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Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

In all my time of giving out my number, in no account has a SP or MA ever contacted me without me contacting her first. And, because it is my work related cell number, I ask for discretion to the MA or SP to text/call me only during these hours,as I might be in a meeting or with a client. I know that due dilligence is used by 99.9% of the ladies here, so I'm not worried about my number, and I don't think the married men need to freak out about what is stated, in the thread prior to mine. And yes cell phones are required,how the heck are you going know the room number at the Hotel,(Oh excuse Mr.Bellhop I'm looking for Ms. XXX she is 5'8'' blonde, 36dd's,24-36 have you seen her or you know what room she is in? ;) ) or apartment buzz number then actual apartment,or house number.

Even if you don't need one for the setup you should have one for emergencies. This can be as simple as traffic backlog while heading to the meeting place to last minute medical situations.

All good points, but for those ladies that want to offer a price list for each and every option I suggest something like this:

I agree with you 100% Rebecca. There was another thread that outlined the same problem and it's very irritating to say the least. There are members that do not take the time to look at our profiles, our services, if we are all inclusive or if we are even an SP or MP!! The fact is, we are spending time with you and these "only ???" solicitation requests are very disrespectful. Some of the ladies do offer a single service but a few are too lazy to look and start soliciting everyone it seems to get what they want. At the very least, it's not attractive or makes a lady feel good to ask for these things before you have even met or have taken the time to check out her services and reviews. It's very tacky, cheap and undercutting. Mod has been great handling these types.... Bad apples everywhere and I now just shut them down if they do. They'll get it sooner or later I hope!

I can't help that notice that the majority of people who are sex-work positive, are also pro-choice. Until about age 22 I "wasn't sure" what my views on abortion were. As an idealist (so many of us are when we are young!) I thought maybe abortion was wrong. When I entered the sex industry at age 22, I learned that the same people who wanted to control me, my body, and my sexuality by telling me sex work is "immoral" were also the people trying to control the bodies and sexualities of pregnant women. I made a CHOICE to enter sex work, and I strongly believed it was my choice to make and one that should not be judged by others. Upon this realization, I became pro-choice. Although an abortion is not something I would choose for myself, I respect that we are all different and make choices that are best for us. If I expect people to respect my choices about my body and my sexuality, I need to respect the choices of others. What are your thoughts?

Today is our day. Through my life I have had the pleasure of meeting great women and during my time on cerb (mostly through posts) I have learned a bit from great women too so ...

It really comes down to trust. If I am going to give you my location, I expect something in return. While I prefer a verifiable cell number, I will obviously trust you if you call from your residence. I mean, really, why would I disclose my location to someone who cannot trust me enough to cough up a bit of personal info? I am not asking for your life story; just an assurance that you are not LE, a psycho or someone likely to waste my time. I don't really fathom the idea that someone who will no show on me has knowledge of my whereabouts. Dear OP...it comes down to a matter of trust and in these times, cell phones are the norm and therefor you can not fault us for using them as our safety net :)

Thats precisely why it is G00D to have one! I know and only speaking for myself, that my exact location is never given in advance, you must call when you are in the area to verify you really are here. Having a client call from a specific usually helps weed out the wots. I would strongly suggest you get even a throw away phone, as there are few if any ladies who would book an apt just because you say you are on your way, and not be able to verify that Posted via Mobile Device

I do require a cell phone for bookings because I don't like giving out my address before the appointment. I feel secure knowing you won't show up early when I may have another client, as you don't have the address! That being said, I have made exceptions with people who offer their home number to be. I generally assume that anyone who is willing to give me their real name, real address, and real home phone number is not someone who will screw me around.

Decided it was time to start a new thread where SPs could provide more up-to-date information regarding duo partners. I call this the Winter/Spring 2011 Edition. Hopefully we can do this on a regular basis, so the information can be kept current. I will start: Interactive (girl on girl on boy) duos: Jolie, Chanel Reign, Fine Wine Diva (when it town) Non-interactive (girl on boy) duos: Nicolette Vaughn, Annessa.

Unfortunately although the OP has a valid point about time, there are too many providers who blur the line between time, and what is offered. e.g. an extra charge for greek, or some other speciality. There are also the providers who have short time appointments offering only BJ; there are providers who straddle the MA/SP boundary and charge more for an hour of FS than for an hour of massage and; some of the MA's who have an hourly rate, which increases with whether the attendant is fully dressed, topless or nude. And you can add on all sorts of other little charges and quirks. It can get confusing, particularly for a newbie. It is not always cut and dried, and asking someone "Do you have a short time BJ rate?" should not get them vilified, unless it is explicitly stated somewhere, such as on a website. Even then, as was pointed out, some of the websites are not current, or give the impression they are not complete. If the person however, after being told that is is not available, continued to try and wheel and deal, then by all means crucify the idiot. ;)

i pay my accountant by the hour - i pay my lawyer by the hour -i pay my house cleaner by the hour- all professionals -why would your services be any different- except more enjoyable

There are always tidbits about clock watching on here and wanted to share my 2cents. Being called a "Clock Watcher" is NOT a compliment by ANY means is it? But let's get real shall we? A set appointment is a particular time from beginning to end. Obviously, if someone were to constantly and overtly be looking at their watch it would put one off. However, if I Dare to look in the direction of the clock I do not want to be called a "CW"! In fact, it would at times be appreciated if visitors Were CW'ers from time to time....instead of s l o w l y dressing and chatting 10 - 15 minutes after said time. No, it is not that I have been called that Bad Name, but do I look at the clock? You're damn right I do; certainly discreetly, it is not as though I am saying, "Honey, move your shoulder - I can't see the time." One Must be attentive to time (as with say a RMT, it is up to them to tell when the service is completed). In my opinion, the provider ought to be watching. Yes, I have gone over time (and very rarely thanked for it or compensated with a courtesy tip), but please do not take advantage of this kindness. It seems to me that if you look at the time you are criticized and if you are generous with it you are taken advantage of (somewhat self-imposed in order to maintain a good rep). This simply is not right and wanted to share my opinion. I welcome you to share yours as well.

Really does not matter,does it? what we call our hour or more "getaway" (yes a new one!)any options above are fine except tryst I never used that before and would not personally.

that was super lame. Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: that was super lame. Posted via Mobile Device

Personally, I use mainly session or appointment, but they all work to different degrees. The only one from your list that I would not use is tryst.

First question that comes to mind, why no cell phone...cheap throwaway phones under $100.00 are available. I'm was one of the last (pre hobbying days) to get on the cell phone craze, now I'm converted, all I have is a cell phone. (not only for calls, but texting too) As for a lady, there are alot that do not require references, as WIT said. Using the search function on CERB, you'll find alot of great ladies. If we knew what city you were going to be in, some suggestions could be made. But just because you have alot of money and higher end tastes (not actually sure what that means) doesn't get your foot in the door. When you see a profile of a lady that interests you, contact her. Be a gentleman. Be respectful in your questions. Put simply, treat them like ladies...because they are. In person, again, be a gentleman...as a matter of fact cardinal rule #1, ALWAYS BE A GENTLEMAN. And hygiene (freshly showered, shaved, brush your teeth, mouthwash etc) Don't show up under the influence. Be punctual, and if running late, phone the lady to let her know. If you have to cancel, call her, let her know. Others may have more pointers and tips...that's all I can think of past my bedtime Good luck and have fun RG

I do watch the clock but do it discreety and it's not because I can't wait to get out of there or hate my job. SPs have other obligations and clients to attend to and while clients don't necessarily like to think of this in order to fulfill their fantasy of the SP just focusing on them, it would be foolish of them to think otherwise so they also need to be aware of the time. I usually don't have this problem because I only escort during daytime hours and the clients I see are visiting me on their lunch hour so this hasn't really been a problem. The only issue I've had is when people linger for 10-15 minutes afterwards. A few in particular I've had to tell them that I had to be somewhere else for a certain time and that I wasn't trying to be rude. What I don't like is when someone tries to prolong a half hour or hour appt and purposely not "finishing" because they want to hang on longer. I no longer put up with someone trying to take advantage of me. Or there have been situations where I was a bit more lackadaisical with the time and the client expected it every single time afterwards and got upset when I did want or have to leave on time. Consider this a privlege, not a right and respect the time. I feel I offer a good service and do so within the time frame that the client is paying for. After the time is up and the SP has fulfilled what the customer was looking for, she is not obligated to do anything else.

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