Porn during session YAY or NAY?

[Victoria Banks 21899]

To hobbyists,

 

The poll pretty much speaks for itself I know it has been briefly discussed in the past. Porn during a session? ..Yay or Nay?

[SmartnSexy 2089]

I think as long as the focus is in the right place at the right time it could be a mood enhancer.

 

You can't have either participant in the encounter watching the porn while the other is trying to do something that requires their partner's attention. So either you're both watching it together or you're both focusing on each other.

 

I realize that some women may find this offensive and I respect that, I'm guessing it's for the reasons I outlined above, I've personally had this happen to me (with just normal TV, not porn) and let me tell you it really kills an encounter when one partner is more focused on the TV that who they're with.

 

On the other hand I imagine that it would add a sense or erotic excitement to the encounter, so probably best reserved for more PSE type encounters.

 

So I guess my final vote would be Yay, but provisionally so, assuming that both partners know how to work with it and it's used for the right style of encounter.

[Victoria Banks 21899]

I think as long as the focus is in the right place at the right time it could be a mood enhancer.

 

You can't have either participant in the encounter watching the porn while the other is trying to do something that requires their partner's attention. So either you're both watching it together or you're both focusing on each other.

 

I realize that some women may find this offensive and I respect that, I'm guessing it's for the reasons I outlined above, I've personally had this happen to me (with just normal TV, not porn) and let me tell you it really kills an encounter when one partner is more focused on the TV that who they're with.

 

On the other hand I imagine that it would add a sense or erotic excitement to the encounter, so probably best reserved for more PSE type encounters.

 

So I guess my final vote would be Yay, but provisionally so, assuming that both partners know how to work with it and it's used for the right style of encounter.

 

I agree. Some people enjoy watching it when the partner is giving oral... To each their own I guess.

[SmartnSexy 2089]

What about performing oral while playmate is watching porn? 2 visuals in one? To each their own I guess. Everyone is different.

 

That could definitely be hot, but if I'm trying to kiss you, please look me in the eye and not the TV! Like I said, it can definitely enhance the whole thing, just don't make it a competition between your partner and the TV :vatefaire:

[oldblueeyez 15475]

Nope! Total distraction from the matters at and in hand! Unless we're making our own porn and it's a live feed of what we're doing. And in that case an audience of at least one additional person, not participating, but encouraging us, directing us, as she masturbates, yeah, that would be nice. Oh my God I hot-and-bothered myself.

[jafo105 39057]

That would not work for me. It is the chemistry and energy radiating between us that moves me.

[roamingguy 300292]

I'd have to say for me, no. When I'm seeing a lady, I want my attention to be focused on her, and her on me. We are having an encounter with one another, not each other and the tv

Besides, isn't porn a surrogate for the times when you aren't with a lady, not the "other partner" when you are with a lady LOL

I should add that the encounters I like are gfe, and more akin to a date than a pse, where perhaps porn could add to that type of experience

Hope that comes out right and makes sense

But that's me

RG

[castle 38816]

I've never experienced porn during a session but I guess putting it simply I would imagine it would depend on the type of encounter and my guess is I would feel this way about it:

GFE = Nay

PSE = Yay

 

Some people enjoy watching it when the partner is giving oral... To each their own I guess.

I can't say for sure but my guess is this would be pretty hot, provided that the oral being performed is being done so in a very PSE fashion, and provided that the video is a bj video :p (or a DATY video if the lady's the one watching it while the gent is down there).

 

Additional Comments:

Or even better if the video being played features the lady in question! Hmmmmm.....watching her go down on someone on the screen while she goes down on you. Or her watching herself on the screen being orally pleasured while someone else goes down on her.....yup.....that would definitely be hot ;)

[Winnipegcub 21293]

Hey Cindy for me it would really depend. I certainly wouldn't want it all the time or even often however, it can change things up. For me first is that both would want it, be into it, and comfortable. In particular on a first date I would lean more to just the two of us. I like being intimate and really exploring and getting to know someone. Having porn on might be a little like having an abundance of toys to play with. For me it would never get to the point of a total distraction...its just there and interesting/exciting. The reality is it's a TV and in front of me is a woman I can touch, taste, feel, etc...would be pretty hard to get distracted from that reality.

