theliquor (Lost but not fo 50595 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Good morning my Friends, Enemies, Countrymen I entered this land of Cerb in 2010, longer than some, but not as long as others. Through this time I have made some great Friends, wonderful relationships and fun / sassy encounters that I have fully enjoyed. If you are reading this, I am assuming you have previously read the ones on getting cancer (the fu....oops sorry mod, the bastard) and the ups and down, trials and tribulations (sounds like my sex life!!) over the past couple of years. Well the end is nigh. The objective is to be around for Super Bowl, to know what that is and not think it is a luxury, Japanese toilet. Although the surgery to the shoulder removed a good chunk of cancer cells from the bone and muscle, it ended up travelling to the cortex and continues to grab onto chunks of the brain (what little brain there is!). The chemo treatments, especially the experimental ones helped to delay, sometimes shrink the bastard but it still crept along. Memory has become a huge issue with holes as big as Ottawa's sink holes in the expressway, the gps has become my day to day companion when driving, starting to need one when walking! Thinking of wearing a sign around my neck along with my mittens with strings, that points to my house, or a bar that serves great single malt scotch. You know you are on the way out when the docs are arranging your next treatment when they say, "we will fit you in when convenient", not sure who it is convenient for...... Squirrel!!! sorry I wandered off for a bit Anyway, back to the Ladies of Cerb. Whether a MA or .., as previously stated, I have been lucky enough to enjoy a friendship and a kinship with and I am ever grateful. I love the banter, silliness, the heart to heart discussions some of us have had. The hugs, kisses and spanks (obviously mod, the spanks were for my birthday!) were always a treat. I have started to say good bye to a few of you that have been very special to me. Some in person, some by email or pm. I am sure I will miss some with this .... full of swiss cheese. But to all of you, thank you for being who you are! Stay true and safe. To my male colleagues, thank you for all the support. It is greatly appreciated. Over the next couple of weeks, I will get out when / while I can to grab a quick coffee with some of you to give you a hug! If you are aware of and still keep in contact with Ladies who have either retired or are no longer using Cerb (gasp) and you know that they were intimate with me, please let them know, I would appreciate that. I will endeavour to go A - Z to update recommendations as long as I can. I had a discussion with my brother, and he will let you know through a post probably signed on as theliquor (he will have access to my computer and password for Cerb) that I have "moved on, up or down!". He will sign off as "the liquor's brother" When that happens, I have arranged to be buried in those lovely golf pants, matching pink shirt and my pink and white golf shoes, a bottle of Glenmorange 25 and my 1 iron. Have already paid for the wake, admission will be a shot of single malt and the shot glass each one drinks from to be put in the casket with me. What the hell, might as well make the "6" work extra hard with the extra weight! Once you find out, please grab a bottle of single malt scotch, raise a glass to when we meet again on the other side. Kindly, your friend TheLiquor Tom 38 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad 49548 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 You sir, are an inspiration. All the best. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted November 15, 2014 (edited) Yes you are an "Inspiration" to us to enjoy our time on this earth which always seems to short for a lot of us. your posts sir have given me a lot o think about over the past three years (well almost 3 years now). "Peace" be with you on your Journey Through Life. Edited November 15, 2014 by N***he**Ont**y Spelling Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Cr**gCa***ng Report post Posted November 15, 2014 You remain very much in my thoughts Tom in the hope that all will be well for you. Big hug to you bro!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 We have never met nor are we close but I feel a very large empty spot thinking about this. I will raise more than a shot for you Sir. You are an amazing soul. Stop by on your way up! <HUGS> 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mikeyboy 27113 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 I have admired the strength, wisdom, courage and positivity you have somehow managed to show throughout this ordeal. Sadly, sometimes the hardest fought battles don't end the way they should, no matter how unjust that is. You are a gentleman sir and I will gladly raise a glass to you. All my best to you. Mikey 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 My dear Friend, You have made a difference in this girls life. With our many years of chats, support and laughter. I truly believe you are leaving this world a better place then you found it. Your memory will not fade. I will forever more drink a scotch with a toast to you Tom. I have my bottle waiting at home for your day. And when you cross to other side, feel free to stop into my realm, perhaps I will keep a golf ball on my shelf and you can go ahead a drop to let me know you are there, lol. Till we meet again, be brave! 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78396 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Tom... Thank You for being who you are... you are truly an inspiration I wish our paths had crossed in the real world and we had met. I am extremely grateful for your contribution to our community. While I don't drink any more and never liked Scotch when I did drink you can be assured that I will be having a shot of single malt in your honour. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
frank97500 18478 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Sir, I did not have the honour of meeting you but I am glad to have known you through CERB. Like others have said 'You, are a Gentleman and an Inspiration'... You have shown a tremendous amount of courage. Throughout your posts, you have made me laugh and cry! I will gladly grab a bottle of single malt scotch and raise a glass to you, friend!!.... I wish you blast in your Journey! 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 You have been though so much and have fought so hard. Although there are some battles you just can't win sometime, you fought the fight Tom like Hercules himself ......brave and strong and will be till the end. A tremendous respected gentleman you are and a friend to many. Cerb will now have it's own Guardian Angel ....... with pink shoes to take care of us down here. And when we have a sudden thunderstorm and lightning bolts when there was absolutely no clouds in the sky a few moments ago....... we will know you sliced your ball in the rough and aren't very damn happy about it !! ;) I salute you for your bravery Tom.....and I will proudly honor your wishes and raise my glass and honour you as the fine man you are !!! 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 My dear Tom, I shall forever cherish our times together and wish you an after life full of scotch, golf and lovely companions! You are truly an inspiration and a very special gentleman. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Tom, They say the 1 iron is one of the toughest golf clubs in the bag to hit with,I know that, as I never could hit mine correctly in the sweet spot, however, life is not always about fun and games, it is about those battles we all live with, especially with friends or family. Tom,our friend here on Cerb, you have hit all of us with your toughest battle in life, and hit it correctly in the sweet spot, to show all of us the courage, it takes to continue to battle. I will have that toast, as the song goes, I will have 3 in your honour... "One Bourbon,One Scotch,One Beer" 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Winnipegcub 21293 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 All the best to you Tom. Facing difficult times with dignity and honour is inspiring and you have my deepest respect and admiration. As cub raises a tumbler of single malt and from afar sends a prayer. Cub 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 It times like these and I have lost 2 old dear friends in a week, that put life and what really matters into focus and perspective. As I've learned in the end it's all pretty simple. To love and have been loved. The late great Warren Zevon when dieing from lung cancer was asked if he learned anything on his life journey. He smiled and said..... yes.......enjoy every sandwhich. Gods speed. Peace MG 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **cely***r***ne Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Oh jeeze... I don't have words enough. You know how easy I am to cry. Im pretty sure you seen me bawl my damn eyes out the day we met and you brought me a beautiful bouquet of pink flowers. I will never forget that. Reading your post has brought tears to my eyes and they're spilling over. Your strength is admirable, inspirational and tears apart my heart. I will pray to the universe and Spirit that you be peaceful now until you meet your loved ones in heaven. May you be eternally blessed Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bianca Jaguar 39183 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Everything has been said... You are such an inspiring man...even though we never met, I felt like I known you for a long time... Sending you a virtual hug Tom Bianca xxx 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EmilyRushton 253346 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Tom, Just the mention of Pink shoes puts you in a special place... Inspiring and strong describe you in more ways than you know. While we have never met, know you are in my thoughts. Stay Strong xoxo Emily 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kyra.Graves 23779 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Gosh... pink shoes and scotch. I may be in love. Though we have not met your posts have brought me a few laughs and even made me think a few times and for that I thank you. Being a person that would much rather have a fancy Japanese musical toilet rather than any football game I hope you find several amazing Super Bowls hiding throughout the city and get them to deliver a flower scented spritz your way - how is that not more fun than some silly sporting event? ;) Hope you don't mind I'm going to dip into the scotch early and pour myself some now, I just want to be in practice for when you decide we need to share that drink. Cheers to you! *hic* 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Tom, I had the honor of meeting you once in 2010 and had a great time. Although we dont know each other well as some others here, you have a been in my thoughts a lot as you continued to post your updates. I just wanted to say that you have been very strong at a time where others may have just given up altogether. I know you're hanging in there. It is my regret that I don't know you as well as others but you have been a great contributor to Cerb and please watch over all of us. I will toast in your favorite drink with a few of my close .. friends in your memory. Your memory will live on forever in our hearts and minds. As I write this without a dry eye, your courage is commendable and you will be in my daily prayers with my Archangels. Thank-you for being YOU! Posted via Mobile Device 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
silverado17 12689 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 you are a strong man Tom to be able to talk and fight like you did my hat is off to you sir 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted November 15, 2014 Tom I'm poor at words at times like this I truly admire your spirit, never giving up, living life to it's fullest My thoughts and prayers are with you Although not a drinker, I'll raise a bottle of no alcohol beer (my beverage of choice) to you You are as others have said, an inspiration Tom aka RG 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted November 16, 2014 Tom... Goodbyes are sad.... but... being able to say goodbye is the only downfall of having said hello in the first place. Your "hello" to many of us happened here, or in socials, or in a far more intimate setting with those you have come to appreciate. I would rather not have to say goodbye my friend... but I will never regret saying hello. Peace to you my friend. Paul 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Raven Rain 10542 Report post Posted November 16, 2014 tears coming down my face as I read your will journey with us here on this earth will be coming to end . xoxo i am happy to have spent some time together I will miss your presence here on cerb greatly Raven 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted November 16, 2014 Why is this in the "Fun stuff" forum? This isn't fun at all! Tom, we've never met, but I've enjoyed your posts here, and I love the good humour and courage you've shown us all over the last few months. Good luck with everything, and one day I'll see you at the big CERB Social in the sky. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *Ste***cque** Report post Posted November 17, 2014 Raise a glass of scotch? That brings back unpleasant teenage memories for me but in admiration of you and your amazing outlook on life, I will raise a glass. Hopefully not for a while. Take care Tom, Steve Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
