Andee

My sentiments, exactly!:ablow:

Depending on the client, I would rather they see me more often, with less time, but it's really up to them, not me. I am grateful for any client who repeats. I am even more grateful to clients who are grateful. I have a client who has been with me from 1998 when I used to charge him $150. for an outcall (back then in-calls were not common). Now he comes to me for in-calls. Even though I dropped my in-call rate over the years down to $120 (which he is fully aware of), he still gives me $150 because he says I'm the only expense he has that hasn't gone up for him in 10 years. I am not impressed with the greedy types. I've had other guys say, instead of $120, can you do $100? Right now I have dropped my in-call rate to $100 (summer special), so yes, I will make them aware of it. Then they ask, well for me, can you make it $80, then? Do you see where this is going? It doesn't matter if you lower your rate, some guys are ungrateful enough to thing they're so special, I should lower it further. C'mon give me a break. I am sure there are ladies who have certain arrangements with special clients, but we are not going to go around advertising that because then other guys will snivel and want it to. I know an SP who used to (she still may) give a free session to clients on their birthday if they were regulars of hers (at least once a month, I believe). :sm185:

My drivers have driven Ottawa Playgirls and I have heard nothing but good things about them. OPG even offerred me to be "on call" with them one New Year's Eve (the worse day of the year to try and get a ride from anyone), so that I could have a chance to make some money. I thought that was pretty cool of them, since I am older and an INDY. By working for them, if I got an appointment, I would be able to get a ride. On my own, not a chance. I can see why Erin would be comfortable with her alliance with them. Thanks Sean and Tracey!

I agree with the MOD. You need to call and cancel because if you don't like he said, you are probably going to get additional billings as if you were signing up for a monthly membership fee...and if they lose their merchant status, then they won't be able to do any future billings. Swallow your pride and make the call!

Me too! I think it would be a blast! Annessa and I have talked about getting together for Karaoke, so you never know what antics we could get up to!:bddog:

"You mistook my kindness for stupidity". "I have a hunch you're trying to tell me something". "That person is so far behind, they think they're ahead". "What part of "NO", did you not understand"? "Tell your boobs to stop looking at my eyes". :sm185:

It was tacky of her not to text or give you a quick call, emergency or no emergency, but if someone died for example, the last thing I would feel obligated to do is call a client back - my mind would not be thinking of that - so please give her the benefit of the doubt. Hopefully she will contact you and offer to make it up to you somehow. Also, the only no shows we usually mention are guys who may have wasted or taken up a lot of our time without proper notice for cancelling or cancelling at last minute (but even then, the fact that someone calls is better than not calling at all). I consider that part of doing this business. But luckily I have more "shows" than "no shows". As much as you are annoyed, it should not be a reflection on all SPs as the norm.

Unless the the pussy explodes before the guy has a chance to really enjoy it.....

There's also some moron on CL who calls himself Simon Spincter who posts inaccuracies about the current laws, and warns would-be clients that ALL agencies are pimps and use bait and switch and are illegal, and encourages all girls to go INDY. I heard some guy on the Quest Chat Line (which I go on for entertainment, NOT to solicit my services) who was giving similar warning.

I believe you will recall, me and etasman and a few other gents were very pleased, and entertained to have your presence in the chat room the other night. Hope to see/hear more of you. You are a refreshing welcome to our board - you have that classic "movie star" look and great sense of humour :69:which is very sexy indeed!

Pet Peeves: Guys who don't wash their hands when they come visit me, but then want to finger. Guys with hairy balls who want me to lick them - yeeech! People who salt their food before they taste it. People who are rude to sales clerks/customer service reps - yeah like it's their fault! People who butt ahead of elderly or disabled people to get on the bus. Parents who don't teach their children to say please or thank you. People who are NOT escorts telling ME what it's all about. People who smoke native cigarettes I could go on, but discourteous drivers is definitely up there.

