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For me I've kinda created 2 worlds. My private world and my CERB/Hobby world. I honestly don't need a third or fourth. My email is also a version of my CERB handle 'Winnipegcub' for hobbying purposes. Now I've always treated everyone in this part of my life with the utmost respect and seeing how the members of CERB operate has really made it easy. I've met some quality ladies and gents. So then I hope those who get to know Winnipegcub think of that person in a giving, generous, and respetful way. Thus when I meet someone in this part of my life I want them to know its Winnipegcub. I would hope it goes to creating my reputation. I have had 'bad' dates, but again the lady was professional and we just accepted that we didn't connect. I don't believe she tarnished my reputation in anyway. And if so, I hope to have many more positive interactions than not so great...so trust in the end things will balance out and my reputation will in fact be - earned and me! Winnipegcub

I have learned to find a balance between being around people and my time alone, enjoy them both equally and don't get itchy for either of them. If in a particular mood that changes of course. I too believe there's a difference between lonely and alone, one chooses to be alone but not to feel lonely. A while ago a very wise and sensitive man (my father) taught me we are never alone therefore we should never feel lonely. He taught me connections with our beloved ones are way beyond being physical. So I haven't felt lonely in a long time. I have also learned what some mentioned here of how ironic but common it is to feel lonely when having company. I guess it all comes to a. having the right company b. being 100% there Just yesterday I came across an interview done to Isha Judd, who promotes a method for inner growth. One of her quotes says 'Imagine when you look in the mirror, the face looking back at you is someone you truly love. Just imagine.' this resumes Nat's quote 'the greatest love is the love we have for ourselves.' Is so true what they say that to love others we have to start by loving ourselves :) Nat also said we have to be a little selfish I think is linked to the loving us part, put yourself in first place and you'll do wonders, people will see the difference and so will you because you will feel happy and that's a feeling one can't hide ;)

Being new to Cerb myself, I found myself assured to know that some of my earliest guests had some time on Cerb as well as a posting history. It did, in a sense, 'rest my nerves' that these were men who were truly into the 'hobby' and that they had experience in dealing with SPs. I did have an situation just last weekend where a gent had said they had seen me on Cerb and the texts and phonecalls took up a lot of time in my afternoon try to arrange a get together that never did happen. Something struck me as odd and when I asked him for his Cerb handle, he refused to provide it. Now I don't have the experience that you other ladies have on here, so all I can do is to defer to your opinions and try to learn from them, but if he is going to say he saw me on Cerb, instead of my ad on Escorts Canada or my Web site, then I personally didn't think it was wrong to ask for his handle as well. I sort of draw a parallel of not accepting calls from blocked numbers, if that analogy makes sense...

I would recommend AngelaofOttawa as well :)

Getting a boob job done. I'm against it, she was just fine the way she was.

I am in recovery. I have done a lot of work spiritually and working the 12 steps to be in such a great place right now. I am wondering who may be on the same path. PM me if you wish to keep your anonymity. I'm looking for new sober friends to share the joys of sobriety. grateful to be sober today. r100rs

How about...

Our leaders are elected to bring leadership to the nation and take decisions that are supposed to be the best for the interest of the general population. But over time: 1) Some will say that the Conservatives express favoritism towards larger corporations with the proposed fiscal amendments so, they are bad... 2) But some will say that the Liberals abused of their power during the Ad Scam scandal so they are bad... 3) Some will say then that the Conservatives of Mulroney has hampered the economic viability of small businesses with the Free Trade Agreement so, they are bad... 4) Some will say that Ontario has seen its development derailed for over 10 years because of the social contract of Bob Rae and the NDP so, they are bad... 5) Back to federal, some will say that the huge debt of the country is due to the Liberals of Trudeau in the 70s so, they are bad... 6) Before that, the Conservatives of Diefenbaker has blocked important technological advances for Canada by canning the Avro project, which would have brought Canada as a world leader so, they are bad... And it could go on with MacKenzie King, Borden, Laurier, all the way to John A. MacDonald. But the way I see it, one must not forget the past but must live in the present.

I've found somewhere offsite to share in total anonymity, please pm me for details. happy 24 everyone. r100rs

I know the original poster put this up with good intent, but really there's nothing funny about someone being disrespectful to common public standards and laws such as public nudity and urination followed by an unnecessary act of violence towards a woman. I just don't see the humor in it.

Reprinted from my diary I received an email recently from someone accusing me of being misogynistic and that i had a hate on for prostitutes ? WTF I thought to my self! What an odd perspective, clearly this person has no clue of what they speak. If they knew anything about me they'd know that I'm a frequent hobbiest and provide support to many independents in more ways than just financial. I suspect the letter came from an agency or pimp or indy that has made their way to the pages of the diary. My agenda is clear and simple. Honesty is king, if you follow standard honest business practices then you will never find yourself in the pages of my diary. However, if you choose to use bait and switch tactics, put customers into dangerous situations, harm or threaten to harm a customer, steal from a customer, provide poor unacceptable service or bad customer service then yes, you will be featured in the diary. So the next question is why, why do I bother ? Well by exposing the fakes and frauds it kind of levels off the playing field for the honest agencies and independents. If I can filter out the bad guys for the newbies or the unsuspecting then they can focus their attention on the proven quality and customer driven providers in town. Often clients who find themselves victims of a bait and switch situation do nothing about it. Usually fear of violence, blackmail etc prevent the victims of bait and switch from doing anything, they may go through with the service, which is usually sub par and no where near what was agreed, or give the money and leave. Rarely will they leave without paying the fee, which just paves the way for the fraud to be committed again, if they get away with it once then there's nothing stopping them from doing it again, and so they do. I don't publish private information, I don't print full phone numbers that can be easily searched, I don't jeopardize anyone's safety, I don't print lies. Just the facts. The fact is that if you are an agency, a pimp or and "indy" and you use fake photos to lure customers to mislead, ripped off or robbed, then I will print the information you used to lure these victims , to warn them of the deceit that follows. I will prove that the photos are fake and will continue to track your movement as you continue to practice your deceptive ways. I realize not everyone is going to like me , some have even accused me of being a "creeper" stalking girls on the internet , again WTF ? I see bad, I warn others to avoid or be cautious, how that qualifies me as a creeper is beyond me. Do I profit from the site, yes to cover the costs of operating the site and for hard costs. Donations are always welcome and many readers have donated, some do it often some for just a few bucks, others for considerable amounts. To them I say thank you, these readers appreciate the service I provide and I appreciate the acknowledgment. The fact is I donate a good percentage to charities that are important to me. I didn't start the site to make a profit. Yes there are advertisers on my site as well, again proceeds from advertising go towards covering operating costs. When I introduced advertising some said that would impact my credibility and that by advertising on my site advertisers would be "protected" from being outed or exposed. Not True, if any advertisers, indy or agency that advertise on my site were to practice bait and switch photos bait and switch service or put a customer in harms way I would not hesitate to report on them. To the credit of current and past advertisers that situation has never occurred which speaks volumes to their credibility and the type of business they run. To the original letter writer, there is your reply for you and all to see. Take it or leave it. It is what it is...