is my 3rd year on Cerb, 1st year was mostly lurking and reading the various post and threads and getting to know the SP's/MA's and gentlemen on the board thru their postings. It was almost a year before I took the plunge to meet my 1st SP. She was a kind young woman that gave a great first experience and second experience. I met my second SP in the following year, and she was a great experience and I have seen many times since, and we have become good friends. After that I had my first GFE Massage and it was great which then lead to many more GFE Massages, Now in my third year of hobbying, I have started to meet many more Cerb women and each experience seems to get better and better. I even had my first duo last week :). It was exceptional :) This is a summary of what I've learnt from being on Cerb and my experiences with Cerb women :). What I've learnt from the Cerb Community: - it is a community of caring Men and Women. - it is a source of useful information - is a source of recommended women that have had proven reputations. - it is a place where information can be asked and answered - it is a social community where members have helped each other in need. - it is a place where discussions can be debated. - There are senior members that give good advice to the Newbie's - Also thanks the CERB MOD, he has does a great job, keeping the board running and moderating the members and post. - without the Mod there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from the Cerb Chat Room: - This is a great place to make friends and meet the other members. - I have spent hours in chat, talking to the men and women of Cerb. - Have met people from around Canada. - I have helped and been helped with other members. - Some night we have a lot of laughs. - Other nights meaningful discussions. What I have learnt from the Cerb Gentlemen: - They are here to help others with information about the industry - They are kind and thoughtful men and know how to show respect to the women of Cerb. - Established gentlemen are proven safe men for the Cerb Women. - Some of them have a great sense of humour. - They have come to the assistance of other members in need. - Without the gentlemen, there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from Cerb Women: - They are kind and sexy women. - They except people for who they are , regardless of race or colour or size. - All they expect is for them to be clean, smell good and show them with respect. - Please respect their time and limitations. - Arrive on time with the proper donations. - No negotiation of donations. - If you can't make it please call to cancel. - It takes a special woman to be able to do this job. - The women who really enjoy this job and pleasing men give the best service. - Beauty and sexuality is shown from within the person. What I have learnt from myself: - When I started I was a shy man around women. - Now I have more confidence and have no problem being naked with strange women :) - I enjoy spending intimate time with Cerb women. - I enjoy chatting with learning about the real person. - I have become friends with several of the women and keep in contact with them. - Women seem to actually like me for some reason. - As with all meetings, YMMV, But I've learnt to be a gentleman and have in general received better services then I expected :) - Always please the women first, and they will return the favour :) - As I always say, I'm a gentleman and the woman cum first :) Advice to Newbies: - Read the above facts :) - Respect the women. - Be a gentleman. - Women with recommendations are a good choice, but in all cases YMMV. - Participate and become part of the Cerb Community. In closing. I love being on CERB, it has become a daily part of my life. and Thank you to all you women for being sexy, kind, beautiful and emotionally strong to be able to provide the services that you do. I am grateful for the exceptional times that I have spent with Cerb women, they know who they are :). And I hope to have many more great experiences. Gentlemen and women, let's hear what you have learnt from your experiences on Cerb.

Public client recos are kinda redundant: 1. We already have a bad-date section. 2. There is also the note feature. Also, it feels weird to me to reco a client. I mean, as far as I'm concerned, as long as you did nothing to warrant being black-listed, and your hygiene is good, you're ok by me.

I'm not sure how cost effective it is but I know my parents found a washer/dryer they liked, and while they actually went into the store to view it, they ordered online, arranged delivery and install and was a very good price. While I love online shopping and finding a great price, for many things, especially big ticket items, I want to be able to feel it or open it or sit on it. Just because it looks pretty doesn't mean it's built well or comfortable. For me, nothing will replace being able to see it in person before you buy on certain items.

I haven't been here long, but I do like the fact that everyone has a common interest, and I am learning to be the Escort that I want to be, and there is no shame on that! I love what I do, and have met many interesting and sweet men, who have lifted me up beyond words, and I have had gratitude from them, not just for activities but for listening and helping them through personal issues, this to me, is more fulfilling then anything else! Lyla has helped with this, in introducing me to knew people, and friends, in which I greatly appreciate! I agree with Christy, Ottawa is the capital of the planet lol and just because we are on Lyla,doesn't mean we are better or worse then anyone else:) unfortunately I think people when it comes to posts,, need to be abit more thoughtful instead of making accusations and telling people to be quiet , that needs to change, but as a whole, I do enjoy the site :)

Kind sincere words from a friend when I really need them. My three Siamese cats, My 11 year old nephew, I get to relive my life again and he reminds me of the joy and mystery in the world. The hope of spring and plans for new flowers, gardens and just the joys of learning about gardening . I'm a late learner with an expert teacher. A better relationship with my mother, neither of us are here indefinitely, I am cherishing out time together. My belief in the spirit world and the comfort it brings, truly this is the area that makes most sense to me. The possibility each day brings. Additional Comments: All good points Cristy, I love my cats because they don't drink my wine. They look at me like I'm the smartest person ever and all they want is love and to sleep at my feet. Can't beat that!!

I would tell the person contacting me that it was an ad from another day when I was offering specials, but am not anymore!

Victoria, I find this thread to be distasteful and not in the spirit of this site. I truly feel an apology is warranted. It's one thing to discuss bait and switch (which you have indicated to not be the case), but you are critiquing those that photo shop their pictures to "an extent of changing how they really look". It airs on the side of airing out dirty laundry. I can just see the pm's you must get saying "who are you talking about". Since you have read the sticky on airing out dirty laundry, you understand this is not ok. Especially after posting this: If you can't support others, don't complain about those YOU feel are doing something you don't agree with. Either support others or stay silent please. My civilian look is totally different then my business look. I'd hate to think that someone is going around saying I look nothing like my pictures. My pictures are 100% me. No retouching and no photoshop. I do crop them but that's it. I admire those that get professional pictures done and have no issue with them enhancing them. I've never lost business because of someone else's business practices. I do my thing and do very well. I would never post a critical post like this. If you know of someone who is blatantly posting pictures on THIS SITE that are not accurate, AND you have proof, post in bait and switch or notify mod. However insinuating otherwise is not cool.

Years ago when I traveled more and I was looking to meet a lady in whatever city I might be visiting I would always pull out the phone book and the local paper.... the reality now is that I can't recall the last time I looked in the paper or yellow pages... now that might just be me because I enjoy using technology. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I think the Yellow Pages is going to dry-up pretty soon. Every year, the book gets thinner & thinner. I haven't used one in years. A waste of trees and advertisers money IMO. Old technology.

I may be an escort but first and foremost I am a woman. Yes this is business BUT it is one of the most intimate businesses out there. It seems sometimes that a gent I may meet thinks I am some sort of machine or borg with no life beyond that ,with no emotions. But tell me this would you want to meet with someone cold and detached or is that small intimate connection even for that moment in time the reason you hobby. You can love your significant other like they are your last breath but lack that bedroom spark. People don't marry based on how the bedroom goes they marry their personality their habits and dreams. We are woman if you treat us right we bloom and warm and that moment spark can be explosive and you leave with a smile. We are in a business and that should never be ignored,like you get up and go to work every day we get up puy on our mask(make up) and clock in. To each their own as one lady already said,ask her but always keep in mind even if you do connect outside that at the end of the day you go to bed with your wife and we take off our masks and go shopping or pay a bill. Ok enough from this peanut gallery good luck and happy moments for all.

I have been on this wonderful site for just over a year, and I have to say that I find it incredible. There are so many supportive people, great information, wit and candor that it makes my day just reading some of the posts. We are a community that helps each other, is supportive of one another in every way. What have I learned from Cerb/Lyla? I have learned: - to be less self critical - to listen intently to others - to encourage others - that I am not to everyone's taste nor they to mine (but politely said, lol) - that there is absolutely nothing wrong with what I choose to do as a hobby - is that there are wonderful people in which I can be friends with for a few hours and have lots of fun with, no strings attached - to give advice to someone of something they ask that I may have great knowledge of - to be welcoming and more passionate in my personal life - to celebrate all the little flaws that make me who I am I found out about this site from a friend, and I am so glad that it was shown to me. It is the best decision I ever made to be a part of this wonderful community. I give thanks to all of those that have helped me, and I hope for continued reading and learning on here.

it seems pretty obvious from the lack of SPs that have availed themselves of this have not brought it to fruition that it is indeed a dead issue. I personally don't want to 'rate' clients. If a lady asks me about a client that has used me as a reference, I will tell if I have or have not seen the person. I don't go into precise details about the tryst, I may say enjoyable, punctual, courteous, etc. But, only if a lady has asked me. Like Tempted Monk states, I wouldn't want to put clients on the edge by 'rating' them, as it seems. Best to leave the recommendations to the clients themselves.

ha! touché ;) lol

Oh Cristy, I am going to bed shortly . That is the highlight of my day. What a wonderful gesture and I am sure it meant a lot. I never lose faith , nice and kind people exist close to us , we just don't know. Love you, love you!! Awesome. :icon_smile::icon_smile::icon_smile: Additional Comments: Can you imagine the dancing now??!!

