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To clarify a few things, anyone I end up having a date with has had at least 5-10 emails in exchange with me - so we can get to know one another (nothing was off on his communication and he was forth coming via email). When one is nervous they usually are non-forth coming in emails as well as in person. I asked him the questions I ask anyone (not like i asked of this address and SIN number) and have for almost all my time in this business. Ive dealt with nervous people in the past and non have ever pulled this type of BS behaviour. He knew all too well where my hotel was as when we confirmed on the phone I made sure he knew where I was, where to park and where the entrance is. There is only one of the chain brand of hotel I was staying at and the only one at the intersection - so I'm sorry I don't buy I'm lost when he texted ( 15mins early and when I asked where he was parked it was a 5mins walk (even if he had to walk up the stairs, 8min max) As for the housekeeper, she was 3 doors down and in her own world, he claims because she went from her cart into the room (the one she was cleaning) that is must be a sting. Im sorry you watch way to much A & E. People come and go into hotel hallways and rooms all day long, no one pays attention to much unless you bring it on yourself. Im clear on my site and in my ads that we will be communicating before and during our date (after is up to you). Considering what i ask to screen is more invasive than what i ask in person, I don't buy nerves with this guy. (plus the first time I've had someone say my questions were too personal) Someone who goes through as much communication with a companion as he did, should have some butterflies as we all do on a first date. Once inside the suite that is well lit with open doors and the person they booked standing in front of them after they are hugged should in most cases be able to breathe a sigh of relief. I even offered for him to look in the close or dresser if that would he help him relax to show I was "alone" and not part of a sting. From my time in this biz, newbies have a way they act and this guy was no newbie he played my screening to be a douche. Im willing to bet that every SP he has booked he has played the same stunt with - after much thought I know when I have been played. I get nerves and respect they do happen, but people serious about a date generally relax at some point, laugh and have fun. This was not the case.

Sending my very best wishes for Christmastime and New Year to all in the lyla world, and especially to those that I've become friends with. There are many different degrees and ways of friendship, but I appreciate them all. I've had a great year, meeting lots of gorgeous, fun, and interesting women, dancers, MA's, sp's, and getting to know some of them well. There are others I haven't met yet, but who have shared their time with me, writing and texting, and I'm grateful for those conversations too, and the promise and excitement they hold. And of course my male friends, drinking buddies, correspondents, members of social groups with me, fellow posters, and so on.... This is a world that I love to spend time in, a world of shared pleasures and experiences, of shared communication and feelings. I want to thank every single person that I've interacted with this year, and to wish all of you the best for 2016! This is for you!

That's unfortunate. If someone is that paranoid and edgy it's best they never even make the appointment. We're only human and there can never be a promise of zero awkwardness when the client is against communicating at all and tells lies that complicate the matter. I had someone new show up to my hotel 30 min early for his appt and ask to come up. I said there are people in the hallway a sports team is here let me see if they will leave before you come up. A few minutes later he asks just to come up I said I still hear talking in the hallway. He comes out of the elevator and texts me that he's leaving and uncomfortable. I said I'm sorry but you showed up very early and I told you the situation. I am discreet they don't even know I'm in here. If you leave I won't be able to rebook you. He got mad at me and left. I mean if you're that worried about seeing anyone why not do an outcall? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Have A Very Merry Christmas and enjoy the holidays xo Additional Comments: Have A Very Merry Christmas and enjoy the holidays xo

Very similar to Miss Rushton. I see gents above 30 years old only but honestly prefer above 35 for many of the same reasons. I find I enjoy sessions with gents who have seen a few ladies before, understand they absolutely must be screened, shower and pay in advance before the fun happens and treat me with respect and don't try any unsafe services. I can't count how many times someone tells me they are soooo mature and soooo respectful and 28 or 29 and will I see them? I talk to them a little and they start being all will you do a hh Bb? (Which I don't) or they start acting paranoid about giving me their name and have no reference. I don't want to chase clients or train anyone. I want to see people who want to see me and not just every single girl around to try them like a carnival ride. I like men who do their research and read my website, ad and reviews and ask me questions I haven't covered already instead of "rates/restrictions Hun?" Etc. I love mature men who know what they want, are good at communicating before and during session and can relax and have fun without pushing my boundaries, trying to squeeze their value out of me or make me be someone I'm not. I have found some younger guys emulate porn too often in sessions and try to jackhammer me and it's not my style and I don't enjoy it. I like sensual and seductive touching and building up for an explosive release at the end and not to go through the 10 positions they have on a checklist in their head. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

For what it's worth, I kind of like Mystique. Don't worry about it sounding "real" enough. Most guys know we don't use our real names, that the names we choose are just working names. It's unique and sounds like served you well. Don't worry about dropping the Maria name. Guys will remember you more by the service you provide and your integrity than what your name is (was). :icon_biggrin:

Merry Christmas and Happy new year everyone... All the best! Cheers. Sent from my Nexus 5 using Tapatalk

Merry Christmas Everyone I hope you have a wonderful Christmas that lives up to all your expectation and a new year that brings us all Peace, Love, Happiness and an abundance of prosperity.

