I have always felt that SOd are given a raw deal in society! My first experience was back when I was 19-20 years old. I was in Germany serving in CAF as medic with the R22R (vandoo) the French Canadian infantry regiment. I was the brunt of much teasing as they all knew I had yet to experience sex. I was so shy, still am, that I could be in a room with 100 women and 10 men and I would be going home alone.
So I decided to try one of the legal house that Germany had. I was faced with several women to pick from. Of the language being An issue I just pointed to one and pick a service from a card that she showed and bingo I was no longer a virgin.
Then I came home, got married and once we had two children my ex-wife sexual activity ended. After 28 years of remaining faithful to her I divorced. Moved to Vancouver and net a woman who just got out of an abusive marriage. We got married and I felt alive again! Then she got cancer and eventually passed away two years ago.
After being a widower for 5 months I answered and as in the newspaper. I made arrangement to meet this woman and after a 1 1/2 hour drive I got to Halifax to find out she did not exist. My second try, the lady double book and I arrived second and got told off and accused of being a list. Waited a month and texted this lady I picked out on a website. It was Christmas time and she was on holiday and made arrangement for after Christmas. This lady became my regular provider. That was 1 1/2 yr ago and no regrets. I have also met 2 other wonderful ladies.
I find the relations between providers to be amazing. Even though they are competing there is also a sense of cooperation and looking out for each other, like warning of bad clients and so on.
However, my coming on the scene did not seem to be well accepted. And I do not know why. But Because I failed to protect my identity at I receive a few nasty, name calling, messages! It has stopped now.
I feel there should be more freedom and understanding for sex work. I can not compare the before and after but the present appears to be a very healthy choice.
And again, I wrote a book!!!