I was in a store to day and a customer was short $, he asked his friend for $ but his friend didn't have extra, so he went and put back some of his purchase but still fell short. I felt bad for him so I paid for his purchase, it wasn't very much. He offered me what $ he had but I asked him to pay it forward instead when he could. I felt good for doing this and hopefully someone else will benefit as well.

There appears to be some who just don't find something appealing until it is no longer available. I'd tell him to stop contacting you. If he hasn't booked yet I'd say he isn't going to.

I watched the last episode tonight...I had recorded it...it was amazing!! now we have to wait for the next season....:(

Ask yourself -do you really want this client? If so, tell him it's no longer available and if he wants to book he'll have to pay todays rate. If he wants the old rate he'll have to wait until it's offered again. This happens often to me as well, when I advertise my 1/2 hour , because so many request it, most want it after I stop offering it, lol. Just the nature of the beast:)

Hello!! I'm not sure where you are, but I'd love to take care of your dog:) I'm sure you won't have a problem finding someone to go to Aruba. By the way that is one of the few places where you wouldn't have to quarantine your dog.

I think there is something to the idea that some gentlemen would like a reco section for hobbyists because they'd like to know how they "rank", for lack of a better term, but they would probably be disappointed by the criteria most sp's would use to grade them as clients. Things like hygiene, willingness to submit to screening, not haggling on prices, not insisting on a menu, etc, would be much higher on their lists than say, prowess between the sheets. I don't want to pull back the curtain on the wizard of oz for anyone, but I don't think a hobbyist's skills are of much concern to the average sp. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure they think it's a lovely bonus when you show some level of competency in bed, but it's hardly a dealbreaker if you're all thumbs. If recent board subjects are any indication, not sending a d**k pic puts you in elite company :p

This is where I have an issue. This site is about positive issues. By "venting," it changes what this site is about. We are not allowed to vent. I'm sorry this issue bothers you, and you feel it's important to point out what others are doing (again this is your opinion not necessarily shared by others, and I still don't understand why you felt the need to vent about). Now, if you were talking about public figures (like Halle Berry making herself appear white in her recent pictures), that's an entirely different matter. However, to mention being 20 pounds heavier, buck teeth and such, sorry, it's not ok ON THIS SITE. Unless you have something positive to say...Please stay silent about these types of issues. Thank you for apologizing.

You've given no real examples of ladies using photo shop overkill as you put it, hence it comes across as any lady using professional photographers (who use photoshop) are misrepresenting themselves. It does a disservice to many ladies out there, and leads prospective clients (especially newbies) to think professional photos are misrepresenting the ladies If you could cite facts to back up your opinion, then the response you're getting would be different. But you've cited no facts, just posted an unsubstantiated opinion And your unsubstantiated opinion has to be offensive and disrespectful to each and every lady who invests in herself, time and money, getting professional photos done. Said as someone who has been fortunate to see many ladies who have had professional photos done, and the ladies in person, if anything are much more beautiful than the photos they use to represent themselves RG

It been 2 years on the 11th that I have now belonged to Cerb. So I thought I'd share some of the things I've learned, especially of late 1. That is: Who some say is a good client may not necessarily be for me. If I get the sense that the person interested in seeing me isn't my type best not to follow through. I've done this to many times resulting in wasted time, no fun and regretful moments. I used to get the feeling just because someone, especially a Cerb member, wanted to see me it was necessary to book. I guess I was afraid of the repercussions of refusing:( One persons champagne is another persons beer! 2.Just because someone is a Cerb member doesn't mean their character is golden. I am grateful to be here and thankful I'm accepted by a lot but I have realized that there are unreliable people everywhere, cerb is no exception and, trust has to be earned it isn't guaranteed by any site. Nothing is. :) 3. This is a great place to discuss sex and to dirty talk. 4. We are lucky to have a Canada wide FREE advertising site and I'm happy and thankful to be a part of it:) 5.Thankfully, a site where there can be no bashing, some still make digs, but hey, they have to have something to do:) 6.That perhaps Ottawa is the center of the universe, lol. 7.Research, research ,research- this goes both ways. 8. Being a provider isn't anything to be ashamed of, it can be like actual dating and sometimes surprisingly nice things can result from it. Never be afraid to go beyond your boundaries. Its my time, my body and, mine to share and to do with as I please:) 9. Ignore, ignore, ignore maliciousness. When you do, good things happen:) 10. Most importantly- ENJOY- its alright to have a good time with a date. It is after all about having fun and wanting to give someone else a sample of "you" and that needs to be beneficial for both sides:) 11. Recommendations are nice but they are just an opinion 12. I'm good at a lot of things but I'm the best at just being myself, to some that'll be great and to others not so good, win some lose some. I've learned that its okay not to be liked by everyone . Well my last sentiment-I've been bad-I've been booted out a couple of times-live an learn-move on:) and I've been good-have lots of rep points now:) and cerbie friends- so thanks for letting me into your neighbourhood:)

I must vent over the " over kill" of photo shop! My photos may not be high quality , nor did I spend thousands on a photographer, to make me look like someone I'm NOT, but they are Real, and there me, not someone who looks 20 pounds lighter then they actually are, or someone with a flawless complexion or someone who looks completely plastic, because then you would be looking at someone who does not exist! Every one of us, service providers has a flaw somewhere in their physical appearance, and yes, we All want to look our absolute best, for future companions, but photo shopping to the extreme, is a true misrepresentation, to the person you are meeting, more over just a lie! I myself, if I was the person meeting someone, who looked nothing like their pic, would simply turn around and leave,, in my honest opinion, it just makes common sense, to represent yourself as what you truly look like, not what you think looks better, and what others want you to be! Don't get me wrong , make up, dressing sexy and appealing , hair done, all of that is extremely important, especially in this industry, looking our best, at All times, but be yourself in pictures, because when push comes to shove, the ones you are misrepresenting too, may just turn the other way,, just my opinion

Still not 100 percent clear on your question but I'll hazard a guess. First are you asking why you had a better time with an independent companion versus an agency companion My take on it, it is entirely dependant on the companion and your chemistry with her and she with you Some ladies like being independent Some ladies like being with an agency Maybe the ladies you saw that were agency you didn't click with or just saw it as a job. And maybe you saw ladies you clicked with who also were independents My personal take on it, it has more to do with chemistry/connection and the lady liking her profession than it does with whether she is independent or agency A rambling RG

Well I'll toss out a couple answers for you ;-) 1) When you set up a date with a lady tell her you would prefer her to be in control of the session...keeping in mind in all communications, you are paying a lady for time and companionship only. Don't discuss specific activities, just that you'd like her to be in control. 2) When it comes to duos, often a lady's website has links to ladies she has as duo partners. Also, this thread, granted from last year, might help http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=162123&highlight=thread And when you have your encounter with a lady, tell her that a duo interests you (assuming the lady you are seeing is one of the duo partners, nothing than a worse faux pas than asking one lady you'd like to see two other ladies)...does she know of any lady interested 3) Maybe I'm misunderstanding your question. The biggest hurdle for meeting any lady, at least me is not stumbling and falling weak kneed when I hear the knock on the door Seriously, contact the lady using her preferred method of contact, provide all screening/verification information, and book a date with her A couple ramblings Hope they helped RG

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Just back from lunch at Barb's. Was sorry to leave. Lovely regulars Claire, Bridget, Chanel, Sabrina, Serenity and Shelagh. Newcomers Diamond, Harmony and a smokin' hot Cuban girl Havana. And a blast from the past, Siya, looking lithe and cheerful. Haven't seen her in ages. And one very curvy blonde whose name I didn't catch, with some very outstanding natural assets. I think I'll have to head back down after work.

Don't think I've looked at them in years. At one time I might look if I was in a motel in a smaller center to get the lay of the land.

I am Wilma Flintstone and you won't be making my Bedrock ;)

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The reality in most retail operations now is that for major appliances you pick out what you want in the store and they then order it in so the online purchase and delivery is not that much different. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

That is the reason why Future Shop closed their door, people are all buying online nowadays. It cost money to keep salespeople in a store and showroom merchandise.

