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fortunateone

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  1. Also, if you have their contact info, reach out and send them to this site. the ads are free, and here you are as clients already waiting, so it will be a win win for both sides. and if they know others, and other clients, they can send them here too and fill the section up. i think what you might find is they go onto CL first, so that might be a way to find them again
  2. Should go without saying this warning needs to be sent to L E, not just here. if they are using a young girl or woman, and it can be proven via a sting, everything will be shut down and if she is in need of a rescue, that will be done. if she is in need of arrest, that can also be done. i am not under any illusions that all young girls are innocent victims :)
  3. you could try twitter or switter many of the sites used in the area have been raided/shut down, other than maybe T E R and that has removed all advertising apparently. expect heavy screening, real name/address info, references from established providers, and probably work place contact info. it will help if you can prove you are Canadian during the screening process probably.
  4. It's huge in the Greater Vancouver area, and one of the few sites that have verified photos. Now some of the accounts you can take the verification with a grain of salt because they are mini spas that just reuse the same verifieds while they change out the actual provider, but regardless if the account is verified at least you know they've proven the photos for the indys This site has existed since CL erotic was taken down, but for some reason not being used too much outside of the area. escorts really should set themselves up on it as verified just for added authenticity, imo.
  5. Seems odd both the interviewer and the interviewee come up with the 'duh' like that lol. Also, even if the interviewee was a crackhead, it is doubtful she's going to say that unless she was just joking around, & wasn't told up front the interviewer's intention to copy/paste the entire conversation verbatim
  6. Maybe they didn't receive the text. Some don't accept texting & sometimes texts don't go through. just check the ad and see if there is anything you are missing in the way they wanted to be contacted. Also time of contact is important, if you are waiting until midnight for first contact, you might be sending the wrong message.
  7. many i have talked to say they simply create the twitter or instagram then keep it private so no one can follow, and they do not follow anyone. if they have another ad somewhere or a website, they might put that in view, but that is it, and sometimes not even a picture. the problem is without one of these we simply cannot post any ads at all, and the same thing without a phone number, specifically registered cel phone to receive a code from bp, we cannot post new ads or edit our ads. those of us who prefer no social media for escorting are forced to put one up. as mentioned, it is possible to put a twitter account that is a link to something completely unrelated to the sp, and get the ad up, which i am sure when more figure that out they will do. my advice is don't look for the instagram or twitter links to get more info, if they have a site link use that, if they have a phone number, use that, and if they have the reply option for contact use that, just as you would have before this new requirement.
  8. i use backpage because it is still the go to site for people from out of town. it is pretty rare a local is using it because we have a site that is well established that the locals tend to use, plus people still flock to CL in the therapeutic section i would never not do a bp ad, tho i don't do ad daily, just for the fact of the US and eastern guys from Alberta to PEI use it almost exclusively
  9. no, they will lead you to the friend finder/dating sites, telling you don't pay for an escort, you can get laid for free. i think one time it led to TER, in other words ter wants you to pay them to see the reviews which will tell you who is or isn't legit. in spite of the fact i've seen multiple complaints from many many escorts who say there are tons of fake reviews on the site lol
  10. i've been putting info into pics since craigslist started making so many restrictions with words and when mass flagging meant take the phone number out of all searchable areas. it is a great idea, it means you don't have to be restricted by the 140 character limit,not that the original amount was that great. and this comes not long after twitter increased post imits, so there you go i only noticed it when trying to renew and expired ad, so not sure when it started. i have not had to do it to any of my current ads. to keep the ad 'current' just use the 'move' it to the top option, that will extend the expiration over and over again, so you can keep old ads with the old requirements for a long time i assume.
  11. i have noticed reviews/ads/posts by maybe 2 or 3 over the years (and by 'years' i mean over 10 years, and still only a total of 2 or 3) who have provided sub services, and they were always with a 3rd person monitoring the encounters.; this is safest for you as a client, and the provider, imo. It is also my personal opinion that no sp should ever provides these services, because it would attract a violent predatory and incompetent dominant-curious person who is clueless about consent, boundaries and limits everything you see in porn is not necessarily something that should be acted upon in real life, and to me the absolute last thing any sp should be doing is offering it, advertising it, or going thru with it, unless they were the sub of a BDSM couple and the M part is there every step of the way.
  12. i was just going to point out he was saying 'love sick' guys, not 'sick' guys. your points are still 100% of course.
  13. yes they've been posting under the dating section for a while now. Also, it was backpage's execs choice to close the escort section, not a legal requirement. Like CL, they did it to make a point. That's why other countries are not affected. also, unlike before, those dating sections require payments, where before i am pretty sure it was free.
  14. this is a little more info http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/newfoundland-labrador/shop-wants-operation-northern-spotlight-to-end-1.4356772 the 'sting' is now over, and after 'interviewing' over 320 sps who they considered, for whatever messed up reasons reading into their ads, were 'at risk', they found 8, 2 of whom were under 18. which is not to say the under 18s considered themselves at risk or coerced/trafficked, just that the cops are allowed to stop them from working. the other 6? no idea, we are simply to assume they asked for help to 'exit' i guess
  15. i think it was meant to be a limited series' date=' because the ending was the ending, a prequel to the events of Battlestar Gallactica. i like those, they often do them in the summer months. Additional Comments: i watched the first episode, but now feel like i should first watch Jessica Jones (which i had deliberately skipped), Luke Cage and Ironfist series first. i have seen Daredevil, the complete series, so going into the 1st episode i knew that character and where he was at in life, so now i think The Defenders would be better if i find out more about the other 3. its a sacrifice, hours of binge watching 3 series but i'll persevere for the sake of what 6 episodes on a new series lol?
  16. i think the ads disappear more than the sps disappear. it is really difficult to use, to put up ads and maybe they stay up for an hour, maybe a day, but either way, the system of flagging brings them down. if you find someone best to save their info.
  17. i always assume emails are not getting thru in the first place. some sps won't even open an email if the email address looks sketchy too, with some overly rude/graphic/cutesy email address. also, is emailing the way she wants to be contacted at all? i can be reached by email, but if/when i do reply it will only be to say i don't provide info or bookings by email, someone has to phone me., if sp is on this site, send a pm. if on twitter and you are on twitter, send a DM there mentioning your attempts to email and the dates you tried.
  18. Long Beach (west coast of Vancouver island) there be whales out there http://www.longbeachmaps.com and once you are on the island, try a trip to Hornby Island. 2 ferries, with a drive thru Denman island (which has it's own attractions) http://hornbyisland.com
  19. my friend received a text the other day at least 20 minutes after the person sent it. they are not being received immediately in some cases, so keep that in mind. They are not being received at all in other cases, for example if you sent a text to someone who doesn't have texting as in a landline, and they cannot reply. it is possible they replied and you did not receive the reply. i don't do texting for many reasons, including that i prefer a phone call which takes sooooooo much less time than texting back and forth for an hour. in short, i recommend that whether you are sending or replying, always do two texts in case one gets lost or delayed. if you are sending out a first contact text, make it detailed, including the time you have available and that after a certain time you don't want a reply or can't arrange an appt, more information is better than saying 'hi' or 'rates?' or 'available?"
  20. You don't offer, you don't negotiate If you want to know the sp rate for that, ask and they or she tells you, and you either pay the rate or move on to ask about another sp. kind of how this works. Knowing going in what is the lowest someone else paid isn't really going to help you, and besides that, isn't it better to take a week with an sp you already have met and seen several times than a complete stranger?
  21. is she being honest tho? i used to see over a long period of time, ads by an established sp who claimed, in the ads 'boyfriend is out of town, & i want to play" or 'in town for business, ' etc. Sps are like any other workers, we work to pay our bills & hopefully have savings for times we can't work, or savings for long term goals or whatever. If that makes sps 'desperate' when people who are mechanics, health care workers or teachers aren't 'desperate' when in fact we are all doing the same thing, working for our own reasons in order to pay bills.
  22. i hope they all stop pleading guilty and take these charges to court like this guy. it's the only way to challenge the laws is to start the process of getting the charges thrown out in the first place
  23. as an ex user, you can't be around that stuff. it isn't being ingested, iit is being inhaled as a smoke and there is zero chance that others around her aren't also inhaling it involuntarily. so, as much as you might like her, it is based on the first visit when she was (almost) behaving as a professional (rambling on with her sad life story, to me, is just a hustle, but i'm a cynic, and i feel she was trying to solicit sympathy in the way of another appt or extra $$ at the end of this extended session). she's not your friend, you shared a moment, time for you to protect yourself and your health and move on away from that drama. she had zero respect for your health or your sobriety when she lit up the crack pipe all night long, you owe her nothing.
  24. the tgirl link from 5 years ago? sounds legit the perb one, to me is simply dragging review site drama (and usually full on BS) onto a site that doesn't allow full on BS or unproven accusations or whatever you are trying to do here. Think about what this site is about and ask does this full on BS belong here, because I do NOT think so. i reported the perb link, if i wanted to read full on BS i'd go hang out on that site, i don't want it HERE or any of that other idiotic BS trashing and bashing of providers that goes on those sites. you of course are free to trash and bash over there, just remember, just because someone makes a claim doesn't make it true. and spreading lies about paid providers is slander and defamation, and other providers have won lawsuits against people who spread the lies meant to damage their reputations and businesses. proceed with caution, imo
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