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I take the starting of this thread as just another one where the guy wants to be negative about the lady in question, but not say anything to her privately. What do you gain from this? Some kind of personal satisfaction? Do you feel like "you wasted your money" so now its some kind of payback? And I'd also like to add, Don't assume things of people, especially Sp's! You said you dont know how she would react, maybe walk up to you in public and say something. We do not do things like that, nor would we reveal your private info unless you are a danger or threat to other Sp's, nor are we phyco bitches that have nothing better to do with our time than to try and ruin your name or livelihood. We are normal human being with feelings, emotions, a brain and families of our own! It actually make me very angry when someone says stuff about Sp's and what we are cappable of in a negative manner. There has already been threads about this, so I am not going to say much on this topic, but really dont judge US because of what we do for a living. If you dont feel comfortable with sending the Sp in question an email, then why do you feel comfortable with writing a public thread about it?? That just does not make any sense to me. No point in sugar coating it!!

No, there are no guarantees. While I am not condoning any of these behaviours by SP's, let's keep in mind that rotten service can occur anywhere. The snooty store clerk, the clueless waitress, getting f*&cked at the fast food drive thru, the dirty bathroom at your favorite pub, the long, unexplained lineups at Service Canada...the list goes on. You do, however, have the power to minimize your exposure to unwanted incall experiences. Do your homework, read the reco's, tell the lady your misgivings, don't repeat!

I think most of these things are common sense, but some choose not to follow it. It's not really anything we need to be "told" because we already know, some just choose not to follow it.

... but you've done a fine job of it nonetheless. :icon_redface: Antlerman, thank you so much for your post. You have no idea how much it means to me to read this, and how honoured I feel to have helped you begin your journey into unknown territory. I do see a lot of first-timers, and when I hear that they've explored even further since our meeting, I'm absolutely overjoyed. I love what I do, and I'm so fortunate to be able to help other people open their minds. Avoiding student debt is a huge plus, and the main reason I started, but since then, I've found that I sometimes have a unique opportunity to educate people about subjects they're afraid to ask about. I'm able to help people look beyond black-and-white labels, and see the shades of grey that makes life so interesting. I'm able to help them realize that categories shouldn't stand in the way of pleasure, and I'm able to help people explore (and ultimately satisfy) their curiosity, and provide a unique experience which they may never have again. Being a sex worker isn't just about sex; sometimes, it's about being a teacher, a student, and a friend. I'm honoured to have played all of those roles for you, and thank you for playing those roles for me as well. :ThankYou: No one person can change the world, but sometimes, it just takes a few minutes to change an opinion, or a belief, or an assumption. If we truly want to make a difference, the best way to do it is by opening each other's minds, one at a time. Reading your post, and knowing how much courage it took you to write this, makes me feel so happy for you, and I congratulate you on having the guts to put this up for us to read. :bigclap: Thank you so much for the kind words, and I wish you all the best in your continued exploration of yourself, and your sexuality. :lovers:

If it is their private residence the I am honored to be invited in to their private space. Even if there is a special room for visits I am happy as along as it does not look like it is cold or lacking personality..... Make it look like part of the home. Posted via Mobile Device

Exactly. Anyone can join cerb. Not everyone has the common sense or courtesy to be professional.

I leave the door open all the time. What is the big deal? We just seen each other naked, so why should I be "shy" and close the door? I don't understand guys hang ups about closing the bathroom door.

What if me and all of those ladies you mentioned were eating crackers in bed, together.... :D

Now this thread may not be for some of you...but many of you know me well enough you will understand why I am writing this. I have gone through life trying live every day to the fullest. I have lost to many friends and family to really let life pass me by. Now I am not a thrill junkie...but more of a person who wants to explore life in many ways. One of those ways is though sexual exploration.....I love to talk and interact with people...be it on any level...but especially the sexual level. To make something clear....I love sex......be it actually a physical release of cum..or the mental explosion of starts before your eyes....or even a combination of both....I love the feelings and after glow But as I get older I find I am more easily attaining the mental and less often the physical release of the orgasm.......allot of this I blame on my weak mental block of the raincoat....as soon as the antler sees one...the blood goes to the brain...and not as fast to between the legs... Now I have found the little pill that helps......but I tend to avoid it. Ladies...never take offense if a guy cannot cum...sometimes it is the physical closeness and contact that we crave.....sometimes it is a medical issue. Now back to the exploration Now I am not ashamed of masturbation and post...chat...and joke about it all the time. To me it is an incredible release of tension...stress...and daily problems. Now maybe I jerk off too much....who really knows...at least once a day...and sometimes up to God knows how many times. Now that is what led me to massages. Ahhhh...the glorious feeling of a nice pair of hands easing out the tension followed by the release of tension through the penis......being jerked off....I LOVE IT! Mutual masturbation.......be you doing each other or watching each other do it....so damn erotic. I still love it and go for massages.....but my exploration expanded... I got into (literally) ...the encounters with beautiful women...the hobby so to speak. I do not feel there is really any type of female form that I do not love..there is beauty in all...so I explore all ladies. There are some that I wish I could see...some that I have seen a few times....but there are so many it is so difficult to choose and play. I am not the aggressive male who takes charge. I prefer the female direct the action. After all their bodies are so much more complicated to please..and I so want to please them. I love to caress...feel...lick..smell...and admire the female form...delicious!!!! But that does not mean I want to get into S&M....I have tried it some and did not find it pleasing to me to attain any type of mental or physical pleasure. I have had a few 3-sums..and they have been from me being the amazing center of attention to almost being left out..but all taught me something. So I move on...what is there next...well...I have played around in the in-between sex....yup...she male...transgendered....lady boys....whatever the name.....now this is fun. An early experience e was good..but not what I was looking for. Then I met t-girl Nikki...and she turned my mind on first..gave me some of the best mental pleasure in this part of my sexual exploration. She opened my mind and made me feel very safe and sexually open...I will always thank her for that and want to catch up again when our schedules work. But I wanted more...then I met Lucy Bisset..WOW....that was an experience I really never put down on paper..or web. She is all woman..and more of something else. She brought me to sexual heights I never dreamed of....the feel of her in my mouth to her cumming on my face.....wow... This is where I am at now...and part of my next experience on the horizon...... My urges now are more going bisexual...yup..I wrote it....bisexual.......why?...well I have tried so much...I want to try more...not really into the guy on guy alone.....at least not yet in my future...but more into the 3-sum interactions. I have been looking at allot of Tumblr these days...something to fuel my appetite and the porn on MMF bisex is driving me crazy. I want to be in a scenario where myself and another man are pleasing a women...the thought of a woman and a man going done on me..or me going done on them....69 with the woman while the other guy does her doggy...wow...the options for me are endless..... So there you have my exploration to date on a sexual level.....will I post more...will I go further....do I know what is coming next.....only time will tell.... I have exposed a part of myself......I feel scared..but free.....ready to go on...hehehehehehe

No matter what board you are on, you are dealing with people that have "handles" be it the guys (like me, my real name isn't roamingguy) and the ladies, who have a stage name for lack of a better word. Really, people are very courageous in posting criticisms when they have the benefit of anonymity. But how many boards would even function if everyone's real name and contact info were posted, probably none at all. At least CERB doesn't allow bashing. And some of the other boards, well ones allowing criticisms, take those bashings somewhat critically too. One board, case in point, had one guy bashing a lady that he hadn't even seen, he just reported a third hand story that another guy told another guy told him (and I'm in disbelief of the "story" since I've had repeat encounters with this lady, and she is a great lady) Another board I was on, well I posted a reco of another lady I saw. Because I wouldn't post details of our encounter (what goes on behind closed doors stays behind closed doors) I ended up receiving a few ignorant and nasty pm's. But if you think you can create a better board, by all means go ahead, nothing is stopping you from starting one. But it seems when it comes to boards, they are either guys vs ladies or CERB which is more that we are opposite sides of the same coin and engaged in a mutually beneficial activity. And really, that first encounter with a lady I liken to a blind date, and there are no guarrantees no matter what And as a sidenote, while anyone can get on CERB, remember, not only does this apply to ladies, it applies to guys as well. Some longwinded ramblings RG

Redacted. Changed my mind.