 

I have only experienced it once and it was with a lady who likely had the best incall I've ever seen. Stripper pole in the living room, with bean bag chairs, bearskin rug (that was a little tricky for cub), and then bedroom with a wall or mirrors and another wall with a flatscreen that had porn running. I thought it was neat...but certainly never forgot where I was and who I was with.

 

Cub

[Areez 11906]

To hobbyists,

 

The poll pretty much speaks for itself I know it has been briefly discussed in the past. Porn during a session? ..Yay or Nay?

 

hmm never thought about it ... shall we try ? :icon_twisted:

 

Could be very interesting as i do believe some of the ladies does get turned on by this.. which in my opinion could enhance the whole experience!

[PistolPete 61421]

I like to act out my own porn, (you know that Cindy ;) )dirty talk, pulling hair,tease and denial, multiple positions I would be too busy with a lady rather watching the TV. But perhaps after the session where the two would lay stroking each other and watching some great dirty porn , only to get started again would be a lot of fun :)

[waterat 20911]

I'm very certain that my full attention would be taken by the lovely lady I was visiting.... but I could see the porn adding something to the experience!

[Cato 160314]

Watched some porn just once during a break in the festivities, and it was fun. I've often meant to suggest it but somehow never got around to it. But in the right circumstances, with the right material, yes.

[Guest h****hedl]

I believe porn is a great "buffer" before the main event. I actually am hooked on a "soft porn" program that I PVR, (show's based on a Strip Club's bartender's point of view). I took a chance and had it on when my SP arrived and she responded very positively. I guess it would depend on the SP's relationship with the client and vise-versa. I personally prefer to share my attention with the SP only (she is more than enough eye-candy for me).

 

8)

hb

[JuliasUndies 7288]

Porn? Were?

[Guest B*nzm*****r]

I've had some fun with it in the past when it was initiated by the lady I was with...we had a great time and it worked well with us.

 

Additional Comments:

I agree with Cindy as it's pretty much to each their own as it depends on the situation and level of comfort. I enjoy porn so long as it doen't involve children or animals in which case it's totally illegal and sick. Soft porn and erotica can be a fun prelude during playtime. Just my observation.

 

 

To each their own I guess.

[shaved 3174]

I think it would be interesting prior. While one was have a glass of wine by the fireplace. Getting to know each other. If the lady would like to have the TV on rather than soft music. Once the kissing etc.. starts off goes the TV for me. I'd rather give my full attention to the lady I'm with and we can have our own porn YES!!! Maybe if she liked you could put your own camera on your 80 in Plasma and watch yourselves rather than somebody else. How does that sound lady's. Like I said I'd rather give a 110% to the Lady I'm with.

[billybob 20128]

I'm very certain that my full attention would be taken by the lovely lady I was visiting.... but I could see the porn adding something to the experience!

 

I think it could be distracting too, I was with an SP who kept looking at the tv while performing oral on me, guess she really liked the video :)

[The General 11309]

Porn, yah, but during a session nay. I don't need any distractions, I like to be attentive, and hope you are too.....

[waterat 20911]

I think it could be distracting too, I was with an SP who kept looking at the tv while performing oral on me, guess she really liked the video :)

BB: I have to agree with you... I'll assume it was porn video!

 

I'm really leaning towards Pete's suggestion of some post-action porn that could rev things up again.

 

I would also want the SP to be into it too.... Cindy?

[The General 11309]

Yes, I like that idea, a little porn at the rest break, to get the juices flowing again, that is a great idea.

[billybob 20128]

BB: I have to agree with you... I'll assume it was porn video!

 

I'm really leaning towards Pete's suggestion of some post-action porn that could rev things up again.

 

I would also want the SP to be into it too.... Cindy?

 

Actually it was a music video :( put me off a little but she was a very nice lady.

[TKDKidd 663]

Nope not for me. I came to see you, not the television. If I wanted to watch porn, I'd stay at home.

[VedaSloan 119179]

Depends on the porn!

 

And once the off-screen action starts, time to turn off the porn--otherwise I'll just be distracted.

[CristyCurves 169032]

I like porn and think it adds to the excitement of the moment.It always exciting to hear others enjoying sex at the same time you are,just my opinion.:aol_missionary: