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The escort verification debate boils down to two sets of risks: clients worry about being scammed, blackmailed, or losing deposits, while SPs worry about being stalked, assaulted, or worse. From the client’s side, the safest move is to choose established providers with a consistent online presence—websites, socials, and reviews—so that verification isn’t even necessary. If you still want reassurance, it’s fine to ask once, politely, and keep it minimal—something like a non-face note photo. Demanding nudity, special outfits, or endless free verification is just exploitation and a waste of time. If the provider requires screening or deposits and you’re not comfortable, the solution is simple: move on and book someone whose process fits your comfort zone. From the provider’s side, the best practice is to publish static proof once—via ads, socials, reviews, or a website—so you don’t have to repeatedly prove yourself to each new client. Setting clear boundaries around deposits, screening, and acceptable forms of verification cuts down on friction and weeds out time-wasters or power-testers. Both sides need to respect each other’s boundaries; asking isn’t inherently wrong, but bad asking is. In the end, if the fit isn’t there, walk away without drama. And beyond all of this back-and-forth, there’s a blunt reality: by participating in this activity at all, both SPs and hobbyists knowingly step into an environment with inherent risks. Each side chooses to accept that exposure, and while everyone wants to minimize the danger, the truth is that no policy, deposit, or screening process fully eliminates the gamble. Good luck figuring this out—because the risk never disappears, it only shifts.

Counter point. I hand my ID to people all the time. Some ask for it when you pay by CC. Some ask at the liquor store or a bar. Car dealers take it and photocopy it. Tattoo shops make a copy. I've sent pictures of my ID via email (which is not secure). I've uploaded photos of my ID online for various reasons. Hell people lose their IDs all the time and they don't panic. They just go buy a new one and don't care what happened to the old one. So ultimately what is a provider really going to do with your ID? Don't send it to some random provider on LL you don't know but if you've done your research on a specific provider and they are reputable like several in this thread (Ms Manda, Pamela Luscious, etc.) you really think they are going to try and ruin your life over $500 just for fun? No. Because it looks bad on them too and how they conduct business and it will impact them. They will only use it if they have to in situations such as assault.

Texted pic of her.

Unclear at this point hence my first comment. And then Robert turned it into a witch hunt again...

You should be more worried about your wife going through your phone and having to sleep on the couch for a week than worry about us screening tbh. Be scared of your own wife, not us.

You can probably book a flight for Montreal and find similar hot women for very reasonable rate and get gfe and come back home and it would still be financially better decision. I always say to guys, no nut is worth that much guys. just jerk off before you book so you can think clearly. 90% its just coz you are horny LOL.

In the very rare chance this would possibly happen to me, I'd refund the deposit and offer another spot. It is a tough business. I know not everyone holds themselves to high professional standards for conducting their businesses. Mistakes happen and we are human. Best paths forward are leading with integrity and accountability.

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Yeah I was hoping to get some clarity from the original poster before commenting but, others clearly didn’t feel the need to wait for that lol 😂

Uhm.. Peanut gallery here 🙋 Did the op mention that the provider in question asked for a deposit or cancellation fee, or was this person merely posing a hypothetical question about cancellations in general? 👀

Robert please stop turning every thread into a "SPs are evil" conversation. I've never had a provider cancel when I had paid a deposit before. Typically providers will say deposits are non refundable and if they have to cancel they will apply the deposit to another booking time. In some cases you may be able to get a refund but it's up to the specific provider and situation. I have had providers no show or cancel last minute when there's been no deposit. Never been offered a discount and wouldn't ever expect one honestly. End of the day it's a service offered and shit happens. Sleeping through an alarm is a shit reason but shake it off and move on.

Can you clarify the issue here please. You don’t say anything about having paid a deposit in your message but the latest replies (e.g., from RobertDion) are implying a deposit was paid. Are you asking about whether a deposit should be refunded if an appt falls through or are you asking if you should be compensated for time lost due to planning and showing up for the original appt, which fell through due to an issue with the SP? Different issues I think…

Either way, you'd be refunded the money, or, if she's ghosting you, then she took your deposit and ran, like many do. It's the double standard discussed here many times before. They want a deposit to ensure you're serious and to make sure you don't cancel and to pay for their prep time, and to lock in your appointment. She SHOULD refund your money or re-schedule and not charge you a deposit again, obviously. But if her intent is to just collect deposits, then your sh*t out of luck.

If she cancels and doesn't rebook you I would expect a refunded deposit. Maybe a priority rebooking. If she has extras she offers I can see her maybe offering a small discount on extras if the client is interested. But honestly no. Not really the same. If you book a massage and the massage therapist calls in sick that day you don't get a discount on your next service. You just rebook if possible and move on. Shit happens.

I've been following this thread from the beginning and for me it always comes back to the same thing - I have a choice. No one is making me meet with a provider who requires ID, a deposit or both. But what really irks me is the 'issue' of providers having control and hobbyists not being able to do anything about it. That doesn't seem to sit very well with some folks. It is being dressed up as some half-baked policy discussion when really it's about power. I also think language matters...'hobbyists'. For me, this is fun, exciting, a bit of sexual therapy, sometimes it's emotional therapy or some mix of all of the above. For many if not most providers, it is their livelihood. It is a profession and a business. This industry was here long before us and will be long after we're gone. I am just grateful for the many lovely human beings I get to spend time with. The way I choose to go about my 'hobby' is to manage my risks through research. I also realize I don't get to make the rules. If I don't like it, well, that's my problem.

Y’all worried about handing over ID, meanwhile you expose your whole life, real name, location, and family, on social media every single day. Make it make sense 😂😂 Hack our phones? Then what? A thousand burner numbers with random IDs. It’s literally no different than the old yellow/white pages phone book that is public. 😂 And let’s be clear, what’s actually illegal here? Buying, not selling. That law exists to protect providers, minors, and to fight trafficking. Two consenting adults aren’t at risk. Nobody’s getting dragged to court for paying a consenting legal provider. Facts.

Just checking in. I've been away for so long. I'm considering seeing those I've met previously. Let me know if you're interested. Pictures for respectful inquiries. Pre-booking only. In-call and out-call with screening.

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I know, just tell guys what to expect when they decide to see her. I don't want to see people carry high expectations and get disappointed. people pay 300hh 400h usually are not just looking for basics.

Only real recognizes real LOL. people forget that this is for fun, they shouldn't get addicted to it, you will lose your wallet and maybe your wife/life too. Empires and clans have fallen down coz of pussy LOL

That's sage advice most of these guys need to take.

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I had the pleasure of spending time with Natasha this morning. I had an amazing time with this gorgeous woman! I suggest you meet her while you can! Because Nsman had drawn my attention to the age she has posted on her ad, I asked if she would show me her ID (enough to confirm it was hers and see her age). I can confirm Natasha is of legal age. No worries there guys!

Isn't the rule everyone lies so add 5? Likely mid 20s. Especially where she knows Sweetie and other known providers I'm sure she is legal.

The pic Billy posted is her 💯 😯

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Oh my!!!😀 I may need to take a trip to Moncton...

I refund deposits through Amazon gift card or crypto if I ever need to cancel or reschedule. For example, I once had a gentleman ask for his refund via crypto. When I asked for his wallet address so I could send it back, he ghosted. I'm guessing he doesn't know how crypto works. Just as an FYI, for crypto transfers, we can’t return funds without your wallet. That being said, if the lady didn’t take a deposit, she doesn’t owe you anything. Do you expect her to send you money out of pocket?

I think the why is fairly obvious. Getting confirmation that she is extremely hot and spectacular is a great starting point but, sharing information and promoting great SPs are what this site is about so, recommendations can provide more complete info. Recommendations can address accuracy of photos, communication style (quick or need to be patient), location (obviously not exact location but maybe hotel/private residence, part of town that you are comfortable with, maybe condition of location if it impacted your enjoyment of the session), quality of time spent, and maybe something about services offered (although ymmv but something about restrictions could be useful for us and the SP). If you had a great overall experience let us know so, we can learn and explore possibilities for ourselves. Good recommendations benefit us and also the SPs that deserve them! I can’t comment on how hard it is to post in the reco section or barriers/delays by mods but, I assume if you are posting a true “recommendation” it will get there. Sorry to hear you’ve had trouble with that. Having said all that, if we want to discuss the merits or pros/cons of posting recommendations further, let’s take the convo to a new discussion thread so, this thread on the gorgeous Natasha doesn’t get hijacked by this tangential topic!

But why? Are these not enough of a recommendation? This board is ridiculous in how the reco section is moderated. I tried to post there once and it never showed up, so why even bother?

THANK YOU!!!!😀

If the provider says it's a non refundable deposit then what do you expect? Again if you can't rebook I don't think there's anything wrong with asking for it back if they are the ones who cancelled but you took that risk knowing it was non refundable. If they don't say non refundable then you should get it back without question.

No one’s driver’s license is worth thousands 😂 If it is, y’all better start keeping it in a safe. And if you ever take it out to drive, make sure it’s in a metal wallet with a padlock and a ball & chain hooked to it!!

Google it free. Selling sex is legal in Canada. It’s the purchasing that’s criminalized under PCEPA. If you’re unsure, here’s the government’s own wording. you can read it yourself: https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/other-autre/c36fs_fi/

That's the best point made so far. And how is it that crustychris has seen ALL the SPs in town?? 😅

Are you hoping for an orgy?

It is wrong and honestly, imo, disrespectful. The legitimate SPs have gone to great lengths to provide information to validate themselves as true and authentic. Websites, photoshoots, multiple ad platforms, social media accounts (which in today's age are super hard to maintain against the algorithm that are constantly banning us), online content platforms like OF and NLDTCONNECT and recommendations/reviews. Most valid SPs will have at least 2 or those available. Most of us have spent 1000s of dollars and hours to create this. If you haven't followed the links provided in the ad to verify them, that's on you. For the rare ad that was stolen from one platform and placed on another, most of us are google-able. If someone is new and is just building up, that will be up to you on how you want to move forward. If someone is constantly changing names, that should be a red flag it's self. If you take a couple of minutes to think with the big head vrs the little one, you should be able to make an informed decision of seeing someone or not.

It's not "wrong" to ask, but in reality, the question should be "why" are you asking? It's been discussed at length I know, but I can't seem to help myself from repeating this. With only one possible exception that I've read about in the past 5 or so years, this typically only happens when you're trying to save pennies on that scandolous "LeoList witch-hunt"...and once you've been scammed/blackmailed, you haven't saved a thing... The companions with active Twitter/X accts. & legit websites/reviews are not scamming people for deposits. They are, as has been oft repeated, simply looking to confirm your name, for nothing more than their own safety. There's a lot of people out there, having a lot of fun, because verifying an established SW'er is not a challenge at all, and they don't shy away from paying a deposit... Why argue with anyone for verification when there are so many established (& "verified") companions around? Many local, and seemingly even more visiting in a fairly steady stream... Just my unpopular opinion...

Maybe it is just me but... I find that when it was Cerb previously and it had the chat room, it drew a lot more people in because you had the opportunity to chat with people prior and get a sense who best suits what you are looking for or what the lady or gent is like or offers. Maybe if the chat came back it may liven the site up a bit more again but... yes the site is very quiet. I barely post here anymore but... I like to come on and catch up with those that still do use it.

Man, you guys act like the majority of traveling ladies are not in the $500-600 range for an hour of GFE. And require a deposit, which is a non-starter. I would rather see Natasha at that rate than any of those touring providers. But really, I don't think she is super keen on GFE, so probably sets those prices to avoid it? Just go see her at regular rate... And enjoy.

Are you mad? I am asking anyone met them or no.

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She does facetime verification, no deposit required and I got GFE (for extra)

I have a hard time believing the text response. Fairly low rate claiming everything is included and no extra donations required even for things people always charge more for like 🍑. If I had to guess they are real but just want you in the door and the base rate is everything safe and covered and every single thing beyond will be extra. I've been caught with that before. I'd love to be proven wrong though!

So sorry you went through this. You are not alone. My sp has been stalked. Robbed. Attacked. You name it. Despite safety measures.... This is where decriminalization would help protect sp from scum men.

I argue this portion found in the link above: "Taking down Backpage and obtaining a criminal conviction for the company and its CEO represents a significant victory in the fight against human trafficking in Texas and around the world," Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton ® said in a statement. I fail to see this as a victory. Similar to how laws only pushed the industry underground, making it more dangerous for both sides of the industry, so to does the removal of Backpage. Canadian LE have long been saying that Backpage made it simpler to keep tabs on the industry, ie human trafficking and those underage. IMO, the removal of Backpage will only drive said issues more underground, making it more difficult to keep taps on. Besides the issues we had with Backpage, this is the true loss of Backpage being removed. A few days ago there was a press conference at the White House of lady who was once trafficked thanking the US Government for removing Backpage. Indeed, her story is sad. IMO, what I find more sad is trafficking now being driven further underground and how worse it will become for those who will be trafficked in the future, underage or not. Only decriminalizing the industry will lessen human trafficking and those underage.