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Things I have learned in my life: 1. To be capable of loving, you MUST love yourself. 2. If you think you need someone else to "complete" you, you are selling yourself short. 3. Many of the friends you had as a young person will not be the friends that you have later on in life. As circumstances change, so does your group of friends. It's just a fact of life. 4. You only have one shot at life. LIVE it. Lamenting what could have been, what would have been or what should have been will only cause unneeded pain. 5. Love can and will be fleeting. Those who are able to capture it forever are truly blessed. You can't force it, trap it or tame it. It pounces upon you unexpectedly, and can leave with equal speed. Embrace it while you can. 6. Be comfortable being you. 7. You may have people that rely upon you, but the greatest reliance you must heed is to yourself. 8. Fill your life with joy and laughter. It comes from within. 9. KNOW who you are and what you need. To be cliche, the grass is NOT always greener in the other guy's backyard. You should print your thoughts today, and look back at them 10 years from now; then you can show them to your divorced buddies. Food for thought.

There has been lots of talk again recently about sp using stolen photo"s I would like to discuss stolen texts. Awhile back I reported two separate ladies who used stolen text (word for word copy paste) in there cerb advertisement. I was surprised to learn that this is NOT necessarily against cerb rules. Personally I spend little to no time on a ladies photo albums and most of my time on what they have to say in there advertising,cerb post, and web sites. I read any Reco's that they may have and how they interact with other cerb members. I use this information to see if this is someone I would like to meet and if we are compatible. So personally I feel any lady that uses a stolen text describing there personality or services offered is just as offencive and deceiving as a stolen photo just wondering how everyone else feel about this. Just a side not the two ladies that I reported for using stolen text were eventually banned for breaking other cerb rules so you can read into that what you want

First off, IslandIndependant, apologies for my earlier response. Seriously I don't function well without a morning pot of coffee, and should have waited till I got home from work before replying I read the lines starting with "If a man is paying..." and honestly, it sounds, even now more like some guys who have made posts that are disrespectful towards SP's For me, and I'm sure for a lot of the gentlemen here, seeing a escort is more than just about sex. Yes, most definitely, sex is part of the encounter, but not the whole encounter. I like the entireity of the encounter, the initial meeting, conversation, sex, kissing/cuddling Another way to put it, I like encounters of two to three hours. I'm fifty years old...do you really believe I have two to three hours sexual stamina at my age?...no, I like the company of women for more than just sex. I don't know whether you have such a narrow shallow view of escorting because it was your mindset before entering the profession, or you have only met guys as clients who view you solely as a means for their sexual gratification. But it should be mutually beneficial. And that, for me doesn't mean money for sex. It means money to compensate for the lady's time, with the benefit of no relationship complications. What happens during the time can be mutually enjoyable and pleasurable. Seeing ladies shouldn't be a zero sum game...that whatever the gentleman gains is at the lady's loss Some coffee laden thoughts RG

This post is just about my thoughts on a subject, it's just my opinion, I'm not saying it is right, I'm not saying it is wrong, it just my views. First a little bit about myself, I'm in my mid-twenties. I've been in short relationships, long relationships (longest 3 years), but for pretty much this past year, I've been single. Dated a few girls, but nothing really that I would consider a serious "relationship". Something I have noticed though is especially in August aka "Wedding Season" is that a lot of what used to be my core friends are all getting married or are in pretty serious relationships. I've noticed that myself and my other "single" friends have slowly been indirectly pushed out of our social circles. Now, it's not that our "couple friends" are assholes or anything like that, they are great awesome people, it's just that "couples" hang out with "couples". While single people are slowly pushed to the curb. Mind you, this is just my opinion, it may not be the case all the time. So what is a single person to do? They are suppose to get back into a relationship. Society programs us to find someone else whether it be the bar, dating websites, the grocery store, or whatever else. And too, even if you find someone, you will always have that dreaded shadow behind you of past relationships. The public seems to think that just because a past relationship ENDS it equals FAILURE. How is that even fair? How is that even correct? Singleness is treated like a disease, like it needs to be fixed. It's treated like a state that one surely needs to change as quickly as possible, and a change we should all strive for. If you are single, friends view you as miserable, something is wrong you, and that they need to make sure you are going to make it. Western society drives the thought into children at a young age thru the media & even sometimes in real life, that a person should always be striving for romance or sexual desire. Being single does not represent success and happiness. The stigma of singleness needs to be removed. The devaluation of it needs to come to a halt. For example, what if in Ottawa, happiness didn't equal getting married, moving away from downtown, and moving into a house in Kanata or Orleans, then starting a family. Another example would be what if little girls weren't driven by society to organize their life around a heterosexual relationship as the focal point, then put other things like friends, a career, living arrangements etc. around that relationship wherever it may fit. What really is wrong with living with roommates? What really is wrong with living members of the opposite sex without dating? What really is wrong with living alone? This not only allows us to experience different social living structures but also allows us to escape the linear line that Western culture tries to cultivate upon us. Life doesn't need to be centered around sex or a relationship. Happiness can be found in numerous other bits & bytes in your life. Just because single people don't centralize their life around sex or a relationship, does not mean they are deficient. There's nothing deficient about being single, and pursuing the kind of life you want. If we as a society just expand our idea on what lives are acceptable, whether you are a middle aged male, divorced, single young lady with career aspirations, gay, lesbian, poly, or even straight married people living in Kanata/Orleans, basically ALL kinds of people, I just think we would be a lot better served.

In my opinion stolen words are just as bad as stolen photos. It's deception and it's wrong, the words used to describe one provider cannot possibly be used to describe another. One of the more poorly run "agencies" in town here in Ottawa that I've nailed for using fake photos in the past recently started to use real pictures but has begun to use stolen text. In the last two months I've documented this along with 3 other indies in Ottawa that have done the same. http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=2806 http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=2834 In this posting in the comments section you'll see the failed agency's defence for using stolen words, unfreakinig believable : http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=2930 In a lot of cases the descriptions aren't even close and in the agency's case the girls aren't even aware of what's been posted. I've heard all the excuses about language, i'm not a good writer etc... the fact is some one else took the time to create the original ad and did so to describe themselves. Often these descriptions are quite personal in nature and make mention of likes and dislikes but aren't revised or edited. The description gives the reader a sense of who they might meet and who they are as a person but then when they meet they are nothing like the wrote or described.

My bigger concern with a place like this and others like it are the ties to traffiking and the control exercised overt the women who work in these locations, not always by their own choice or agenda. These girls are on a circuit and moved from city to city and are part of a much larger network. No judgment here to those who patronize such establishments, just something that prevents me from ever going as cannot knowingly support such conditions. That and the fact that this place is such a heat score, god forbid if you ever get caught !!

finally getting every last item of back to school shopping done for the kiddo...,,also taking him to Lids and letting him pick out a couple "big boy" hats and seeing him beaming when they embroidered his name on them. Got my nails done finally.....sounds like nothing but its been hell these days trying to get a walk-in...and i was way overdue ;)

So each of us probably have something we wish we could do better. Yeh mine is juggling. Actually never could really do it at all. Not likely will ever get as good as this guy; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8f8drk5Urw What one skill would you like to add? Cub

For security reasons i have disabled this feature and i am working on a way to let each user hoose to turn this on or off....problem is this feature is being abused. Urgency to remove this is because one of the ladies has a real bad stalker we cant get rid of. he is watchng her profile and contacts everyone who visits her profile and says bad things about her so no one sees her. i have banned him about 10 times and he keeps coming back with new ip and sneaking in. its adding to his obsession and hurting her business too so for now i disabled it. also... some of the sp's post on every persons wall who visits them and this is also getting complaints. I am looking for a solution that would enable each person to turn on or off this feature.

Life in itself inspires me. The trials and tribulations we face and must learn to overcome. Being true to myself and free in my way inspires me. Being able to carry on and have my health inspires me. My goals for the future inspire me and the lengths I have gone to accomplish the things that needed to get done. At the end of the day, what inspires me is what I have left. My being, my family, my friends and my own spirituality that allows me to soar over the dark clouds of this world. Knowing that I am never alone even when things are at it's worst in the midst of a thunder storm is the formative factor of who I am today.

Soleil is in Saskatoon for the month of September

I am not extremely sure, but I think that Soleil does offer it in her Domination session, not that I have ever play with her, but I have meet her once in person and she is a pretty lady and professional:)

Not necessarily for this thread... but the perfect picture for threads that get NASTY.....

Couldn't give you reputation points mister tea but that mole de olla thing (whatever it is haha) looks so good!! :tongue: I crave for nutella sandwich now, working on it :)

Call me the creeper. :icon_biggrin: I just love visiting female profiles.

As much as I love the vilolin, I wish I played the guitar instead. I bought one, an electric one, really want to master it!

Damn, there are so many. I was a budding artist in my youth but was thwarted by my inability to control a paintbrush the way I controlled a pencil, pen or piece of charcoal... I wish I could have improved on all of those skills....

I've read that there are tantric techniques that men can learn which will help them have more than one orgasm per session. I've never met anyone who had learned them, however. The men I've known who could have more than one orgasm per encounter have some strong similarities. They are in good physical condition, not overweight, don't smoke and do not have diabetes or pre-diabetes. Their blood pressure is either well-controlled or doesn't need strong medication to keep it within a healthy range. They can have good erections without medication or, if they use something like Viagra, the drug works in that it helps them achieve good, firm, lasting erections AND helps them control when they will ejaculate. Men who have trouble with premature ejaculation (PE) don't often have multiple orgasms in my experience. The orgasms that they do have are often not very satisfying, as well. Fortunately, PE is easily treatable. From my own point of view, a man who can have one good, satisfying orgasm when he's ready for it is set to be a wonderful sexual partner. However, men who have erectile difficulties and/or men who have trouble achieving orgasm can also be wonderful partners. While I understand how important strong erections and powerful climaxes may be to many men, these are not the most important qualities in a sexual encounter for me. I am more interested in mutual giving and receiving, overall sensuality, playfulness and a dedication to pleasure for both parties whether anyone has an orgasm or not.

I woke up today....

Hoping this can be restored. It's fun to see who's been by.... Mod? What's happening please?

The clip on the back of your bra breaks ( it's an old bra and it's laundry day) and you to go change in your powder room wishing to trash the bra in the garbage. The door to the bathroom is open since no one else is in the house. All of a sudden you look in the mirror and see the reflection of your neighbor as he is knocking on the front door. He stands there looking through with a perfect view in the glass and sees you standing there topless!!!! He grins and walks away. Fuccccck!!!! I will never be able to go outside again!!

if someone say she isn't pretty...I am ripping that person off:D This is Chinook, my horse, my baby, my reason of living <3

She would bring a requested change of clothes for a out call, I have done this a few times, she would dress business attire but bring in her bag, some nice clothing requests. :)

For you Samantha BTW I was in a Highland Regiment back in my younger days. RG :-)

Both Angel and Malika hit it bang on. Most important, not how you dress, but being clean, respectful and polite....in short, be a gentleman. That is what a lady really appreciates from a guy But no matter what you wear, make sure it's clean RG

Aren't you tired of the usual?

I think you would look damn sexy in that one: ;) xox

Found this review on another site: I called up Fat Bastard BBM last night for an outcall to my house. One of the inglorious bastards showed up immediately. He proceeded to inspect my fridge, whereupon he procured a case of beer, which he consumed while waiting for a pizza that he ordered to arrive. Upon the pizza's arrival, he informed me that he did not have his wallet and insisted that I pay the driver. After consuming half the pizza, he unzipped his pants and passed out on the couch, snoring loudly. He is still there. He may no longer be breathing, but I am afraid to check. Nonetheless, I would repeat.

Maybe I'm just paranoid, but doesn't the fact that they are advertising very openly that they are an escort establishment, including the sign on the premises, smell a little too much like a ripe target for LE? I mean, they're kinda taking even the pretence of legality out of the equation, no?

I can't see why you say you are only seeing upstanding sps, yet you clearly don't find any of these upstanding and reputable sps (who have good reputations they would not want damaged) worthy of any kind of trust from you. fwiw, trying to compare not wanting an sp to have your work # with not having hers is faulty. You do have her work #, her work location (which actually has a huge potential danger if you turn out to be a disreputable client). Far and beyond anything you provide to her. It just does not compare, to be used as an excuse, sorry. If you do not wish to provide something fine, but please don't try to also justify it in a way that suggests ALL of the sps you have seen and are currently thinking of seeing cannot be trusted with more than your phone #. If they can be entrusted with your nekkid body, I think they could be trusted to keep all of your other secrets.

Just as an aside, the comment about stereotypes struck a nerve. IF we all reacted and responded to prevailing and existing stereotypes, then perhaps none of us would have discovered the women of CERB and therefore learned just how wrong stereotypes are. I have had my mind opened to an incredible world of intriguing women and THAT negative stereotype that certainly was there is gone forever.

Not to sound sarcastic, but sometimes I feel like saying you're not "that important" that I am going to jeopardize my safety, security and eputation to go around finding ways to ruin your lives. If you have nothing to hide and don't cause us any harm, you need not worry about anything. End of story.

It may be worth noting that Tania wrote a book, and no doubt would like sell more copies. Also she ran illegal brothels, illegal agencies, out of apartment/condos, and probably found herself afoul of the law. She also gained a reputation on review boards for getting banned (self promotions/shilling/fake reviews/multiple handles), then creating new handles over and over to do it again. She spent a great deal of money on photos, advertising, location, etc, then in recruiting workers. I have a hard time seeing her as someone totally focused on paying legal fees in custody cases, if she was spending that much on self promotion, that could have been spent elsewhere. She also used face pics, not exactly the M.O. of someone who is desperately seeking custody, imo, as that sort of sp would be far less likely to expose herself that way. She also was revealed to posting w4w ads on casual encounters CL to seek out women that she would then talk into the business. She also managed to hire a 16 or 17 year old girl in her micros. I mean, as a predator and manipulator, she's quite infamous. At the end of the day, I think her role as former sex worker/abolitionist is another master plan of manipulation to take advantage of yet another group of people.

- The idea of what is to come tomorrow and the opportunities I will have to do things better than they were the day before. - To realize how blessed I am to have health and qualities that allow me to accomplish daily goals make me feel motivated to do more. - My parents & siblings, each of them has great and unique qualities that I admire and learn from and try to follow after. - Things I read either in books, the news, the web (yes that includes cerb threads), quotes, etc. - People who have been through real tough times and still smile and feel happy remind me not to make things bigger than they are and to appreciate all I have. - The simpleness children see life with and how they enjoy and admire small things that most adults consider unimportant. - Some songs that either remind me of a special moment or/and make understand and give particular situations a different meaning. - At last but not least love ... to people, to things, to the idea of something, felt by me or by someone else is always an inspiration. I'm sure there's other things that inspire me so there may be a sequel of this post :)