Probably been said but inappropriate text talk, even after I tell them I dont answer to that, they either don't text back or continue, and bargaining the donation that's the worse for me

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I feel so sorry for him, and it's true, at least for myself, yes there are times when I don't feel good enough, rather it be one thing or another, when you mentioned "a post " that made you feel bad, yes I can attest to that, my opinion got me into a venting and firing squad! Although I'm not allowed to vent, others are! Yup certainly makes you feel bad :(

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If men notice they really don't say to much which is wonderful and a sure sigh its not all about a certain look. I have done extreme changes like go form blond hair to green hair, although that was noticed it didn't seem to matter either. I thank my good regular guests who accept my weight, hair and boobies. :icon_smile::icon_smile:

Really if you do know of ladies who have had professional photographs done that are a clear misrepresentation of themselves, you should report it in the Warnings Section of the city they are in. Your post, at least to me implies all ladies who have professional photos done are misleading potential clients. Even ladies I saw and couldn't recommend, their photos were accurate. And to say I have been lucky, I have partaken in this lifestyle since July 2010. Not one lady's photo a misrepresentation of her I haven't been lucky, I do my research. A lady who misrepresents herself with photos needs to be reported in the Warnings Section, because fake or misrepresented photos are part of bait and switch My concern with a thread like this, it paints all ladies who use professional photos as misrepresenting themselves. And ladies who invest in themselves by having professional photos shouldn't be painted with the same brush as those who use what I'll call fake photos Your thread does a major disservice to many professional companions here on Lyla, especially the ones who invest in themselves by having professional photos done. A rambling over cup number two RG

My theory is that everyone should follow "The Principle of Least Astonishment." That is, what can I do that will astonish the client the least? Shiny touched-up pro photos are great but they only tell us your potential under ideal circumstances, not the reality. Selfies that look like they were taken with a potato are similar in the opposite way. They show us the basic look that will likely be much better in person, with makeup, etc. I think that if you don't want clients to be surprised when they reach your door, having a good mix of photo styles is probably the best. Some pro, some natural and maybe some candids. Even better, just choose photos because they actually look like you would look if someone walked in your door. I feel like you don't want to surprise people in either direction. While it's better to pleasantly surprise someone (OMG she looks so much better in person), if that happens a lot, you might be leaving money on the table. Slightly 'truer' pictures might catch more eyes and topple some fence sitters over to your side. In any event, we know it's not all about looks but the photos definitely seem a critical part of the initial generation of interest. From what I can see from many profiles, quite a few ladies seem to treat them almost as an afterthought.

I'm going to add myself to the list. I accept myself for the way my body is and what I have been given. Self acceptance truly is all about freedom. Besides, the way I see it is there could be worse things in life like not having a hot set of natural 38 DDs. No offense to others who don't have them. I love them and I love me for me!

Ok, so let me add, a nice warm meal shared with great company Doing something nice for another person, with no expectations Taking care of loved ones... My dog makes me happy... And chocolate never fails ;)

Her username is SUMMER LOVE If you like to contact her directly

I feel sorry for people who don't drink. If he had been wasted he'd have kept on dancing while giving them the finger and maybe even belly bumped them! For all its perils, moderate binging can be great fun, even when older, overweight, bald, and making a damn fool of yourself on the dance floor all by your lonesome (and yes I'm speaking from experience, lol). But yeah, poor guy.

I can't believe I just updated my whole profile (except pictures) on XBox!

Your mileage may vary, as they say. To return to the original point of this thread... quite apart from the money issue, remember that when you pay to see Alotta Fagina, what you're getting is... what you want (or at least, what she thinks you want). It's not that what you see is fake or unreal, necessarily, but... Alotta won't spend the first half-hour with you unloading about the horrible morning she had, even if she did. She won't say she's tired and she'd rather not, even if that's the case. She won't bring you her problems, because that's not what you're there for. So, when you're thinking about what you feel about her, remember that behind the Alotta Fagina you think of so fondly, there's another person who you've never met. Of course, that doesn't mean you can't maintain cordial relations outside scheduled appointments... but it's better not to trespass upon her time more than she's happy with (and how much that is may vary enormously) and it's unwise to assume that it'll lead to anything more, even if that may happen very occasionally.

Not something I have ever tried... it does sound interesting though. In regards to doing it with a SP it would have to be someone I had a long standing relationship with....lol pretty sure it us not a first visit suggestion lol

Slept in... had a nice brunch....relaxed for the day....chatted with friends....bed early!!!