Hi, Recently had few encounters where I was turned off by the location where an SP was offering her services. Apartment was a real mess, washroom not very clean, room was too bright as the curtains were covering the outside light only partially, not to mention a case where I had to share a towel previously used by the SP. And those were SPs that charge over $XXXhr. Don't know about the rest of you guys, but these are big turn-offs for me. Curios to hear what other turn-offs you might have experienced in the past. :) (No names of SPs please!) The list might help some ladies to make us, clients, even happier. :) Cheers, Hornet Posted via Mobile Device

Because the way you phrased the opening post, it wasn't about what you like and don't like, it was specifically about what you don't like, thus focussing on the negative. I'll be honest: I've never learned anything useful from a business perspective from these threads on CERB. From these threads, you get two kinds of information: 1) Common Sense. I don't need hobbiests to tell me that they don't like a cluttered incall, dirty bathroom, or an SP/MA who talks on the phone throughout the appointment. This is common sense. 2) Subjective preferences. This is not useful information to me from a business perspective. What one person likes, another person dislikes. I don't conform myself to what my clients want, but rather I select clients who enjoy what I enjoy offering. I learn how to run my business using my own brain, and feedback from real clients who fill out my screening questionnaire where I ask them what kind of experience they are looking for, and from their visits. Random threads on CERB are not helpful to me. When seeking advice for my business, I don't generally ask hobbiests but I ask other women in the industry. I get the most solid advice from them.

Really and truly, nobody likes to receive negative feedback, whether it be in public or private. We would much rather receive praise. That's human nature (and animal nature too btw!). But, having your negative feedback broadcast in public makes it much worse. True, certain situations may establish the possibility for public airing, but it doesn't make it more palatable. You just develop a thicker skin (if you're fortunate). If negative feedback must be delivered, it is always best to do it discreetly, one-on-one in private. If you don't agree, then you must either be a cyborg or my current manager. ;)

With everything aside, this thread is an example of airing out the dirty laundry and generally a negative thread. There is a rule about airing out dirty laundry, tiffs, etc. This is not allowed here. There's been a few threads of this nature and the outcome is never positive for those involved. If you are in hopes of this being read by the SP in question, that in my opinion could be looked upon as cowardly, and attention seeking. I don't mean to offend but that is what I think when I read threads of this nature.

I believe an encounter should be mutual and both parties should have fun and be pleasured, just not one sided because you paid the lady. Just my opinion. Lexy

I fear my earlier post on this thread was misconstrued and may have partially triggered this incredible fire storm. I am in no way advocating that this forum adopt a negative review policy (as if I had that much influence anyway). On the contrary, I am quite happy with the current policy. It's what makes this forum unique and creates an environment that allows us to engage so easily with the many lovely ladies who hang out here. There are plenty of other forums available if you really feel the need to express a negative view or ignite a bitchfest. The point I was trying to make is that this is a very good place to do your research if you want to find providers with positive reputations based on client experiences. Just don't assume that negatives don't or can't exist. That would be naive. I have enjoyed the company of many wonderful ladies because of this forum (Megforfun, Cleo Catra, Karine19, Kinky Kendra, Lovely London, Lonna Lux to name just a few) and I have dozens more I wish to meet before they retire or I run out of gas or cash. As for the OP topic: - Eating crackers in bed.

I would like to say that I'm the complete opposite. If I did something that someone was upset about, I would SO much rather have them tell me, so I could try and fix the situation with them, and so I can work on it. If I logged in and found a review saying my place was a mess, I would probably end up in tears. It would hurt me, and I would be staring at my screen wondering 'why couldn't he have said something'. Obviously not everyone feels the same, as you point out ladies in your experience were opposite. But I point out my feelings on it to demonstrate that, just because it was one way with one lady, doesn't mean everyone is going to feel the same way. I think reading the reviews and evaluating the lady can assist in this. I would assume that, if a gentleman from cerb came to see me, or Meg for instance, and they'd read our posts and reviews, I would hope that, if something questionable came up, he would know that he could tell us, rather than walk away thinking 'WOW and she was so well-reviewed this shocked me' or whatever. Because if someone said to me 'Hey Cleo, I had a great time, but I have to tell you - you should clean your bathroom more. I didn't really feel comfortable taking a shower in that tub' - I would not freak out, instead, I'd appreciate it and probably thank the gentleman in a very nice way for telling me.

Question: What do you do if you are really freaking mad at your neighbour, Mr Ardier? Answer: Wash your hands.

As a general rule, if bbbj is even on the menu as an option then I will usually pass on visiting that SP. Everyone has their own risk tolerance and I respect that, but I just feel more comfortable with women who advertise safe-only appointments.

I completely agree with this. Even if you found her on cerb, that doesn't mean the 'no negative' has to supercede everything. If something is wrong, tell her - just be polite. I understand completley that telling any lady, no matter how politely, that she had body odour/her house was a mess/she was rude, is not going to be fun. However, this IS the only way she may change these behaviours. And honestly, I personally think that every lady was probably well aware of these issues already, so a gentle, polite reminder may have kick-started her to finally do something about it. My bathroom at home is never that clean (my incall is spotless though!), because I was just lazy about it. A friend coming down the stairs and saying EW was all it took for me to get my butt up there and start scrubbing.

Just wondering about the gentlemens thoughts about this and about seeing an SP who offers BBBJ? Just because an SP offers it doesn't mean they have anything and you always have the option of asking for a CBJ. Most ladies would not be offended. Same as the SP can refuse to do BBBJ.

Well said Antlerman! I hope this is a commonly shared sentiment for all.

O is for Onanism. Admit it, you do too :)

I assure you that CHEO does not endorse this event. If you want to support cheo don't wash your car this week and give them ALL the money you would have spent , not just 30%. While I'm sure CHEO is grateful for any and all donations, I'm know for a fact they don't appreciate this type of opportunistic venture that is riding on the coat tails of CHEOs good name and brand. I've worked on a number of 3rd party events for the CHEO foundation, any events endorsed and recognized by the foundation are listed on the cheo foundation website (google cheo foundation) and a legal binding document must be signed before using the cheo brand. the bikini car wash site is cheap and full of grammatical and spelling errors, it's hardly professional. What a crock. If you read it closely you'll note that they are careful not to use the cheo name on the website it's self just the DL ad.

Black Eyed Peas, I gotta feeling. Hmmm... what is the song that sexy Meg is listening to at this EXACT moment. Sharks, with lasers.

I thought we would share in what we have done to have a good time that is either dangerous, just right out crazy, or both. I gave a bj to my first boyfriend as teens while he was driving, right to orgasm. I don't know if ever I would do it again but good times were had and he kept the car in a straight line.

When I first started as an SP, I went to see a young university kid and being around that age myself, I didn't find it weird that I found myself walking up the stairs to one of those old downtown 4 story buildings that looked like something out of a bad movie. Everything was going smoothly in his twin bed when I heard something creaking. Yes, that's right, he had a twin bed. I was known to get a little wild in the cowgirl position but something did not seem right. He chalked it up to his old bed and we joked that it would be no surprise if it broke. It was getting hotter and more intense and the sex was good. Building up in anticipation, I heard this creak once again and really thought the bed was going to collapse. The pace was just right, our bodies both in rhythm and our young fit bodies closely intertwined with one another. I looked into his eyes and thrusted into him harder when all of a sudden I heard a splitting crack. Without further notice, we screamed as we went right through the ceiling!!! Our naked bodies clung to each like saran wrap and below us some young Asian guy sitting on the floor watching t.v. only a few feet away from us as his jaw dropped to the floor. Boom!! We were sitting on a mattress smack dab in the middle of his living room both butt naked. I screamed in some pain for him to get me a towel and he called the 9-1-1, the fire department and paramedics. Forunately we were not hurt to the degree that we should have been ( ask my back that years later) and I was so embarassed that I snuck out of there with only a towel on and ran upstairs to see if the door to the guy's apartment was still open. Fortunately he never locked it and I got out of there like a bat out of hell. I never stuck around and if this happened today, you can bet on it that I would have sued the property management company who oversaw that building. I later recounted this story to someone I knew and they told me their ex boyfriend was a firefighter and him and his buddies were on the scene that night and that this incident was a legend. I don't know what was worse..this incident or banging a guy and causing him to have a heart attack.