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I don't see where your questions are too personal, it's just small talk, nothing had to be revealed that was too personal, what a jerk he is. It's not like you were asking him for his specific address or when he was going to be home so that you could confront a significant other. When are people going to lighten up?

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^ THIS When inevitably asked by clients about my "menu" I remind them that I am a sensual and carnal woman who enjoys her work ... but their attitude, hygiene and level of respect are what really determine how our time goes. I make no promises how our time goes in advance because how am I to know for sure you will not treat me like an object rather than a person, have poor hygiene or are otherwise a turn-off? I don't know, therefor I don't tell. I understand the need for many to know as they are paying a considerable amount of money for a companion's company. However, I decline to discuss proclivities as the real determining factor is not what I enjoy, but whether I enjoy it with a specific partner.

I have kept my stripper name and it serves me well. Also it gives me a background and people know me, so I am not 'new' in any parts... just different now lol

I understand having that feeling. It's almost like it is a challenge for them to get through your screening process and they want to accept and defeat that challenge. I have had that happen too. So I know what you mean. It leaves you feeling unsafe and wondering to what extent they will take this, or was it just a challenge and they are content and walk away. Those guys are always sketchy, and act all nervous, when they are full of it. So I see where you are coming from. Don't worry about it any more. Could be someone who will report to friends on his conquest.. but do be aware that his friends may play that game too for awhile. So of course, be vigilant so as not to allow it to happen again. And find a way to put your foot down if you see it might be happening again to prevent further incidents like this. Good luck!

I agree with the above sentiments. If Mystique is a name that suits your brand and persona, plus you are already well known by that name it makes sense to keep it. Your idea of using Le Mystique also holds merit. Have you considered keeping Le Mystique as a surname of sorts and giving yourself a first name? Maria Le Mystique Devi Le Mystique Vivian Le Mystique Those are just off the top of my head (the first one because you mentioned using the name Maria though I quite like the sound of Vivian Le Mystique).

The initial welcome is very important, it sets the stage for the rest of the evening. Nothing says welcome more than a bright and warm smile. A gentle hug, a smooth transition inside my home and some interactive small talk. This gets the mood flowing, and gives each other a chance to get to know each other a little better, if it is a first encounter. Regulars are treated with the same welcome, but conversation can be a bit more casual. I offer refreshments and massage to everyone that visits me, it is a great way to set the mood, and gives each other a chance to explore each other. I really dislike the 'in and out' quickie, it is very mechanical and rushed. I like my guest to feel as though they are the most important person to me at that moment.

When I first started doing this, I would get the question 'are you open-minded?'. I would say yes (for all the reasons the ladies here said) and I even started putting it in ad because I was asked so often. After a while, when they asked that question, I would say 'i'm doing this aren't I'. And the response would be 'that's not what I mean'. Later still, I learned that open-minded means something totally different. So now I just say 'no' and skip all the hassle. It IS code for something! Now it seems to mean some unsafe offerings so 'no' just about covers it. But when a girl offers it in ad, she may just be doing what i initially did and respond to the many requests. Until she realizes that it is code for something else, she could just be innocent of the actual meaning.

Good idea Mystique. ;) I would have told you the same thing, but I was at the strip club all afternoon, waiting for you to show up. :P

Thank you all for your input!!! Im going to change to Mystique and consider tweaking the brand a little Additional Comments: I love this idea!!! Tysm Additional Comments: Agreed!!! That's a great idea, ty

She's right. Especially when you are well known with a great reputation, and know where to stay and be discreet - to keep acting like everything going on means there's a sting? Someone isn't right in the head. If he'd ever been in a sting he would know that the girl wouldn't be well known and maids cleaning the rooms might not actually be maids. They clean rooms the same at all hotels. Park Cart In front of Room with door open and clean inside. Seriously Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Hi Emily, I think you have the guy figured out. I doubt he ever intended to proceed with the date. I know from experience there is no way a chat with you wouldn't have put him at ease. Sorry you had that experience. You were correct to walk away.

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All Black ones today.

I want to have a schedule of 11 am to 11pm, but my body doesn't love me enough, to allow me to sleep before midnight. It never has, even when i was little

There is a difference between legalization and decriminalization. Decriminalization is what we want... to have the same labour laws as any other form of labour. We already have laws on exploitation and human trafficking. Legalization means imposing laws and regulations specific to our trade. It may sound like a good idea, but if you look at areas like Nevada where brothels are regulated, you see things like workers not being able to leave the brothel for a set amount of time, unless they are under surveillance (eg. someone is with them) for fear that they could engage in sex off-site and nullify the mandatory testing done at the brothel. There are many reasons why people enter this industry; some people have criminal records (often prostitution charges) and regulating the industry means they might be barred from continuing to work legally, thus sending them further underground.

I've seen her last summer. The pic is not of her. Regular asian bait n switch. However she was a lovely lady to play with.

I'm currently getting back into a decent sleep schedule. Struggling with it. Too much creative flow at night. Writing just escalates it further!

Repost of a favourite pic :)

http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/100-real-pics-new-petite-asian-sweetheart-cassie-902-986-0103-first-time-visiting-halifax/1445876 Vipotg doesn't often advertise a B cup... I remember they had advertised last one last year I commented on. Other then that 33C 5'-4" 108lbs is pretty much their m.o I am intrigued! If anyone has any info please pm Thanks Additional Comments: Saw her today. Friendly, pretty good English

I just want to take the time to wish everyone in this wonderful community Happy Holidays and hoping and wishing all the best 2016.. I have been very grateful and sincerely appreciate all my clients thus far and I also want to thank anyone who has shown sincere interest and inquired about my business.. For those who know me and have given me the opportunity to get to know them I want to let them know that I truly feel blessed to have had such amazing experiences and some very memorable times with them.. Each and every single one of you I hold a dear spot in my heart. I want to thank you for your business and your friendship and your support throughout 2015.. I also hope that 2016 brings many more enjoyable memories with all of you and hopefully new memories made. Again A Very Happy Holiday and may everyone be blessed and showered with Love Hope Prosperity Health and New Great Memories in the coming year. THANK YOU CERB/LYLA and THANK YOU EVERYONE!!! XOXOX

having someone show up at your door unexpected looking for an appointment! I am NOT a revolving door, thanks! pissed

True but most ladies, well in my experience all ladies use email addresses that don't raise eyebrows. Nothing that would make anyone think the transaction has to do with this lifestyle And even if questioned, there is nothing illegal about paying for time and companionship. RG

The issue that's happening with Winnipeg in particular, is that spas are getting shut down because of loose lips. If the intention is to share positive information privately, a great idea. I still don't understand why you guys don't start your own social group, closed to newbies and outsiders. You can share info privately there.

My answer is based solely on myself and I can't answer for others. I prefer mature company +40. Im not saying a 25 year old can't be mature, but the connection is different in the past experiences I have had. Someone older than myself is someone I tend to mesh better with, from experience I have found that I have few issues visiting with mature company (they follow the rules, read websites, don't haggle and well they don't stalk me in my hotel lobby- yes that has happened) as well screening is NEVER an issue. My experience with younger clients 98% of the time is usually not something I want to repeat, the lack or respect to this professional and me is one of the big reasons as well as the fact that they seem to not follow instructions well and feel that it is ok to want to date me or take me for coffee off the clock. The fact that initial contact in my experience from a younger gentleman usually starts with "I'm super good looking you should see me for free" or can i have a student discount and r u free now - is enough indication to why I don't wish to see the younger generation - they are also the one who seem to hold the entitlement card and feel because they have money I should see them (and they wont allow me to screen them). I will say in the new younger clients I have clicked with, they had 2 references and were rare from the norm Every lady is different and every lady has different boundaries and rules, for me I'm at a point in my career where chemistry is better than anything and without it there is no date. - regardless of age. We all have our reasons for who we wish to spend time with and why and to be honest its really no one else concern except for the lady who has put her policies in place and they should just be respected.

Another proud "darksider" here. :) Lived in Dartmouth much of my life and am happy to do so. It is funny how many people from across the harbour act like crossing the bridge is entering a different country. You can get to downtown Halifax from Dartmouth faster than you can many places within Halifax itself! And yes, there are good and less reputable streets on both sides of the bridge. But as others have said, I put much more stock into the reputation and communication of a lady than any worries about location.

Not really on topic, but one of the things I miss the most in my marriage is a nearly complete lack of kissing and its the kissing as much as the... hummm.... how can I say this... "other" activities... that I hobby for. Its been over a year and a half since I saw a girl for the first time... the one girl I've been repeating with lately we have a friendship and she greets me with a very warm hug and passionate kiss. I do agree that a warm passionate kiss really does set a great mood.