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Thank you Peachy. Good to know that it doesn't effect things too much. And I totally agree with you, negotiating the price is never an option and should never be. Just being informed and making a decision based on that information is enough. I think the only thing that I would avoid would be the DATY, as much as I love that part. Just as a precaution. I would never worry about the FS otherwise. One thing to add before I get off here, I do agree that despite the shock of something like this happening, I don't think that I would take all of my donation back like that. I would more likely have just said I couldn't continue and left it up to the lady to possibly offer something. A reschedule or whatever. If not, then so be it. I do agree with some that have posted that this would have been very hard for her too. I think that a few moments of pause and reflection when an accident of this nature occurs could have made a huge difference.

Well, looking at that list of foods, some that jump out (for me anyway) as a hell no are asparagus (makes my pee stink), bananas and figs (make me fart) so those things would make the experience worse because it would make me nervous. Nothing worse than being in the middle of coitus and have a loud fart come out the other end or worse yet, during 69, omg, omg, omg.:icon_eek: In all seriousness though, I think it is nothing more than a placebo effect. Oysters have never really done a thing for me as far as enhancing the desire or experience.

I would say that possibly disclosing that this is happening would probably be a good option but obviously, some ladies don't feel that way and it is their decision in the end. I think for fellas that love DATY, this could raise some issues if this accident occurs or if there were any leaking or anything of that nature. So knowing up front and possibly taking DATY off the menu would just be a little better way to go. Just my opinion. I do have a question for you ladies out there though. During this time and having the sponge in there, does it negatively impact the pleasure and experience for you? If so, do you just do your best to "fake it" so to speak? I'm just curious here because a big part of the enjoyment I get out of this hobby comes from the mutual pleasure. If I get any thought that the lady is just "going through the motions" and not really getting pleasure, it is a big turn-off for me. I do have a lot of experience and am pretty astute at picking up on signals but obviously, some are better at acting it out better than others.

I agree with what RG said. Her safety trumps my privacy and honestly, if I can't provide her with some sense of honesty about who I am, then I shouldn't be in this lifestyle. I don't pick up ladies off of street corners here. It should never be an issue to have a phone that is not blocked or to provide her with some basic info. As for references, that could be hard if one hasn't been with a lady registered here but I would think if I have been with other ladies out here in the west on CAF, for example, or a touring lady, their reference would suffice for a lady in Halifax if I was in town visiting. And if it's a first foray into the hobby, then politely say so and there are some ladies who do offer first-timers. Pretty simple really.

Although this is an older thread, it definitely is something that has to be brought up from time to time. There are certain lines that should not be crossed in this industry. Actually, in any professional relationship, when you stop and think about it. I don't wish to be "friends" with my family physician and that little prostate exam is pretty damn "intimate". Okay, that rather silly joke aside, honestly, since when should we ever ask to be friends? Friendships grow and develop on their own if they are meant to be on both sides. I would say that I can be friends, to a certain extent with several people here, even though I have not met, nor likely ever will, meet in person. I would never ask for some "special friendship" consideration from even my most favorite SP, even though we could be considered friends, in a very real way. We really have to think with the big brain and make sure the little brain doesn't think, just goes with the flow. Gabby, sorry to read that you are having some tough times. Wish you well and hope that this passes and makes you better and stronger. Be well and stay safe.

Wow,12 grand and counting. That's a lot of ramblings RG, but always well said and honest. Keep them coming, good sir.

Eating my dinner and watching the Ken Burns documentary on Prohibition. Absolutely amazed that politicians have been that short-sighted and stupid for so long and remain that way to this day. Two lines in the commentary stand out. The first being "making the law is one thing, enforcing it something entirely different.". The other one being,"In a democracy based in the notion of individual freedoms, how can you enact a law stripping people of their freedom?"

Well, let's see. I'm 5'11" tall, 155-160 lbs. Dark hair that I keep cut short (a little grey sneaking in there now). Stay clean shaven, no tats or piercings. I am skinny but muscular. The ladies I see always ask me where and/or how often I work out. Fact is, I don't and never have been to a gym. Just blessed with good genes and a very high metabolism. Nearly 55 and still the same weight as when I was 20. Aside from the arthritis, actually more fit and stronger than when I was at 20 or even 30. Of course, working in construction for 25-30 years will do that. Eyes are sometimes green, sometimes light blue, sometimes grey, they change with my mood. As for who I look like, damn, I just can't think of anybody that's really close. Maybe a tiny bit like Ben Stiller with bigger ears, bigger nose and glasses. I could be way off on this part. It's hard to picture yourself.

These ones always make me LMAO. "I'm young, hung, handsome and don't have to pay to get laid." Uh huh. Awful bold words from the guy who A.Contacted an escort, not the other way around and B. Is still willing to pay but wants to haggle with this lame ass shit? I think there should be a translator for this stuff. This one would read,"I'm a broke ass loser that has worn thin with every girl I know because I'm an obnoxious moron so I will try this crap to see if I can get laid by a pro within my budget."

Yeah, the opening few minutes really set the tone for the whole session, for me anyway. It isn't even anything in particular, just something that makes me feel welcome and comfortable. After that, the other stuff is less important. Not meaning that as it doesn't matter, just that I am flexible regarding the actual encounter.

This might be the hardest thread on here to respond to. Seriously. The female form is the most magnificent thing ever created and every part is so enticing and inviting and erotic. I guess all the obvious places are right up there near the top of the list but for me, some of my favorite places to explore (kissing, caressing, tongue, etc.) are what I consider the "transition" places. Where the bottom of the bum meets the thigh, where the hip and waist come together, the underside of the breast to the ribcage, the neckline to the shoulder, and of course, the back of the knee from the calf to the thigh. Damn, getting hot and bothered just thinking about it. :icon_redface: PS. large, small, curvy, athletic...it doesn't matter. They are all beautiful.

Exactly Ice, she is willing to maybe discuss something off menu but safe means safe. BBFS is not safe, obviously. I can't see that being a hard concept to grasp.

It seems to me as I read through this thread that the term was meant by SP's to be just a phrase to advertise they are willing to "entertain" unusual requests but because certain people in our society are fucked up in the head, they can't figure out that there is a line we should not cross. I don't know if SP's need to stop using the term because of a few bad apples. It seems kind of a shame that you have to rethink everything you do because of what amounts to stupidity on some peoples part. Of course, for me, the term may be akin to being absent minded, I don't know. I'm open-minded because there is a big "open" void of dead brain cells from the 70's up there.:tongue:

I agree with RG. I don't see how there can be any suggestion of a double standard. And the "friend" thing is something that rarely works, if ever. At some point, no matter how hard you try to deny it, there will be something that changes the dynamic. We can't help it. It just is what it is. Myself, I really like the ladies I meet in this hobby. I mean that truly. Even when I've just met them in our first encounter, there is a true connection there. However, I would never, ever suggest any type of relationship outside of this "professional" one. It is simply that I have too much respect for the ladies and our arrangement (for lack of a better term) and would never want something that would risk changing that almost perfect situation. As for the ladies being friends, that is, to me a very good thing for them whenever possible. It gives them somebody that can honestly understand the issues that arise in the profession and they can help each other face these issues and be better for it. By their being better off and happy, it makes our experiences as clients all that much better.

Unless you are having an overnight, you are under no obligation to say anything about a "guest". You can have whoever you want visit you at a hotel for an hour, 90 min, 2 hour, whatever. Personally, I think a good, upscale hotel is a good idea. A reputable provider is the key. The lady will come and go without being obvious and no one will be the wiser.

I guess it's pretty safe to say that most times, we have to just wing it out there. That doesn't surprise me as that is what I've done most of my adult life in intimate encounters with ladies. I do agree that it is usually something that should be communicated in private, however, I find that talking too much during that time can be a bit of a distraction and turn-off. Most of the time, in my experience, a slow gentle approach at the beginning will yield the direction the lady prefers you go. I also don't linger for very long just there. A little teasing and kissing in other places seem to really get the ladies going. Inner thigh, back of the knee, belly, that little spot where the hip and waist meet. Lots of erogenous zones to choose from, imo. When she is happy, so am I.

Well, I was very fortunate earlier this week that Victoria was stopping in my little town. I got in touch with her and the meeting was set. Upon arrival to her room, I was greeted with a great, warm hug and kiss by what can only be described as a goddess. Tall, fit, great curves and oh man, what a kisser. I felt at ease instantly and we had so much fun. Victoria has a couple of "ticklish" places and she giggles but says she loves the tickling feeling so I, of course, kept going back for more. :D. Then she took the reins, so to speak and practically made me melt. I won't get into the explicit details (it's not my style), but this lady has skills that are hard to match. We had such a wonderful time and the "oui, oui" and "ooo la la" during our intimate time was icing on the cake. Victoria is exquisite in every sense of the word. A remarkable beauty that I will make every effort to see again if she comes my way in the future. Thank you to this wonderful woman.

Adult Hobby Board seems to be pretty good. At least the boards seem to be . I haven't been to the US in some time and haven't tried it out, though.

Congratulations and best wishes for success and happiness in all your future endeavors Nathalie.

A new blu-ray player with Netflix. Good thing too, the tv convertor box is on the fritz.

Leftovers for me but good ones. Jambalaya and cornbread.

Good stuff Lexy. Thank you. I think we all need to look out for one another on this topic and many other things out there. Bad ads, abusive clients, rip-off artists, the list goes on and on. Unfortunately, there will always be a small percentage of people who take advantage of others for their own gain and have no conscience. We will all have to be even more diligent when "that thing" comes into play and really help each other. SP's and clients alike.

nada right now, just lounging in shorts and t-shirt having my morning coffee wishing I was in T.O. with Sindy and her pink g-string, lol. :icon_wink:

Last night, a little "soul food" Fried chicken, greens(kale) and honey cornbread, thought about maybe some grits but figured it was enough without them.

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