Sound of music days or now? :69:

I am still wondering however, why in the last year I am getting guys who are asking if I can do intercourse without a condom. Apparently there are some providers out there who are doing this, or so that's what they're saying. Like I said, I don't remember being asked this in the past. Again, that is very scary. I wonder why a guy would risk his health to do something like that. As for the girl, don't even want to go there... Any comments about that?:handjob:

If you need any content, please feel free to contact me. I have been at this full and part-time for 15 years. I worked in B.C., Alberta, Ontario, Quebec and did a short tour in New York State. I have worked for agencies, independently and I must confess even did a short stint on the streets. I have seen the good and the bad of this industry and have learned a lot about myself and others. I'm sure in the short time you were an escort, you experienced mostly positive things, but this industry can be very bad for some, depending on the decisions and lifestyle they choose. If there is one thing I learned is, treat others the way you want to be treated. Good luck with finding a publisher interested in this.

I guess I can be considered GFE and often :69:PSE (without Greek). Thanks.

GFE and PSE seems to mean different things to different people. I am under the impression GFE includes things like kissing and DATY, whereas PSE includes things like CIM, COB, Swallow, BBBJ. I have heard some guys say they believe it also includes no condom for intercouse (like they do in the porns), but I have a hard time believing that SPs who advertise PSE would do that. Also, I see some girls advertising on CL - NO RESTRICTIONS. What do they mean by that. Is intercourse without a condom something people are doing because recently I have been asked if I do that and I can't remember ever been asked that in years past. Being somewhat naive in this department, any feedback would be appreciated.:69:

Again, I agree with you Christine. However, I don't feel very presentable when I have a red nose or I am coughing and hacking. :boobies:

The lyrics to rawhide are: Move em on (head em up) Head em up (move em up) Move em on (head em up) Rawhide Cut em out (ride em in) Ride em in (cut em out) Cut em out (ride em in) Rawhide Yeah....kinda the same...does that men are cattle? So that would make us cowgirls? :bddog:

When making an appointment ahead of time, I always ask the gentleman to confirm a half hour before showing to make sure he is coming or if he knows ahead of time he can't make it, to let me know. That's what you did - you gave lots of notice. As for her saying "come now", obviously she thought she had a no show and was going to squeeze you in so to speak. Since it's obvious the other guy showed up, she should have either texted you right away to let you know, or give you another appointment time not already scheduled. Or the alternative (depending on how late he was), blow him off in favour of you. Either way, in my opinion she did not act very professionally, and I do not believe her behaviour is the norm because I know lots of SPs who do not operate that way. The MOD is right, there are some girls who are not good at scheduling as is there are some clients who don't bother to call and cancel, show up late or even show up early which can be problems. But it's part of the business that unfortunately we have to deal with. :butt:

Shower the best time! At least once a day...:sm185:

I agree with Christine. Also, if I'm sick, I also take the time so I don't spread it to my clients. I don't want the last thing they remember about me is that I passed them a cold or a flu bug. As for the swine pandemic, I think it's a bit of hysteria...when you look at the numbers, the odds of contracting it are not enough for me to lose sleep over.:butt:

So you took "7" for the team - (the other dwarfs?). I know, bad joke, but I couldn't resist. :butt:

1. Sam Elliott (older, but still sexy) 2. Eric Bano (actor from movie "Troy") 3. Robert Downey, Jr. 4. Robert Plant 5. Bruce Willis:bddog:

I feel old when I have younger clients come to see me and I realize I was like 20 or 25 when they were born. One guy who is KISS fan was quite taken by the fact that I saw them in Montreal at the Forum back in 1976. He just thought that was so cool. He wanted to know more about what it was like "back then" than concentrating on the session. I told him to look at "That 70s Show" and it pretty well sums it up. I went to see Nazareth at the Navan Fair last weekend. I would say most of the crowd were 35+ I felt like I was back in the 1980s hanging with my friends. But the thing I hate the most is having to wear progressive bifocal lenses cuz I can't see the fine print on anything anymore!:butt:

I charge for my time, in that if you pay for an hour, you get an hour. I offer MSOG, so it would be stupid for a guy to ask me, "how much to come 3 times". I am not exactly a clock watcher, but I also do not like to be taken advantage of. If a gentleman wants to leave before the hour is up, that is his choice. I have never rushed anyone out the door before their time is up. In 15 years, I have never even had to kick anyone out for poor behaviour, so I consider myself lucky. I have worked with other SPs who's philosphy is "get them in, get them off, get them out". I don't work that way, so the answer to your question is, "yes, if you pay for an hour, you should get an hour. What you do in that hour is between you and the SP - just make it clear if you have to pay extra for MSOG, that's all". :wink: